The Patrick Custer Show

Patrick Custer
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Stories of transformation and survival from celebrities, artists and thought leaders offering hope to people facing similar storms. Brought to you by the creator of the 10x award‑winning series Rooted Recovery Stories, Patrick Custer invites each guest to get raw, real and vulnerable; pulling back the typical curtain shielding public figures, revealing their most human moments. Each episode dives into career highs, private struggles, honest conversations about life’s toughest experiences and the shame that keeps so many of us silent. Sharing the good, bad and ugly of how navigated their storm(s), what helped, what didn’t work and what life looks like now, on the other side. Expect laughter and tears as you finish each episode reminded that you may be breaking or have already broken - but breaks heal stronger than before. This isn't the end, it's the beginning of you’re becoming! Blending humor and hope, The Patrick Custer Show proves that courage is forged in moments we never knew were possible, giving viewers and listeners a sense of community and a reminder that there’s always light on the other side of struggle.

Episodes

  1. 4D AGO

    From Real Housewives to the Presidential Campaign: Ryan Basham on Surviving False Realities of a High-Functioning Alcoholic Mother

    Political analyst Ryan Basham discusses addiction recovery and mental health after surviving the "Real Housewives" false realities of his high-functioning alcoholic mother. Imagine finding out the cameras were never there! We're bringing you to the heart of Nashville, inside our studio on Broadway for an in-depth conversation with former Presidential campaign advisor and Out100 honoree Ryan Basham pulls back the curtain on a childhood that was a "rigged script" long before he stepped into the political arena. If you have spent your life playing a part in a story you didn’t write, this conversation is your permission to tear it up. You are not broken—you are becoming. Ryan’s mother was the ultimate high-functioning alcoholic paradox: the charismatic, community-leading PTA President who maintained a polished public image while losing her battle with a bottle every single night. In this fascinating deep-dive, Ryan recounts the "alternate reality" his family was forced to maintain—one where facts were rewritten daily to validate the disease of addiction and protect a public facade of "perfection". This episode explores the psychological gymnastics required in dysfunctional homes and the "invisible" toll of keeping a secret for twenty years. “People become attached to their burdens, sometimes more than the burdens are attached to them.” — George Bernard Shaw This quote highlights the core "a-ha" moment: we often cling to familiar dysfunction even when it is drowning us . Whether you are navigating your own addiction or are the exhausted "peacekeeper" in a chaotic family script, there is enlightenment waiting. You have the power to stop being a character in someone else’s false reality. ━ ⏰ AUDIO CHAPTERS: 00:00 Life is Too Important to Take Seriously 01:25 Meet Ryan Basham: Out100 & Political Disruptor 04:30 Comedy as a Survival Skill 08:20 Hollywood Hills vs. Small Town Reality 11:05 The High-Functioning Alcoholic Mom Paradox 21:40 The Moment I Realized Mom was an Alcoholic 28:50 Surviving the Alternate Reality: Rewriting Facts 45:50 Shame vs. Accountability: The Mental Health Reframe 51:03 Lethal Love: Why Boundaries are Your "Air Hole" 54:15 Reclaiming Joy: The Ultimate Act of Defiance ━ 📌 TOP 3 TIPS FOR FAMILIES: Stop the Fact-Checking: You cannot cure someone else’s alternate reality. Shift energy to trusting your own internal truth .Prioritize Your "Air Hole": You cannot save someone from a storm if you are drowning alongside them. Support is not enabling .Reclaim Your Joy: Laughter is a biological survival mechanism and an act of defiance against a dysfunctional script . 📌 TOP 3 TIPS FOR THE "BECOMING" PROCESS: Dismantle Shame: Shame is a global attack on who you are; accountability is a focus on what you do .Embrace the Pivot: Your life doesn't have to follow the trajectory set by your trauma. Your most authentic self is found in the "becoming."Refuse to "Shrink to Fit": If your environment requires you to hide your truth, it is the wrong environment. Take up space . ━ 🛟 HELP RESOURCES: 👉 FOR INDIVIDUALS: - Addiction: · a...

    56 min

  2. JAN 22

    I Relapsed After 10 Years Sober. (Here's Why)

    Corey Warren had it all: money, a family, and 10 years sober. Then he drank one beer. In this episode, Corey joins Patrick Custer to dismantle the myth that you can "outgrow" addiction. We discuss the terrifying speed of his relapse—from one drink at a bar to blacking out daily in just 60 days—and the "successful failure" that nearly cost him his family. Corey reveals the specific moment that broke him: sitting on a luxury boat he bought to win his daughter’s affection, only to hear the six words that money couldn't fix. If you are chasing success to quiet your shame, or navigating the guilt of co-parenting, this conversation is the wake-up call you need. In this episode, we cover: The "10-Year Lie": Why long-term sobriety doesn't mean you're cured.The Boat Story: How trying to buy his daughter's love backfired.The "Radio Glitch": The unexplainable moment that forced Corey back into recovery."Work Sobriety": Why trading alcohol for 80-hour work weeks is just a different form of sickness.Parenting Through Guilt: How to stop performing for your kids and start connecting with them. Quotes from the episode: "I bought this boat to make my daughter love me. We were out there, sun shining, and she looked at me and said, 'Dad, I just really miss Mom.' It hit like a ton of bricks.""I didn't think I was an alcoholic anymore. I thought I was just a guy who used to drink too much. That lie cost me everything."Connect with Corey: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/icoreywarrenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@icoreywarrenYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@icoreywarrenWebsite: https://www.coreywarren.com Connect with Patrick: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepatrickcuster/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thepatrickcusterYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thepatrickcuster CHAPTERS: 0:00 - The "Do It For Yourself" Lie 01:16 - Welcome to The Patrick Custer Show 05:20 - "If I Had Cancer, I'd Ask For Help" 11:26 - "Dad, I Need My Tablet": Parenting & Addiction 20:22 - The "Normal Drinker" Jealousy...

    1h 9m

  3. JAN 7

    Andi Marie Tillman: "Aunt Pam," Speaking in Tongues & Healing Through the Dogma

    From "Slide Singing" Beyoncé to battling autoimmune disease—this is the wildest journey of healing you'll hear this year. Patrick sits down with viral comedian Andi Marie Tillman (and her alter-ego Aunt Pam) for a masterclass in satire and survival. We laugh at the absurdity of religious performance ("Belinda the Interpreter") so we can heal from the trauma of it. We Cover: The Comedy of Dogma: Why we laugh at the culture we grew up in.The "Victorian Woman": Andi’s hilarious take on chronic illness.Reconstruction: How to keep your faith when the system breaks.Sobriety: The reality of facing life without a buffer. Mentioned in this Episode: "All Her Fault" (Peacock)The "Skibidi Toilet" Phenomenon We dive into a hilariously candid conversation with comedian Andi Marie Tillman, who joins me, Patrick Custer, for a wild ride through her comedic journey and the ups and downs of life. Right off the bat, we chat about her unique approach to comedy, including her quirky tales of having a tongues interpreter who hilariously flips the script, interpreting her everyday chat into something utterly nonsensical. We also touch on her experiences with gratitude, health challenges, and the rollercoaster of recovery, all while keeping the laughs rolling. Andi's vibrant personality shines through as we explore her adventures in navigating life, relationships, and the struggle between public persona and personal reality. So, grab your favorite snack, kick back, and get ready for some belly laughs and heartfelt moments that remind us all that life is a beautifully messy journey! Diving into the vibrant world of comedy, this episode features a delightful chat between host Patrick Custer and the witty Andi Marie Tillman. From the get-go, the banter flows like a refreshing glass of lemonade on a hot summer day, as they explore the ups and downs of life, laughter, and everything in between. The conversation kicks off with Andi’s humorous take on the intricacies of life’s everyday challenges, including her witty commentary on being a mother and the delightful chaos that comes with it. With her unique perspective, Andi shares anecdotes that have the audience chuckling, all while weaving in meaningful insights about gratitude and resilience. “We have no idea what our life is going to actually look like,” she remarks, reminding us all to embrace uncertainty with a smile. As the episode progresses, Patrick and Andi delve into the nuances of self-identity, the importance of authenticity in comedy, and how humor can be a powerful tool for healing. Andi’s candidness about her own struggles with addiction and mental health adds depth to the conversation, making it not just a light-hearted romp but also a heartfelt exploration of overcoming adversity. She shares her journey of personal growth, emphasizing that while laughter is essential, acknowledging our struggles is equally crucial. “I want to cross between the Wiz and, like, gutter slut,” she quips, showcasing her ability to blend humor with real talk effortlessly. Listeners are treated to an emotional rollercoaster as Patrick and Andi navigate topics like societal expectations, the often unrealistic portrayal of life on social media, and the pressure to maintain a certain image. The episode wraps up on a high note, leaving audiences not only entertained but also inspired

    59 min

  4. 12/23/2025

    Forced Out: The Day Avalon Came to My House - Michael Passons (part 2)

    "They showed up at my house and told me I was no longer in the group." In Part 2, Michael Passons reveals the failed "cure" that cost him his career and the 17-year battle to reclaim his life.For nearly two decades, the official story was that Michael Passons left the multi-platinum group Avalon to "pursue other interests." Today, the silence ends. In this conclusion to our interview, Michael takes us inside the room on June 30, 2003, detailing the unannounced "intervention" at his home that erased him from the band he helped build. He opens up about the industry ultimatum - "get cured or get out" - and the reality of the "reparative therapy" sessions that failed to change who he was, but succeeded in breaking his spirit. But the trauma is only half the story. This episode is a masterclass in survival and healing. Michael shares how he navigated the "dark night of the soul" after being muzzled by NDAs and management , how he deconstructed the narrative that he was "broken," and how he finally made peace with the "boy in the mirror." The truth was brutal, but the healing is beautiful. Chapters & Timestamps:00:03. - The Ambush: "June 30, 2003: They Came to My House" 01:54. - The Secret: "I'm Gay" (Admitting the Lie) 05:20. - Family, faith and the barrier to belonging - the "othering" of LGBTQ+ people 08:47. - Reaching Out for Help 09:16. - Reparative Therapy: Calling Mike Malloy & The "Cure" That Failed 12:30. - The Process: Weekly Sessions at Reparative Therapy 17:10. - The Duality of Self 21:15. - The Spy: "Someone Saw Me at a Club" (The Beginning of the End) 23:02. - The "Purple Mirror": Industry Hypocrisy & Fake Marriages 23:18. - The Impact of Public Perception 30:20. - The Campaign: "Either He Go or I Go" (The Ultimatum) 30:39. - The End of the Road: Facing theConsequences 34:00. - The Aftermath: Becoming a Shell of a Person 34:48. - The Turning Point: Identity and Loss 40:31. - Deconstruction: Flattening the Boxes of Belief 41:02. - Rebuilding Belief Systems 44:50. - The Last Prejudice of the Church (Divorce vs. Gay Rights) 47:51. - Faith and Acceptance: A Journey of Understanding 54:12. - Navigating Identity and Belonging 58:10. - The "PR" Lie: "Pursuing Other Interests" & The NDA 59:25. - Reclaiming My...

    1h 33m

  5. 12/12/2025

    Michael Passons Breaks Silence: His Truth About Avalon, Christian Music & 20‑Year Return (Part 1)

    Part 1 of 2: Discover the untold story behind one of Christian music’s biggest voices. In his most in‑depth interview ever, Michael Passons, founding member of the GRAMMY‑nominated group Avalon, sits down with Patrick Custer to share the highs, lows and hidden battles that shaped his journey. From singing hymns as a toddler in Yazoo City, Mississippi, to being discovered by Sparrow Records and launching Avalon in 1995, Michael takes you behind the scenes of the group’s meteoric rise. Hear how hits like “Testify to Love,” now considered a gospel classic, nearly didn’t make the cut, and why the band’s ABBA‑inspired sound stood out in the CCM world. This rare conversation explores themes of mental health, faith and resilience without shying away from the pressure of fame, imposter syndrome and the weight of carrying a secret. Michael reflects on his connection to his mother, the power of music as therapy, and what it felt like to juggle creative success with personal turmoil. If you’ve ever struggled with perfectionism, wondered what happens backstage, or simply need encouragement on your own healing journey, this episode is for you. And the story isn’t over - Part 1 ends just before a life‑changing revelation that will forever alter Michael’s path. In Part 2 we’ll dive into that revelation, the fallout that forced him out of Avalon, and how he rebuilt his life and faith while preparing to return to music after nearly twenty years away from the spotlight. Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss it. Takeaways: In the podcast, we dive into how Avalon went from being unknown to winning an American Music Award, which was a total game changer for us!Michael Passons shares his journey of stepping into the spotlight, facing challenges, and navigating the complexities of fame in Christian music.We discuss the evolution of Avalon's sound and how our management played a crucial role in shaping our success during the 90s music scene.The episode highlights the importance of being true to oneself while managing public expectations, especially in the Christian music industry.We explore the rollercoaster of emotions that come with fame, including the struggle with imposter syndrome and the pressure to maintain a certain image.Michael's heartfelt stories remind us that behind every successful artist, there are personal battles and moments of vulnerability that shape their journey. - Are you ready to heal and grow? Start your journey with me by signing up at thepatrickcustershow.com 👈 for exclusive updates, resources and behind‑the‑scenes insights from each episode. It’s your invitation to experience “entertainment that heals,” where vulnerability becomes strength and hope is contagious. Please click Follow on this page so you never miss an episode (and help us continue to change lives) — I appreciate every single one of you for joining this community. Whether you’re here for your own growth or because someone you love shared this conversation, I’m grateful you’re listening and want to welcome you to The Patrick Custer Show family. Please pass this episode along to friends, family and anyone who might need a lift. When we open up about our struggles and triumphs, we remind each other that we’re not broken, we’re becoming. Subscribe to my YouTube...

    53 min

  6. 11/24/2025

    Series Premier: Country Music's Annie Bosko Reveals Mental Health Struggles & Nashville Industry Realities

    THIS IS IT - The premiere of The Patrick Custer Show! We're kicking this podcast off with a conversation that is relatable for us all and hits the core of Patrick's mission: The journey of finding your voice—literally and metaphorically. Ever been told you’ll never get better? In this powerful debut episode, Patrick Custer and California Cowgirl Annie Bosko unpack her journey; from singing at her great‑grandmother’s funeral at five to fighting for her physical voice again after a devastating vocal injury and her inner voice for the power to fight back when business betrayal in the music industry machine tried to take her power and agency from her. You’ll hear how she hid her California roots in Nashville, fought perfectionism and depression, and learned to ask for help when everything fell apart. They dive into therapy, faith, and the gritty reality of being a woman in country music—and why Annie believes every “no” is just a “not yet”: We discuss how she turned her struggles into opportunities, leading to collaborations with legends like Amy Grant, Vince Gill, Dwight Yoakam & opening for Dolly Parton at Caesars Palace! So, grab your headphones and get ready for some entertaining stories, heartfelt moments, and a whole lot of inspiration! Show Highlights:Early performing roots: turning household surfaces into stages; singing “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” at her great‑grandmother’s funeral at five.Breakthrough moments: landing The Little Mermaid II soundtrack at 13; singing jingles and studio work; moving from California to Nashville.Country‑music identity: hiding her California background to fit in; eventually embracing her “California Cowgirl” roots.Voice loss & recovery: discovering a vascular lesion during a Broadway gig; enduring surgery, rehab and the pandemic.Therapy & mental health: learning to ask for help, dealing with perfectionism, and letting go of people‑pleasing.Rejection, patience & persistence: every “no” becomes a “not yet”—including later collaborations with Dwight Yoakam, Darius Rucker, Vince Gill and Dolly Parton.Boundaries & relationships: applying her grandmother’s “80% rule,” standing firm on family and faith values, and learning not to compromise her core beliefs. Are you ready to heal and grow? Start your journey with me by signing up at thepatrickcustershow.com 👈 for exclusive updates, resources and behind‑the‑scenes insights from each episode. It’s your invitation to experience “entertainment that heals,” where vulnerability becomes strength and hope is contagious. Please click Follow on this page so you never miss an episode (and help us continue to change lives) — I appreciate every single one of you for joining this community. Whether you’re here for your own growth or because someone you love shared this conversation, I’m grateful you’re listening and want to welcome you to The Patrick Custer Show family. Please pass this episode along to friends, family and anyone who might need a lift. When we open up about our struggles and triumphs, we remind each other that we’re not broken,...

    52 min
  • 6 Episodes

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Stories of transformation and survival from celebrities, artists and thought leaders offering hope to people facing similar storms. Brought to you by the creator of the 10x award‑winning series Rooted Recovery Stories, Patrick Custer invites each guest to get raw, real and vulnerable; pulling back the typical curtain shielding public figures, revealing their most human moments. Each episode dives into career highs, private struggles, honest conversations about life’s toughest experiences and the shame that keeps so many of us silent. Sharing the good, bad and ugly of how navigated their storm(s), what helped, what didn’t work and what life looks like now, on the other side. Expect laughter and tears as you finish each episode reminded that you may be breaking or have already broken - but breaks heal stronger than before. This isn't the end, it's the beginning of you’re becoming! Blending humor and hope, The Patrick Custer Show proves that courage is forged in moments we never knew were possible, giving viewers and listeners a sense of community and a reminder that there’s always light on the other side of struggle.

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  • Creator
    Patrick Custer
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    6
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Patrick Custer
  • Show Website
    The Patrick Custer Show

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