The Nitty Gritty

Schell Peterson & Danielle Kazarian
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  1. 8h ago

    EP 46: Kingdom Building Series: Homeschooling and Faith Development

    Join Danielle and Schell as they interview Spring Kraft, a dedicated homeschooling mom and kingdom builder, who shares her heart on integrating faith into everyday family life. Discover practical insights on cultivating a Christ-centered home, simplifying homeschool routine, and living intentionally for God's glory. Spring’s journey from public school to homeschooling seven children over 8-9 years, emphasizing kingdom work. Importance of habit The significance of planting seeds of faith through daily interactions, stories, and modeling kingdom building. Practical tips for maintaining peace and patience Her inspiring vision for her upcoming children’s book series, designed to teach lessons rooted in faith and obedience. Encouragement to keep things simple, intentional, and focused on the eternal rather than just academic achievement. Practical advice for managing homeschooling challenges, including physically stepping back when overwhelmed and making space for grace. 00:00 - Introduction to the episode and guest 00:27 - Spring's family background and homeschooling journey 01:24 - Reasons for homeschooling and faith’s role in decision-making 02:22 - Duration and current scope of homeschooling 03:17 - Inspiration from The Unhurried Homeschooler and simple homeschooling approach 04:11 - What kingdom building means to Spring 04:40 - The importance of planting seeds for Christ daily 05:07 - Sharing opportunities for sharing Jesus in everyday life 06:07 - Using the chain link analogy for kingdom impact 07:01 - Quote about loving Christ more and its significance 07:30 - How Spring starts her mornings with her children regarding Jesus 08:28 - Realistic portrayal of family devotions & managing personalities 09:25 - Length and flow of her devotion time 10:22 - Incorporating stories like David Brainerd into faith-building 11:24 - The role of Scripture and stories in shaping young hearts 12:23 - Intertwining history, mission, and daily life lessons 13:38 - Surprising kids through spiritual awareness; seeing God's fingerprints 14:07 - Heart posture and intentional mindfulness in kingdom building 15:22 - The importance of living with eternity in mind 15:52 - The story of Luke’s chickens and its lessons for faith 17:27 - Spring’s journey to publishing her first children’s book 18:21 - Details about her Making the Most of Each Day project and Kickstarter 19:45 - The purpose behind her books—spreading the gospel, planting seeds, raching future generations 22:08 - The ripple effect of kingdom multiplication through books 23:05 - Encouragement for other writers and kingdom-focused projects 24:02 - The significance of starting children young with faith-based stories 25:24 - The hope of reaching non-believers through storytelling 27:04 - Spring’s background in community and her life story 28:00 - Simplifying homeschooling 29:50 - Acknowledging discouragement & finding peace in purpose 30:45 - Managing curriculum, pace, and expectations 32:10-34:00 - Stepping back, assessing, and trusting God’s timing... Moving away from rigid, busy schooling 34:52 - Notebooks, living books, and intentional reading 36:26 - About Spring's family 38:17 - Testimony 40:14 - God’s providence 45:22-50:00 - The importance of daily time with God and spiritual habits 50:44 - Practical tips on maintaining spiritual routines 55:21 - Overcoming discouragement and maintaining focus on kingdom priorities 58:51 - Living with eternity in mind 59:34 - Favorite childhood films 61:01 - The joy of reading aloud & family connection 63:54 - Rejuvenating family routines with scripture 66:33 - Navigating homeschool hurdles 69:39 - Practical ways to reset and manage attitudes 70:34 - Closing prayer and encouragement to listeners The Unhurried Homeschooler by Dorinda WilsonGather Round CurriculumThe Divine Mentor By Wayne Cordero Connect & follow Spring’s Children’s Book: Making the Most of Each Day https://www.instagram.com/spring32/?hl=en

    1h 11m

  2. May 18

    EP 45: Why Most People Are Building Their Lives On Shakey Foundations Without Knowing It

    EP 45: Why Most People Are Building Their Lives Shakey Foundations Without Knowing It Join us as we share personal stories and insights on what kingdom building truly means from a faith-centered perspective. Discover how surrender, humility, and intentional listening shape a life that reflects God's purpose in everyday moments. Main Topics & Insights: The importance of humility and dependence on God How shifting perspective and recalibrating standards aligns us with God's purpose Practical ways to hear from and engage with God daily The significance of community, accountability, and listening to the Holy Spirit The process of building on a biblical foundation versus self-focus or worldly success God's blueprint for our lives—putting the pieces together faithfully Personal stories of obedience, seasons of change, and trusting God's timing Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to the episode: honest talk about life, kingdom building, and celebrating God's work 01:11 – Reflecting on childhood favorite movies 02:41 – The impact of movies on childhood memories and lessons learned 08:58 – What does kingdom building mean to Danielle? Grounded in seeking God's kingdom first 09:16 – Key verse: Matthew 6:33 — Seeking first His kingdom and righteousness 10:03 – Clinging to what is good—clinging to God with an intimate bond 11:15 – Building on Jesus as the cornerstone—foundation for lasting kingdom work 12:13 – What kingdom building is not: Self-promotion, controlling, or limited to church walls 13:50 – Dying to self and trusting God's plan—examples from community building 14:46 – Dependence on God's strength—how weaknesses become strengths in His power 16:14 – Partnering with God's ongoing work everywhere, not just inside church walls 17:35 – Recognizing God's clarity in seasons of deep work and refining foundations 18:33 – The importance of a strong foundation—comparing Lego structures to our lives 20:21 – Restoring and rebuilding—God's process of tearing down and setting right 22:14 – Demolition vs. remodeling: God's way of resetting our lives for His purpose 23:52 – Listening to the Holy Spirit in every season and community 25:42 – Maintaining community rooted in God's Word and Jesus' love 26:39 – The uniqueness of individual race and community seasons in kingdom building 28:13 – Knowing when to stay or move on in God's timing 29:07 – Embracing change and God's seasons—trusting His flow and divine blueprint 31:11 – Celebrating God's faithfulness 32:30 – The power of gratitude in transition 34:04 – Teaching kids to hear from God—practical steps and fostering spiritual confidence 37:52 – The intentionality behind leading children and listening to the Holy Spirit 44:36 – The significance of relationship-centered kingdom building 50:29 – Trust and obedience in God's timing—working and waiting in faith 55:11 – Trusting God through delays and breakthroughs 58:01 – The beauty of God's plan & purpose over worldly measures 60:58 – Building one nail at a time—God’s blueprint and our participation in His design 62:46 – Lessons from Ezra and Nehemiah—building through humility, patience, and community 65:02 – The power of prayer and testimony 67:37 – Overcoming fear and stepping boldly in faith 70:21 – Participating in God's divine puzzle—placing pieces in His perfect design 71:31 – The ultimate guide in building life and kingdom 73:02 – Recalibrating: redefining measurements through God's Word—letting go of worldly narratives 78:39 – Final encouragement: life is ongoing kingdom building—take each day step-by-step 68:35 – Closing prayer Resources & Links: Book: Recalibrate – Shift Your Focus, Revive Your Life Connect with Danielle: ⁠@Danielle.Kazarian⁠ Connect with Schell: @flirtingwithmyhusband Building God's kingdom starts with humility, continual listening, and surrender to His divine blueprint. Each step, no matter how small or slow, is part of His magnificent design—one nailed piece at a time.

    1h 14m

  3. May 4

    EP 44: Building Boldly- Kingdom Work, Adoption & the Power of Unity with Kerri Holmes

    Building Boldly: Kingdom Work, Adoption & the Power of Unity with Kerri Holmes The Nitty Gritty Podcast with Kerri Holmes**Join us as Danielle and Schell sit down with Kerri Holmes to explore her journey in kingdom-building through church leadership, marriage, and adoption. Discover how faith-inspired leadership cultivates community and empowers women to walk boldly in their calling. In this episode: Kerri shares her story of leading Titus Women’s Ministry for over five years and expanding community circles for deeper connection The significance of biblical mentorship, with emphasis on Titus 2:3-5, in fostering godly living and family leadership Practical insights on developing leaders, managing growth, and creating safe, supportive environments The impact of prayer and obedience in experiencing God's unexpected blessings, including the adoption of Ella from Russia The role of unity—spiritually, within marriages, and in church ministries—in advancing God's kingdom Kerri’s heart for marriage ministry and her partnership with her husband Adam in supporting families Key Scriptures: 1 Corinthians 15:58, Romans 14:17, John 17:23 in building unity and perseverance in faith Timestamps:  00:00 - Welcome and introduction to Kerri Holmes  01:19 - Kerri’s journey with Titus Women’s Ministry  02:42 - Organizing ministry for kingdom impact  03:10 - Personal background and family life  04:05 - How Titus shaped Kerri’s faith  05:31 - Pandemic pivot and new directions in ministry  06:51 - Obedience and new visions for community  08:09 - Childhood favorite movies and kingdom themes  09:03 - The Sound of Music and its significance  11:25 - Defining kingdom building: Love God and love others  12:47 - Practical ways Carrie lives out kingdom principles  13:12 - The story of adopting Ella and God’s timing  15:23 - Faith in God’s provision through

    1h 6m

  4. Apr 27

    EP 43: Follow up conversation to EP 41-Navigating Authentic Faith & Healthy Relationships

    EP 43: Navigating Authentic Faith and Healthy Relationships: A Follow-up Conversation on Forgiveness, Boundaries, and Discernment In this episode, Schell and Danielle follow up their previous conversation from EP 41 and explore the challenges and truths of living out faith in everyday relationships. They discuss the importance of forgiveness, setting healthy boundaries, and seeking divine discernment to love others well—especially amidst hurt, disappointment, and offense. Key Topics The role of intentional friendships in spiritual growth Forgiveness as a divine obedience, not just a feeling How offenses, disappointments, and boundaries influence relationships The significance of discernment in love and conflict resolution Practical ways to evaluate motives and align actions with scripture The process of repentance and healing through prayer The biblical foundation for love that has backbone, not wimpy acceptance Recognizing when to seek wise counsel vs. going directly to God The power of praying for even those who have hurt us How Jesus' sacrifice and authority over Satan empower our forgiveness and freedom Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction to the importance of authentic faith in relationships 02:01 - The significance of forgiveness in healing and relationships 04:22 - Creating healthy boundaries without losing love 05:47 - The impact of offense and disappointment in our walk with Jesus 08:08 - Handling offense through scripture and Holy Spirit guidance 10:42 - How forgiveness cleans wounds and grants freedom 12:27 - The importance of spiritual maturity in managing offense and boundaries 14:03 - Indicators of whether we're seeking revenge or God's way 15:56 - Recognizing emotional currents that lead us away from peace 17:13 - Addressing past wounds and their influence on present relationships 20:22 - The dangers of non-confrontation and passivity 22:34 - Showing grace while protecting yourself in relationships 25:18 - Praying for discernment and God’s heart in friendships 28:10 - Loving even enemies as a divine indicator of God's love in us 30:56 - The importance of praying for those who hurt us 34:11 - Our authority over Satan through Jesus' sacrifice and love 36:33 - Operating in love with divine discernment over reactiveness 39:08 - Boundaries with love and God's firm love as an example 42:22 - The critical role of forgiveness in avoiding dependence and codependency 45:52 - The process of genuine repentance and heart transformation 48:11 - The visual of releasing burdens through honest prayer and surrender 52:18 - Invitation to go to the "secret place" with Jesus for transformation 53:12 - Closing thoughts and encouragement to walk in love, wisdom, and forgiveness Resources & Links Soul Care by Dr. Rob Reimer Hebrews 4:12 Luke 17:1-4 Philippians 4:8 "think about such things" Matthew 16:19 Keys the kingdom Connect with Danielle: @danielle.kazarian   Connect with Schell: @flirtingwithmyhusband Note: This episode emphasizes that living out faith involves intentional boundaries, forgiveness, and discernment—balancing truth and love rooted in God’s Word. It encourages believers to seek divine guidance in every interaction and to walk in freedom through Jesus’ authority.

    52 min

  5. Apr 20

    Ep 42: Finding the Gold in People- w/ guest Jennifer Jones on forging faith, ministry idolatry, calling

    Ep 42: Finding the Gold in People- Jennifer Jones on forging faith through fire, breaking ministry idolatry, and helping believers run in their calling In this episode of the Nitty Gritty, Danielle and Shell sit down with Jennifer Jones — ministry leader, entrepreneur, coach, and founder of Illuminate Global Ministry — for a rich, Spirit-filled conversation about what it truly means to build God's kingdom from the inside out. Jennifer shares her remarkable story: born a miracle child against impossible medical odds, raised in an abusive home, battling depression and suicidal ideation from childhood, and ultimately encountering the Lord at 21. Through decades of inner healing, deliverance, prophetic refinement, and deep intimacy with the Father, she has been forged into a passionate champion of people and their God-given identities. This episode covers a lot of ground, including: What kingdom building actually looks like — it starts with discipleship, prayer, and speaking to the core of people's identity, not their mistakes. Jennifer talks about the difference between building a platform and building people.Ministry idolatry and how it keeps believers small, insecure, and dependent on the wrong things. Jennifer vulnerably shares a season where the glory lifted because she had unknowingly stepped into receiving glory that belonged to God.Prophetic witchcraft and soul ties — what they are, how to recognize them, and how they can trap people's destinies. Danielle brings in scriptural grounding from Joel 2 and Philippians 2:2.The marketplace calling — why the church building is not the only place God uses his people, and why the 10% Levitical model means 90% were out in the world serving God through their everyday lives and gifts.Practical tools for hearing God's voice — Jennifer shares how she started with simple yes-or-no journaling questions, building confidence in her ability to hear the Holy Spirit over time.The beauty of being moldable — why mistaking God's process for failure is one of the biggest traps believers face, and how to stay flexible when the outcome doesn't look like what you imagined.Scriptures referenced: Mark 12- What's the most important thing?1 Corinthians 13-IdentityJohn 17:20–24- Holy Spirit prays for usJoel 2:28 - Jesus' prayer for usPhilippians 2:2Revelation 4 - OvercomingConnect with Jennifer Jones: Illuminate, Purpose Coaching, Renewed Soul Life Purpose Coaching Facebook Instagram YouTube: TIK TOK

    59 min

  6. Apr 13

    Ep 41: Building the Kingdom through Friendship: A Journey of Faith, Love, and Discipline

    Title: Ep 41: Building the Kingdom through Friendship: A Journey of Faith, Love, and Discipline In this episode of the Nitty Gritty podcast, Danielle and Schell explore what it means to build genuine friendships rooted in biblical principles and how these relationships reflect God's kingdom on earth. They share personal stories, spiritual insights, and practical steps toward cultivating friendships that foster growth, trust, and kingdom impact. Main Topics Covered: The biblical foundation of friendship and how Jesus says, "I have called you friends" (John 15:9-17).Traits of a good friend: relationship with Jesus, follow-through, trustworthiness, and intentionality.The importance of vulnerability and building bridges, not barriers, in relationships.Discernment versus judgment: understanding spiritual wisdom in friendships.The role of prayer, silence, and God's character in guiding our friendships and kingdom building.Recognizing snakes (deception) and protecting the unity in the body of Christ (2 Corinthians 13:14).Reflection on God's character—redeemer, healer—and how it was displayed last year.Practical ways to remember names, notes, and details to love others well.The concept of kingdom building as a life shared brick by brick, storing treasures in heaven (Matthew 6:19-21).The importance of community, shared mission, and living out God's will on earth (Matthew 6:10, Luke 17:21).Key Scriptures: John 15:9-172 Timothy 4Connect with Danielle & Schell: Danielle - flirtingwithmyhusband Schell - danielle.kazarian | www.daniellekazarian.com Timestamp Highlights:00:00 - Welcome back: Season 5 and our focus on Kingdom building02:19 - The biblical view of friendship through Jesus' example04:35 - Building bridges, removing barriers in relationships12:58 - Experiencing God's character traits in our lives (redeemer, healer)15:56 - Walking through seasons of hard truth and growth20:38 - The significance of unity and kingdom work in everyday life25:11 - Learning God's discernment amidst deception and spiritual battles33:48 - Loving through correction and walking in mercy37:14 - Scriptural encouragement: Peace as a rule in our hearts (Colossians 3:15)42:47 - Living out kingdom principles in our homes and communities45:43 - Understanding the kingdom as a realm of God's authority and how we participate48:39 - Storing treasures in heaven and living with eternity in mind (Matthew 6:19-21)54:55 - The importance of testing everything against God's Word—and trusting the Spirit of truth Additional Notes:This episode emphasizes that kingdom building begins in our friendships, in our homes, and through our continuous walk with Jesus. Remember, the Holy Spirit guides discernment, and God's peace should rule our hearts in every interaction. Building authentic, kingdom-oriented relationships requires intentionality, prayer, vulnerability, and a focus on eternal treasures.

    44 min

  7. Apr 6

    Ep 40: "Season 5"- Walking in Faith: Embracing Hardships, Discernment, and Kingdom Building

    Title: "Season 5"- Walking in Faith: Embracing Hardships, Discernment, and Kingdom Building Join Schell and Danielle as they share their reflections on walking with Jesus through life's ups and downs. They discuss personal growth, spiritual discernment, and the importance of kingdom-minded friendships, especially in challenging seasons.In this episode: Recap of the podcast's season five start and the significance of intentionalityThe reality of life's messiness and embracing honest conversations about hardshipHow hard seasons reveal God's glory and character traits like redemption and healingReflecting on God's faithfulness in past seasons and lessons learnedThe importance of pausing, looking back, and journaling spiritual milestonesUnderstanding God's character through personal experience and scriptureDiscernment: distinguishing God's voice from deception with wisdom and Holy Spirit guidancePractical insights into kingdom building, both spiritually and in everyday relationshipsThe significance of peace, unity, and trusting God's authority over the enemyEncouragement to point everything back to Jesus and rely on His Word for discernment Quotable Moments: “When we’re operating in God’s peace—that’s when the Kingdom work happens”-Danielle scripture:  “... Let everyone be quick to hear [be a careful, thoughtful listener], slow to speak [a speaker of carefully chosen words and], slow to anger [patient, reflective, forgiving]...” ‭‭James‬ ‭1‬:‭19‬-‭20‬ ‭AMP‬‬“Let peace be the rule.”—Schell’s sister via Schell scripture: “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts..." Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭15‬-‭17‬ ‭NIV‬‬Scripture references" ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭19‬-‭21‬ ‭NIV‬‬‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭9‬-‭10‬ ‭NASB1995‬‬ Timestamps:00:00 - Season five kickoff and podcast update02:19 - Honest conversations on walking with Jesus through messiness04:08 - Recognizing God's glory in hardship moments08:46 - Reflecting on God's work in past seasons12:58 - Experiencing God's character traits like redeemer and healer15:52 - Family seasons, God’s faithfulness, and healing21:35 - Learning from God's silent presence and trusting Him26:24 - Wisdom vs. discernment and walking in the Spirit30:58 - Recognizing deception and cultivating spiritual discernment34:13 - Peace as the rule in discernment and spiritual battles37:08 - Walking out kingdom building here on earth41:12 - Daily renewal and waking up with God's movement in mind44:29 - The kingdom as building brick-by-brick and trusting God's authority48:23 - Living with eternity in mind and eternal rewards50:10 - Closing prayer and blessing for listeners Connect with Schell & Danielle: Schell - ⁠flirtingwithmyhusband⁠Danielle - ⁠danielle.kazarian⁠ | ⁠daniellekazarian.com⁠For further encouragement:Remember, our insights are rooted in God's Word. Always align what you hear here with Scripture, and seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit for discernment and Kingdom work.

    59 min

  8. 08/20/2025

    Ep 39: A Conversation on Cultivation

    In The Nitty Gritty Ep 39: A Conversation on Cultivation, Schell & Danielle follow up episode 38 with a practical conversation on how to cultivate healthy soil in our lives and others. In this episode you will: -Be encouraged with healthy communication tips. -Explore and learn how to listen to God’s voice. -Differentiate between talents/skills and gifts. -Ask: Am I listening to God? -Learn tools to recall God’s words and promises. -Surrender the outcome of life to God. Practical communication tools and tips for how to: bring our whole self engage in authentic conversation confidently share appropriate details and emotions operate in maturity and wisdom Process with Jesus Scripture: Psalm 142:1-7 Cry out to God Joshua 1:8 Meditate day and night Psalm 37:3-7 Rely on the Lord 1 Corinthians 3:6-11 We plant seeds, God causes the growth Matthew 22:37-40 Love God, love others Psalm 139:14 Uniquely wonderfully made Proverbs 19:21-23 Many are a man’s plans Proverbs 3:5&6 Trust in the Lord Jeremiah 29:11, Psalm 57:2 God has a plan and a purpose Deuteronomy 5:33, Proverbs 4:14-16, 27; Jeremiah 6:16 Do not swerve to the right or the left Joshua 1:8 meditate on God’s Word Proverbs 3:3-6, Deuteronomy 6:8-9 write God’s word down Romans 8:13 Death to “flesh” Ephesians 1:22-23 put all things under God Deuteronomy 28:4 obedience makes the blessing flourish Hebrews 12:10-15 discipline heals us Ephesians 6 child and parent instructions 1 Corinthians 3:23 obedience Psalm 1:2-3 deeply rooted John 15:5 He is the vine We’re not responsible for others’ growth or what they do with their gifts; however, the following are ways we can plant seeds, and be good stewards: Prayer Exhortation Volunteering time Seeing the person at the grocery store Reference with topic- our role in others’ pain: Reconciling Yourself to the Fact of Sin- My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers, June 24 Quote: “Security and confidence comes from knowing who God is and who He says we are…but there’s more…” Key Scripture: “For they disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness. Therefore, strengthen the hands that are weak and the knees that are feeble, and make straight paths for your feet, so that the limb which is lame may not be put out of joint, but rather be healed. Pursue peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled;” Hebrews 12:10-15 NASB1995 Definitions:Cultivate- to prepare and use (Oxford dictionary)Sanctification- process of being transformed, washed, cleansed, and set apart for God’s purposes. (paraphrased from various scripture and commentary) Practical reflection questions: What are some lies I have believed about myself?What are truths from God’s Word that inform who I really am?What is a fear or obstacle getting in the way of me using my gifts?Do I see my kids’/closest people’s gifts? What are they? How can I help cultivate them?In what area do I want to grow?What do I need tilled from the rocky soil in my life?God what do you want me to know about this topic?

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  • Creator
    Schell Peterson & Danielle Kazarian
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    51
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Schell Peterson & Danielle Kazarian
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    The Nitty Gritty