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This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

The Openlove101 Show John & Jackie Melfi

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 21 Ratings

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

    Threesomes are Amazing

    Threesomes are Amazing

    Today we talk about threesomes because they are amazing! What guy (and even lots of gals) doesn't fantasize about a threesome experience?! In fact, it's one of the most popular ways to break into the lifestyle and we'll tell you why in our video!

    • 14 min
    Navigating Religious Perspectives in Open Relationships

    Navigating Religious Perspectives in Open Relationships

    In this episode, John and Jackie respond to a viewer's question about reconciling religious beliefs with an open relationship.
    John and Jackie share their personal journeys of questioning and deconstructing religious beliefs as they explored open relationships
    John and Jackie encourage you to embrace your authentic self, challenge societal norms, and recognize the strength in holding strong, shared values within your relationships.

    • 15 min
    How to Talk to Your Dating Partner About Your Open Relationship

    How to Talk to Your Dating Partner About Your Open Relationship

    In this episode, we answer one of your questions posted in the YouTube comments in one of our videos:

    ​What about the folks you're dating? Do they know about your relationship and how do they fit in? And if there are issues, why did you continue and why not just stop?


    A very good series of questions, I might add!

    • 12 min
    Navigating Uncomfortable Boundaries in Open Relationships

    Navigating Uncomfortable Boundaries in Open Relationships

    In this episode, John and Jackie discuss the complexities of dealing with uncomfortable boundaries in open relationships.
    The episode explores various approaches to handling discomfort when partners want to explore activities that may challenge established boundaries.
    They touch on options such as refraining from the activity, finding ways to ease discomfort, and introducing play partners to fulfill certain desires.
    They emphasize the importance of communication, honesty, and self-reflection in navigating these sensitive situations

    • 16 min
    Importance of Honesty in Open Relationships

    Importance of Honesty in Open Relationships

    #116 So what happens when your partner is honest (which of course you want them to be) and they share something with you...

    And that honest something makes you sad, makes you angry, makes you scared, or worse.

    What do you do now with that?

    That's what we talk about today!

    • 12 min
    Does Fantasizing About Someone Else Mean Cheating?

    Does Fantasizing About Someone Else Mean Cheating?

    #112 A couple asked us the other day if it's bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner.

    Is that wrong?

    Is it cheating?

    Is it bad?

    Let's dive into this rabbit hole of fantasy talk and where it could go!

    • 10 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
21 Ratings

21 Ratings

MattSac ,

Bad Medical Advice

They push their idea of a plant only diet early on, by citing non-peer-reviewed studies claiming it as a "sex tip". Maybe they have good info on others, but that's a huge red flag for any advice given.

Intuitive Intelligence ,

Best Advice for All Stages

This podcast is by far my favorite of all the lifestyle podcasts. They are engaging and give excellent advice grounded in reality. Thank you

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