The Play Base

PodPopuli Media

Welcome to The Play Date - a podcast where heart meets science, play meets purpose, and conversations build connection. I’m your host, Frances Fishman, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, educator, mom of three, and founder of The Play Base.Each week, we invite you to pull up a chair and join us for real conversations with experts, parents, therapists, and educators who are passionate about helping children thrive. From mental health to ABA, from the classroom to the therapy room—we’re here to learn, laugh, and grow together.Whether you're a parent, professional, or just someone who cares deeply about kids, this podcast is your invitation to explore, understand, and support the beautiful complexity of childhood.So grab your coffee... and let’s have a play date.

  1. 9H AGO

    Ep. 28 - Building the Foundation First with Paulette Cormier

    In this episode of The Playbase Podcast, Frances sits down with Paulette Cormier to explore the powerful connection between the body, the brain, reflex integration, movement, hearing, regulation, and learning. Paulette shares her journey from teacher and mother to practitioner, beginning with her search for support for her own son’s learning challenges. That path led her to Relationship Development Intervention, MNRI, developmental movement, and auditory integration training. Together, Frances and Paulette discuss why development is not just about academics, why primitive reflexes matter, how tummy time supports future learning, and why some children may struggle when foundational body-based systems are not fully integrated. This conversation is an eye-opening reminder that when a child is struggling socially, behaviorally, academically, or physically, we have to look beneath the surface. Before we build higher-level skills, we need to understand the foundation. Show Notes In this episode, Frances and Paulette discuss: Paulette’s journey as a teacher, mother, and practitionerHow her son’s learning challenges led her to alternative therapiesRelationship Development Intervention, also known as RDIThe importance of the parent-child relationship in learningWhy development happens through connection, guidance, and trustWhat MNRI is and how Paulette discovered itPrimitive reflexes and why they matterHow reflexes support early movement, learning, regulation, and developmentWhy babies need tummy timeThe connection between neck strength, core strength, and later skillsHow reflexes can impact speech, writing, movement, balance, vision, and behaviorThe importance of developmental movementWhy some children are uncomfortable in their bodiesHow reflex integration can support children with autism, learning challenges, sensory needs, and regulation difficultiesWhy early intervention mattersHow older children and teens can still benefit from reflex integrationThe connection between vision, movement, and reflexesWhy some children may struggle with vision therapy before their bodies are readyAuditory Integration Training and sound sensitivitiesWhy some children experience sound as physically overwhelmingThe impact of COVID on children’s tolerance, regulation, and sensory systemsWhy therapy should meet the child where they are developmentallyHow to know whether a child needs foundational support before higher-level therapiesKey Takeaway When a child is struggling, we have to ask where the gap began. Sometimes the most meaningful support does not start with academics, behavior plans, or skill drills. Sometimes it starts with the body. Reflection from Paulette If your child is struggling, think about building a house. If there is a crack in the foundation, you would not start by putting new shingles on the roof. You would go back and repair the foundation first. Closing Thought Before we ask children to build higher-level skills, we need to make sure their foundation is strong enough to support them. Connect with Paulette Cormier 🌐 Website: https://paulette-cormier.squarespace.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rainbowconnectionstherapies/ Connect with The Play Base 🌐 Website: www.us.theplaybase.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theplaybase/ 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theplaybase

    1h 2m
  2. MAY 19

    Ep. 27 - All the World Is a Classroom with Thabatta Mizrahi

    In this heart-centered episode of The Playbase Podcast, Frances sits down with Thabatta Mizrahi, educator, consultant, university lecturer, and strategic educational partnership builder. Thabatta shares how growing up as the oldest sibling in an immigrant family, with two siblings with different special needs, shaped the way she sees the world. Rather than seeing people through labels or limitations, she was raised to see a spectrum of abilities, strengths, and gifts. Frances and Thabatta explore what it means to educate all learners, why relationship is the foundation of learning, and how inclusion has evolved over time. They speak deeply about strength-based education, the responsibility teachers carry, and the beauty of seeing every child as a whole human being, not a problem to be fixed. This episode is a powerful reminder that education does not only happen inside a classroom. Every relationship is an opportunity to teach, learn, connect, and see one another more fully. Show Notes In this episode, Frances and Thabatta discuss: Thabatta’s work at the University of MiamiTeaching future educators how to differentiate instructionWhat it means to meet the needs of all learnersBuilding partnerships between universities, schools, nonprofits, museums, and community organizationsThabatta’s consulting work with schools, parents, and childrenWhy she never wanted to choose only one group to serveGrowing up as the oldest child in an immigrant familyHow her siblings shaped her lens on education and humanityThe difference between visible and invisible disabilitiesWhy labels can limit the way we see peopleThe evolution of inclusion, mainstreaming, and special educationWhy all educators need tools from both general and special educationThe importance of strength-based teachingWhy children are not problems to be fixedHow educators can see the individuality of every studentThe role of connection, trust, and relationship in learningHow teachers can become vessels for information, inspiration, and possibilityThe power of being seen, heard, and understoodWhy we are all educators, even outside formal classroomsReflection Question from Thabatta If all the world is a classroom, how are you navigating your responsibility as an educator in your relationships, your family, your work, and your community? Closing Thought You do not have to be a teacher to be an educator. Every interaction is an opportunity to model, teach, connect, and help someone feel seen. Connect with Thabatta Mizrahi 🌐 Website: https://www.thabattasm.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thabattasm/ Connect with The Play Base 🌐 Website: www.us.theplaybase.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theplaybase/ 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theplaybase

    39 min
  3. MAY 12

    Ep. 26 - Finding the Light: Leadership, Resilience, and the Bagpipe Story with Chris D’Angelo

    In this powerful episode of The Playbase Podcast, Frances sits down with Chris D’Angelo, a student leader, athlete, musician, and deeply inspiring young man whose story is a reminder that purpose can be found even in life’s hardest moments. Chris shares the story of tearing his ACL and meniscus during football season, an injury that took him off the lacrosse field and away from a major part of his identity. Instead of stepping back from his team, Chris found a new way to lead. Inspired by Notre Dame’s lacrosse bagpipe tradition, he committed to learning the bagpipes in just three and a half months so he could walk his St. Andrews lacrosse team onto the field. What began as a devastating injury became a story of grit, leadership, identity, and purpose. Frances and Chris also talk about what it means to be a true leader, the lessons team sports teach beyond the game, and how Chris’s older brother, Nick, who is autistic, has shaped the way Chris sees the world, understands compassion, and leads with heart. This episode is a beautiful reminder that leadership is not always about being the loudest, strongest, or most visible person on the field. Sometimes leadership is showing up in a new way when life changes the plan. Show Notes In this episode, Frances and Chris explore: Chris’s ACL and meniscus injury during a district championship football gameThe emotional impact of being sidelined from football and lacrosseHow losing access to sports challenged Chris’s sense of identityThe moment his friend showed him Notre Dame’s bagpipe traditionWhy Chris decided to learn the bagpipes for his lacrosse teamThe discipline it took to practice through surgery, pain, and recoveryHow the bagpipes became a new way for Chris to serve and leadThe deeper meaning of leadership as putting the team before yourselfHow team sports teach grit, resilience, communication, and connectionThe role of purpose in moving through dark or difficult timesChris’s experience growing up with his brother Nick, who is autisticHow Nick’s joy, resilience, and perspective shaped Chris’s heartThe importance of seeing people for who they are, not how they appearWhy understanding creates compassionHow light can still be found at the end of a difficult tunnelReflection Question from Chris Is it really that bad? Chris invites listeners to pause, gain perspective, count their blessings, and remember that even when something feels heavy, there may still be light, purpose, and possibility ahead. Closing Thought There is always light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes you just have to find it, hold onto your purpose, and keep going. Connect with Chris D’Angelo 📸 Instagram:  Connect with The Play Base 🌐 Website: www.us.theplaybase.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theplaybase/ 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theplaybase

    51 min
  4. MAY 5

    Ep. 25 - Raising Little Learners with Melissa Markus, The Kindergarten Mom

    In this heartfelt and practical episode, Frances sits down with educator, creator, and content powerhouse Melissa Markus, known online as The Kindergarten Mom. A former dance friend turned inspiring voice for parents and teachers, Melissa shares how her platform began, what continues to drive her, and why the kindergarten years are some of the most important in a child’s development. Together, they explore the beauty and complexity of early childhood education, the power of movement and routine, the importance of advocating for children, and what it means to truly meet kids where they are. This conversation is filled with wisdom for parents, educators, and anyone who wants to better understand how young children learn, grow, and thrive. Show notes In this episode of The Playbase, Frances reconnects with old friend Melissa Markus, educator, creator, and the voice behind The Kindergarten Mom. Melissa shares how her online platform was born out of a season of change, motherhood, and a deep desire to continue contributing meaningfully to families and children outside the classroom. What started as a way to share ideas and support others grew into a trusted space where parents and teachers can find practical resources, honest insight, and encouragement. Frances and Melissa dive into the early years of childhood development, why kindergarten matters so much, how movement supports learning, and what teachers are really balancing behind the scenes. They also talk about advocacy, communication between parents and educators, and how to support children without forcing them into a box. This episode is a beautiful reminder that children do not all learn the same way, and that when we slow down, observe, and respond with intention, we create space for them to thrive. In this episode, we talk about: How Melissa created The Kindergarten MomThe joy and challenges of being both a teacher and a momWhy the kindergarten years are so foundationalPlay based learning and the role of explicit instructionHow movement supports attention, regulation, and learningWhy calm corners and flexible classroom supports matterThe importance of parent teacher partnershipHow to advocate for your child respectfully and effectivelyLooking beyond behavior to understand what a child truly needsKey takeaways Kindergarten is not just babysitting. It is a deeply important stage of developmentMovement is not extra. It is often essential for learning and regulationChildren do better when they feel safe, supported, and understoodA child’s behavior is communication, not a character flawParents know their children deeply, and respectful advocacy mattersTeachers and parents work best when they see each other as teammatesThere is no one right way to learn, engage, or growMemorable themes from the episode Meeting kids where they are Not every child learns, sits, processes, or participates in the same way, and that is okay. Regulate before you react Children need adults who can pause, zoom out, and respond with intention. Support over shame The goal is never to force children into a mold, but to understand them and give them the tools they need to thrive. Connect with Melissa Markus 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekindergartenmom/ Connect with The Play Base 🌐 Website: www.us.theplaybase.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theplaybase/ 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theplaybase

    1 hr
  5. APR 28

    Ep. 24 - Stop Treating Kids in a Bubble: The Power of Whole-Family Support with Dr. Ryan Seidman

    In this episode of The Play Base Podcast, Frances sits down with Dr. Ryan Seidman- licensed clinical psychologist, clinical director of The Children’s Center, and a true champion for collaborative care. Together, they unpack one of the biggest problems in child treatment today: support happening in isolated “bubbles.” Therapy in one place, school in another, behavior supports somewhere else, while parents are left trying to stitch it all together. Dr. Seidman shares why her clinic was built on a whole-family, team-based approach (therapy, psychiatry, behavioral services, and education services under one roof) and then drops the big news: a brand-new school model launching in the fall designed specifically for children who learn differently and need more support before transitioning into a traditional classroom setting. What you’ll hear in this episode Why therapy “in a bubble” limits progress and why teams matterWhat true collaborative care looks like across home, school, and clinicParental involvement: not “parent training,” but coaching + empowermentThe extra complexity of co-parenting/divorce and inconsistent environmentsWhy kids can behave completely differently across settings and what it meansThe hidden cost of waiting: how conditioning hardens patterns over timeEarly intervention, brain development, and why it’s easier to build skills earlierHow movement access (not a 1:1 aide) is sometimes the real “intervention”How to protect a child’s personality while still teaching boundaries and skillsThe big announcement Dr. Seidman shares that The Children’s Center is opening three small classrooms (starting in the fall) for children who need more developmental and educational support in a setting that integrates: High-quality educationBehavioral-based servicesSpeech servicesOccupational therapySocial learning + enrichment (art, music, etc.)The model is intentionally small- max ~6 students per classroom, with the goal of supporting kids developmentally and emotionally so they can transition successfully into a traditional kindergarten or school setting when ready. Memorable moments and reframes “We can’t hand a child off to therapy and expect them to return to the same environment and magically respond differently.”Support = hands out while they learn balance. Not a label. Not a life sentence.Sometimes the child doesn’t need an RBT, they need movement access.The goal isn’t dependence. The goal is independence. (Therapy should help kids “graduate,” not stay forever.)Parents are the experts on their child. Clinicians bring tools, not judgment.The Children’s Center Address: 4600 Linton Blvd (east of Linton & Military) Services available: PsychiatryPsychologyBehavioral servicesEducation servicesPlus: new integrated classroom program launching in the fall (additional 5,000 sq ft)Closing reflection for listeners (Dr. Seidman’s question) “How can we best understand our child’s strengths and weaknesses, so we can set them up to be successful not just in school, but in friendships, activities, and home life?” A reminder that the goal isn’t forcing a child into a mold—it’s getting creative, meeting them where they are, and building the path that helps them thrive. Connect with Dr. Ryan Seidman 🌐 Website: https://www.centerforanxietydisorders.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonstudioinc/?hl=en Connect with The Play Base 🌐 Website: www.us.theplaybase.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theplaybase/ 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theplaybase

    53 min
  6. APR 21

    Ep. 23 - More Than the Game: Coaching, Identity, and Finding Your Purpose with Nikita Krivokrasov

    In this deeply moving episode, Frances sits down with hockey coach Nikita Krivokrasov for a conversation that goes far beyond the ice. Together, they explore identity, resilience, failure, purpose, and what it truly means to impact others. Nikita shares his personal journey through the highs and lows of pursuing hockey at a high level, the emotional weight of unmet expectations, and the powerful shift that came from letting go of control and embracing the present moment. Through coaching, he has found not just a new path, but a deeper purpose—helping others believe in themselves, push through adversity, and grow into who they are meant to be. This episode is about more than sports. It is about being human, doing the inner work, and choosing to turn pain into purpose. Show notes What happens when the identity you’ve built your entire life around suddenly shifts? In this episode, Frances is joined by Nikita Krivokrasov, a hockey coach whose impact reaches far beyond the rink. What begins as a conversation about coaching quickly unfolds into a powerful discussion about identity, failure, healing, and purpose. Nikita opens up about his journey through competitive hockey, the internal battles he faced, and how working with young athletes helped him rediscover joy, presence, and meaning. Frances and Nikita explore what it means to lead with both strength and compassion, how to connect deeply with others, and why living in the present moment is one of the most powerful tools we have. This conversation is a reminder that sometimes the path we didn’t plan is the one that leads us exactly where we’re meant to be. In this episode, we talk about: The connection between coaching, behavior, and human developmentHow to truly connect with and understand peopleNavigating identity after a major life shift or setbackLetting go of control and learning to live in the presentThe role of failure, adversity, and emotional growthCoaching with both firmness and compassionThe importance of authenticity and leading by exampleHow energy, mindset, and belief impact performance and growthWhy being different is a strength, not a weaknessTurning pain into purpose and impactKey takeaways: You are not defined by your title, role, or outcome. Who you are goes deeper.Everything you experience can serve a purpose if you are willing to learn from it.Presence is power. Living in the moment allows you to grow, connect, and perform at your best.True leadership comes from authenticity, compassion, and integrity.Growth requires honesty with yourself and the willingness to keep going, even when the path is unclear.Memorable quotes: “I can’t believe in you if you don’t believe in yourself.” “It’s okay not to know—but it’s not okay not to try to figure it out.” “You only have this moment. Be present, learn, and keep going.” Connect with Nikita Krivokrasov 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/krivo__25/📞 561-332-9465📧 nikitakrivo25@icloud.com Connect with The Play Base 🌐 Website: www.us.theplaybase.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theplaybase/ 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theplaybase📞561-463-8441

    59 min
  7. APR 14

    Ep. 22 - From Overwhelmed to Empowered: How to Navigate Your Child’s Needs

    In this honest and empowering conversation, Frances sits down with Yael Samuel of Kid Quest Consulting to talk about ADHD, assessments, early intervention, and the emotional journey parents go through when trying to understand what their child needs. Yael shares her personal experience parenting identical twins with ADHD, why getting answers felt relieving rather than frightening, and how support becomes most powerful when it is individualized, collaborative, and rooted in compassion. Together, Frances and Yael explore why diagnoses do not define a child, why early support matters, and how parents can move from overwhelm to clarity one step at a time. Show Notes: What happens when a parent senses something is going on, but does not know where to begin? In this episode, Frances is joined by Yael for a heartfelt conversation about navigating diagnoses, understanding ADHD, finding the right services, and supporting the whole child rather than focusing only on a label. Yael shares her own journey as a parent of identical twins with ADHD and explains how assessment brought not fear, but clarity. This episode is a reminder that every child is different, every family needs a unique path, and asking for help is not weakness. It is wisdom. In this episode, we talk about: What it felt like to receive an ADHD diagnosis as a parentWhy an assessment can bring clarity, not fearThe difference between a label and truly understanding a childWhy identical twins can still present very differentlyThe importance of emotional regulation, maturity, and impulsivityHow to break overwhelming recommendations into manageable next stepsWhy early intervention mattersHow parents can trust their intuition while also seeking guidanceThe value of individualized therapy and meeting each child where they areWhy children are never defined by their strugglesKey takeaways: A diagnosis does not define a child. It provides information that can help guide support.Every child experiences the world differently, even siblings with the same diagnosis.Parents often know when something feels off, and that intuition matters.The goal is not perfection. The goal is helping children build tools, confidence, and independence.Asking for help is not something to fear. It is often the first step toward relief and clarity.Memorable quote: “Your child’s struggles are not their definition. There is no such thing as a bad kid.” Connect with Yael Samuel and Kid Quest Consulting 🌐 Website: https://www.kidquestconsulting.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kidquestconsulting/ Connect with The Play Base 🌐 Website: www.us.theplaybase.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theplaybase/ 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theplaybase

    59 min
  8. APR 7

    Ep. 21 - Strip It All Away: Identity, Healing, and Humanity with Rev Anava

    In this deeply human, soul-stirring episode of The Play Base Podcast, Frances sits down with Revital (Rev) Anava- a gifted designer, a grounded truth-teller, and one of those rare people who feels like home the moment you meet them. What begins as a “how have we never met?” story becomes something much bigger: a conversation about divine timing, intuition, identity, healing, and the quiet power of being fully yourself. Frances and Rev explore what it means to live beyond conditioning—beyond perfectionism, fear, and the roles we’ve been assigned and how real growth often arrives through the very moments that feel like getting “punched in the gut.” Rev shares pieces of her journey as a builder and designer, navigating major transitions, losing trust, rebuilding from scratch, and living through a literal home rebuild after black mold turned life upside down. Frances ties it back to what she knows best: the nervous system, regulation, resilience, and the way our inner world shapes every experience we have. This episode is funny, raw, spiritual, and practical all at once, full of metaphors you’ll carry with you (the empty boat, the oak tree, the moon, the caterpillar to butterfly) and reflections that feel like a mirror. In this episode, you’ll hear about: The unexplainable feeling of meeting someone who feels like a sisterDivine timing, soul recognition, and “nothing is by accident” momentsRebuilding a life after betrayal, business stress, and major transitionsThe difference between self-regulation and dissociationWhy we bargain with fear instead of listening to intuitionHolding space for others without carrying their painThe ripple effect of kindness and being fully human in a numb worldWhy life is never “either/or” it’s the gray, the yin/yang, the whole selfHow parenting mirrors our healing and why our kids have their own path to live throughClosing question (Rev’s mic-drop): Rev leaves listeners with a powerful invitation: “If I asked you who you are, but you couldn’t use your job, your upbringing, your nationality, your religion, or any label, who would you be?” A reminder that beneath everything we’ve been taught to identify with… there’s still you. Connect with Revital Anava 🌐 Website: https://www.bonstudioinc.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonstudioinc/?hl=en Connect with The Play Base 🌐 Website: www.us.theplaybase.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theplaybase/ 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theplaybase

    1 hr

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Welcome to The Play Date - a podcast where heart meets science, play meets purpose, and conversations build connection. I’m your host, Frances Fishman, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, educator, mom of three, and founder of The Play Base.Each week, we invite you to pull up a chair and join us for real conversations with experts, parents, therapists, and educators who are passionate about helping children thrive. From mental health to ABA, from the classroom to the therapy room—we’re here to learn, laugh, and grow together.Whether you're a parent, professional, or just someone who cares deeply about kids, this podcast is your invitation to explore, understand, and support the beautiful complexity of childhood.So grab your coffee... and let’s have a play date.