The Return with Darren Silver

D.S.Silver
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  • SPIRITUALITY

The Return podcast explores initiation through the lens of earth and culture. With thought leaders, teachers, authors and many more, host Darren Silver wanders the landscape of initiation and the skills needed during a time of transition. We discuss containers of initiation, including earth based, romantic, mythological, youth, elderhood and much more.

Episodes

  1. The Mysteries of Beekeeping

    1D AGO

    The Mysteries of Beekeeping

    Talking Points: beekeeping, herbalism, feminine mysteries, nature, spirituality, ancient wisdom, ecology, community, alchemy Summery In this enlightening conversation, Courtney Cosgriff shares her profound journey into the world of beekeeping and herbalism, exploring the deep connections between bees, plants, and the feminine mysteries. She discusses her mystical experiences, the ancient wisdom surrounding bees, and how they serve as messengers between worlds. Courtney emphasizes the importance of a win-win relationship with nature, highlighting the bees' role as nature's alchemists and their teachings for humanity in today's world. Takeaways The hive is seen as a womb, connecting to feminine mysteries. Bees are messengers between worlds, holding ancient wisdom. Bees symbolize beauty and the interconnectedness of life. The relationship between bees and plants is reciprocal and vital for ecosystems. Bees teach us about boundaries and the cycles of life and death. Engaging with bees can lead to profound spiritual insights and connections. Chapters: 00:00 The Journey Begins: A Connection with Bees 19:04 Feminine Mysteries and the Hive 33:09 Reviving Ancient Practices in Beekeeping 35:10 Exploring Ancient Connections and Feminine Mysteries 37:27 The Significance of Artemis in Ancient Cultures 40:28 The Paradox of Sacred Sites and Modern Tourism 44:36 Rewilding and the Role of Bees in Nature 51:03 Lessons from Bees: Organizing and Community 54:23 The Hive as a Mystery School 57:48 Connecting with the Bees: A Spiritual Journey 01:02:46 The Transformative Power of Bees 01:07:02 Bees as Nature's Alchemists 01:12:43 Reciprocal Relationships: Bees and Plants 01:16:11 Centralizing Wisdom: Lessons from the Bees To learn more about Darren go to: www.darrensilver.earth To learn more about Courtney go to: https://www.honeybeeherbals.co/

    1h 22m

  2. 10/15/2025

    Nature Connection in the Coaching and Therapeutic Worlds

    Talking Points Wilderness therapy, nature connection, coaching, personal transformation, deep listening, leadership, EarthBase Institute, integration, vision, neuroscience Summary In this conversation, Michael Jospe, founder of the Earth-Based Institute, shares his journey and insights on the profound connection between nature and personal transformation. He discusses the essence of wilderness therapy, the importance of deep listening, and how nature-connected leadership can guide individuals in their personal and professional lives. Michael emphasizes the significance of integrating nature experiences into daily life and the role of vision in following one's path. The conversation also touches on the neuroscience behind nature's impact on our well-being and the commitment required for meaningful change. Takeaways Michael Jospeh emphasizes the importance of deep listening in nature. Rituals and ceremonies enhance our relationship with the land. Nature can touch us in ways that transform our lives. Leadership should be responsive and aligned with nature. Nature-connected coaching focuses on integrating experiences into daily life. Vision is a guiding force that requires deep listening and adaptability. The brain changes when we engage with nature, impacting our well-being. Commitment to change is essential for personal transformation. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Michael Jospeh and EarthBase Institute 04:03 The Essence of Wilderness Therapy 06:59 Deep Listening and Connection with Nature 10:11 Nature-Connected Leadership 13:07 Michael's Journey to EarthBase Institute 22:19 The Evolution of Nature-Connected Coaching 28:07 Integrating Nature and Coaching in Practice 34:00 The Journey of Vision and Deep Listening 45:18 The Impact of Nature on the Brain 52:11 Integration and Change: The Path Forward 59:20 Closing Thoughts and Resources To learn more about Darren: www.darrensilver.earth To learn more about Michael and Earth Based Institute: www.earthbasedinstitute.org Link for Getting Started with Nature Connection: https://programs.earthbasedinstitute.org/GSNC Discount Code: ReturnNC

    1h 2m

  3. 09/30/2025

    The Intersection of Psychology and Physicality

    Keywords Healing, embodiment, psychology, movement, Wilderness Fusion, adaptability, communication, perception, vision Summary In this conversation, Pat Miller discusses her journey of embodiment, psychology, and movement. She explores how our internal experiences shape our physicality and how communication plays a vital role in the healing process. The dialogue also touches on the significance of adaptability, the concept of place, and the relationship between the internal and external worlds. Pat shares insights on the dynamics of teaching alongside her husband and the balance of personal and professional life, ultimately highlighting the power of vision in manifesting change. Takeaways The body is a journey of understanding the self. Embodiment is about feeling and experiencing the body in the present moment. Perception shapes our reality and how we interact with the world. Communication with the bodyis key in the healing process. Adaptability is a superpower in healing and bodywork. Understanding client psychology is essential for effective healing. Movement creates an energetic field that reinforces embodiment. Vision is integral to manifesting change in the body and life. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Bodywork and Healing 04:06 The Journey to Bodywork: Personal Experiences 07:02 Understanding Embodiment and Movement 10:11 The Connection Between Psychology and Physicality 13:10 Perception and Its Role in Healing 15:58 The Influence of Communication in Bodywork 19:13 The Role of Adaptability in Healing 22:08 Psychology in Bodywork: Understanding Clients 25:16 The Concept of Place in Healing 28:08 Breath as a Tool for Connection 31:02 The Earth Within Us: Ecological Perspectives 34:05 Movement and Its Energetic Impact 39:15 The Dynamics of Movement and the Body 43:50 Intent and Identity in Movement 48:10 Understanding Core Communication 53:15 Vision and Manifestation in Bodywork 01:02:09 The Interplay of Personal and Professional Relationships 01:13:46 Connecting with Wilderness Fusion To learn more about Darren go to: www.darrensilver.earth To learn more about Pat go to: www.wildernessfusion.com

    1h 17m

  4. 09/17/2025

    From Failure to Flourishing: Lessons in Forest Gardening with Tony Troia

    Talking Points: Forest gardening, regenerative design, ecological relationships, biodiversity, failure, colonial mindset, healing, interconnectedness, cultural identity Summary In this engaging conversation, Tony Troia shares his journey as a gardener, builder, beekeeper, and yogi, emphasizing the importance of beauty and connection to the land. He discusses the evolution of his forest garden, the lessons learned through failure, and the intricate relationships between plants and ecosystems. The dialogue explores the impact of colonial mindsets on our relationship with nature, the healing potential of regenerative practices, and the importance of community and culture in fostering a deeper connection to the environment. Tony also shares practical steps for individuals to reconnect with their surroundings and highlights his current projects in sustainable agriculture and beekeeping. Takeaways: Humans have the potential to be healers of the land. The colonial mindset creates a fragmented worldview, alienating people from nature. Healing the land can also lead to healing oneself. Cultural identity is deeply tied to the land and environment. Rituals and repetition can help us let go of the need for certainty. Practical steps can be taken to reconnect with nature and our surroundings. Emergence in nature is a process that requires patience and observation. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Tony Troia and His Journey 04:18 The Evolution of the Forest Garden 06:56 Learning Through Failure in Gardening 10:08 Understanding Relationships in Nature 13:14 The Role of Humans as Caretakers 16:08 Cultural Reflections and the State of Society 19:11 Deconditioning the Mind and Finding Connection 22:03 Practical Steps for Reconnecting with Nature 25:15 The Importance of Observation and Experimentation 43:51 The Power of Doing Less 46:57 Emergence and Complexity in Nature 48:57 Creating Conditions for Healing 50:47 Dancing with Mystery and Uncertainty 53:02 Repetition vs. Certainty 58:08 Exploring Colonial Worldviews 01:02:10 The Importance of Indigenous Knowledge 01:07:40 Returning to Connection with Nature 01:09:58 Current Projects and Future Aspirations To learn more about Darren go to: www.darrensilver.earth To learn more about Tony go to: www.redsunasheville.com/

    1h 19m

  5. 08/14/2025

    Guiding the Next Generation: Mentoring Youth Through Rites of Passage

    Key Topics: The importance of mentorship beyond parental roles. Creating safe spaces for boys to explore vulnerability. The impact of virtual and in-person programs. Engaging parents in the mentorship process. Success markers for youth in mentorship programs In this episode of the Return Podcast, join Darren Silver and Trevor Spring as they delve into the transformative power of mentoring and rites of passage for youth. Discover how Trevor's journey from founding Boys to Men Mentoring to leading Rooted Futures has shaped his approach to guiding young men through pivotal life stages. Explore the importance of creating safe, supportive spaces where boys can expand beyond their family units, develop self-awareness, and embrace their unique gifts. Tune in to learn how these programs foster resilience, authenticity, and a deeper connection to self and community. 02:15 - Meeting Trevor: Darren shares how he met Trevor and their history. 05:30 - Trevor's Work with Youth: Trevor discusses his journey in mentoring boys and the impact it has had on his life. 10:45 - Rooted Futures: Trevor talks about his nonprofit organization, Rooted Futures, and its mission. 15:00 - Online and In-Person Programs: Discussion on the balance between virtual and in-person mentoring programs. 20:30 - Challenges and Growth: Trevor shares insights on the challenges faced by youth today and how his programs address them. 25:00 - Parental Involvement: The role of parents in supporting their children's growth through the program. 30:00 - Success Stories: Trevor shares success stories and the impact of the program on participants. 35:00 - Future Plans: Discussion on future plans for Rooted Futures and how listeners can get involved. 40:00 - Closing Remarks: Darren and Trevor wrap up the conversation with final thoughts. Guest Information: Trevor Spring: Director of Rooted Futures, a nonprofit organization focused on mentoring young boys. Visit www. rootedfutures.org to learn more about Trevor's work and how you can support or get involved.

    1h 18m
  6. Exploring Indigeneity and Culture: A Journey with Kale Ka'alekahi

    07/25/2025

    Exploring Indigeneity and Culture: A Journey with Kale Ka'alekahi

    Talking Points: indigeneity, culture, rites of passage, community, youth engagement, mystery, connection, indigenous soul, grief In this conversation, Darren Silver and Kale Kaalekahi explore themes of indigeneity, culture, and the importance of rites of passage in modern society. They discuss the significance of community, the role of elders, and the connection to nature and ancestry. Kale shares his personal journey into understanding his cultural roots and the importance of engaging youth in these practices. The conversation also touches on grief, legacy, and the wisdom of whales in Hawaiian culture, culminating in a discussion about current projects aimed at fostering community and connection. Takeaways: Indigeneity is a journey of self-discovery and cultural understanding. Rites of passage are essential for personal and communal growth. Engaging youth requires connection and understanding their resistance. Mystery and nature play a crucial role in our perception of life. Elders provide guidance and wisdom that is often overlooked. Grief can be a powerful medicine for healing and remembrance. The songs of whales symbolize the connection to ancestry and the cycles of life. Cultural practices should be embodied and experienced, not just intellectualized. Community is vital for personal development and cultural revival. The Indigenous soul is about perceiving and relating to the world around us. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Connection 05:08 Journey to Indigeneity 10:54 Cultural Revivification and Modernity 15:17 Rites of Passage and Initiation 19:09 Engaging Youth in Cultural Practices 25:07 Mystery, Danger, and Responsibility 31:25 The Quest for Awareness 35:02 Embodied Knowledge and Learning 37:29 The Role of the Shaman and Belonging 41:56 Memory and Place in Indigenous Cultures 49:03 The Indigenous Soul and Connection to Ancestors 57:21 Community and Self-Improvement 01:00:18 Grief and Connection to Ancestry 01:03:15 Motherhood and Legacy 01:07:56 Whales: The Sun's Chosen 01:12:49 Culture as a Context for Life 01:16:08 Kale's Work and Community Engagement Connect with Darren and the Return Podcast: www.darrensilver.earth IG: @the_return_podcast Connect with Kale: IG: @kale.kaalekahi

    1h 20m
  7. Soryu Forall - Zen, Initiation, and AI

    07/03/2025

    Soryu Forall - Zen, Initiation, and AI

    Talking Points: Zen, monastic life, compassion, initiation, technology and AI, sacred relationships, vows In this conversation, Soryu discusses his journey into Zen monastic life, the nature of kindness in teaching, and the importance of initiation in spiritual growth. He explores the challenges of modern technology and its impact, while also addressing the role of AI in shaping humanity's future. Soryu emphasizes the significance of sacred relationships and community living, and concludes with a reflection on the power of vows and intentions in guiding one's life purpose. Takeaways: Kindness in teaching often means challenging students to grow beyond their comfort zones. Spiritual practice begins when one reaches their limits and continues despite it. Modern education often fails to prepare individuals for true spiritual growth. Despair can be a necessary part of the initiation process.Living in community reveals personal attachments and challenges. Sacred relationships with nature and others are essential for spiritual development. Vows and intentions guide individuals in their commitment to serve the world. Chapters 00:00 The Journey to Zen: Soryu's Name and Meaning 10:01 Understanding Kindness in Teaching and Spiritual Practice 19:05 Initiation and the Value of Shedding Old Selves 28:07 Secular Humanism: The Religion of Modernity and Its Impact 31:07 Technology, Despair, and the Path to Authenticity 32:04 Creating the Great Earth School 35:01 The Obsolescence of Traditional Education 37:13 Merging Wisdom with AI 41:12 Sacred Relationships and Agreements 44:56 Living Together: The Challenge of Community 50:06 The Joy of Being with All Beings 52:52 Understanding Vows and Purpose

    1h 2m

  8. 06/03/2025

    Lila Tresemer - Magdalene, Initiation, and the Sacred

    Talking points:Mary Magdalene, Star House, Gnostic texts, sacred union, initiation, community, nature, spiritual journey, feminine archetypes, personal calling In this conversation, Darren Silver and Lila Tresemer explore the profound story of Mary Magdalene, her role as the first apostle, and the significance of the Star House as a sacred space. They delve into Gnostic texts, the concept of sacred union, and the importance of personal callings and community in spiritual journeys. Lila shares insights on initiation, the role of nature, and the concentric rings model for understanding experiences. The discussion emphasizes the need for individuals to find their place in the larger mandala of life, respecting diverse paths while honoring the sacred. Takeaways Mary Magdalene is recognized as the first apostle. The Star House serves as a high-energy temple for spiritual exploration. Gnostic texts reveal diverse narratives about Magdalene's teachings. Personal callings are essential for spiritual growth and community building. Initiation can occur through nature and personal relationships. The concentric rings model helps map our experiences and challenges. Community support is vital for navigating spiritual journeys. Finding one's place in the mandala of life is crucial for fulfillment. Respect for diverse spiritual paths enriches collective understanding. Chapters00:00 The Beginning of a Journey 06:22 Devotion to the Land and Star House 11:30 Callings and Initiations 20:00 Sacred Union and Women's Initiation 29:54 Exploring Archetypes and Cultural Narratives 38:32 Finding One's Place in the Mandala 39:58 The Story of Magdalene: A Deep Dive 50:59 Archetypes and Their Relevance Today 57:43 Concentric Rings: A Model for Understanding Life 59:43 Connecting with the Divine Feminine Connect with Darren and the Return Podcast: www.darrensilver.earth IG: @the_return_podcast Learn more about Starhouse and Lila Tresemer: www.thestarhouse.org

    1h 2m

  9. 05/20/2025

    Karl Direske-The Philosophy of Choice in Healing

    Talking points: the power of choice, healing, coyote teaching, relational paradigm, initiation, teaching methods, personal growth In this conversation, Karl Direske shares his journey as a healer and teacher, detailing his experiences with influential mentors and the philosophies that shape his approach to healing. He emphasizes the importance of contradictions in learning, the relational paradigm in healing, and the art of asking the right questions to facilitate personal growth. We also discusses the concept of Coyote teaching, the significance of initiation, and the various programs offered at Wilderness Fusion, highlighting the fluidity of healing and the need for a personalized approach. Key Takeaways: Karl's journey into healing began in his 20s with Barbara Brennan. Coyote teaching is about planting seeds for future understanding. Healing is a dialogue, not a monologue. The relational paradigm is key to understanding healing. Questions can shift perspectives and facilitate healing. Initiation is about transcending past paths to choose new ones. Safety and discomfort are essential for growth in healing. Healing is fluid; perspectives can change rapidly. Wilderness Fusion offers various programs for personal and professional growth. Chapters: 00:00 The Journey to Healing and Teaching 11:09 The Philosophy of Choice and Contradiction 20:58 Coyote Teaching: Understanding the Relational Paradigm 31:07 Tracking Culture and Pressure Releases 35:44 The Rigors of Learning and Teaching 40:08 Defining Healing and Its Impact 47:36 The Fluidity of the Body and Healing Perspectives 52:21 Beliefs, Addictions, and the Journey to Change 01:02:38 The Art of Asking Questions in Healing 01:11:25 Initiation and Transcendence in Healing Practices Connect with Darren and the Return Podcast: www.darrensilver.earth IG: @the_return_podcast To learn more about Wilderness Fusion: www.wildernessfusion.com IG: @wildernessfusion

    1h 16m

  10. 05/15/2025

    Intro to The Return Podcast

    Here, host Darren Silver shares what The Return is about, why it is important, and what led him to start a podcast. For more information about Darren: www.darrensilver.earth IG: @the_return_podcast

    7 min
  • 10 Episodes

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The Return podcast explores initiation through the lens of earth and culture. With thought leaders, teachers, authors and many more, host Darren Silver wanders the landscape of initiation and the skills needed during a time of transition. We discuss containers of initiation, including earth based, romantic, mythological, youth, elderhood and much more.

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