Second Mix: Reflect, Revise, and Remix your life

Matt Bennett
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The Second Mix podcast is about thinking clearly about what you’re building — and why. Rather than focusing on motivation or surface-level productivity, the conversations center on goals as commitments: what they reveal about priorities, what they cost, and how they shape the direction of a life over time. Episodes explore questions most people avoid slowing down enough to answer:  Which goals are actually yours?Which ones are inherited, performative, or outdated?What happens when clarity replaces pressure? Through solo reflections and long-form conversations, the podcast invites listeners to write things down, examine tradeoffs, and treat goal-setting as a serious act of self-direction rather than an annual ritual or inspirational exercise. The emphasis is on choosing deliberately. The podcast serves as an entry point into the broader Second Mix philosophy — one that values orientation over intensity, clarity over noise, and honest self-assessment over borrowed ambition. “Don’t wish things were easier, wish you were better.” - Jim Rohn

  1. 08/28/2023

    Unshakable Confidence with ex-49ers "Why Coach" Paul Epstein

    Ready to redefine success in your life and pivot towards a path of true significance? In this episode, host Matt Bennett sits down with Paul Epstein, an expert in building unshakable confidence and a purpose-driven leader, to share game-changing insights that you won't find in your usual self-help books. Find out more about Paul, and find the tools we spoke about in the episode, at paulepsteinspeaks.com. 🌟 Why Listen? Learn about Paul's revolutionary "Confidence Quiz" and how it can propel you towards your best self.Discover the often-overlooked role of heart-centered leadership and how to implement it in your daily life.Take the first steps to identifying and nurturing your core values through practical journaling exercises.Gain insights into the "E.I.R Principle" that Paul swears by for a fulfilling life.If you've ever felt stuck, unmotivated, or just in need of a different perspective, this episode offers actionable tools and thought-provoking insights that could be your first step to a breakthrough. Tune in and take your confidence—and your life—to the next level. Support the Show: Buy Me A Coffee! Website: SecondMix.net Email Me: matt@secondmix.net REFLECT, REVISE, and REMIX your life and business with the MONTHLY Second Mix Newsletter covering GOAL MASTERY for Real Estate Professionals. Your business gets better as YOU get better! Sign Up Now

    49 min
  2. Focus: Lessons from Liam Neeson and Chess for your Entrepreneurial Journey

    08/07/2023

    Focus: Lessons from Liam Neeson and Chess for your Entrepreneurial Journey

    Imagine harnessing the singular focus of a character like Liam Neeson's Brian Mills in 'Taken', and applying it to your entrepreneurial journey. In the episode, we explore this concept, discussing the power of unwavering determination in achieving one's goals. Drawing from the film's narrative, we underscore the importance of cutting through the drama and distractions to get the job done, a mindset every entrepreneur and business owner can benefit from.  As the conversation evolves, we pivot to a personal anecdote about mastering the game of chess, another metaphorical exploration of strategic focus and planning. The essence of chess—concentrating on the ultimate objective of checkmate—parallels the approach of categorizing life goals into daily steps and habits. We dive into this transformational journey, how it's reshaped life over the last four years, and present practical insights to help you apply these principles. Reach out at matt@secondmixnet.com with your thoughts, struggles, or questions about goal setting or any other topic. Let's sculpt your life, one goal at a time. Support the Show: Buy Me A Coffee! Website: SecondMix.net Email Me: matt@secondmix.net REFLECT, REVISE, and REMIX your life and business with the MONTHLY Second Mix Newsletter covering GOAL MASTERY for Real Estate Professionals. Your business gets better as YOU get better! Sign Up Now

    8 min

  3. 07/31/2023

    Why Should They Trust You?

    Ever wondered what it takes to become the person that a private money lender can't wait to lend money to? Get ready to redefine your journey to success with me as we traverse the enlightening world of real estate investing. I share how I used real estate investing as a stepping stone for personal development, transforming into a more reliable and dependable individual, and becoming something new.  We'll explore how the real estate community, coupled with a healthy thirst for knowledge in business, personal development, and social sciences, can open the floodgates to success. You'll hear about my experiences and how I managed to set myself for success by asking the right questions.  Support the Show: Buy Me A Coffee! Website: SecondMix.net Email Me: matt@secondmix.net REFLECT, REVISE, and REMIX your life and business with the MONTHLY Second Mix Newsletter covering GOAL MASTERY for Real Estate Professionals. Your business gets better as YOU get better! Sign Up Now

    9 min
  4. Evolving from Operator to Owner with Pete Mohr

    07/24/2023

    Evolving from Operator to Owner with Pete Mohr

    Prepare your mind to be enthralled as we sit down with the phenomenal Pete Mohr, a certified business-made-simple coach, owner of ShoeTopia and a seasoned business broker. With almost thirty years in the business world, Pete has a unique understanding of business dynamics and shares his philosophy that you shouldn’t be owned by your business but be its owner. We delve into the nitty-gritty of transitioning from being operator-bound to becoming an owner, discussing the alignment of products, processes, and people to your business's promise. Ever wondered how to transform your frustrations in business into freedoms? Pete Mohr has got you covered! In this insightful conversation, he elaborates on his philosophy, demystifying how to turn business frustrations into freedoms and the importance of understanding the promise you make to yourself and your customers for a clear business structure. Pete's 'love it or leave it' philosophy is something every business owner should aspire to adopt, as it encourages working in what he calls a 'love zone', effectively making life and business more enjoyable. We round up this enlightening conversation exploring the significance of communication, process management, and accountability in freeing you and your team for growth. Using references from 'Traction' by Gina Wipman and the EOS Entrepreneurial Operating System, Pete illustrates how an accountability chart can be far more effective than an organizational chart. We also delve into how to create systems that can morph frustrations into freedoms, helping business owners identify areas of change, align systems with business promises, and create replicable processes tailored for business growth. Tune into this episode to discover how you can maximize business efficiency, achieve a better work-life balance, and transition from feeling overwhelmed and overworked to experiencing the freedoms you richly deserve as a business owner. Support the Show: Buy Me A Coffee! Website: SecondMix.net Email Me: matt@secondmix.net REFLECT, REVISE, and REMIX your life and business with the MONTHLY Second Mix Newsletter covering GOAL MASTERY for Real Estate Professionals. Your business gets better as YOU get better! Sign Up Now

    35 min
  5. Empowering Growth: Discovering Personal Purpose With Constantin Morun

    07/17/2023

    Empowering Growth: Discovering Personal Purpose With Constantin Morun

    Constantin's Podcast: Unleash Thyself In this thought-provoking episode, Matt and Constantin dive deep into personal growth, self-discovery, and the power of mindset. They explore the concept of having a clear vision while being open to iterations and adjustments along the way. Drawing inspiration from philosopher Albert Schweitzer, they discuss the importance of continually learning and growing as human beings. The conversation touches on the difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset, emphasizing the value of learning from past mistakes and practicing self-forgiveness. Constantin shares his approach of self-reflection and self-love, using techniques like meditation and journaling to gain clarity and release negative emotions. They discuss the significance of aligning goals with one's personal why and making choices that resonate with their mission. While Constantin's podcast primarily features interviews with guests who share their experiences and insights, this episode highlights key themes that foster personal development and empower listeners to embrace their own journeys. From forgiveness to intention-setting, this conversation offers valuable perspectives on cultivating a growth mindset, making conscious choices, and creating a fulfilling life aligned with one's values and purpose. Support the Show: Buy Me A Coffee! Website: SecondMix.net Email Me: matt@secondmix.net REFLECT, REVISE, and REMIX your life and business with the MONTHLY Second Mix Newsletter covering GOAL MASTERY for Real Estate Professionals. Your business gets better as YOU get better! Sign Up Now

    44 min
  6. Relax and Struggle: This is the Way

    07/10/2023

    Relax and Struggle: This is the Way

    Ever found yourself wondering why traditional meditation techniques don't seem to resonate with you? What if the key to effective meditation is simply finding your unique approach to staying present? I, your host, struggled to see the value in conventional meditation until I discovered my unorthodox methods that involve hiking and playing the piano. Just as a hiker navigates through the trails, I guide you through my journey, highlighting how essential it is to welcome the wandering mind and celebrate when it's caught, rather than reprimanding it. I introduce a mantra that I discovered: "When you catch yourself wandering, congratulate yourself for catching it and then get back to the task." This central theme resonates through the episode as I uncover the power of 'Relax and Struggle,' a concept prevalent in sports, arts, and trades. Understand how the mind and the body can both move freely when tension is released. I share how the mantra, my unconventional meditation techniques, and maintaining a relaxed state amidst struggles have helped me deal with negative thoughts and stay resilient during challenges. Come join me in this enlightening dialogue, and perhaps, you'll find a fresh perspective on how to manage your struggles with grace and ease. Support the Show: Buy Me A Coffee! Website: SecondMix.net Email Me: matt@secondmix.net REFLECT, REVISE, and REMIX your life and business with the MONTHLY Second Mix Newsletter covering GOAL MASTERY for Real Estate Professionals. Your business gets better as YOU get better! Sign Up Now

    7 min

  7. 07/03/2023

    Master Blogging, Affiliate Marketing, and Website Investing with Chris Myles: A Journey from 9-5 to Passive Income Streams

    Find Chris at bloggerevolution.com. Master the ins and outs of blogging and affiliate marketing with our guest, Chris Myles. Buckle up as we journey through the digital domain of website investing, buying, and selling websites. Discover how you can create a lucrative stream of passive income by generating content that ranks high on Google, and positioning your products in front of a vast audience. Delve into Chris's personal journey from working a typical nine-to-five to becoming a full-time blogger and affiliate marketer. Absorb his insightful tips on crafting content that resonates with the audience and learn how to play the Google game like a pro. Gain wisdom on personal and business development, understanding the importance of specificity when communicating on platforms like podcasts and YouTube. Last but not least, let's unravel the importance of specific branding. Chris discusses how to distill your brand into a few words and why a crystal clear understanding of your brand is a game-changer when marketing yourself. This episode promises to be a journey of discovery into the world of blogging, affiliate marketing, and making wise investments in the digital space. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn, grow, and maybe even transform your income stream! Buy Me A Coffee! SecondMix.net matt@secondmix.net Support the Show: Buy Me A Coffee! Website: SecondMix.net Email Me: matt@secondmix.net REFLECT, REVISE, and REMIX your life and business with the MONTHLY Second Mix Newsletter covering GOAL MASTERY for Real Estate Professionals. Your business gets better as YOU get better! Sign Up Now

    38 min
  8. Personal Development for Third Graders and All Elementary Ages

    05/21/2023

    Personal Development for Third Graders and All Elementary Ages

    This is a special podcast I wrote as a follow-up after visiting Mrs. Webb's third-grade classroom to speak about what I do.  It was a wonderful experience, the children asked a lot of good questions, and had a lot of great insights already into what it takes to become better, stronger, and wiser.  It's my hope to do more events like this in my life! Support the Show: Buy Me A Coffee! Website: SecondMix.net Email Me: matt@secondmix.net REFLECT, REVISE, and REMIX your life and business with the MONTHLY Second Mix Newsletter covering GOAL MASTERY for Real Estate Professionals. Your business gets better as YOU get better! Sign Up Now

    5 min
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The Second Mix podcast is about thinking clearly about what you’re building — and why. Rather than focusing on motivation or surface-level productivity, the conversations center on goals as commitments: what they reveal about priorities, what they cost, and how they shape the direction of a life over time. Episodes explore questions most people avoid slowing down enough to answer:  Which goals are actually yours?Which ones are inherited, performative, or outdated?What happens when clarity replaces pressure? Through solo reflections and long-form conversations, the podcast invites listeners to write things down, examine tradeoffs, and treat goal-setting as a serious act of self-direction rather than an annual ritual or inspirational exercise. The emphasis is on choosing deliberately. The podcast serves as an entry point into the broader Second Mix philosophy — one that values orientation over intensity, clarity over noise, and honest self-assessment over borrowed ambition. “Don’t wish things were easier, wish you were better.” - Jim Rohn

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