The Reframe Space

Abisola Olatunji

5.0 (5)
Self-Improvement
Updated Weekly

Hi, welcome 🌿 I’m glad you’re here. I created The Reframe Space because I’ve realized that sometimes it’s not life that’s confusing, it’s the way we’re seeing it. This is a space where we pause, rethink, and learn to see more clearly. If something in you knows there’s a different way to see your story, you’re in the right place. New episodes every Friday 🌿

2d ago

You are too nice and it’s hurting you

You’ve been calling it bad luck. It’s not. 💔 If you keep attracting people who take and take while you keep giving until there’s nothing left, this one is for you. There’s a difference between kindness and niceness that nobody ever taught us, and it changes everything about who you let close. This isn’t about becoming cold. It’s about finally becoming clear. Watch till the end especially if you’ve ever lost yourself trying to keep everyone else comfortable. 💬 Kindly leave your feedback in the comment section 👍 Like 🔔 Subscribe to this channel for more topics like this #Boundaries #SelfWorth #ToxicRelationships #HealingJourney #EmotionalIntelligence #personalgrowth #motivation #niceness #kindness

8 min
Jun 27

How to naturally attract the right people

Most people think the right relationships come from trying harder to be liked. But what if the problem is that you’re not becoming aligned with who you truly are? In this video, we break down a simple truth: you don’t attract people by desire, you attract them by identity. And the moment you start getting aligned with who you are becoming, the right people stop being something you chase… and start being something you naturally draw in. If you’ve ever felt like you’re forcing connections or becoming someone else just to be accepted, this is for you. Let me know which part resonates with you most in the comments, I’d like to read your thoughts. If this helped, like, subscribe, and share this with someone who needs it. #SelfImprovement #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #Relationships #IdentityShift #Confidence #EmotionalIntelligence #PeoplePleaser #AuthenticLiving #Motivation

9 min
Jun 26

Stop doing life alone

You called it independence. But what if it’s actually isolation? In this video, I talk about the difference between healthy independence and quiet isolation and why the people around you shape you more than you think. Watch this if you’ve been carrying life by yourself. 💬 Have you been doing life alone? Tell me in the comment section↓

7 min
Jun 24

Don’t suffer and call it fate

You’ve been through a lot, but is it really fate? Or have you been misreading what’s actually happening in your life? Before you close the door on yourself, watch this. This video will help you stop mislabeling your pain and start understanding what you’re actually going through. Kindly like, share and subscribe to this channel 📌 #fate #destiny #faithoverFear #waitingseason #personalgrowth #mindset #godstiming #healingjourney #youarenotcursed #motivationalvideo #faithandlife #mentalgrowth #selfdiscovery #thereframespace #personaldevelopment #relatable

9 min
Jun 14

Why discipline doesn’t last.

You’ve watched the videos. You’ve felt motivated. You told yourself this time would be different and after a few days later, you fell off again. But here’s what nobody tells you: it’s not because you’re lazy. It’s because you’ve been running on borrowed motivation, chasing habits and goals that were never fully yours. In this video, I’m getting honest about something I experienced that made me realize this and I think a lot of you will see yourselves in it too. Because the moment you stop living someone else’s vision for your life and start building your own reason, everything changes. Watch till the end. #growth #mindset #motivation #personalgrowth #uncertainty #fear #discipline #life #fallingoff # #selfimprovement #awareness #purpose #mindsetshift #thereframespace

9 min
Jun 10

Don’t mourn that phase

If you’ve been feeling stuck, behind, isolated, or frustrated with your current season, this video is for you. The phase you’re trying so hard to escape may be the very thing that’s shaping you. Sometimes what feels like a setback is actually preparation. Nothing is wasted. Maybe nothing is wrong with you and you’re being built in this process #PersonalGrowth #SelfDevelopment #GrowthMindset #FaithJourney #WaitingSeason #Purpose #LifeLessons #ChristianMotivation #Mentorship #MindsetShift #HealingJourney #Motivation #Reframespace

6 min
May 23

You changed your values to fit your excuses

Most people already know the truth about themselves, they just avoid it long enough to keep pretending. But truth doesn’t go away. It waits. You don’t change until you stop defending what’s hurting you, because you can’t heal what you refuse to see. #selfimprovement #awareness #self deception #excuses #mindset, #personalgrowth #motivation #discipline #truth

6 min
May 18

Graduating without having everything figured out

I don’t think life was ever meant to feel figured out. But I kept waiting for that moment anyway, when everything would finally make sense.It never came. What came instead was learning how to keep going without needing all the answers first and somehow… that’s been enough. I’m graduating in two weeks and going home with one question: now what? This is an honest conversation about uncertainty, finding peace without a plan, and realizing that clarity doesn’t always come before the move, sometimes it comes through it. If you’re in a season where nothing feels settled yet, this one’s for you. #growth #becoming #resilience #clarity #growth curiousity #uncertainty #personalgrowth #lifeunfiltered #graduation #graduate

6 min

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5 Ratings

Hi, welcome 🌿 I’m glad you’re here. I created The Reframe Space because I’ve realized that sometimes it’s not life that’s confusing, it’s the way we’re seeing it. This is a space where we pause, rethink, and learn to see more clearly. If something in you knows there’s a different way to see your story, you’re in the right place. New episodes every Friday 🌿

Creator

Abisola Olatunji
Years Active

2025 - 2026
Episodes

39
Rating

Clean
Copyright

© Abisola Olatunji
Show Website

The Reframe Space