The Saddled Stallion Chad Kanyer

A growing number of people in this weak world have an issue being held -- and holding others -- accountable. Unfortunately, they are missing a HUGE opportunity to grow themselves and to grow others.

In this episode, I get real about the beauty of accountability in three common domains of life -- when we're shepherding others, when we're partnering with others, and when we're looking up to others (or a high standard). 

I also share what I believe is the very simple, but seemingly very difficult, enabler of PERFECT accountability. Enjoy!

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My purpose is to equip and encourage men to find, and walk in, purposeful manhood. If I can help you in any way, email me: chad@kanyer.co. You're also welcome to get to know me better and see my writings and other messages on my website, chadkanyer.com. Thanks!

Another one with both me and my better-half. Countless marriages fail due to unhealthy, lingering dynamics with each person’s family of origin. How do you avoid this? What role do boundaries play? When hurts occur, what are the steps to healthily repairing those relationships? Oh, boy, so much to unpack — we do it based on tons of counseling, failures, and victories. This is KEY for couples approaching marriage or navigating early marriage. Enjoy!

A little change-up here! My wife and I simply share some things we did NOT know about marriage coming into ours, but also the beauty and growth in those lessons, of which we’re grateful. We have some fun here and (shocker) she cuts me down a good bit, but we flat out WISH we would’ve had this kind of insight before saying “I do.” Enjoy!

When relationships get serious, our pasts and her parameters play a larger role. Maybe we’re asked (or told) to cut and change things that we see no issue with. These can be make-or-break moments for budding relationships.

How should strong men respond to such rules and requests? Do we fight them, ignore them, or give in to them? What is submissive and what is strong?

In this one, I share some of the dynamics behind the trust in my 7-year marriage, some key decisions I made along the rocky early path, and the now-clear aftermath of those decisions.

Whether you’re considering leveling-up a relationship or building trust in your longstanding marriage, this will help you.

Are you chasing, building, or working on something? Do you ever feel like quitting? Dude, me too.

I've learned that the things most worthy of building usually do not explode into awesomeness in the short term. They simply take patience, persistence, and grit. For them to stand stronger and longer, they must be built methodically -- rightly -- and the process must build our endurance.

In this short episode, I share some simple (but reliable) tactics and perspectives to overcome seasons of doubt and discouragement.

Use them. Lean on them. Don't quit. Keep going.

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Our culture seems to encourage two ways of treating our issues: (1) unapologetically embrace them or (2) pridefully avoid them. 

Both treatments are undergirded by the "I'm a special snowflake" mentality. 

The question is not whether we adopt these mentalities when our issues surface -- they are natural human reactions -- but how we can consciously combat them with a more real, humble approach.

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If this podcast made you better, please subscribe, rate, and review. Let's walk in purposeful manhood together. More at chadkanyer.com.