The Paragon Project

Kevin Duong

Everyone has a story and wants to be the paragon of their lives. Join me in finding out what it means to be the paragon of your life with guest from different backgrounds and experiences!

  1. 02/14/2020

    Needs = Expectations

    Mary Davis is a license couples therapist at Thriveworks Short Pump who is very knowledgeable and passionate about relationships. I had an amazing time interviewing her and gained an important perspective on relationships and we talked about self-love, expectations, etc! If you got any value from this episode, please let me know and share in on Facebook and Instagram story @paragonproject1. Thank you and have a nice rest of the day! Below are time stamps for the episode.  Times stamps: 1:01- Introduction to Mary 2:17- What are the foundations of any healthy relationship? 3:04- What to do when trust has been lost in a relationship? 4:26- How much of our past should we reveal to our partner? 5:54- Why would people rather direct their love towards other people than themselves? 8:04- How to maintain a healthy relationship with yourself without being too self critical 9:50- Perfectionism blocks vulnerability 10:20- What makes unhealthy relationships with ourselves? 12:06- What are healthy expectations we should have for our partner? 13:51- Should we have little to no expectations for our partner? Title? Our needs are ultimately our expectations 16:08- What do your clients believe are unhealthy to have in a relationship but are healthy to have? Could use this to transition to self love after healthy relationship 17:03- Why an individual identity is healthy for a relationship? 19:50- What are somethings your client believe are healthy in a relationship but are actually unhealthy to have? 21:19- What’s a soulmate and could there be such thing? 23:30- How do you get your clients to open up about their past? 26:32- How do you maintain a healthy long distance relationship? 28:33- What does it mean to be a paragon?

    30 min
  2. 11/24/2019

    Ep. 16: Why do abusers abuse with Ruth Glenn from the National Coalition Against Domestic Violent (NCADV)

    Domestic violence (DV) is a very broad topic that is very complex. I really loved the perspective that I got from this episode, and I am really grateful to interview Ruth Glenn. The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) is doing amazing work to prevent and bring awareness to domestic violence. The Remember My Name and the Take a Stand for Health Relationships are two great programs the NCADV have, and we touched on these programs briefly in the podcast. Below are the links to all the references mentioned in the podcast and the times stamps. Thank you for listening! References: - The NCADV homepage: https://ncadv.org/ - The NCADV webinars: https://ncadv.org/webinars - Remember my name: https://ncadv.org/remember-my-name - Take a Stand for Health Relationships modules: https://ncadv.org/teens4healthyrelationships - Understanding arms regulations for victims of DV: https://www.disarmdv.org/ Time Stamps: 1:20- How did you get to your position as President of NCADV 2:45- The definition of domestic violence (its more than just physical or sexual violence) 5:35- Why do abusers abuse? Why do victims stay? 10:36- How is the NCADV helping survivors get over their fear caused from domestic violence 13:47- The goal of the "Take a Stand for Health Relationships" Program and its future 22:00- The Remember my Name Program. What it is about and its future. 25:41- The next step for NCADV 28:56- What does it mean to be a paragon?

    32 min

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Everyone has a story and wants to be the paragon of their lives. Join me in finding out what it means to be the paragon of your life with guest from different backgrounds and experiences!