The Organised Method

Gemma Bray
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Gemma Bray is the Founding Editor of The Organised Method. Join her for a teabreak and have a chat about all the things that go hand in hand with running a home ... life and everything in between.  www.theorganisedmethod.com/quick-links Email us on contact@theorganisedmethod.com

  1. 1D AGO

    How to manage your home when your mental health won't let you

    This week's Ask Gemma question is a heavy one: "I'm too depressed to care about my house and I feel like a failure." Gemma gets real about mental health, home care, and why the guilt makes everything worse. If you've ever felt like you're drowning and your messy house is just more evidence you're failing at life then this one's for you. Submit your questions for next week (we will always keep it anonymous) DM or email us on contact@theorganisedmethod.com

    20 min

  2. MAR 3

    This is why you feel lazy if you take a break (especially if there's cleaning to do)

    Why does rest feel like laziness, even after you've been cleaning all day?If you've ever spent hours tidying, organising, and managing your home (only to feel guilty the moment you sit down) this video is for you. That creeping sense of laziness when you rest isn't a personal flaw. It's conditional rest: the belief that you have to earn the right to stop, and that your worth is tied to your productivity.In this episode, I'm unpacking why so many women (especially mothers) struggle to rest without guilt, why domestic labour is never "finished enough" to justify stopping, and how perfectionism and invisible mental load keep us trapped in constant motion. www.theorganisedmethod.com

    16 min
  3. Help! My partner doesn't see the mess and I am at my wit's end.

    FEB 24

    Help! My partner doesn't see the mess and I am at my wit's end.

    This week on TOM Extra Spin we tackle the resentment, the mental load, and the real strategies that don't involve passive-aggressive dish-stacking. Got a juicy question? Submit it for next week's episode (anonymous if you want). DM us or email contact@theorganisedmethod.com

    20 min
  4. You can't clean hungry! We've got a tasty treat for you...

    12/04/2025

    You can't clean hungry! We've got a tasty treat for you...

    The tea behind the brand new recipe section on the TOM app.  Catherine is a chef and mum of 2. She is on a mission to help 1 million families eat better. And now she is part of the TOM Team as our in house chef!  Follow her on IG: @chefcatherineofficial www.theorganisedmethod.com

    27 min
  5. before christmas eats you alive...

    11/18/2025

    before christmas eats you alive...

    your little prompts ... What do I genuinely enjoy every year? What drains me every time, no matter how hard I try? Where is my time actually going? Who matters the most to me? What do I want Boxing Day to feel like? What tradition deserves a gentle retirement? And what tiny new thing (even the smallest ritual) would actually bring me joy? Gem x www.theorganisedmethod.com

    24 min
  6. The November Dip (you're not lazy ... you're seasonal)

    11/11/2025

    The November Dip (you're not lazy ... you're seasonal)

    November can feel like an energy dip, but what if it’s actually a hidden gift? Let's reframe it as the perfect pause, an invitation to unwind, simplify routines and recharge before the busy festive weeks set in.  Discover how dialling back now helps you show up stronger, steadier, and more present for all that’s ahead.  Want to try The Organised Method app and find a gentle housekeeping routine that works for you? Head to www.theorganisedmethod.com

    25 min
  7. stop trying to do it all ... seriously

    10/27/2025

    stop trying to do it all ... seriously

    Autumn can feel like a race you never signed up for. In this episode, I’m digging into “do it all” culture, from never-ending work emails to the wave of Autumn and winter traditions everyone seems to expect, like Elf on the Shelf, Boo baskets, and those Instagram-perfect Christmas Eve picnics.  I’m sharing how overcommitting can turn even the best intentions into burnout. I’ve learned that doing less isn’t lazy, it’s self-preservation. So I’m walking through practical ways to reclaim your time and stop performing. If you’re fed up with feeling like this time of year is a marathon of more, this one’s for you. Gem x www.theorganisedmethod.com/quick-links

    19 min
  8. The Shiny Things Trap | How starting over can keep us stuck

    10/16/2025

    The Shiny Things Trap | How starting over can keep us stuck

    Ever felt that irresistible pull towards a brand new notebook or journal? Maybe starting over with a fresh, blank page feels like the missing piece to finally get organised, creative, or productive. But what if these shiny new things are actually keeping you stuck?Today we dive into the sneaky ways the allure of novelty ... new planners, journals, and all those untouched pages ... can actually hinder real progress and growth. It’s a video for anyone who’s ever chased the thrill of a fresh start but found themselves repeating the same old patterns.In this video, we'll explore: Why the excitement of new tools can mask procrastinationHow perfectionism and the urge to "start over" can interrupt genuine growthThe difference between mindful progress and the illusion of productivityPractical tips to break the cycle and appreciate the value of what you’ve already started

    15 min
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About

Gemma Bray is the Founding Editor of The Organised Method. Join her for a teabreak and have a chat about all the things that go hand in hand with running a home ... life and everything in between.  www.theorganisedmethod.com/quick-links Email us on contact@theorganisedmethod.com

Information

  • Creator
    Gemma Bray
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    319
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Gemma Bray
  • Show Website
    The Organised Method

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