The Modern V

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Welcome to The Modern V Podcast — a women-led show redefining what it means to thrive in today’s world. In this introductory episode, hosts Michelle and Leilani share the vision behind The Modern V: a safe, unfiltered space for modern women to explore empowerment, healing, motherhood, relationships, mental health, and self-worth. Learn how Voice, Vulnerability, and Victory come together to fuel real growth and transformation. Tune in to join a community built on authenticity, resilience, and purpose.

Episodes

  1. Jul 28

    TMV: Ep. 11 : The Male Glow Up / New Procedures and The Truth About Male Beauty

    Are men experiencing their own beauty revolution? For decades, cosmetic procedures have largely been associated with women. Today, more men than ever are investing in skincare, hair restoration, Botox, jawline enhancement, body contouring, and cosmetic surgery. But why? In this episode of The Modern V Podcast, Leilani and Michelle explore the growing world of male aesthetics and ask the questions no one else is asking. Is this about confidence and self-care, or are men facing the same unrealistic beauty standards women have battled for years? They discuss: Why male cosmetic procedures are rapidly increasing; Hair transplants, Botox, fillers, liposuction, and other popular treatments; The influence of social media and celebrity culture; The pressure to look younger, fitter, and more attractive; The psychology behind confidence and appearance; Where healthy self-improvement ends and insecurity begins; How beauty standards are changing for modern men. This is an honest, balanced conversation about masculinity, shame, confidence, aging, self-image, and the future of male beauty. Whether you're considering a cosmetic procedure, work in aesthetics, or are simply curious about this growing trend, this episode will challenge your perspective. Join the conversation: Facebook: https://www.facebook.comTHEMODERNVPODCAST Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernvpodcast/ Do you think cosmetic procedures help build confidence, or are they creating impossible standards for men? Leave your thoughts in the comments. If you enjoyed this episode, remember to Like, Subscribe and Share with your friends! #MaleGlowUp #MensGrooming #PlasticSurgery #HairTransplant #Botox #MensHealth #Confidence #SelfImprovement #TheModernVPodcast #MensStyle

    TMV: Ep. 11 : The Male Glow Up / New Procedures and The Truth About Male Beauty

  2. Jul 3

    TMV Ep:10 From Reconstruction to Obsession The History of Plastic Surgery

    What began as a way to restore lives after war and injury has become a multi-billion-dollar industry driven by beauty standards, celebrity culture, social media, and personal identity.In this episode of The Modern V Podcast, Leilani and Michelle take a deep dive into the fascinating history of plastic surgery from its life-saving reconstructive origins to today's world of cosmetic enhancements, Botox, fillers, facelifts, BBLs, rhinoplasty, and the growing obsession with perfection.Together, we explore the difficult questions many people are afraid to ask:• Why did plastic surgery begin?• When did reconstruction become cosmetic enhancement?• How has social media changed our perception of beauty?• Are cosmetic procedures empowering, or are they feeding insecurity?• Where is the line between self-improvement and self-obsession?• What impact does plastic surgery have on confidence, relationships, mental health, and society?This isn't an episode about judging people who choose cosmetic procedures. It's an honest conversation about history, psychology, culture, self-image, and the pressures that influence the decisions we make.Whether you're considering plastic surgery, work in the medical field, or simply want to understand how beauty standards have evolved, this episode offers historical context, thoughtful discussion, and balanced perspectives.We'd love to hear from you:Have beauty standards become unrealistic?Do you think plastic surgery empowers people, or has society become obsessed with perfection?Leave your thoughts in the comments below.If you enjoyed this conversation:• Like this video• Subscribe to The Modern V Podcast• Share this episode with someone who would enjoy the discussion• Turn on notifications so you never miss a new episode.#PlasticSurgery #CosmeticSurgery #BeautyStandards #SelfImage #BodyImage #Confidence #MentalHealth #PlasticSurgeon #ReconstructiveSurgery #Botox #Fillers #BBL #Rhinoplasty #Podcast #Women #TheModernVPodcast #SelfConfidence #SocialMedia #BeautyCulture #HealthDiscussion

    TMV Ep:10 From Reconstruction to Obsession The History of Plastic Surgery

  3. May 25

    TMV: Ep . 9: Netflix’s “The Crash” EXPOSES a Bigger Problem: Parenting Without Accountability

    In this episode of The Modern V, Leilani and Michelle discuss the controversial Mackenzie Shirilla case featured in the Netflix documentary The Crash and the Investigation Discovery (ID) series Mean Girl Murders. While many focus only on the tragedy itself, this conversation explores the deeper issues of parenting, accountability, emotional awareness, and the consequences of avoiding hard truths in our homes.The hosts discuss how a lack of self-awareness, discipline, and accountability can shape a child’s behavior long before adulthood. This episode examines modern parenting, denial, victim mentality, emotional immaturity, and the difficult responsibility parents have in preparing children for real-life consequences.This isn't just a true crime discussion; it's a conversation about family dynamics, personal responsibility, emotional intelligence, and the urgent need for honest parenting in today’s world.If you enjoy conversations about relationships, psychology, parenting, accountability, true crime documentaries, and modern culture, this episode is for you.Subscribe to The Modern V Podcast for bold conversations about modern life, relationships, personal growth, women’s voices, culture, and self-awareness.Follow our Instagram page: https://www.instagram.com/themodernvpodcast/#MackenzieShirilla #TheCrashNetflix #MeanGirlMurders #TrueCrimePodcast #TheModernV #Parenting #Accountability #NetflixDocumentary #SelfAwareness #TrueCrimeDiscussion

    TMV: Ep . 9: Netflix’s “The Crash” EXPOSES a Bigger Problem: Parenting Without Accountability

  4. May 18

    TMV: Ep.8 Unapologetic Joy: Motherhood, Guilt & Taking Time for Yourself

    In Episode 8 of The Modern V, Michelle and Leilani discuss Mother’s Day, emotional labor, and the sacrifices women quietly make every day. They explore the guilt many mothers and women feel when prioritizing themselves, why joy can feel “earned,” and what it means to embrace unapologetic joy without shame. A raw, honest conversation about boundaries, rest, motherhood, self-care, and reclaiming yourself. #Motherhood #SelfCare #EmotionalLabor #MentalHealth #TheModernV

    TMV: Ep.8 Unapologetic Joy: Motherhood, Guilt & Taking Time for Yourself

  5. Apr 7

    TMV:Ep 7 Expert Episode with Anaam Hussain

    In our first expert episode, Licensed Mental Health Counselor Anaam Hussain joins The Modern V to unpack the real stories shared this season through a trauma-informed lens. Together, we explore how abuse often unfolds subtly—disguised as love, control masked as care—and why so many women stay longer than they expected. Anaam breaks down common patterns like trauma bonding, gaslighting, and coercive control, while shedding light on the emotional and physiological impact these dynamics have on a woman’s nervous system and sense of self. She also highlights key red flags, the importance of naming the experience, and how survival responses like people-pleasing, hypervigilance, and emotional shutdown are not weaknesses—but adaptations. More on Anaam Hussain below: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/anaam-hussain-new-york-ny/406112

    TMV:Ep 7 Expert Episode with Anaam Hussain

  6. Jan 20

    TMV:Ep 6 Survivor Stories: "Sonias" Story

    This is The Modern V’s first anonymous submission. "Sonia" shares her story honestly and without filters. She did not grow up in chaos or dysfunction. She came from stability, which is why she did not recognize abuse when it appeared as passion, intensity, and being someone’s whole world. What began as her first love slowly turned into control, jealousy, manipulation, and fear. Sonia opens up about becoming a young mother, losing her independence, and staying longer than she wanted out of fear and survival. She shares the reality of leaving, the financial strain, the mom guilt, and how trauma followed her into work, dating, and her sense of self. Through therapy, faith, and the support of others, Sonia began to heal and rebuild her identity. This episode is about surviving with the tools you had, choosing peace, and leaving not only for yourself but for your children too. If this story feels familiar, you are not alone.

    TMV:Ep 6 Survivor Stories: "Sonias" Story

  7. Jan 6

    TMV: Ep. 5- Survivor Stories: Maria's Story

    In this profoundly emotional episode of The Modern V Podcast, Maria bravely shares her truth after enduring 23 years in an abusive marriage marked by physical, mental, verbal, psychological, and financial abuse. What makes Maria’s story especially powerful is not only what she survived within her relationship, but what happened after she finally left.During her divorce, the legal system failed to protect her and her children. Maria was forced to leave the family home with her kids, while her abusive husband was allowed to remain. Despite everything she endured, the system ultimately failed to grant her what she was legally owed, leaving lasting emotional and financial consequences.You can hear the vulnerability in Maria’s voice as she reflects on how love, loyalty, and commitment can sometimes blur early red flags, keeping women trapped far longer than they ever imagined. Her story exposes the harsh reality many women face when institutions meant to protect them instead retraumatize them.This episode sheds light on the systemic gaps in divorce and family court laws, the long-term impact of abuse, and why survivor voices are critical to changing how women are treated—both in relationships and in the courtroom. ⚠️ Listener discretion advised: This episode discusses domestic abuse and trauma. Remember to follow us: https://www.instagram.com/themodernvpodcast

    TMV: Ep. 5- Survivor Stories: Maria's Story

  8. 12/23/2025

    TMV: Ep. 4 - Survivor Stories: Elizabeth's Story

    In this episode of The Modern V, Elizabeth shares her story of surviving narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and financial isolation while raising four children. She opens up about motherhood after trauma, the roadblocks she faced when the system failed to protect her, and the strength it took to rebuild from nothing. This honest conversation centers resilience, healing, and breaking generational cycles — offering hope to anyone navigating life after abuse.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernvpodcast

    TMV: Ep. 4 - Survivor Stories: Elizabeth's Story

  9. 12/08/2025

    TMV: Ep. 3 - Survivor Stories: More Than One Name

    In Episode 3 of The Modern V, Nina shares her story of surviving physical and verbal abuse in a same-sex relationship. This courageous conversation sheds light on domestic violence, emotional trauma, and the path to healing, self-worth, and reclaiming your voice. This episode is for survivors, advocates, and anyone seeking hope, awareness, and understanding. Content Warning: Includes discussions of sexual violence, assault, and trauma. Listener discretion advised. If you need support, call 1-800-656-HOPE or 988.

    TMV: Ep. 3 - Survivor Stories: More Than One Name

  10. 11/25/2025

    TMV: Ep. 2 - Beyond the Tabloid: Centering Women’s Voices

    In this powerful episode of The Modern V, Michelle and Leilani dive into the real stories behind some of the world’s most talked-about abuse cases — from Britney Spears’ conservatorship and R. Kelly’s trafficking network to the survivors connected to Diddy, Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby, Jeffrey Epstein, and more. Through survivor testimonies, cultural analysis, and personal reflection, the hosts expose the repeated patterns of power, control, and silence that affect women across entertainment, politics, and everyday life. This episode also revisits the experiences of Monica Lewinsky, Anita Hill, and the survivors of Gisèle Pelicot and the Gloria Trevi/Sergio Andrade scandal — highlighting how society often protects powerful men while blaming, discrediting, or ignoring the women they harmed. Michelle and Leilani explore why survivors struggle to be believed, how generational silence keeps abuse hidden, and what everyday people can do to break these cycles. Content Warning: Includes discussions of sexual violence, assault, and trauma. Listener discretion advised. If you need support, call 1-800-656-HOPE or 988.

  11. 11/11/2025

    The Modern V: Intro to the V

    Welcome to The Modern V Podcast — a women-led show redefining what it means to thrive in today’s world. In this introductory episode, hosts Michelle and Leilani share the vision behind The Modern V: a safe, unfiltered space for modern women to explore empowerment, healing, motherhood, relationships, mental health, and self-worth. Learn how Voice, Vulnerability, and Victory come together to fuel real growth and transformation. Tune in to join a community built on authenticity, resilience, and purpose. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernvpodcast

  12. 11/09/2025

    The Modern V

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  • 12 Episodes

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Welcome to The Modern V Podcast — a women-led show redefining what it means to thrive in today’s world. In this introductory episode, hosts Michelle and Leilani share the vision behind The Modern V: a safe, unfiltered space for modern women to explore empowerment, healing, motherhood, relationships, mental health, and self-worth. Learn how Voice, Vulnerability, and Victory come together to fuel real growth and transformation. Tune in to join a community built on authenticity, resilience, and purpose.

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  • Channel
    BDM Podcast Network
  • Creator
    Leilani and Michelle
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Leilani and Michelle
  • Show Website
    The Modern V

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