The Path

Casey Moninghoff
The Path

The Path podcast features interviews with anyone doing interesting and important work. I speak with military leaders, business professionals, scientists, researchers, start-up founders, and more. The conversations promote knowledge-sharing, proactive curiosity, and self-development to help you stay on your path. Listen on Apple Podcasts, SoundCloud, Spotify. If you enjoy the show, please consider leaving a comment and rating. This helps others to find the show. I appreciate all feedback and suggestions for guests or topics. Thank you! https://soundcloud.com/thepathpodcast https://open.spotify.com/show/72t4TROpwUt89DlQVZMUgq I am grateful for any support of my work via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thepathpodcast

  1. 05/01/2023

    #15: Arno Koch

    Arno Koch is a relationship coach based in Malibu, CA. 00:00 – triggered by a 2 year old asking “Why” – relationship advice should go full circle. “why” is a triggering word because it reminds us of other things. Replace with a “How” or “What” question – all advice goes both ways 3:30 – empathy while balancing authenticity and learned skills 7:30 – move perceptions away from your personality: “it seems/looks/sounds like” – have the chance to be wrong and not fixed to your perceptions – assign the issue to a behavior, not to a person 13:00 – “I can’t make you feel anything” & feelings are immediate and unconscious 18:00 – gratitude, kindness, presence, cortisol, adrenaline, creating safe and nurturing environments 30:00 – two or three sides to a story? “Set and enforce your boundaries, with love” 38:00 – a refusal of the call to adventure is a refusal to give up one’s own preferences/routines – in the hero’s journey and in love / state your preference and offer a true choice is the most powerful thing you can do 43:00 – the difference between justifiable things to do and say and the right things to do and say 49:00 – the fear may be real, but the danger is not 51:00 – books “the happiest toddler on the block” “never split the difference” “seven principles for making marriage work “ “nonviolent communication” 54:00 – if you don’t feel heard, you need to listen better / comparisons can be one of the biggest source of growth and learning, just don’t take it personally 59:00 – choices based on empathy

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The Path podcast features interviews with anyone doing interesting and important work. I speak with military leaders, business professionals, scientists, researchers, start-up founders, and more. The conversations promote knowledge-sharing, proactive curiosity, and self-development to help you stay on your path. Listen on Apple Podcasts, SoundCloud, Spotify. If you enjoy the show, please consider leaving a comment and rating. This helps others to find the show. I appreciate all feedback and suggestions for guests or topics. Thank you! https://soundcloud.com/thepathpodcast https://open.spotify.com/show/72t4TROpwUt89DlQVZMUgq I am grateful for any support of my work via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thepathpodcast

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