The Seaglass Perspective

Christopher Nackos, Vincent Covelli
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Life has a way of tossing us around. But just like seaglass, the "weathering" we experience doesn't have to mean we’re broken—it means we’re being refined. Welcome to Seaglass Counseling, a space dedicated to navigating the waves of mental health with grace and insight.

  1. 4 jun

    Why Your Relationship Feels Good... But Not Safe

    Want to know what a secure attachment style actually looks like in real life? If you are feeling stuck in a relationship that is "just okay" but doesn't feel fully alive or truly secure, you are not alone. In this video, Chris Nackos breaks down the 4 pillars of a healthy relationship , moving past abstract attachment theory to show you the practical habits that build lasting intimacy and liberating independence. Discover how securely attached couples navigate everyday moments, handle high-stress situations, improve their relationship communication, and master the powerful art of rupture and repair to turn conflict into deep connection. Whether you struggle with anxious or avoidant dynamics, these are skills and habits that anyone can learn to build the relationship they truly deserve.

  2. 1 jun

    The Anxious Attachment Trap: Why Silence Feels Unbearable

    Have you ever sent a text message, watched the three typing dots appear and disappear, and felt a wave of pure dread wash over you? Your chest tightens, your heart rate spikes, and your mind immediately leaps to the worst-case scenario: "They are leaving me. I did something wrong." If that feeling sounds familiar, you aren’t being dramatic. You are experiencing the acute firing of an attachment alarm. In this episode of The Seaglass Perspective, we break down the anatomy of the Anxious Attachment Style. We look past surface-level relationship advice to examine the childhood origins of relationship anxiety, how a validation loop can leave you feeling invisible, and the exact steps required to finally turn down the volume on that internal alarm. If you struggle with texting anxiety, fear of abandonment, or find yourself trapped in exhausting relationship patterns, this video will help you understand the psychology behind your nervous system's response—and how to move from panic to peace.

  3. 30 may

    Heal Disorganized Attachment: Break Free from the Push-Pull Relationship Loop

    Feeling trapped in a relationship cycle where you desperately crave closeness yet push people away? You might be experiencing disorganized attachment. Learn how to identify this attachment style, understand its roots, and discover actionable strategies to build healthier, more secure relationships. This isn't a permanent flaw, but a coping mechanism you can learn to navigate and transform. Join us on The Seaglass Perspective as we explore managing this attachment style and fostering true intimacy.

  4. 24 may

    Why You Pull Away the Moment They Get Close

    Have you ever sent a text message, watched the three typing dots appear and disappear, and felt a wave of pure dread wash over you? Your chest tightens, your heart rate spikes, and your mind immediately leaps to the worst-case scenario: "They are leaving me. I did something wrong." If that feeling sounds familiar, you aren’t being dramatic. You are experiencing the acute firing of an attachment alarm. In this episode of The Seaglass Perspective, we break down the anatomy of the Anxious Attachment Style. We look past surface-level relationship advice to examine the childhood origins of relationship anxiety, how a validation loop can leave you feeling invisible, and the exact steps required to finally turn down the volume on that internal alarm. If you struggle with texting anxiety, fear of abandonment, or find yourself trapped in exhausting relationship patterns, this video will help you understand the psychology behind your nervous system's response—and how to move from panic to peace.

  5. 22 may

    Building Motivation Using Your Core Values

    Feeling Burnt Out or Numb? Apathy is a Defense Mechanism Do you ever sit down to work on something important and realize you just… don't care? It’s not laziness; it’s a “Shield of Apathy." In this video, Chris Nackos explores why we lose our drive, the psychology of learned helplessness, and how to transition from fleeting extrinsic rewards to lasting, intrinsic motivation. If you’ve been feeling emotionally numb, think of it as a signal—not a character flaw. We’re breaking down how to stop "rolling with the punches" and start moving toward a life built on your core values.

  6. 18 may

    Why You Feel Overwhelmed: A Therapist’s Guide to Releasing Emotional Baggage

    Ever felt like dropping a spoon might actually be the end of the world?** You aren't "mean" and you aren’t losing your mind—you’ve simply reached Max Capacity. In this episode of The Seaglass Perspective, we take a look at the invisible weight of emotional baggage. We often think of baggage as old trauma, but there is a daily version that builds up when we repress stress instead of processing it. From physical tension and headaches to sudden irritability and "crying at the drop of a hat," your body is telling you that your emotional cup is full. Join us as we explore why emotional expression is a sign of strength, not weakness, and learn practical (and slightly embarrassing!) tools to finally set those heavy bags down.

  7. 14 may

    Coping 101: The Strategies That Get You Through Hard Times

    In this episode of The Seaglass Perspective, therapist Chris Nackos breaks down the four major categories of coping strategies: problem‑focused coping, emotion‑focused coping, avoidance‑focused coping, and meaning‑focused coping. Using real therapeutic examples, Chris explains how we can better understand our stress responses, process difficult emotions, and build healthier long‑term habits.

  8. 11 may

    Autobiography in Five Short Chapters

    In this episode of The Seaglass Perspective, therapist and host Chris Nackos explores Portia Nelson’s classic poem “Autobiography in Five Short Chapters”—a powerful metaphor for the slow, human, often frustrating process of change. Chris walks through each of the poem’s five chapters, breaking down how they mirror the real stages of self‑awareness, repeated patterns, habit change, emotional growth, and the courage it takes to choose a new path. Whether you're working through old patterns, building healthier boundaries, or learning to anticipate and navigate life’s challenges, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate look at what meaningful progress actually looks like in therapy and in everyday life.

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Life has a way of tossing us around. But just like seaglass, the "weathering" we experience doesn't have to mean we’re broken—it means we’re being refined. Welcome to Seaglass Counseling, a space dedicated to navigating the waves of mental health with grace and insight.

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  • Creador
    Christopher Nackos, Vincent Covelli
  • Años de actividad
    2026
  • Episodios
    14
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    © 2026 Christopher Nackos, Vincent Covelli
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