The Queering Committee

Jo M and Dominic D

No shame, No performing "palatable." Two queer friends, sometimes a guest, unpacking what it really means to exist queerly in the world today. Funny first, with a backbone; nothing's off-limits, but always delivered with care. Some weeks it's joy, some weeks it's the stuff that tests us. We remind you that queer joy is a right, not a privilege. New episodes every Friday.

Episodes

  1. 5d ago

    Episode 6 - Body image, body modification and self acceptance

    Loving the queer skin you're inA candid conversation between Dominic and Jo about tattoos, body autonomy, and the pressure to fit queer beauty ideals. They connect body modification, fitness, and self-image to broader questions of identity, reclamation, and queer joy. Key topicsIn this episode, Dominic shares the story of a new intimate tattoo done by Stevie J at Northern Tattoo Collective, including the pain, the four-hour session, and the very specific challenge of being taped open.Jo and Dominic unpack how tattoos can feel like body reclamation, especially when they mark life changes, vulnerability, or a desire to take ownership of your body.They discuss the term cyber sigilism and why certain tattoo styles, especially highly stylized body mods, can feel tied to identity and self-expression.The conversation turns to queer body standards, with both speakers pushing back on the idea that there is one “correct” gay body type.Dominic reflects on how often queer spaces center a narrow look: muscular, tanned, hair-precise, and often racially coded in ways that exclude others.Jo speaks openly about being non-binary and not always feeling like they fit in gay male spaces, trans spaces, or standard queer categories, and how that uncertainty shapes self-image.Both speakers discuss body dysmorphia, weight changes, and the way unsolicited comments can reinforce shame at both the larger and smaller ends of the size spectrum.Jo shares a personal example from a body-focused art project, where they appeared in a book called Normal Bodies and wrote about learning to accept a larger body even when others did not reflect that back.The episode argues against body commentary online, especially the habit of treating public bodies as fair game for criticism, speculation, or “concern.”The closing message is simple and direct: Wear the crop top, do the thing that scares you, and stop waiting to feel “ready” for self-expression.

  2. Aug 6

    Episode 5 - Queer sobriety, and the daily practices that keep us going

    Queer Joy, Sobriety, and the Daily Practices That Keep You Going Dominic and Jo open by talking about what it means to actively cultivate joy, especially through sobriety, friendship, music, and everyday routines. They also move into a wide ranging conversation about queer community, trans support, and the kind of care that makes people feel seen, safe, and celebrated.This episode is playful and chaotic in tone, but it lands on something sincere: joy is not passive, and choosing it often means choosing people, habits, and boundaries that protect your peace. Key topics In this episode, Jo shares that they have been sober for about six and a half years, and reframes sobriety as something they get to do rather than something they lose out because of.Jo and Dominic discuss how sobriety can make life feel more spacious, from leaving bars at a sensible time to waking up clear headed and ready for the day.They talk about rejection, resilience, and how perceived rejection can still hit hard even after years of personal growth.Dominic shares that one of his biggest joy practices is being intentional with music, especially using upbeat or affirming tracks in the morning and in the gym.They discuss therapy, especially the importance of men learning emotional literacy instead of being raised only to reject femininity.The conversation turns to trans affirmation and allyship, including a story about a cis man publicly and confidently standing by his trans girlfriend, Nicole, in the early stages of her transition.Dominic and Jo connect queer joy to community care, noting that real friendship means showing up when someone is struggling, not just throwing shade.They reflect on the value of surrounding yourself with people who want good things for you, especially in spaces where jealousy and cruelty can be common.The episode also includes lighter running jokes about pride bars, drag, skincare, gym habits, and the general sacredness of being iconic in public.

  3. Jul 31

    Episode 4 - Pride Weekend, Cereal stealing drag queens and out running an Olympian

    Summary Join us as we recount our Pride weekend adventures, share humorous stories, and discuss topics like sports categories for non-binary athletes, drag performances, and the quirks of everyday life. KeywordsPride, LGBTQ, sports, drag, humor, local events, community, activism, personal stories Key Topics Pride event turnout and march experienceSports categorization for trans and non-binary athletesDrag performances and local artistsHumorous stories and personal anecdotesCommunity support and activism during Pride Host Names Dominic (he/him) and Jo (they/them)

  4. Jul 24

    Episode 3 - Jimothy, Questionable Google searches and h**ny perfumes

    The conversation begins with an introduction and the excitement of new microphones. It then transitions into a movie review of 'The Housemaid,' followed by a discussion about pride, and scent preferences. The conversation also touches on topics like h**ny perfume, questionable Google search histories. The conversation delves into nostalgic childhood memories, including toys, gender stereotypes, and envy. It explores the impact of childhood experiences on queer identity and ends with a discussion about K-pop and nostalgia. The conversation covers a range of topics including homosexuality, homophobia, fashion, movies, TV shows, cycling, and concluding remarks. The hosts also engage in light-hearted banter and share personal anecdotes throughout the conversation. Takeaways Pride is about visibility and community, and it's a protest.Scent preferences are subjective and diverse. Exploring childhood memories can reveal insights into personal identity and experiences.Nostalgia and childhood experiences can shape one's perception of gender, identity, and cultural influences. Podcast setup and technical challengesCasual conversation about fashion, movies, and TV showsHumorous discussion about cycling and concluding remarks Chapters 00:00 Introduction and New Microphones01:11 Movie Review: The Housemaid06:33 Pride and Personal Hygiene11:53 Horny Perfume and Scent Preferences16:18 Amazon Delivery and Phone Content18:48 Nostalgic Childhood Toys20:13 Gender Stereotypes and Childhood Memories22:19 Barbie and Action Man Memories25:05 Sylvanian Families and Childhood Envy28:00 Queer Childhood Experiences38:09 K-Pop and Nostalgia39:28 Podcast Setup Adventures40:47 GB News and Bimini's Campaign43:35 Homosexuality and Homophobia44:04 Fashion, Movies, and TV Shows55:25 Cycling and Concluding Remarks

  5. Jul 17

    Episode 2 -Sl*tty gym music, HOMOBLOC and CONFESSIONS II

    Join Dominic and Jo as they delve into the world of queer culture, and the nuanced and personal ways they explore music, media, and iconic moments to personal stories and community reflections. This episode highlights the importance of celebrating queer joy, self-expression, and community resilience, through listening to Confessions II, sl*tty music at the gym and looking forward to the Homobloc lineup.

  6. Jul 14

    Episode 1 - Pilot

    In this episode of the Queering Committee, hosts Jo and Dominic explore their backgrounds, experiences, and the challenges of being queer in today's society. They discuss their childhoods, first queer memories, and the importance of visibility and self-expression. The conversation also touches on the difficulties of finding joy amidst societal challenges and the significance of creating an open space for exploration of queer identities. In this engaging conversation, Jo and Dominic explore the complexities of navigating sobriety within the queer community, addressing common misunderstandings about queer experiences, and the cultural challenges that arise. They discuss the importance of kindness and inclusivity, particularly in queer spaces, and delve into the sensitive topic of chemsex and its impact on the community. The episode concludes with a light-hearted quickfire round, examining various topics through a humorous lens of "home of phobia or home of sexual"

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No shame, No performing "palatable." Two queer friends, sometimes a guest, unpacking what it really means to exist queerly in the world today. Funny first, with a backbone; nothing's off-limits, but always delivered with care. Some weeks it's joy, some weeks it's the stuff that tests us. We remind you that queer joy is a right, not a privilege. New episodes every Friday.

Information

  • Creator
    Jo M and Dominic D
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    6
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Jo M and Dominic D
  • Show Website
    The Queering Committee