Shahrez Hayder on Women Psychology, Attraction & Relationship Dynamics Why do women test men in relationships and what does it really mean? In this powerful episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Shahrez Hayder to break down the psychology behind attraction, relationship dynamics, and behavioral patterns between men and women. This conversation explores why women often test men’s confidence, emotional stability, and leadership, and how most men misunderstand these situations leading to confusion, frustration, and failed connections. Shahrez explains how these “tests” are not manipulation, but signals rooted in psychology, attraction, and emotional security. If you follow top North American podcasts like The Diary of a CEO, On Purpose with Jay Shetty, The Tim Ferriss Show, or authors like Brené Brown, Esther Perel, and Mark Manson, this episode connects deeply with conversations around modern relationships, dating psychology, and emotional intelligence. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: • Why women test men in dating and relationships • The psychology of attraction and emotional security • Why most men fail these tests (and how to improve) • How to build confidence and emotional stability • The role of masculine energy and leadership • How to respond to relationship challenges the right way • Building stronger, more authentic connections Timestamps: Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction: What Masculinity Really Means 00:01:03 The Unshakable Man: Faith as the Foundation 00:05:24 Understanding Women: The Bridge to Jannah 00:07:40 The Test Never Ends: Why Women Challenge Men 00:12:32 Biochemistry of Love: Oxytocin, Cortisol, and Safety 00:14:19 The Triangle: Allah, Man, and Woman 00:15:12 Words Have Weight: The Power of a Man's Speech 00:16:01 The Hockey Stick Effect: When Attraction Suddenly Dies 00:16:40 Women Are Loyal to How They Feel About You 00:30:12 What Women Misunderstand About Men 00:35:56 Default Settings: All Women Are the Same, But Different 00:37:08 Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling 00:38:03 Don't Save Her: Accepting vs Fixing Women 00:25:26 Men Build Connection Through Time, Women Through Space 00:21:32 Quality Over Quantity: The Prophet's Example 00:46:30 Insecurity vs Gira: Protecting Ego or Protecting Her 00:54:37 Confidence Doesn't Make Noise: The Silent Strength 00:56:55 The Power of Honesty: Never Lie to Your Woman 00:45:09 Spirituality and Women: Speaking to Her Soul 01:08:17 What Men and Women Must Unlearn 01:11:52 Redefining Respect: Who Are You Really Trying to Please 01:14:26 The Qawam Identity: Becoming the Protector and Provider 01:16:55 Cortisol and Masculinity: How Men Affect Women's Health Whether you're navigating dating, building a relationship, or trying to understand modern relationship psychology, this episode offers practical insights to improve your confidence, communication, and emotional awareness. Follow Shahrez Hayder: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/ Instagram (Alt): https://instagram.com/shahrez.muslim LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayder/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@shahrez.muslim Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC): Website: https://thepathwechoose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/ TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/ Subscribe to The Path We Choose (TPWC) for conversations on dating psychology, relationships, attraction, emotional intelligence, self improvement, and high-performance mindset.