The NEXCUE Mindset

Steven L. Garner
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Living life can be a chaotic and dysfunctional drama, filled with tragedy. The NEXCUE Mindset podcast dives deep into the journeys of people who have faced life-altering challenges—whether personal loss, career setbacks, health crises, or unexpected adversity—and emerged stronger, wiser, and more determined than ever. Despite all their dysfunctional drama, they learned how to live a resilient lifestyle. Hosted by the NEXCUE CEO, Steven Garner, each episode features in-depth interviews with people who have transformed their lives. #nexcue #resilientstories #mindset

  1. Sep 7

    They Said Recovery Could Take 2 Years. He Did It in 2½ Months. | Vincent Van de Broeck

    What if the worst thing that ever happened to you became the moment that changed how you lived? Vincent Van de Broeck went through a devastating accident, a coma, multiple surgeries, rehabilitation, and the challenge of relearning basic things—including walking, talking and eating. Doctors initially believed his recovery could take two years.He did it in two and a half months. But Vincent’s story isn't simply about surviving an accident.It's about resilience, mindset, commitment, failure, relationships, purpose—and deciding to face difficult things instead of running from them. In this powerful conversation, Vincent shares: 🔥 Why resilience is a muscle you can train 🔥 Why you have to face adversity instead of avoiding it 🔥 Why losing doesn't mean you've lost your entire season 🔥 The difference between motivation and commitment 🔥 Why successful people must be willing to look “delusional” before their vision becomes reality 🔥 How his accident changed the way he prioritizes his wife, family and life 🔥 Why your support system can determine how you respond when life gets brutal 🔥 Why you need to ask yourself: “Am I really living the life I want to live?” 🔥 Why sometimes the biggest obstacle standing between you and your future is your own excuses Vincent makes a powerful point: “Losing is part of the game.” His 2024 was filled with enormous setbacks, but he refused to let one difficult season determine the rest of his life. And perhaps his most important message: You don't have to wait for life to become easier. You have to become ready to face it.If you're dealing with adversity, burnout, failure, uncertainty, career pressure or a season that feels impossible, this conversation is for you. Watch until the end—and then ask yourself one question: 👉 Are you really living the life you want to live? Chapters 00:01:31 – Introduction & Warm Welcome 00:02:08 – The Last Morning Before the Accident 00:03:57 – Preparing for Life's Unpredictable Opportunities 00:06:56 – Mindset, Recovery, and Facing the Coma 00:08:21 – Controlling What You Can & Living Without Plan B 00:09:54 – Relearning to Live: The Rehab Journey 00:13:25 – Facing High-Risk Brain Surgery 00:15:50 – Overcoming the Darkest Days of Recovery 00:17:06 – High-Performance Mindset: Loving the Game & Accepting Loss 00:20:36 – Building True Resilience by Facing Challenges 00:22:11 – Overcomplicating Life vs. Living with Intention 00:24:21 – Motivation vs. Commitment: Operating at 100% 00:27:06 – Going Against the Grain to Pursuit Greatness 00:29:17 – Physical Suffering and the Power of a Support System 00:33:44 – Setting Non-Negotiables: Prioritizing Family & Being Present 00:39:06 – Radical Self-Honesty and Defining Your Happiness 00:43:56 – Stop Making Excuses & Pushing Past Obstacles 00:46:27 – Where to Find Vincent Online 00:47:17 – Everything Feels Impossible Until It’s Done (Book Overview) #nexcue #VincentVandeBroeck #Resilience #Mindset

    They Said Recovery Could Take 2 Years. He Did It in 2½ Months. | Vincent Van de Broeck

  2. Sep 1

    Resilience Is NOT a Mindset: How to Take Control When Life Falls Apart | Dr. Tim Golden

    What if resilience isn't about knowing the right thing—but learning how to live it when life gets hard? In this powerful conversation, Dr. Tim Golden explores what it really means to become resilient when life doesn't go according to plan. Dr. Golden challenges the idea that resilience is simply a positive mindset. His perspective is much more demanding: resilience is lived. It's messy. It's hard. And it requires action. Drawing from philosophy, criminal law, faith, athletics, career setbacks, and his own experiences, Dr. Golden explains how we can respond when circumstances are beyond our control. We explore: Why intellectual knowledge isn't enough to prepare us for adversityThe difference between accepting reality and giving upHow to turn frustration and anger into constructive actionWhy the stories we tell ourselves can either imprison us or give us hopeHow gratitude can change the way we interpret difficult circumstancesWhy resilience is built through habits—not motivational slogansHow to focus your energy on what you can actually controlWhy your calling matters more than any individual job or opportunityHow social media comparison can undermine resilienceWhy something as simple as "Make Your Bed" can become the beginning of rebuilding your life Dr. Golden makes a compelling case that when we accept reality, we're not surrendering. We're creating the opportunity to pivot toward a newproject, a new goal, and a new future. And perhaps the most important lesson: You haven't lost until you give up. If you're dealing with career uncertainty, disappointment, pressure,rejection, relationship challenges, burnout, or simply trying to become stronger under pressure, this conversation offers a practical philosophy for moving forward. Chapters 00:00 Introduction01:56 Why Life Experience Changes Everything 03:20 The Difference Between Knowing and Experiencing 04:53 The "Do or Die" Moment0 5:37 Resilience Must Be Lived 06:52 Knowledge vs. Experience 08:01 Why Resilience Is Messy and Hard 09:16 Interpretation Is Everything 11:03 From Bitterness to Self-Reflection 11:41 Becoming a "Prisoner of Hope" 13:25 The Courage to Change 15:10 Courage, Humility, Gratitude & Perseverance 18:06 Practicing Gratitude When Life Gets Hard 19:26 Focus on What You Can Control 21:19 Stop Comparing Your Life to Others 23:19 Your Job Is Not Your Calling 25:23 Know Your Purpose 27:05 Accepting Reality vs. Giving Up 29:42 When Football Was No Longer the Goal 30:14 The Power of the Pivot 32:17 From Setback to a 3.87 GPA 33:04 Don't Demonize Your Emotions 35:40 How to Use Anger Constructively 37:00 The Power of the Stories We Tell Ourselves 37:46 Train Your Emotions 38:48 Resilience Through Habits 41:08 Don't Tell Yourself the Wrong Story 42:12 Why Resilience Isn't Easy 45:08 "Make Your Bed" 46:02 Start With What You Can Control 47:37 Work Backward From Your Goal 49:42 Purposeful Activity Beats Wishful Thinking 50:12 The Danger of Social Comparison 52:11 What Can You Do Today? 53:14 Rapid-Fire Wisdom 54:14 When to Fight and When to Let Go 54:52 Ideas Can Outlive You 56:03 "You Haven't Lost Until You Give Up" 56:41 Dr. Golden's Upcoming Book 58:26 Where to Find Dr. Tim Golden About Dr. Tim Golden Dr. Tim Golden brings together philosophy, law, education, acting, faith, and lived experience to examine some of life's most difficult questions. In this conversation, he challenges us to examine our stories, our habits, our choices, and our understanding of resilience. About NEXCUE NEXCUE helps professionals build practical resilience systems for navigating pressure, adversity, uncertainty, and change. Need resilience training for your organization, team, or event? 📞513-817-4850 🌐nexcues.com Subscribe for more conversations about resilience, mindset,leadership, purpose, performance, and navigating pressure. #Resilience #MentalResilience #Mindset #nexcue

    Resilience Is NOT a Mindset: How to Take Control When Life Falls Apart | Dr. Tim Golden

  3. Aug 3

    Success Doesn't Mean Emotional Health (Dr. Bridgette Peteet Explains Why)

    #nexcue #MentalHealth #Psychology #HealthyRelationships Success doesn't automatically make you emotionally healthy. In this eye-opening conversation, licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Bridgette Peteet joins Steven Garner on the NEXCUE Mindset Podcast to explain why high-achieving professionals often struggle with unhealthy relationships, emotional blind spots, childhood trauma, people-pleasing, and weak boundaries. Together they discuss: Why success can hide emotional dysfunctionThe childhood patterns we unknowingly repeatWhat truly makes a relationship "toxic"Why emotionally healthy people handle conflict differentlyHow to establish healthy boundaries without guiltWhy achievement is not the same as emotional maturityThe surprising connection between trauma and career successWhether forgiveness requires reconciliationPractical steps toward emotional resilience and healthier relationships Whether you're a leader, entrepreneur, manager, professional, or simply trying to build healthier relationships, this conversation will challenge the way you think about emotional health. If you've ever wondered why certain relationship patterns keep repeating—even after you've achieved career success this interview may provide the breakthrough you've been searching for. 👍 Like this video, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs encouragement today. Chapters 00:00 Why Success Doesn't Equal Emotional Health (Hook) 00:47 Introduction to Dr. Bridgette Peteet 02:42 What Actually Makes a Relationship Dysfunctional? 05:26 Can Emotionally Healthy People Have Toxic Relationships? 08:02 Why We Repeat Painful Relationship Patterns 12:00 How Childhood Shapes Adult Relationships 14:01 Identity and the Relationships We Accept 15:47 Can Achievement Replace Emotional Health? 17:29 Why Successful Professionals Stay Emotionally Dependent 19:52 Why People Stay in Unhealthy Relationships 24:42 How Chronic Stress Changes Relationships 27:56 Trauma Responses vs Personality Traits 33:15 What Healthy Boundaries Really Mean 38:24 Compassion Without Enabling Bad Behavior 42:21 Does Forgiveness Require Reconciliation? 49:09 Steven's Personal Story About His Father 53:49 Rapid Fire Psychology Questions 55:17 Dr. Peteet's Book & Final Advice 57:02 Where to Follow Dr. Peteet

    Success Doesn't Mean Emotional Health (Dr. Bridgette Peteet Explains Why)

  4. Jul 29

    Question Everything: The Mindset That Separates High Achievers | Kenny Glenn & Steven Garner

    #nexcue #FutureReady #CollegeSuccess Success isn't just about talent—it's about mindset, discipline, curiosity, and asking better questions. In this powerful conversation, Steven Garner sits down with speaker, author, and college readiness expert Kenny Glenn to explore what it truly takes to build a successful life. Together they discuss: ✅ Why talent alone isn't enough ✅ The power of delayed gratification ✅ Building discipline that lasts ✅ Developing a future-ready mindset ✅ Mental health habits for peak performance ✅ Financial mistakes young professionals make ✅ Why asking better questions changes your life ✅ Leadership, confidence, and personal growth Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Kenny Glenn 03:14 Graduating High School at 16 05:35 Why Parents Should Reward Effort 08:20 Delayed Gratification vs. Instant Gratification 10:59 What It Means to Be Future Ready 12:30 Discovering Your Purpose 16:30 Mental Health Habits That Build Success 19:03 Why Mindset Beats Talent 21:30 The Life-Changing Power of Questioning Everything 23:28 Curiosity, Humility & Growth 25:01 Financial Mistakes Young Professionals Make 27:11 Advice to My 22-Year-Old Self 30:13 How to Keep Growing After Graduation 32:39 Daily Habits That Build Self-Mastery 34:01 A New Definition of Success 36:03 The Legacy Kenny Glenn Wants to Leave 38:18 Lightning Round 40:12 Kenny Glenn's New Future Ready Project 42:15 Final Thoughts & Where to Connect Whether you're a student, parent, educator, entrepreneur, or professional looking to grow, this conversation is packed with practical wisdom you can apply immediately. 📘 Learn more about Kenny Glenn and his book Question Everything. If this episode encouraged you, be sure to Like, Subscribe, and Share it with someone pursuing greatness. Connect with Kenny Glenn Website: https://kennyglenn.com Instagram: @kgthespeaker Book: Question Everything Connect with Steven Garner https://nexcues.com 513-817-4850

    Question Everything: The Mindset That Separates High Achievers | Kenny Glenn & Steven Garner

  5. May 6

    I Drove a $1B Submarine at 18—This Mindset Will Change Your Life Under Pressure

    What does it take to perform under extreme pressure—when failure isn’t an option? In this powerful episode of the NEXCUE Mindset Podcast,a former Navy submariner shares how he went from an 18-year-old with no driver’s license to operating a $1 billion submarine deep beneath the ocean—where one mistake could cost lives. This conversation breaks down elite mental discipline, faith under pressure, and the mindset required to thrive in high stakes environments. 💡You’ll discover: The “Pregnant Pause” strategy that prevents costly mistakesHow to stay mentally sharp during 18-hour high-pressure cyclesWhy “control what you can control” is the ultimate success principleThe role of faith, brotherhood, and resiliencein survival and successHow to detach emotionally and execute with precisionWhy your environment and relationships determine your elevationWhether you're a leader, entrepreneur, or professional navigating workplace chaos, this episode will equip you with battle-tested mindset tools to thrive when pressure hits. 👉 Ready to level up your mindset and performance? Timestamps: 00:00 – The Unexpected Path to the Navy (Cicadas ChangedEverything)01:36 – Driving a $1 Billion Submarine at 18 Years Old03:10 – Life Under Pressure: No Control, Only Focus04:37 – Faith Over Fear: Letting Go of Control05:07 – The “Pregnant Pause” Rule That Prevents Failure06:00 – Brotherhood Beyond Race: Unity in Extreme Environments08:02 – Why Mentors (OGs) Are Critical for Success09:03 – How to Judge Character: Family, Integrity &Discipline11:13 – Fear, Faith & Executing When Failure Isn’t an Option12:26 – Music, Isolation & Mental Survival Strategies14:53 – Trusting the Process When You Can’t See Anything17:01 – Mental Fatigue & Staying Sharp Under Pressure19:08 – 89 Days Underwater: Losing Track of Time21:03 – How Elite Teams Build Trust & Brotherhood24:45 – Handling Conflict: Move On Fast & Stay Focused26:04 – Don’t Take Things Personal (Critical Success Habit)28:54 – Sales, Rejection & Building a Winning Mindset Early30:11 – It’s On You: Owning Your Life30:33 – 3 Tools to Handle Pressure Instantly (Faith, Pause,Action)32:23 – Building Wealth & Cutting Off Distractions34:19 – Elevation Requires Separation: Hard Truths #NavyLife#SuccessMindset #NEXCUECall 513-817-4850 or visit nexcues.comto book Steven Garner for keynotes, coaching, and leadership transformation.

    I Drove a $1B Submarine at 18—This Mindset Will Change Your Life Under Pressure

  6. Feb 16

    What does it really take to build lasting wealth in America today?

    #nexcue #FinancialFreedom #RealEstateInvesting In this powerful episode of The NEXCUE Mindset, Stephen Garner sits down with Mark Vilas, a 40+ year real estate veteran, investor, and mentor, to break down: Why today’s homebuyers struggle (and how to win anyway) The real difference between emotional vs. strategic buying The Rule of 72 and how money actually multiplies Why most people delay wealth building until it’s too late The mindset shift required to overcome adversity How faith, discipline, and goal-setting built generational wealth Mark shares hard truths about work ethic, saving early, homeownership strategy, and the power of surrounding yourself with the right people. If you’re serious about building wealth, breaking generational cycles, and creating long-term financial security — this conversation is essential. For speaking, coaching, or resilience training: Call 513-817-4850 or visit nexcues.com Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome to The NEXCUE Mindset 00:02 – Why Housing Prices Exploded After 2020 00:03 – Buying a Home at 14–15% Interest Rates 00:05 – Grants, FHA Loans & First-Time Buyer Opportunities 00:06 – Why Most People Give Up Too Soon 00:08 – The Power of Upbringing & Drive 00:10 – Real Estate Success: Talk to People or Fail 00:12 – “People Don’t Care How Much You Know…” 00:13 – Credit Mistakes That Kill Homeownership Dreams 00:16 – Starting Small vs. Buying Beyond Your Means 00:17 – Surviving the 2008 Market Crash 00:19 – Faith, Mentorship & Who You Surround Yourself With 00:20 – How to Break Big Problems into Small Wins 00:21 – Emotional vs. Strategic Home Buying 00:23 – A Foreclosure Lesson You Don’t Want to Learn 00:25 – Why 40-Year-Old First-Time Buyers Is a Problem 00:26 – The Rule of 72 Explained (How Money Doubles) 00:29 – Make Money Work for You 00:31 – Goal Setting That Actually Works 00:33 – Rewiring Your Subconscious for Success 00:35 – Mentoring Former Inmates & Serving Others 00:37 – How to Qualify for a Home Today 00:40 – Overcoming Adversity Without Quitting 00:42 – The Joy of Serving Clients for Generations 00:45 – Trades vs. Corporate Careers: Where the Money Is 00:47 – Faith as the Foundation of Success

    What does it really take to build lasting wealth in America today?

  7. Jan 26

    From Driving Caskets in a Prius to Generating Millions: The Mindset Most Entrepreneurs Never Develop

    From Driving Caskets in a Prius to Building Generating Millions: The MindsetMost Entrepreneurs Never Develop What does it really take to build wealth when comfort isn’t an option andobstacles are everywhere? In this powerful conversation, entrepreneur W.E. Lusainbreaks down the unconventional mindset behind risk-taking, real estateleverage, and long-game thinking. From driving caskets across the Midwest in aPrius to building businesses rooted in real estate, manufacturing, andgenerational equity, this episode exposes the truth most people avoid: obstaclesaren’t the problem—they’re the path. You’ll hear why testing too long kills momentum, how solving hard problemscreates profit, and why faith, discipline, and execution separate dreamers frombuilders. This episode is a masterclass for anyone serious aboutentrepreneurship, legacy, and breaking cycles. If you’re ready to stop waiting and start building—this episode is for you. #nexcue #entrepreneur #wealthbuilding Timestamps: 0:00– How Obstacles Make You Rich Immediate promise + pattern interruption 0:15– Entrepreneurship Is in the DNA Why some people are wired to build and others aren’t 1:30– The Risk Gene Most People Don’t Have Why comfort kills momentum 2:30– Fourth-Generation Builder: Legacy Matters Why generational skills compound 4:10– The Moment Risk Became Non-Negotiable When entrepreneurship stops being theoretical 6:30– The Casket Business Nobody Expected Unexpected business model = curiosity surge 8:00– How a Prius Created a Competitive Advantage Counterintuitive insight keeps viewers locked in 10:30– Where the Real Money Is Hidden Understanding profit models most miss 12:15– Regulation, Risk, and Real Responsibility Why entrepreneurship isn’t glamorous 14:30– Why Real Estate Is the Wealth Foundation Big-picture thinking to prevent drop-off 16:10– The McDonald’s Lesson Everyone Gets Wrong Familiar brand = renewed attention 17:45– Surviving the 2008 Collapse Crisis storytelling re-engages viewers 19:30– Let Tenants Pay the Mortgage “Lightbulb moment” content 21:15– Stop Testing. Start Doing. Strong directive keeps momentum 23:30– Why Waiting for Investors Fails Reality check content

    From Driving Caskets in a Prius to Generating Millions: The Mindset Most Entrepreneurs Never Develop

  8. Jan 16

    Why Good Leaders Fall to Immorality — The Bathsheba Syndrome & 3 Cues to Protect Your Integrity

    #NEXCUE #ResilientLeadership #LeadershipPodcast Why do successful leaders with strong values still fall into moral failure? In this NEXCUE Podcast episode, Steven Garner, Resilient Life Expert, breaks down the Bathsheba Syndrome — a leadership theory explaining how success, access, privilege, and inflated self-belief can quietly lead to ethical collapse. Using the biblical account of King David as historical context, this episode explains why failure is rarely about lack of standards and more about being unprepared for success. You’ll learn the Three Cues every leader needs to avoid falling — and how to recover if a setback has already happened: Stay actively engaged in your assignment and refuse emotional laziness Build external accountability, not just internal integrity Maintain whole-life discipline — spiritually, emotionally, relationally, and professionally This episode is for pastors, executives, entrepreneurs, educators, nonprofit leaders, and professionals who want to lead with resilience, integrity, and long-term impact. If you’re building success, this conversation helps you stay prepared for what success brings. Timestamps: 00:00 — Why Good Leaders Fall to Immorality Intro to the problem and why moral failure happens even among strong leaders. 00:32 — The Bathsheba Syndrome Explained How success, access, and privilege create ethical blind spots. 01:23 — King David: When Leaders Leave Their Assignment Historical context and why being off-mission creates vulnerability. 02:52 — Complacency, Access, and Inflated Self-Belief The real causes behind leadership failure. 04:01 — Why Training and Education Aren’t Enough Why highly successful, well-trained leaders still fall. 06:28 — Three Cues to Prevent Moral Failure Transition into the practical resilience framework. 07:28 — Cue #1: Stay Engaged in Your Assignment Avoid emotional laziness and isolation disguised as rest. 08:22 — Cue #2: Build External Accountability Systems Why mentors, peers, and structure protect integrity. 10:34 — Cue #3: Whole-Life Discipline and Emotional Health Family, friendships, emotional gaps, and spiritual focus. 14:22 — Integrity Is About Being Prepared for Success Final insight and leadership mindset shift. 📞 For leadership training, keynotes, and resilience workshops: Call 513-817-4850 or visit https://nexcues.com to learn more.

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Living life can be a chaotic and dysfunctional drama, filled with tragedy. The NEXCUE Mindset podcast dives deep into the journeys of people who have faced life-altering challenges—whether personal loss, career setbacks, health crises, or unexpected adversity—and emerged stronger, wiser, and more determined than ever. Despite all their dysfunctional drama, they learned how to live a resilient lifestyle. Hosted by the NEXCUE CEO, Steven Garner, each episode features in-depth interviews with people who have transformed their lives. #nexcue #resilientstories #mindset

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  • Creator
    Steven L. Garner
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Steven L. Garner
  • Show Website
    The NEXCUE Mindset