What if the reason your love life, fulfillment, or success hasn’t fully clicked yet has nothing to do with “them” and everything to do with you? Whether it’s relationships, business, or life itself, most of us are searching outward for alignment, validation, and connection. But here’s the truth I learned as a professional matchmaker: nothing will truly align until you do. In this episode, I’m showing you the one action you need to take before anyone or anything can truly align, whether romantic or life in general. This conversation goes beyond romance, because I break down the three principles that determine what you attract in love, business, and life. You’ll learn: What self-love is, How it affects everything you do, How to truly love yourself, How your energy silently dictates your results, How to build the foundation of your confidence, And how to raise the standard for how people treat you. You’ll also learn my brain-based Tune-In Process, a simple four-step method to quiet your inner critic, shift your energy, and take aligned action in under two minutes. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unfulfilled, or like you’re settling for “good enough,” make sure you listen till the end of this video. This episode of the Relaunch To A Rich Life podcast will show you how to activate the most important relationship of all, which is loving yourself. — Ready to take this work deeper? Download Hilary’s free 7-day “Relaunch: Date Yourself” challenge and start building alignment from the inside out @ >> relaunchdateyourself.com __ If this episode lit something inside you, that quiet knowing that you’re meant for more, then I want to personally invite you into the most powerful room of the year. ReLaunch To A Rich Life LIVE is a transformative, neuroscience-backed 3-day experience happening September 17–19, 2026 in Scottsdale, Arizona. It’s designed for women who are done playing small and ready to step into clarity, confidence, and next-level success, not just in business, but in health, wealth, relationships, and life. This isn’t another event, it’s a quantum upgrade into the life you’re meant to live. Join women who are ready to rewire their identity, elevate their frequency, and claim a Rich Life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside. Learn more and join us in September: relaunchtoarichlife.com — Connect with Hilary: Website: https://www.therelaunch.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at hello@therelaunch.com Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen