The Radical Middle

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The Radical Middle Podcast is a place where we embrace tension and talk about the things you wish your church would talk about. The middle is not a centrist point of view, but rather it is a place of dialogue where we can search out the truth of Jesus by pushing into the tension of it.

  1. 11/06/2024

    Authenticity in Church Leadership - is being too nice hurting the church?

    In this episode of The Radical Middle Podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascal dive into a crucial topic affecting today’s Christian communities—the impact of excessive niceness. Could this culture of "niceness" be one of the reasons young people are drifting away from the church? Tommy and Lenmarie discuss how this overly polite approach often blocks meaningful relationships and limits personal growth, leaving church communities stuck in shallow connections rather than fostering genuine engagement. They explore the key differences between superficial niceness and authentic kindness, highlighting how true kindness calls for honest conflict resolution rather than avoidance. Together, they challenge the misinterpretation of Jesus' teachings on kindness and leadership that many Christian spaces fall into today. Tommy and Lenmarie illustrate how honest confrontation and vulnerability create a more effective ministry, showing what genuine leadership should look like—and why it’s essential for young leaders who are shaping the future of the church. Whether you're looking for help as a leader, or simply seeking deeper connections, this episode is a must-listen, shedding light on moving beyond a “nice” facade to embrace true authenticity in ministry and build a more resilient faith community. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe and join the conversation as we navigate the “messy middle” of faith, leadership, and life! Support the show & Follow Us ✅ Instagram ✅ Twitter ✅ TikTok

    31 min
  2. 08/28/2024

    Embracing Healthy Conflict: A Path to Growth in Christian Leadership

    In this episode, Tommy and Lenmarie take a deep dive into the reasons why Christians, particularly those in leadership and institutional roles, often struggle with conflict. They explore how the reluctance to confront disagreements head-on has led to a widespread phenomenon known as "church hurt," where unresolved issues create rifts within congregations and communities. The hosts argue that this avoidance stems from a misconception that conflict is inherently negative or that peace is best maintained through silence and passivity. However, they counter this belief by highlighting how avoiding conflict can lead to festering wounds, hinder spiritual growth, and ultimately weaken the bonds within a faith community. Tommy and Lenmarie emphasize that engaging in healthy conflict is not just beneficial but essential for building trust, understanding, and deeper relationships within the church. They discuss how conflict, when approached with a spirit of humility and a desire for resolution, can lead to personal transformation and stronger communal ties. The conversation also touches on the cultural and biblical roots of conflict avoidance, exploring how certain traditions and interpretations have contributed to a reluctance to engage in difficult conversations. They challenge the notion that peace is the absence of conflict, instead presenting it as the result of courageous, honest, and loving dialogue. The hosts explore the impact of conflict avoidance on the broader mission of the church, arguing that when leaders shy away from addressing divisive issues, they miss opportunities for growth and change. They encourage church leaders to model a different approach, one that embraces conflict as a natural and necessary part of communal life. By fostering an environment where disagreements can be aired and resolved, they argue, the church can become a place of healing and unity, rather than division and hurt. This episode offers a compelling case for why healthy conflict should be embraced, not feared, in the pursuit of authentic Christian leadership. FREE Leadership Resources - https://library.uywi.org/ Support the show & Follow Us ✅ Instagram ✅ Twitter ✅ TikTok

    30 min
  3. 08/14/2024

    Navigating Masculinity: A Christian Perspective on Toxic Masculinity and True Leadership

    In this episode of the Radical Middle Podcast, Tommy and Lenmarie dive deep into the complex and often contentious topic of masculinity, viewed through the lens of Christian faith. The discussion begins with a provocative question: If you were alone in a forest, would you feel safer with a man or a bear? Surprisingly, many choose the bear, a response that opens the door to a broader conversation about how masculinity is perceived today. This episode challenges listeners to confront the notion of toxic masculinity—how it has infiltrated both societal norms and church culture, distorting the true teachings of Christianity. Tommy and Lenmarie examine the unrealistic expectations placed on men within the church and how these pressures can lead to harmful behaviors and attitudes that are far from Christ-like. Rather than advocating for outdated or superficial ideas of strength, they emphasize that true masculinity should be rooted in humility, mutual respect, and leadership that reflects the character of Christ. The conversation addresses the critical need for men to embody these qualities, not just within the church walls, but in their daily lives, relationships, and communities. Through candid dialogue, shared perspectives, and thought-provoking insights, this episode invites all of us to rethink what it means to be a man in today’s world. It’s a call to reject toxic stereotypes and embrace a biblically grounded and socially responsible model of masculinity. Join us as we explore how to navigate the radical middle on this important issue, fostering a healthier, more balanced understanding of masculinity in the Christian faith. Support the show & Follow Us ✅ Instagram ✅ Twitter ✅ TikTok

    36 min

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The Radical Middle Podcast is a place where we embrace tension and talk about the things you wish your church would talk about. The middle is not a centrist point of view, but rather it is a place of dialogue where we can search out the truth of Jesus by pushing into the tension of it.