The Pausecast

Rachael O'Meara || The Pausecast
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The Pausecast podcast helps high-achieving leaders move beyond overwhelm and self-doubt to reclaim their confidence in their next career steps using Emotional Intelligence, Neuroscience, Mindfulness, and more. Hosted by Rachael O’Meara, MBA, MA, is a PCC executive coach with over a decade at Google and co-founder of SIC Venture Studio. Her 3 books 'Pause', 'Pause the Journal', and her latest collaboration 'Leading with Self-Awareness' are key resources for career growth. Her work is featured in the NYT, WSJ, HBR, and TEDx.

  1. 8H AGO

    Ep. 244 9 Years Later… Pause Matters More Than Ever

    Nine years ago, Pause was a helpful idea when the book came out April 4, 2017.Today, it’s essential. In this pause-a-versary episode, I share what's different, and what's the same over the past 9 years pause has been in the wild. I reflect on what’s changed, and why the cost of staying in overdrive is not sustainable - esp. in our era of AI, 24x7, even the trendy 996 worklife. The point is, that works great. Until, it doesn't. The facts speak for themselves, from 2025: 📉 82% of workers are at risk of burnout.🧠 Multitasking is lowering our IQ and increasing errors.📲 We’re processing up to 70,000 messages a day. This isn’t just about pace.It’s about what that pace is doing to your clarity, energy, and leadership. From my experience at Google to the leaders I coach today, I’m seeing the same pattern: high performance on the outside… disconnection underneath. And this is where pause becomes a skill. ✨ Why pause matters more now than it did 9 years ago🧠 What’s happening in your brain when you’re stuck in overdrive⚡ The hidden cost of “always on”🌿 How intentional pause restores clarity and grounded confidence Inspired by Viktor Frankl, we come back to one truth: There is a space between stimulus and response.And in that space… is your power. But most leaders have lost access to it. In this episode, I share the TASER technique—a practical way to interrupt stress in real time—and explore how AI and constant input are accelerating the need for pause, not replacing it. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, checked out, or stuck in constant motion, this is your invitation to recalibrate. Because your next level won’t come from doing more. It comes from knowing when—and how—to pause. If something in this conversation made you stop… don’t skip past it. That’s your signal. Pause will help you listen—and lead from a place that actually feels aligned. Get or gift the book - audio, print or digital.

    17 min
  2. Ep. 243 Getting Real with Sharon Salzberg

    MAR 31

    Ep. 243 Getting Real with Sharon Salzberg

    In this Ep. 243, I sit down with Sharon Salzberg, renoun author and someone known for helping the western world "learn how to meditate." We unpack what “pause” really means in the business world. Not silence, not shutting your mind off, but learning how to meet your thoughts, your stress, your inner noise with clarity and presence. If slowing down feels uncomfortable, or even a little threatening, you’re not alone. This conversation will help you understand why, and show you a more grounded way in. We explore:• Why meditation isn’t about emptying your mind, it’s about changing your relationship to it• What’s actually underneath the discomfort of stillness, and how to move through it• How to create mutual relationships, and what happens when you truly see someone eye to eye• Simple ways to shift your perspective, interrupt autopilot, and reconnect to your energy Sharon brings decades of practice, along with insights from her book Real Love, to make this work feel accessible and real. Not perfect, not performative, but human. This episode is for you if you’ve been running on empty, questioning your next step, or quietly wondering if there’s another way to lead and live. Because the truth is, pause isn’t a luxury. It’s a skill. And it might be the one thing that changes everything. If this resonates, reach out. You don’t have to figure it out alone. About Sharon Salzberg Sharon Salzberg is a meditation pioneer, world-renowned teacher, NY Times bestselling author of fourteen books, and co-founder of the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Massachusetts. She is among the first to bring meditation to mainstream American culture over fifty years ago, inspiring generations of meditation teachers and wellness influencers. www.sharonsalzberg.com About Rachael O'Meara, Pausecast Host, Speaker and Author Rachael O'Meara, MBA, MA, PCC helps high achieving leaders move beyond overwhelm and self-doubt to reclaim their confidence and make their next big career move. Her book Pause was a top business book for your career based on her burnout of Google, and she has been featured in the New York Times, WSJ.com, HBR and on the TEDx stage.

    46 min

  3. MAR 24

    Ep. 242: Layoffs & AI: The Real Fear No One Talks About

    👉 It’s not just layoffs or AI—it’s an identity shift. If your role changed tomorrow… who would you be? 👀 It’s not just layoffs.It’s not even just AI. It’s the quiet question many high achieving leaders are sitting with right now:“If my role changes… or disappears… who am I?” In this episode, we go beyond surface-level career anxiety and into what’s really happening underneath...an identity shift. If you’ve been feeling unsettled, questioning your next move, or noticing yourself overworking, overthinking, or pulling back, chances are this episode will help you make sense of it. You’ll learn: Why this time in tech (er...maybe the entire planet!?) is triggering deeper identity questions The 3 uncomfortable truths about identity shifts (and why they feel so hard!) Why you can’t think your way through this and what actually helps How to navigate the “in-between” without losing confidence Simple ways to ground your energy so you can take your next step This isn’t about having all the answers.It’s about learning how to move through uncertainty with more clarity, self-trust, and intention. If you’re in a moment of transition, chosen or not, you’re not alone. And you don’t have to rush your way through it. Watch on YouTube. Next Steps & Support: DM me “identity” for tools to support you. Or reach out if you’re navigating a transition and want deeper 1:1 support.

    28 min

  4. MAR 17

    Ep. 241 🎙️ Ruthless Priorities, Relationships, and Resetting for Tech Careers

    "Where do you prioritize, ruthlessly prioritize, and where do you focus your time and your energy? It's about investing in meaningful relationships and creating balance." - Alyssa Stein, Sr. Director, Cisco In this episode, VIP guest Alyssa Stein, Senior Director at Cisco, shares a rare, grounded look at what it actually takes to step into a new leadership role with confidence, clarity, and influence. When you switch roles, it’s not about proving yourself fast—it’s about leading wisely from day one. ⏸️ 💼 After 15 years at Google, Alyssa made a major transition—becoming “new again” at a senior level. She opens up about how she approached this shift intentionally: setting boundaries early, prioritizing what truly mattered, and resisting the pressure to over perform or over explain. Alyssa also reflects on some of her most defining leadership moments—leading through layoffs with compassion, hosting a global leadership offsite in Cleveland, and doubling down on culture and relationships during uncertain times. Her perspective is steady, human, and deeply earned. Throughout the conversation, Alyssa shares practical wisdom on: How to ruthlessly prioritize when everything feels important Why boundaries are a leadership strength—not a liability How to stay confident and influential without burning yourself out And how to remember that you are more than your job, even in high-stakes roles Key Moments 00:15 - Alyssa's proudest career moment 02:17 - Building culture through people and the importance of reconnecting 03:48 - Challenging moments: navigating layoffs with compassion and support 05:27 - The power of pause: reflecting in turbulent times 06:48 - Resilience after burnout and the importance of grit 08:20 - Alyssa’s "one simple thing" for maintaining work-life balance: family routines 09:43 - Modeling kindness and empathy at home and in leadership 13:24 - The value of ruthlessly prioritizing and setting boundaries 16:20 - Navigating new roles and the learning curve in large organizations 20:23 - Building relationships in remote and startup environments 22:52 - Practical advice for visibility in fast-paced workplaces 23:22 - Guidance for feeling stuck or stagnant: taking one step at a time 24:37 - Closing thoughts and commitments to personal and professional development LINKS ⁠⁠Alyssa Stein - LinkedIn⁠⁠ — Connect with Alyssa for leadership insights ⁠Rachael's book: Pause⁠ — The concept Alyssa references for reflection and resilience If you’re stepping into a new tech leadership role—or quietly questioning how to lead with more confidence and less self-pressure—Alyssa’s story will resonate deeply. 🌿

    23 min

  5. MAR 10

    Ep. 240 Lead Your Career Like a System: SRE Wisdom for Burnout-Free Tech Careers

    What if you managed your career, energy, and life the same way elite engineers manage mission-critical systems? In Ep 240 of The Pausecast, I chat with Jennifer Petoff, a former PhD chemist turned SRE leader at Google, to explore how Site Reliability Engineering principles can radically change how you work—and live. This is a must-listen for anyone in tech who feels stretched thin, quietly burnt out, or craving a more intentional way to lead without stepping off the fast track. ⚡🧠 Jennifer shares how she applied SRE concepts like capacity planning, load shedding, blameless learning, and North Star decision-making to her own career—and why treating your life like a system isn’t cold or rigid, but deeply human and freeing. We talk about designing a career that’s sustainable, values-aligned, and resilient—especially in fast-moving tech environments where “just push harder” is the default. If you want to lead with clarity (not chaos), this conversation will land. 🌊💙 Highlights You Don’t Want to Miss 5:02 - Celebrating the success of the Google SRE book and its industry influence 10:20 - The significance of capacity planning and load shedding in life11:44 - Using technical strategies to set boundaries and manage workload 15:48 — Why your career deserves the same systems thinking as production code 16:00 — Defining your North Star when every opportunity looks “good on paper” 17:16 — How blameless learning unlocks confidence, growth, and better decisions Themes From PhD chemist → SRE leader: Jennifer’s unconventional path Using SRE principles to prevent burnout (before it happens) Capacity planning + load shedding as real-life leadership skills Why blameless postmortems build stronger teams and stronger humans Designing work around life—not the other way around Investing in yourself through thoughtful risk-taking and thought leadership If you’re in tech and craving a smarter, calmer, more intentional way to lead—this episode is for you. And if this resonates, share it with a colleague who’s carrying too much quietly. That’s how culture shifts start. 💬✨ MORE INFO LINKS: Site Reliability Engineering (SRE) Book — Free downloadable PDF Connect with Jennifer Petoff LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/jenniferpetoff Jennifer's website, The Reliable PgM: https://www.reliablepgm.com/ Getting Things Done by David Allen — Methodology for workload and task management

    31 min
  6. Ep. 239 How to Recharge Tech Leadership: Full Spirit Workout

    MAR 3

    Ep. 239 How to Recharge Tech Leadership: Full Spirit Workout

    Ever feel like your career is moving fast, but your energy and focus aren’t keeping up? What if the secret to leading at your best isn’t doing more, but resetting smarter? In episode 239 of The Pausecast, I talk with Kate Eckman, executive coach, performance expert, and author of The Full Spirit Workout, about practical strategies to boost energy, focus, and resilience—without adding more hours to your day. Experience a leadership-focused pause led by Kate to reset energy Kate’s journey and the methodology behind The Full Spirit WorkoutHow small “energy lifts” (endorphins without exercise) can improve focus and decision-making Why savoring wins and moments is critical for sustained performanceKate’s favorite gratitude exercise for boosting mindset and resilience Actionable ways to start your Full Spirit Workout todayHow Kate maintains her own high-performance edgeRethinking sleep and recovery as tools for leadership excellence Why you Need to Know Kate: Kate is a Columbia-certified executive coach, performance strategist, and leadership mentor. She draws on neuroscience, positive psychology, and whole-person coaching to equip high-achieving leaders in tech with tools to manage energy, prevent burnout, and lead with clarity and impact. Explore more of her work and her book at: kateeckman.tv

    41 min
  7. Ep. 235 When Success Isn’t Enough: A Career Wake-Up Call w Sandra Ma

    FEB 24

    Ep. 235 When Success Isn’t Enough: A Career Wake-Up Call w Sandra Ma

    In The Pausecast Ep. 235, Rachael O’Meara sits down with tech entrepreneur Sandra Ma for a refreshingly honest conversation about career reinvention, leaving big tech, leadership, and joy at work. Sandra shares her journey from starting out in finance, to MTV, to Google, to co-founding Jovial, a startup dedicated to helping teams build more human, joyful, and impactful workplace cultures. Together, Rachael and Sandra explore what happens when external success no longer feels like enough—and the inner nudges that signal it’s time for something more. This episode is for leaders who are doing “all the right things,” yet quietly wondering if there’s another way to work, lead, and live. You’ll hear candid reflections on investing in yourself, navigating uncertainty, breaking free from autopilot, and remembering that—sometimes—it’s really not that serious. A grounding, perspective-shifting conversation for anyone craving more meaning, joy, and agency in their career journey. Pause-worthy moments: It’s okay to still be figuring out who you’re becoming—even at the top of your game Wanting more impact doesn’t mean something is wrong—it means you’re evolving Joyful, human-centered workplaces are possible—and necessary The interview process is as much for you as it is for the employer Entrepreneurship can be the fastest personal growth accelerator there is Perspective is leadership: we often forget to zoom out Work matters—but your whole life matters more Standout sound bites: “I’m still figuring out what I want to be.” “We get so caught up in our own lives.” “It’s not that serious.” Episode Chapters 00:00 – Introduction & Sandra’s background 03:14 – From corporate success to startup curiosity 06:09 – Founding Jovial and reimagining workplace culture 08:45 – Navigating uncertainty, mistakes, and growth 11:35 – Investing in yourself through coaching and inner work 14:09 – What success looks like now 16:45 – Finding balance and perspective in a busy world 19:36 – Final reflections on joy, impact, and leadership

    25 min

  8. FEB 17

    Ep. 238: From Self-Doubt to Strategic Clarity w Product Manager Chealsea Wierbonski

    The path from humble beginnings to tech leadership isn’t linear—and it’s rarely just about working harder. In this honest conversation, I sit down with Chelsea Wierbonski, a 20+ year seasoned product leader and coach in big tech, to unpack the inner work required to lead with clarity when the pace is relentless and the pressure is real. Chelsea opens up about navigating imposter syndrome, chronic self-doubt, and the invisible stories many high-achievers carry—especially in fast-moving tech environments. We talk about what happens when success looks good on the outside, but doesn’t feel aligned on the inside—and how to close that gap. You’ll hear how Chelsea shifted from scarcity and over-efforting into grounded self-trust, using practical tools like nervous system regulation, mindset work, breathwork, meditation, and understanding how the brain actually rewires patterns of fear and self-protection. This episode is for leaders who are ready to stop muscling through and start leading from a place of clarity, confidence, and internal safety—without waiting for burnout to force the change. If you’re quietly thinking about your next chapter, questioning your path, or feeling like your potential is capped by old patterns—this conversation offers a grounded, real-world way forward. Key Themes Why high performers still struggle with self-doubt The inner work behind sustainable confidence in tech leadership How scarcity mindset shows up at work (and how to shift it) Nervous system regulation protocols for high-pressure environments Rewiring subconscious beliefs to support your next career move Creating aligned change without burning out 🎧 Listen in to learn how to move from “I’m stuck” to “I trust myself to choose what’s next.” Connect with Chealsea on Linkedin here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chealsea/

    24 min
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The Pausecast podcast helps high-achieving leaders move beyond overwhelm and self-doubt to reclaim their confidence in their next career steps using Emotional Intelligence, Neuroscience, Mindfulness, and more. Hosted by Rachael O’Meara, MBA, MA, is a PCC executive coach with over a decade at Google and co-founder of SIC Venture Studio. Her 3 books 'Pause', 'Pause the Journal', and her latest collaboration 'Leading with Self-Awareness' are key resources for career growth. Her work is featured in the NYT, WSJ, HBR, and TEDx.

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    Rachael O'Meara || The Pausecast
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    238
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