The Self-Led Leader

Dr. Christina Aidy
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The Self-Led Leader is a podcast for thoughtful, reflective leaders who want to understand the psychology of confidence, communication, and executive presence. Hosted by Dr. Christina Aidy, social psychologist, the show explores the three key signals that determine how you come across before strategy or tactics do: your internal state, communication patterns, and how you respond under pressure. These three signals shape whether your competence is trusted, questioned, or overlooked. Because leadership doesn’t start with what you say. It starts with the state you’re speaking from.

  1. FEB 3

    Why “Sounding Confident” Feels So Hard at Work (Based on Psychology)

    Tired of losing your train of thought, frequently rambling, or leaving your meetings feeling like a self-conscious mess? You're not alone. Feeling like "confident communication" is always out of reach doesn't mean you're destined to be a terrible speaker your whole life - it actually means that the generic advice you see online won't work until you understand the psychological reasons why you're being held back.That's why in today's episode, I'm covering the three BIGGEST psychology-based reasons I see leaders continue to sound uncertain (and how to change them). In this video, you'll learn:• How the things you were taught years ago are (still) holding you back• The importance of your stress levels & physiological state - AND how deeply it impacts the way you sound• The reason you actually need to consume MORE, but intentionally.By the end, you'll understand exactly why speaking with confidence has felt so hard, and the changes you need to make to finally become the confident communicator you've dreamed of being.🔗 MENTION: THE 180 SIGNALS ASSESSMENTIf you want to dive deeper into the signals you're already sending, and understand how to fix your signals to improve your executive presence, this free assessment is your place to start.Grab your free copy here: https://www.christinaaidy.com/180signals 📌 CONNECT WITH MEOn InstagramOn Linkedin🔗 PERSONAL COACHINGIf you're ready to make 2026 the year your executive presence reflects your competence and expertise, sign up for personal coaching here:https://www.christinaaidy.com/leadership-coaching

    32 min

  2. JAN 19

    How to develop your executive presence in 2026

    If this is the year you're aiming for that promotion or c-suite position, you first need to make sure your executive presence is up to par. Because it's not just about how skilled or competent you are... it's about your ability to lead yourself and your people.In this episode, I'm covering the three key skills you need to develop to make your executive presence stand out in 2026. After all, the corporate space has changed and listening to the same vague "be more confident" advice won't work. I'm unpacking:• the growing importance of emotional intelligence and emotional regulation,• the impact of your communication skills,• and the influence of your non-verbal cues.By the end of this video, you'll walk away with actionable strategies you can start implementing today.🔗 MENTION: THE 180 SIGNALS ASSESSMENTIf you want to dive deeper into the signals you're already sending, and understand how to fix your signals to improve your executive presence, this free assessment is your place to start.Grab your free copy here: https://www.christinaaidy.com/180signals

    23 min

  3. JAN 6

    The biggest goal-setting mistake leaders make & How to build habits that stick in 2026

    Your goals don’t live in your calendar, they live in your behavioural patterns. In this episode, I break down why "being consistent" isn't enough for your 2026 goals and explain how to identify the personal prerequisites you need in order to actually make your habits stick this year. This is goal-setting for leaders who are done with surface-level productivity advice and want a more psychologically accurate way to build (and maintain) their momentum. For ways to work together, check out: www.christinaaidy.com

    17 min

  4. 12/08/2025

    Stop Faking Confidence When You Speak (How Real Influence Is Actually Built)

    If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation, meeting, or presentation thinking, “That didn’t land the way I wanted,” this episode is for you. I'm breaking down the biggest myth about influence (that it’s all about polished delivery or fake confidence) and getting to the real psychology of what makes people trust you and listen to you. You’ll learn the three types of signals you’re sending every time you speak (whether you realize it or not), and how to align them to build natural, authentic authority. If you’re tired of overthinking every word and still not feeling impactful, this is your roadmap to speaking with calm confidence that actually connects. To get your FREE copy of the 180 Signals Assessment, go to: www.christinaaidy.com

    32 min

  5. 12/04/2025

    The quick and easy way to make your meetings feel MEANINGFUL.

    Say goodbye to dry, dull, and pointless meetings. As a leader (founder, coach, or consultant) you don't have the time or mental energy to waste on any more calls that leave you thinking "what was the point of that" - even worse, you don't want to be the one doing that to others. That's why, in this episode, I'm giving you the 3 simple tweaks you need to implement today to make your meetings feel meaningful AND way more effective, productive, and enjoyable. If you'd like me to audit your call structure and give you personalized feedback on how to make your meetings way more strategic and engaging, reach out to me on IG, Linkedin, or through my website: www.christinaaidy.com

    15 min

  6. 11/11/2025

    10x your confidence speaking by tweaking these 3 simple things

    You know that first impressions matter... but how you sound is a major part of that first impression. When you have the title, you need the credibility and confidence to back it up. And that comes with understanding how you sound while speaking. In today's episode, I'm sharing the three simple changes I help my clients make that make the biggest difference in their confidence and how they sound. The best part? You can make these changes on your own, starting today. And I'll teach you how. If you want to dive deeper in understanding how your current communication skills show up in your executive presence (or lack thereof), come download my free executive presence workbook here: www.christinaaidy.com/worksheet

    25 min

  7. 10/31/2025

    Body Language: How to understand non verbal cues like a PRO so you feel more confident speaking

    Ever finish a conversation thinking something about it was just a little off, but you couldn't quite put your finger on it? That's likely because you were picking up on the other person's non-verbal cues that didn't match what they said to you. Non-verbal cues matter more than your words do - before they happen ALL THE TIME, without you even realizing. But there is a difference between picking up on others' cues and learning to be mindful of your own. When you learn to understand what your own body cues are saying to others, this will help you convey the right message to the person you're speaking with - the message you actually intend to make. This is SO important, especially as a leader or founder, who carries more authority and responsibility in the business. Today's episode is actually from the non-verbal cues module from my Intentional Communication Mastery course, designed specifically to help you communicate with more confidence using psychology and behavioural science. The full course is now part of my community, Club Coherence (you can join today for one low monthly fee and cancel anytime) at https://club-coherence.mn.co

    21 min

  8. 10/21/2025

    You can't overcome your fear of public speaking until you understand this about you.

    If you feel like you've tried every possible tip to feel less anxious before speaking and they STILL don't work, this episode is for you. Today, I unpack the number thing that's overlooked to actually help you feel more calm, confident, and in control - especially while speaking or showing up in front of others. 👉 In this episode, you’ll learn:• How your nervous system regulation is the hidden key to your confidence• 3 techniques most people skip (which is why they don't see results) 🔗 MENTION: Club CoherenceClub Coherence is your space to turn overthinking into clarity and nerves into confidence, so you can stop second-guessing how you look and sound and develop confident authority that feels good and gets remembered. Join here: https://club-coherence.mn.co

    17 min
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The Self-Led Leader is a podcast for thoughtful, reflective leaders who want to understand the psychology of confidence, communication, and executive presence. Hosted by Dr. Christina Aidy, social psychologist, the show explores the three key signals that determine how you come across before strategy or tactics do: your internal state, communication patterns, and how you respond under pressure. These three signals shape whether your competence is trusted, questioned, or overlooked. Because leadership doesn’t start with what you say. It starts with the state you’re speaking from.

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  • Creator
    Dr. Christina Aidy
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    42
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dr. Christina Aidy
  • Show Website
    The Self-Led Leader