The Parent Whisperer

Richard Ramos
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If you’ve ever felt like you're losing the connection with your child—whether you're a parent, single parent, stepparent, or grandparent—this podcast is for you. In today’s chaotic world filled with social media pressure, identity confusion, and dangerous societal influences, parenting feels more overwhelming than ever. But you're not alone. The Parent Whisperer Podcast is your go-to source for real-world parenting wisdom grounded in love, leadership, and legacy. Hosted by Richard Ramos—author, speaker, and mentor to thousands of families across the country—this podcast delivers a powerful mix of practical tools, heartfelt stories, and proven strategies to help you reconnect with your child and reclaim your influence at home. With over 30 years of experience guiding parents from every walk of life—including at-risk youth and families behind prison walls—Richard brings raw truth, hard-won insight, and deep compassion to each episode. You won’t get fluff here—just straight talk that works. What You’ll Get in Every Episode: Proven techniques to restore trust, influence, and connectionReal stories from parents who turned things aroundAction steps to lead with emotional maturity, not just authorityTools to raise emotionally secure, purpose-driven childrenEncouragement for those parenting alone, in blended families, or under stressWhether you're in a full-blown crisis or simply seeking deeper connection, this podcast will help you become the calm, courageous, and confident leader your family needs. Parenting doesn’t come with a manual—but it doesn’t have to feel like guesswork. You can win your child’s heart without losing your mind. Subscribe now and join a growing movement of parents who are rewriting their family legacy—one conversation, one connection, one courageous step at a time.

  1. Sep 10

    Turning Your Past Into Purpose: Arthur and Gabby Soriano on Family, Forgiveness, and Youth Empowerment

    What happens when you stop allowing your past to define you and start using it to help others? In this episode of The Parent Whisperer Podcast, Richard Ramos sits down with Arthur and Gabby Soriano, co founders of Youth Empowerment in San Diego, to talk about their personal journey, their work with families and youth, and the power of personal growth, forgiveness, and second chances. Arthur and Gabby openly share how their own difficult experiences shaped the work they do today. Arthur speaks about his years of incarceration and his journey back into the community, while Gabby shares how their experiences became the foundation for rebuilding their family and serving others. Their story is a powerful reminder that your past does not have to determine your future. In This Episode • How Arthur and Gabby turned their lived experiences into a mission to help others • The importance of rebuilding trust with family and community • Why personal development is at the heart of effective parenting • How forgiveness can help release guilt, shame, and resentment • Breaking generational cycles and creating a healthier foundation for children • The unique challenges of fatherhood and step parenting • Why parents need to work on themselves instead of focusing only on changing their children • The importance of helping men become more engaged fathers and role models • How trauma affects families across cultures and communities • The role of Youth Empowerment in working with youth impacted by the justice system • How restorative practices can help reduce violence and rebuild relationships • The impact of Parents on a Mission in helping families grow stronger • A powerful story about an 80 year old woman discovering the need to forgive after carrying resentment for decades • How Youth Empowerment helped transform the culture at Hoover High School From Past to Purpose Arthur and Gabby did not begin their journey from a perfect place. They had to rebuild trust with their families and their community and prove through their actions that they were committed to doing things differently. Today, they use those experiences to connect with families and young people who are facing many of the same challenges they once faced. Arthur describes this approach as using lived experience to guide the future and helping people through a credible messenger model. Parenting Begins With Personal Growth One of the strongest themes in this conversation is that parenting is not simply about changing children's behavior. It begins with changing ourselves. Gabby explains how Parents on a Mission helped her recognize patterns that had been passed down through families and generations. The personal development component became one of the most meaningful parts of the program for her. Richard reinforces this idea by explaining that Parents on a Mission focuses on parents dealing with their own issues rather than simply trying to fix their children. The Power of Forgiveness Forgiveness becomes another major theme throughout the conversation. Arthur and Gabby discuss how guilt, shame, resentment, and unresolved trauma can prevent people from moving forward. They share how forgiveness can become a turning point for parents and families. Gabby tells the story of an older woman who realized during a Parents on a Mission class that she had carried resentment toward another woman for decades after a traumatic childhood experience. For the first time, she was able to acknowledge that pain and begin releasing it. Breaking Generational Cycles Arthur and Gabby are also focused on creating a different future for their own children. They talk openly about the importance of consistency, rebuilding relationships, and creating a strong foundation so that their children can grow beyond the experiences of previous generations. Their goal extends beyond their own family. Youth Empowerment works with young people, families, and individuals impacted by the justice system, using lived experience, mentorship, restorative practices, and community connection. Creating Change at Hoover High School Arthur shares a powerful example of the impact this work can have. Hoover High School was once a place where gang conflicts were creating serious problems both inside and outside the school. Through youth programs, restorative practices, Parents on a Mission, and work with families, the school saw a dramatic transformation. Arthur says gang fights decreased significantly and eventually reached zero during the most recent school year, while attendance and behavior improved. Most importantly, students began taking ownership of the culture themselves. A Message for Parents This conversation is ultimately about hope. Your past does not have to define you. Your mistakes do not have to become your children's future. And meaningful change begins when we are willing to look honestly at ourselves, take responsibility, forgive, grow, and lead differently.

  2. Sep 3

    When Christian Moms Feel Stuck in Survival Mode with Bethany Rose

    What happens when a mother loves God deeply but still feels anxious, overwhelmed, reactive, or emotionally exhausted? In this episode of The Parent Whisperer Podcast, Richard Ramos sits down with Bethany Rose, host of the Spiritual Growth for Christian Moms podcast and a Christian nervous system coach who helps overwhelmed moms move from survival mode toward greater peace through Scripture and practical regulation tools. Bethany shares her deeply personal journey through a difficult marriage, single motherhood, panic attacks, anxiety, depression, and rebuilding her life through faith. Her experiences eventually led her to understand the connection between the nervous system, emotional regulation, and the pressures of motherhood. Together, Richard and Bethany explore what it means to recognize when your nervous system is dysregulated and how simple practices can help you move out of survival mode and back toward peace. In This Episode, We Discuss: • Bethany's journey from working mom to stay at home mom • How motherhood can create emotional stress that feels impossible to escape • Bethany's experience with anxiety and panic attacks • Why asking for help does not mean you are failing • How faith and nervous system regulation can work together • What happens when the body becomes stuck in fight or flight mode • How chronic stress can affect sleep, exhaustion, and the body • Simple breathing techniques for calming the nervous system • How tapping can be used as a grounding technique • The importance of recognizing what is happening inside your body • How Scripture can help redirect anxious thoughts • Richard's catch, change, replace approach to negative thinking • Why repetition is necessary when creating new patterns • How Bethany's personal struggles became part of her calling • Why you do not have to be perfect to help someone else • Recognizing whether you are in a season of rest or a season of action • Taking the next step even when you cannot see the entire path A Powerful Reminder for Parents Parenting can keep us constantly focused on everyone else's needs. But when we are living in a constant state of stress, anxiety, or overwhelm, it can become difficult to respond to our children with the patience and presence we want to have. Bethany encourages moms to first recognize what is happening within themselves. Sometimes that means taking a breath. Sometimes it means grounding yourself. Sometimes it means turning to Scripture. And sometimes it means asking for professional or medical support. There is no shame in needing help. About Bethany Rose Bethany Rose is the host of the Spiritual Growth for Christian Moms podcast and a Christian nervous system coach who helps overwhelmed moms move out of survival mode. By combining biblical truth with practical regulation tools, she helps women develop greater peace, patience, emotional resilience, and freedom in their walk with Christ. Learn more about Bethany and her podcast at bethanyrose.net/podcast. Listen to The Parent Whisperer Podcast The Parent Whisperer Podcast is hosted by Richard Ramos and focuses on helping parents build stronger relationships, develop emotional maturity, and become the leaders their children need. Parents on a Mission is not for bad parents. It's for good parents who want to get better.

  3. Aug 27

    From Incarceration to Impact with Kyle Fowler

    What happens when your life falls apart, but you decide to rebuild it one choice at a time? In this powerful episode of The Parent Whisperer Podcast, Richard Ramos sits down with Kyle Fowler, Associate Director of Employer Engagement at Second Chance Center in Aurora, Colorado, and the first Master Certified Parents on a Mission Trainer. Kyle shares his deeply personal journey through incarceration, homelessness, family struggles, and rebuilding his relationship with his children. His story is a powerful reminder that our worst moments do not have to define who we become. Kyle also explains how Parents on a Mission transformed the way he understands parenting, forgiveness, personal growth, and leadership. Today, he uses those lessons to mentor others who are rebuilding their lives after incarceration and to help expand Parents on a Mission across multiple locations. In This Episode, We Discuss: • Kyle's journey from success to incarceration and homelessness • Rebuilding life after incarceration • Fighting for relationships with your children • The importance of forgiveness, especially forgiving yourself • Why age does not always equal maturity • How Parents on a Mission changed Kyle's life • The power of delayed gratification and the law of the harvest • How Second Chance Center helps people rebuild their lives • Fair chance employment and workforce development • Family reunification after incarceration • How writing letters can reopen broken family relationships • Why justice involved parents can become powerful mentors to their children • The importance of personal growth and maturity • How Parents on a Mission is creating change inside correctional settings • Why transformation requires work, patience, and consistency Kyle currently helps individuals through employment, mentoring, reentry services, and Parents on a Mission. He has also helped expand the program at Second Chance Center into multiple locations. One of the most powerful stories Kyle shares is about a man who had lost contact with his adult children and grandchildren. Kyle encouraged him to write a letter every week. Eventually, his daughters responded, opening the door to reconciliation. The message is simple: Your past may be part of your story, but it does not have to determine your future. About Kyle Fowler Kyle Fowler serves as Associate Director of Employer Engagement at Second Chance Center in Aurora, Colorado. He works with employers to create fair chance employment opportunities while mentoring justice involved individuals as they rebuild their lives. He is also the first Master Certified Parents on a Mission Trainer and leads facilitator efforts across multiple Second Chance Center locations. Learn More Visit Richard Ramos at: https://www.richardrramos.com Explore Parents on a Mission, books, free resources, and the online course.

  4. Aug 20

    Addiction and Abandonment to Hope and Healing with Fanny Hernandez

    What happens when the person who once needed hope becomes the person giving hope to others? In this powerful episode of The Parent Whisperer Podcast, Richard Ramos sits down with Fanny Hernandez Juarez, a community peacekeeper, mentor, ministry leader, and advocate for youth. Fanny shares her journey through childhood trauma, addiction, young motherhood, homelessness, incarceration, and the difficult choices that affected her children. She also shares how Garden Pathways became a turning point in her life. Today, Fanny serves with Garden Pathways, works in community violence intervention, and teaches Parents On A Mission and Youth On A Mission in jails and juvenile facilities. Her story is a powerful reminder that our past may explain where we've been, but it doesn't have to determine where we're going. In This Episode You'll Learn: How childhood trauma can shape future choicesWhy addiction became an escape from painHow Fanny began changing her life through mentoringWhy rebuilding trust with your children takes timeHow Parents On A Mission changed her approach to parentingThe power of lived experience in helping othersWhy consistency matters when rebuilding relationshipsHow mentoring can give young people hopeWhy it's never too late to change Key Takeaways Fanny's story shows that transformation takes time, responsibility, and people willing to walk alongside us. The same experiences that once held her back are now helping her connect with parents and young people who are struggling. Your past can be part of your story without becoming your future. Resources Mentioned Garden Pathways Community mentoring, violence intervention, and youth and family programs in Bakersfield. Parents On A Mission A parenting curriculum created by Richard Ramos. Youth On A Mission A program designed to help young people recognize their gifts and potential. Listen to More Episodes Subscribe to The Parent Whisperer Podcast for practical parenting wisdom, inspiring conversations, and biblical principles to help build stronger families.

  5. Aug 13

    From Guns, Gangs, and Prison to Peace, Purpose, and Parenting with Isaac Ortiz

    What happens when someone who has spent years in gangs and incarceration decides to completely change the direction of his life? In this powerful episode of The Parent Whisperer Podcast, Richard Ramos sits down with Isaac Ortiz, a devoted husband, father of five, mentoring specialist, and psychology student whose personal journey is a powerful example of transformation, responsibility, and hope. Isaac spent approximately 10 years in and out of incarceration and experienced firsthand the consequences of gang involvement and choices that took him away from the life he ultimately wanted. Today, he uses those experiences to help others who are working to rebuild their lives. As a Mentoring Specialist with Garden Pathways, Isaac supports adults who are working toward positive change and a better future. Garden Pathways' mentoring work focuses on helping individuals develop skills, make positive choices, and move toward greater stability and self-sufficiency. (Garden Pathways) But Isaac's story isn't only about incarceration. It's about fatherhood. It's about becoming the kind of parent his children can be proud of. It's about understanding that our past doesn't have to determine our future. And it's about using the experiences that once held us back to help someone else move forward. In This Episode, We Discuss: • Isaac's experience with incarceration and gang involvement • The turning points that changed the direction of his life • How becoming a father changed his perspective • Breaking destructive cycles and creating a different future • The importance of mentorship and authentic relationships • Why people need someone who believes in their potential • Using lived experience to help others navigate change • Education, personal growth, and rebuilding your identity • How parenting can become part of the transformation process • Why it's never too late to make a different choice Isaac's story is a reminder that transformation doesn't happen because someone simply tells you to change. Sometimes, it happens because someone believes in you long enough for you to start believing in yourself. Today, Isaac is continuing his education in psychology and using his lived experience, compassion, and mentoring work to help others believe that change, healing, and a better future are possible. This is a conversation about second chances, fatherhood, responsibility, mentorship, and what it really means to turn your life around. About Isaac Ortiz Isaac Ortiz is a devoted husband and proud father of five children, three daughters and two sons. Drawing from his experiences with incarceration, re-entry, and gang involvement, Isaac now serves as a Mentoring Specialist supporting adults who are working to rebuild their lives and make positive changes. He is currently a senior at California State University, Bakersfield, majoring in Psychology, with plans to graduate in Spring 2027. Isaac received the 2023 Hidden Gold Award from Garden Pathways' Heart of the Country fundraising event, which recognizes individuals who demonstrate significant transformation. He has also served as a peer recovery support professional in the mental health field. Through his lived experience, education, and compassion, Isaac inspires others to believe that change, healing, and a better future are possible.

  6. Aug 6

    Healing After Trauma with Lena Cebula (Part 2)

    How do you move beyond surviving and begin truly healing? In Part 2 of Richard Ramos' conversation with Lena Cebula, the focus shifts from her incredible story of survival to the lifelong journey of healing after trauma. Lena shares practical wisdom for anyone carrying emotional wounds, explaining why healing is a process that requires intentional choices, healthy habits, and giving yourself permission to grow. Together, Richard and Lena discuss emotional regulation, stress management, renewing your mind, and why faith provides the foundation for healing but doesn't eliminate the responsibility to pursue personal growth. If you've ever struggled with anxiety, PTSD, overwhelming stress, or the lingering effects of trauma, this episode offers encouragement, practical tools, and hope that lasting change is possible. In This Episode You'll Learn: Why healing after trauma is a lifelong journey, not a single momentThe connection between stress, emotional regulation, and parentingSimple daily habits that help restore emotional healthWhy self care is necessary, not selfishHow small changes create lasting transformationThe importance of renewing your mind after traumaThe difference between reacting and respondingWhy faith begins the healing journey but doesn't replace personal responsibilityHow to give yourself grace while continuing to growWhy forgiveness includes learning to forgive yourself Key Takeaways Healing doesn't happen overnight. While faith brings forgiveness, hope, and a new identity, emotional healing still requires intentional action. Lena explains that God gives us wisdom, freedom, and responsibility to care for ourselves, renew our thinking, and choose healthier patterns each day. Small, consistent steps often create the greatest long term transformation. She encourages listeners to identify one area causing unnecessary stress and begin making manageable changes that restore peace and emotional resilience. Resources Mentioned Learn more about Lena Cebula: https://lenacebula.ca Get Lena's books: Miraculous: My Journey from Hell to HeavenBreaking the Silence: Voices of Survivors Connect with Lena Website: https://lenacebula.ca Listen to More Episodes If this conversation encouraged you, subscribe to The Parent Whisperer Podcast for practical parenting wisdom, inspiring guest interviews, and biblical principles to help you build stronger families.

  7. Jul 30

    How Mentorship Changes the Lives of At Risk Youth with Juan Avila

    What if one caring adult could change the direction of a young person's life? In this episode of The Parent Whisperer Podcast, I sit down with Juan Avila, Chief Operating Officer of Garden Pathways, to discuss the life changing power of mentorship, community, and hope. For more than two decades, Juan has worked alongside youth and adults who are at the highest risk of violence, incarceration, and poverty. Rather than seeing people for their mistakes, he sees their potential. Together, we explore what causes so many young people to lose their way, why meaningful relationships matter more than ever, and how parents, mentors, and communities can work together to help children discover a better path. This conversation is a powerful reminder that every child deserves someone who believes in them before they believe in themselves. In This Episode • Why Mentorship Can Change A Child's Future • Understanding The Root Causes Of Youth Violence • The Importance Of Positive Role Models • How Strong Relationships Prevent Destructive Choices • Why Community Matters In Raising Children • Helping Young People Discover Hope And Purpose • Breaking Cycles Of Poverty And Incarceration • Creating Opportunities That Lead To Lasting Change Whether you're raising children, mentoring young people, or simply care about the next generation, this conversation will encourage you to see the incredible impact one caring relationship can make. ABOUT OUR GUEST Juan Avila is the Chief Operating Officer of Garden Pathways, a nonprofit organization in Bakersfield, California, dedicated to mentoring, workforce development, violence prevention, and reentry services for youth and adults impacted by the justice system. Raised in the same community he now serves, Juan has spent more than twenty years helping individuals break cycles of violence, incarceration, and poverty through authentic relationships, trauma informed care, and opportunity. Learn more about Garden Pathways: www.gardenpathways.org

  8. Jul 23

    Escaped from Human Trafficking with Lena Cebula

    What happens when someone survives the unimaginable... and chooses to use their story to help others find hope? In this powerful episode of The Parent Whisperer Podcast, I sit down with Lena Cebula, a survivor of human trafficking, addiction, and unimaginable trauma, whose life has been transformed through faith, healing, and perseverance. Lena shares her incredible journey from growing up in poverty in Ukraine, to surviving exploitation and human trafficking, to rebuilding her life in Canada and becoming a wife, mother, Christian leadership coach, author, and advocate for women. But this conversation is about more than surviving trauma. It's about breaking unhealthy cycles, finding your identity, healing from the past, and becoming the parent your children need. Whether you're carrying wounds from your own childhood or simply want to create a healthier future for your family, this episode offers hope that lasting transformation is possible. In This Episode • Lena's Journey From Human Trafficking To Freedom • How Trauma Impacts Parenting • Finding Identity Beyond Your Past • The Role Of Faith In Healing • Why Awareness Is The First Step To Change • Breaking Generational Cycles • Creating Peace In Your Home • Practical Steps Toward Emotional Healing One of the most powerful reminders from this conversation is that your past does not have to determine your future. Healing is possible. Growth is possible. And the legacy you leave your children can begin changing today. ABOUT OUR GUEST Lena Cebula is a best selling author, Certified Christian Leadership Coach, speaker, social justice advocate, and host of the Love&BLoved Podcast. A survivor of drug addiction and human trafficking, Lena now helps Christian mothers manage stress, strengthen their faith, improve their emotional well being, and build peaceful homes rooted in God's love. She is the author of Miraculous: My Journey from Hell to Heaven and founder of the Love&BLoved™ brand, which also raises awareness about human trafficking and supports organizations serving vulnerable women and girls. Learn more: https://lenacebula.ca

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If you’ve ever felt like you're losing the connection with your child—whether you're a parent, single parent, stepparent, or grandparent—this podcast is for you. In today’s chaotic world filled with social media pressure, identity confusion, and dangerous societal influences, parenting feels more overwhelming than ever. But you're not alone. The Parent Whisperer Podcast is your go-to source for real-world parenting wisdom grounded in love, leadership, and legacy. Hosted by Richard Ramos—author, speaker, and mentor to thousands of families across the country—this podcast delivers a powerful mix of practical tools, heartfelt stories, and proven strategies to help you reconnect with your child and reclaim your influence at home. With over 30 years of experience guiding parents from every walk of life—including at-risk youth and families behind prison walls—Richard brings raw truth, hard-won insight, and deep compassion to each episode. You won’t get fluff here—just straight talk that works. What You’ll Get in Every Episode: Proven techniques to restore trust, influence, and connectionReal stories from parents who turned things aroundAction steps to lead with emotional maturity, not just authorityTools to raise emotionally secure, purpose-driven childrenEncouragement for those parenting alone, in blended families, or under stressWhether you're in a full-blown crisis or simply seeking deeper connection, this podcast will help you become the calm, courageous, and confident leader your family needs. Parenting doesn’t come with a manual—but it doesn’t have to feel like guesswork. You can win your child’s heart without losing your mind. Subscribe now and join a growing movement of parents who are rewriting their family legacy—one conversation, one connection, one courageous step at a time.

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  • Creator
    Richard Ramos
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    87
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 The Parent Whisperer
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