The Nitty Gritty

Schell Peterson & Danielle Kazarian

Here to discuss the most important aspects or practical details of a subject or situation, and how to walk through them with guidance from Jesus and the Holy Spirit.

  1. 08/20/2025

    Ep 39: A Conversation on Cultivation

    In The Nitty Gritty Ep 39: A Conversation on Cultivation, Schell & Danielle follow up episode 38 with a practical conversation on how to cultivate healthy soil in our lives and others. In this episode you will: -Be encouraged with healthy communication tips. -Explore and learn how to listen to God’s voice. -Differentiate between talents/skills and gifts. -Ask: Am I listening to God? -Learn tools to recall God’s words and promises. -Surrender the outcome of life to God. Practical communication tools and tips for how to: bring our whole self engage in authentic conversation confidently share appropriate details and emotions operate in maturity and wisdom Process with Jesus Scripture: Psalm 142:1-7 Cry out to God Joshua 1:8 Meditate day and night Psalm 37:3-7 Rely on the Lord 1 Corinthians 3:6-11 We plant seeds, God causes the growth Matthew 22:37-40 Love God, love others Psalm 139:14 Uniquely wonderfully made Proverbs 19:21-23 Many are a man’s plans Proverbs 3:5&6 Trust in the Lord Jeremiah 29:11, Psalm 57:2 God has a plan and a purpose Deuteronomy 5:33, Proverbs 4:14-16, 27; Jeremiah 6:16 Do not swerve to the right or the left Joshua 1:8 meditate on God’s Word Proverbs 3:3-6, Deuteronomy 6:8-9 write God’s word down Romans 8:13 Death to “flesh” Ephesians 1:22-23 put all things under God Deuteronomy 28:4 obedience makes the blessing flourish Hebrews 12:10-15 discipline heals us Ephesians 6 child and parent instructions 1 Corinthians 3:23 obedience Psalm 1:2-3 deeply rooted John 15:5 He is the vine We’re not responsible for others’ growth or what they do with their gifts; however, the following are ways we can plant seeds, and be good stewards: Prayer Exhortation Volunteering time Seeing the person at the grocery store Reference with topic- our role in others’ pain: Reconciling Yourself to the Fact of Sin- My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers, June 24 Quote: “Security and confidence comes from knowing who God is and who He says we are…but there’s more…” Key Scripture: “For they disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness. Therefore, strengthen the hands that are weak and the knees that are feeble, and make straight paths for your feet, so that the limb which is lame may not be put out of joint, but rather be healed. Pursue peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled;” Hebrews 12:10-15 NASB1995 Definitions:Cultivate- to prepare and use (Oxford dictionary)Sanctification- process of being transformed, washed, cleansed, and set apart for God’s purposes. (paraphrased from various scripture and commentary) Practical reflection questions: What are some lies I have believed about myself?What are truths from God’s Word that inform who I really am?What is a fear or obstacle getting in the way of me using my gifts?Do I see my kids’/closest people’s gifts? What are they? How can I help cultivate them?In what area do I want to grow?What do I need tilled from the rocky soil in my life?God what do you want me to know about this topic?

    1h 14m
  2. 07/07/2025

    EP 38-Cultivating an Abundant Life

    EP 38-Cultivating an Abundant Life In Episode 38- Danielle Kazarian is speaking live to a group of ladies at one of Higher Vision Valencia's circles-Titus. Do you feel inadaquate or ill-equipped for the task at hand? Do you carry all the burdens of your loved-ones? Are you exhausted? Are you consumed by chaos? How do you see yourself? What do you call yourself? Danielle Kazarian encourages women that God's design in the beginning to "multiply" is the same as Jesus' call "to make disciples" (Gen 1:28, Matthew 28:19-20). She leads us through how to teach, train, and equip others in the Lord by answering the question: what is the best way to cultivate healthy soil in our lives? Through Danielle's life-long journey of killing every plant she tried to keep alive, God has shown her the parallel of plants to a healthy Christian life. You will discover that your identity-how you see yourself-will determine if you are building your life on a solid foundation. Scripture: Colossians 2:6,7  "Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving." Matthew 7:24 “Anyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them, may be compared to a wise man who built his house on the rock. " Proverbs 14:1 NASB "A wise woman builds her house, but the foolish tears it down with her own hands. " Colossians 3:23 "In everything you do, work at it with all your heart..." Ephesians 2:10 "we are God's workmanship..." Ephesians 4:1-3 "walk worthy of the calling you have received" Application of 1 Corinthians 3:6-8 v 6 While we must honor the calling God has put on our lives to faithfully pour in and cultivate our soil and the grounds of those He’s entrusted to us, we are not responsible for the outcome. v 7-8 We can neither take credit for their successes, nor walk in shame and guilt of our children’s sin. If we put our trust in Jesus and follow His lead, we must also trust our children are His children before they are ours. v9-10 "For we are God’s fellow workers; you are God’s field, God’s building.According to the grace of God which was given to me, like a wise master builder I laid a foundation, and another is building on it. But each man must be careful how he builds on it. For no man can lay a foundation other than the one which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.”  James 1:7 "Every good and perfect gift is from our Heavenly Father." What is your real-self vs false-self? What are gifts from God? Romans 12:2, Romans 12:6-8, Ephesians 4:11, 1 Corinthians 12:8-10, and 1 Peter 4:8-10  Quotes: "The Bible doesn't say to chase after God...it says ask, seek, search, long for, desire and abide in Him." -Danielle Kazarian Online resource for adults & youth test: https://spiritualgiftstest.com/

    51 min
  3. 06/23/2025

    EP 37: Keeping it reel- Turn Down the Funk[y] Old Tapes

    EP 37: Keepin’ it Reel-Turn Down the Funk[y] Old Tapes In Ep 37 The Nitty Gritty is talking about old tapes–the thoughts, behaviors, or patterns from our past that taunt our mind and captivate our emotions.  Examples of what old tapes may sound like: -blaming self or someone else instead of asking God, “what are you wanting to show me?” -confusion, “I thought I was past this?” -projection- the past replayed in our memory producing shame and reopening wounds -works-based freedom- “What did I fail to do?” - “I’m responsible for my future.” - Defining freedom by feelings. Hearing “You’re not free” - “I’m alone.” - “I’m too free in my freedom.” Using Galatians 5:13-14 to condemn after repentance and releasing it to God. In this episode you will: -Distinguish building altars of remembrance–sacrifice to God, remembering who He is and what He’s done–from setting up altars of death, grieving what’s dead -Discover the importance of recalling God’s faithfulness -Answer questions such as: How do I remember the past without dwelling on the grieving thoughts? How do I turn grief into praise? How do I praise in the grieving? Is it normal to mourn the loss of our old self?-Learn tips to recall God’s faithfulness in the desert moments and negative thought cycles.  -Discover how God’s light shines on the desert places, His beauty shines through. -Replace the old tape with a new one filled with the promises of God. -Turn down the volume on the funky old tapes and turn up the volume on God’s voice. -Give others the grace to screw up and celebrate what they are doing well -Speak out, “I’m not partnering with the lie. Thank you Jesus for the reminder that I am free.” -Define yourself by God’s grace rather than the pain of our past. Tips to recall God’s faithfulness: Repetitive info and different deliveries of the information transfers information from our short-term to long-term memory storage. Read God’s word Write it down Put it on the wall Speak/Recite it outloud Talk to someone about it Engage your senses: create a song, make a dance/hand motions Key Scriptures Isaiah 43:18-21 NIV 18 “Forget the former things;     do not dwell on the past. 19 See, I am doing a new thing!     Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness     and streams in the wasteland. 20 The wild animals honor me,     the jackals and the owls, because I provide water in the wilderness     and streams in the wasteland, to give drink to my people, my chosen, 21  the people I formed for myself     that they may proclaim my praise. Proverbs 26:11 MSG As a dog eats its own vomit,     so fools recycle silliness. Proverbs 26:11 NLT As a dog returns to its vomit,     so a fool repeats his foolishness. Isaiah 41:4 NASB “Who has performed and accomplished it, Summoning the generations from the beginning? ‘I, the Lord, am the first, and with the last. I am He.” Isaiah 41:10 “Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, I will also help you, I will also uphold you with My righteous right hand.” Psalm 119:88  “Revive me according to Your faithfulness, So that I may keep the testimony of Your mouth.” Scriptures by topic: Psalm 119:11 His Words light my path2 Corinthians 1:20 His promises are Yes and AmenJohn 12:36 Recognizing Jesus is the LightJames 1:2-4 Consider the trials joyIsaiah 41:7 Prophecy of Jesus coming, “I will give a messenger of good news.”Galatians 3:23-29 gift of the law; obedienceEphesians 2:9 saved through faithRomans 8:1 “no” condemnation John 13:1-17 Jesus washed Judas’ feetRomans 8:5 raised from death to life; flesh=death, spirit=life Devotional: April 16- Can You Come Down From The Mountain?- My Utmost For His Highest, By: Oswald Chambers (Edited By James Reimann)

    1h 10m
  4. 06/09/2025

    EP 36: Food For Thought

    Thanks for joining us today on The Nitty Gritty as we walk together toward a healthy, thriving life with Jesus. In EP 36 we share how God has healed us in various ways and what He has shown us as we walk out healthy living for us and our families.  In this episode you will: Reframe our perspective to Chase our Creator, not our goals. God is the Great Physician and doctors, naturopaths, supplements, etc are His assistants Receive tips to make healthier choices Learn God has designed your body uniquely and wonderfully Ask yourself am I surrendering my health to the Lord Redirect your focus to Jesus Devotional Quote: “We need to be brutally honest about our motives…Becoming healthy isn’t about looking a certain way or performing at a certain level.” Becoming Healthy Humans by Life Church on YouVersion Bible App Healthy tips from Schell and Danielle: A healthy day starts the night before, getting enough sleep is key Start with Jesus-prayer, ask (“God, what do you want me to know today?”), listen, read Bible Tall glass of warm water Good quality protein Family devotionals Family connection The only formula: ask, pause, listen Listen to your body-changes, hormones, foods Use moderation Ask: What is my relationship with food? Scriptures referenced: Matthew 15:11- It is not food that defiles you Daniel 1:8-20- Daniel refraining from food Matthew 6:25- “Do not worry about your life…” 1 Corinthians 10:23- “Everything is permissible, but not everything is beneficial” John 6:35- Hunger and thirst for Jesus 1 Corinthians 9:27 Discipline our bodies to be equipped for the work of God Podcast recommendations: Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark-The Church’s Biblical Role in Promoting Health and Wellness Designed To Heal We want to hear from you What does a healthy day look like for you?

    1h 6m
  5. 05/06/2025

    EP 33: Delivered-Fun, Feisty, Free, & Favored with Jody Defries

    The Nitty Gritty welcomes Jody Defries--Daughter of the King, wife to 1, mother of 8, and friend to all--as she walks us through how God delivered her from white-knuckling her life. God replaced the intrusive, invasive thoughts with hearing the angels singing, "You are a child of God". Friends, get ready to be blessed. You won't want to miss this one! What is Deliverance? Freedom. Our soul is like a suitcase. We acquire "dirty socks" that end up hidden in different compartments. Whether sins we've done or sins against us, we have soul wounds. (paraphrase) -Soul Care, By: Dr. Rob Riemer What do we need deliverance from? (just a few we mentioned) infirmitysexual abuseaddictionscodependencysoul woundsperfectionismshameoccult Why do we need others to help deliver us? It's like a care team putting a game plan together. People that have experience and knowledge that we don't have who, by God's revelation and wisdom, through prayer and fasting, can see the perspective, hear words of knowledge, etc. to speak directly into the situation. Scriptures: Psalm 119:11- hiding God's Word in your heart Luke 10- Mary & Martha Ephesians 5:23-33- husbands have biblical authority 1 Thessalonians 5:23- spirit, soul, body Ephesians 6-spiritual authority James 5:16-confessing sins to one another Proverbs 18:21- speak life Tips to reading scripture and making it attainable: 1. Read a chapter a day. 2. If a verse stands out, write it down. 3. Memorize it Memorizing Scripture with Your Kids 1. Pick a verse that starts with a letter of the alphabet-one letter per week. 2. Write the verse on an index card, place it on the meal table and take it out once/day Quotable Moments: "Deliverance isn't a cure-all. You have to do the daily Christian walk." -Jody Defries "The best thing you can do is live your faith in front of your kids." -Jody Defries Other sources: Armor of God, Priscilla Shirer

    57 min
  6. 12/30/2024

    Season 3 Finalé: Look Up-Selah

    Join Schell and Danielle in The Nitty Gritty Season 3 Finale: Look Up-Selah As we remember to ask, What does God have for me right now, in this moment? What does God’s Word say about my real life experiences? How is the Holy Spirit activated through my circumstances? In this episode you will: Discover the connection between grief, healing, forgiveness and joy. Choose victory by the means of forgiving ourself because Jesus has already forgiven us. Unveil the deep rooted lies that prevent us from seeing God’s love for us. Release the tension of controlling the details of your life and rejoice in true rest  Scriptures by topic: Pleasing man or God-Galatians 1:10 God is your defender-Deuteronomy 32:4, Romans 12:19 God allows suffering- John 16:33, 2 Corinthians 4:8-10 Die to flesh Romans 8:13-15 Draw me to you, God- Psalm 73:28 Purify my heart Psalm 51:7-17 The joy of the Lord is my strength- Nehemiah 8:10 Fruit of the spirit- Galatians 5:22-23 You won’t get burned walking-Isaiah 43:2 The joy set before him- Hebrews 12:2 Thy kingdom come-Matthew 6:10 Consider others-Philippians 2:3-5 Restore to me the joy of your salvation- Psalm 51:12 Wonderful Counselor- Isaiah 9:6 Scripture referenced: “Through our faith, the mighty power of God constantly guards us until our full salvation is ready to be revealed in the last time. May the thought of this cause you to jump for joy, even though lately you’ve had to put up with the grief of many trials. But these only reveal the sterling core of your faith, which is far more valuable than gold that perishes, for even gold is refined by fire. Your authentic faith will result in even more praise, glory, and honor when Jesus the Anointed One is revealed.” ‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭1‬:‭5‬-‭7‬ ‭TPT‬‬ “... You silence the uproar of foreigners; as heat is reduced by the shadow of a cloud, so the song of the ruthless is stilled.” ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭25‬:‭5‬ ‭NIV‬‬ “Yahweh’s ransomed ones will return with glee to Zion. They will enter with a song of rejoicing and be crowned with everlasting joy. Ecstatic joy will overwhelm them; weariness and grief will disappear!” ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭35‬:‭10‬ ‭TPT‬‬ “She smiles at her future.”  Proverbs 31:25 (paraphrased) Book: Life’s Healing Choices- John Baker Songs:  The Father’s House by Cory Asbury 4th Man by Jonathan David Helser and Melissa Helser Jesus Is the Answer by Andraé Crouch Whose Report Shall You Believe By Ron Kenoly For Unto Us a Child is Born Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQN9oCTHtSc Click here for Resource for Selah How do I show compassion? My own personal pursuit of Jesus 1st. Ask: Who am I trusting in my inner circle? Find someone who will: pray immediately be transparent about your shortcomings Ask Holy Spirit what (if anything) needs to be said

    1h 28m

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