The New Consent Narrative

Jilly Mcbane
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This is a podcast from the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education about consent and breaking down myths and misconceptions about relationship and sexual violence and what you can do about it. 

  1. 05/01/2025

    An Ode to the MCVP

    On this week’s episode of The New Consent Narrative, Jilly Mcbane sits down to record a solo segment where she shares insight on her past four years working at the MCVP. She reflects on the fundamental ways she’s changed: letting go of perfectionism, embracing community and collaborative work, and recognizing her own capacity to cause harm. She talks about fun projects she has gotten to work on, including the You Might Be Causing Harm If Campaign, which was launched on campus at the University of Utah in spring 2023, as well as educational posts on the @uofucvp instagram and blog, and this very podcast. Ending sexual violence is a mission that calls for deep self reflection and personal accountability. She thanks the many people who have supported her work and growth along the way. As mentioned, if you’d like to collaborate with the McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention, visit this link. If you’d like to learn more about White Supremacy Culture, visit this website.  Jilly will be graduating with a bachelor’s degree in Health, Society, and Policy from the University of Utah in May. She hopes this podcast has made an impact throughout her time on campus.  To learn more about the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education, visit the website by clicking on this link. The New Consent Narrative is hosted by Jilly Mcbane, a student staff member at the McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education. Allie Moore is the podcast producer. Theme music is by Lobo Loco. Special thank you to Robert Nelson of the Marriott Library for technical help.

    18 min

  2. 04/23/2025

    On Working With People Who’ve Caused Harm

    On this week’s episode of The New Consent Narrative, Jilly Mcbane sits down with Elaine Newton, who recently accepted the position as new director of the MCVP! Elaine has been around on campus for some time, formerly serving as education specialist for the University of Utah’s Office of Equal Opportunity. Elaine has extensive experience working with people who’ve caused harm, particularly “respondents,” or individuals who have had a report made about their behavior. Jilly and Elaine discuss prevention, and how intervention with students about their behavior can be nuanced. It can stir up emotions, deep reflection, but ultimately prevent that same harmful behavior from happening again. Their discussion about Elaine’s work, her approach to education and her guiding philosophies is one you won’t want to miss! Further, Elaine pictures how working with people who’ve caused harm might look similar and/or different for her as director.  To learn more about Elaine and her exciting transition as director of the MCVP, read the article here! To learn more about the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education, visit the website by clicking on this link. The New Consent Narrative is hosted by Jilly Mcbane, a student staff member at the McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education. Allie Moore is the podcast producer. Theme music is by Lobo Loco. Special thank you to Robert Nelson of the Marriott Library for technical help.

    30 min

  3. 03/06/2025

    Kitchen Convos

    On this week’s episode of The New Consent Narrative, Jilly Mcbane is joined by close friend, Sarah Herring, who is a psychology and business student at the University of Utah. Sarah shares her experience of harm during a summer job in Madeira, Portugal. Together, Sarah and Jilly analyze the contextual factors related to power, privilege, and identity that created this experience of harm. They dive into concepts such as the role of the bystander, victim blaming, and rape myths, and how it applies to primary prevention of harm for all college students. There is power in personal narratives, and this is a personal narrative you are going to want to hear. To learn more about the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education, visit the website by clicking on this link. The New Consent Narrative is hosted by Jilly Mcbane, a student staff member at the McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education. Allie Moore is the podcast producer. Theme music is by Lobo Loco. Special thank you to Robert Nelson of the Marriott Library for technical help.

    27 min

  4. 11/22/2024

    Unspoken Rules of Relationships

    On this week’s episode of The New Consent Narrative, Jilly Mcbane is joined by Allie Moore, education content coordinator at the MCVP. They dive into the different types of relationships college students experience, including dating relationships, situationships, hookups, and friendships. They draw from some of their own relationship experience and how we can start to understand and dismantle our unspoken assumptions and rules to avoid causing harm. A few takeaways include reflecting on our own expectations and boundaries and practicing consistent communication with others.  To learn more about the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education, visit the website by clicking on this link. The New Consent Narrative is hosted by Jilly Mcbane, a student staff member at the McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education. Allie Moore is the podcast producer. Theme music is by Lobo Loco. Special thank you to Robert Nelson of the Marriott Library for technical help.

    22 min

  5. 11/07/2024

    An Abolitionist Approach to Ending Sexual Violence

    In this episode, host Jilly Mcbane talks with three scholars—Chris Linder, Nadeeka Karunaratne, and Niah Grimes—about how abolitionist practices can end sexual violence in higher education, once and for all. Together, they dismantle the idea that policing and punishment are the appropriate solutions for ending sexual violence. Instead, they envision a world where violence ceases to exist and invite listeners to do the same. Throughout the discussion, they reference Linder, Karunaratne, and Grimes’s new book “Thinking Like an Abolitionist to End Sexual Violence in Higher Education,” as well as crediting other scholars and dreamers in the field. This is a passionate and inspiring conversation you won’t want to miss. To learn more about the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education, visit the website by clicking on this link. The New Consent Narrative is hosted by Jilly Mcbane, a student staff member at the McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education. Allie Moore is the podcast producer. Theme music is by Lobo Loco. Special thank you to Robert Nelson of the Marriott Library for technical help.

    39 min

  6. 04/23/2024

    Let's Talk Boundaries

    "In this episode, MCVP student staff members Jilly McBane and Addie Huff discuss all things boundaries...respecting them, setting them, and why they are important in relationships of all kinds. Addie and Jilly share experiences from their own college lives of where they found their boundaries being crossed, as well as when they have unintentionally crossed someone else's boundary. Other topics covered include the meaning being saying "no" to sex, what it feels like to be rejected, and how we can take care of ourselves in sexual situations. They provide listeners with advice on how to move forward after boundaries are crossed in an effort to repair the harm that was caused and restore the relationship.  To learn more about the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education, visit the website by clicking on this link. The New Consent Narrative is hosted by Jilly Mcbane, a student staff member at the McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education. Allie Moore is the podcast producer. Theme music is by Lobo Loco. Special thank you to Robert Nelson of the Marriott Library for technical help.

    26 min

  7. 04/09/2024

    Part One: Queer Queries and Conversations

    In this episode, host Jilly Mcbane is joined by guest, Jarad Ringer, licensed clinical social worker and Associate Director of Violence Prevention and Mental Health Counseling at the MCVP. With Jarad's extensive background working with people who cause harm, as well as his personal experience as a gay man, they engage in a thought-provoking conversation about queer students and sexual violence. In this first segment, they focus on how queer individuals harm each other within their communities. Jarad and Jilly give examples on what these harmful dynamics between queer individuals might look like and ways in which we can use these stories to end sexual violence on campus.  To learn more about the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education, visit the website by clicking on this link. The New Consent Narrative is hosted by Jilly Mcbane, a student staff member at the McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education. Allie Moore is the podcast producer. Theme music is by Lobo Loco. Special thank you to Robert Nelson of the Marriott Library for technical help.

    26 min

  8. 04/09/2024

    Part Two: Queer Queries and Conversations

    Continuing their conversation on queer individuals and sexual violence, host Jilly Mcbane and guest, Jarad Ringer, dive into how harm happens AGAINST queer communities and spaces. Some topics covered are the ways in which the police cause harm to trans folks and hate crimes committed against the LGBTQ+ community at large. They focus on how and why power is abused to cause sexual harm to queer individuals.  To learn more about the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education, visit the website by clicking on this link. The New Consent Narrative is hosted by Jilly Mcbane, a student staff member at the McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education. Allie Moore is the podcast producer. Theme music is by Lobo Loco. Special thank you to Robert Nelson of the Marriott Library for technical help.

    18 min
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This is a podcast from the University of Utah's McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention Research and Education about consent and breaking down myths and misconceptions about relationship and sexual violence and what you can do about it. 

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  • Creator
    Jilly Mcbane
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 The New Consent Narrative
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