The Social Exchange

Zach Rhoads

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  1. Episode 84: Christopher Chabris | Nobody's Fool: Why We Get Taken In (and what we can do about it)

    07/13/2023

    Episode 84: Christopher Chabris | Nobody's Fool: Why We Get Taken In (and what we can do about it)

    Today’s guest is Dr. Christopher Chabris. We talked about his new book (with Daniel Simons), “Nobody’s Fool.” Chris is a cognitive scientist. His research in this field focuses on attention, decision-making, collective intelligence, cognitive ability, and behavioral genetics. Outside of the his academic community, he is a known chess master, and best known for his book (written with Daniel Simons), The Invisible Gorilla. Chabris and Simons won an Ig Nobel Prize for their Invisible Gorilla experiment, from which the book idea stemmed. The two have now published a new book, “Nobody’s Fool,” about how our cognitive tendencies and habits and the information we find appealing can be used against us, even though most of the time they’re really effective. In all the movies and podcasts and articles and so on about scams, they talk about what the con artists did, how they were caught, how the victims felt about it, and what the victims did about it. But none of them really explain why people keep falling for these scams. Nobody’s Fool takes a cognitive science approach to doing just that. It is now available in bookstores everywhere, on Amazon, and at their publisher's web site (links below). * * * * * * LEARN MORE ABOUT THE BOOK * * * * * * Publisher's Page (with links to all major book-selling outlets) https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/daniel-simons/nobodys-fool/9781541602236/ * * * * * * SUPPORT THE SOCIAL EXCHANGE * * * * * * Subscribe To This Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7UKA-74CZdv-MimwmK4V0Q Donate to Patreon: https://patreon.com/thesocialexchange Listen on Your Preferred Podcast App: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-social-exchange/id1333527133

    1h 17m
  2. Episode 80: Hacking School Discipline (with Nathan Maynard)

    02/18/2022

    Episode 80: Hacking School Discipline (with Nathan Maynard)

    Nathan Maynard is a student voice advocate and author of The Washington Post best-selling book, "Hacking School Discipline" about proactive and restorative practice (as opposed to reactive and punitive) in schools. Nathan previously worked as an administrator at Purdue Polytechnic High School in Indianapolis, as the Dean of Culture. He also is the Co-Founder of BehaviorFlip, a restorative behavior management system that helps build a culture of empathy and responsibility. Today, Zach Rhoads speaks with Nathan to discuss restorative practice versus punishment in schools. They discuss: 0:00 Introduction to "Hacking School Discipline" 1:35 10,000 foot view of Nathan's restorative model (Student-centered / adult-led school routines and practices) 3:35 Nathan's basis for writing the book and teaching restorative practice 10:02 Example of punishment versus restorative practice (and the consequences of using one rather than the other) 14:11 Restorative circles (i.e. front-loading collaboration and restorative practice to avoid headaches later on) 21:13 Strategies for engaging apprehensive students 25:48 Scaling restorative practice school-wide 31:15 When restorative practice fails (culture and mindset) 37:42 Tracking progress / fail fast / correcting errors / growth mindset 43:05 Final tips / hints for getting started in your school Support The Social Exchange: Patreon https://patreon.com/thesocialexchange - - - - - - - - - - LINKS TO NATHAN'S WORK The book: https://www.amazon.com/Hacking-School-Discipline-Responsibility-Restorative/dp/1948212137 BehaviorFlip web site: https://behaviorflip.com/ Nathan's Twitter: https://twitter.com/NmaynardEdu School Discipline Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/HackingSchoolDiscipline   THANK YOU TO ALL PATRONS:  - Pat Casey -Dora -Jeffrey Singer - Steven Rabinowitz - Jessie Dunleavy  - Andrew Tatarsky - Dean LeMire - Christy McPherson  - Nunzio De Martino (Courtesy of "Don Nunzio Limos" https://donnunziolimos.com/)  - Susan Lennon - James Stacks - Chris L - W Leon Naufahu  - Sherry Chandler - Dee-Dee Stout - Christopher Hanlon  - André Pampel - CARTER Vermont https://www.cartervermont.org/ - Rick Barnett  - Anne M. Earle - Inigo - Jon Holt - Laila Ferguson - Mary Kay Villaverde - Michelle - NANCY - Sean Holt - Regina Ferguson - Timmy Tucker - Christian - Thomas Rhoads - Kathleen Cochran - Marjorie Israel - Diane T - Trevor  - Sue Mathieu - Linda Rhoads

    49 min
  3. Ep. 79 | Dr. Mark Goulston: How to Use SURGICAL EMPATHY

    12/02/2021

    Ep. 79 | Dr. Mark Goulston: How to Use SURGICAL EMPATHY

    In this episode, Dr. Mark Goulston explains the best way to get through to absolutely ANYONE, in a way that enables them to open up about their deepest concerns. Mark Goulston is a Marshall Goldsmith 100 Coaches executive coach and author or co-author of nine books with his book, “Just Listen,” being translated into 28 languages and becoming the top book on listening in the world. He hosts the highly ranked podcast, My Wakeup Call, where he conversationally interviews people including Larry King, Jordan Peterson, Ken Blanchard, Esther Wojcicki and Marshall Goldsmith about their purpose and calling and their origin story and wakeup calls that led them there. He was a UCLA professor of psychiatry for twenty years, a former FBI and police hostage negotiation trainer and an international expert and practitioner focused on suicide prevention. He is also the co-founder of Michelangelo Mindset and the inventor of Surgical Empathy-- a method for getting through to people that enables them to open up about their deepest concerns. BECOME A PATRON: https://patreon.com/thesocialexchange **MORE ABOUT MARK** https://markgoulston.com/ Mark's landing page https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQun_xyJnJw EO Alchemy Suicide Prevention Presentation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_3Ydotys_g&list=RDLVS_3Ydotys_g&start_radio=1  Recent interview with Mikhailia Peterson https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qXnYc8ovShg "Tell My Story" Documentary https://www.himalaya.com/courses/defeating-self-defeat-3129841?partner-from=15652260&utm_source=partner&utm_medium=mark_goulston  Defeating Self Defeat https://www.amazon.com/Trauma-Triumph-Roadmap-Disruption-Thriving/dp/1400228379/ Mark's recent book, "Trauma to Triumph" - - - - -  THANK YOU to all of our Patrons! - Pat Casey -Dora -Jeffrey Singer - Steven Rabinowitz - Jessie Dunleavy  - Andrew Tatarsky - Dean LeMire - Christy McPherson  - Nunzio De Martino (Courtesy of "Don Nunzio Limos" https://donnunziolimos.com/)  - Susan Lennon - James Stacks - Chris L - W Leon Naufahu  - Sherry Chandler - Dee-Dee Stout - Christopher Hanlon  - André Pampel - CARTER Vermont https://www.cartervermont.org/ - Rick Barnett  - Anne M. Earle - Inigo - Jon Holt - Laila Ferguson - Mary Kay Villaverde - Michelle - NANCY - Sean Holt - Regina Fergu

    1h 19m
  4. Episode 78: Dr. Stanton Peele - How Addiction Psychology Was Transformed Forever

    10/16/2021

    Episode 78: Dr. Stanton Peele - How Addiction Psychology Was Transformed Forever

    In this interview, Stanton Peele discusses his memoir, "A Scientific Life on the Edge: My Lonely Quest to Change How We See Addiction." More importantly, Peele recounts his life story, both in this interview and in his memoir. Beginning with his General Theory of Addiction that he put forth in his 1975 book "Love and Addiction", followed by a discussion of his career as an outsider in mainstream addiction psychology -- an outsider whose knowledge, views, and contributions can never be ignored.  He goes on to explain how he managed to maintain an influential career in psychology and remain focused on his life-purpose, despite never being affiliated with institutions or organizations in his life. Finally, he explains to me how and why he continues to pursue meaning, both in life and in the addiction field.  ***SUPPORT THE SOCIAL EXCHANGE*** Donate to PayPal: https://paypal.me/zrhoads Contribute to Patreon: https://patreon.com/thesocialexchange Use our Audible Link for a free audio book: http://audibletrial.com/socialexchange *****RATE / REVIEW The Social Exchange https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-social-exchange/id1333527133 - - - - - - - - - -  THANK YOU to all of our Patrons! - Pat Casey -Dora -Jeffrey Singer - Steven Rabinowitz - Jessie Dunleavy  - Andrew Tatarsky - Dean LeMire - Christy McPherson  - Nunzio De Martino (Courtesy of "Don Nunzio Limos" https://donnunziolimos.com/)  - Susan Lennon - James Stacks - Chris L - W Leon Naufahu  - Sherry Chandler - Dee-Dee Stout - Christopher Hanlon  - André Pampel - CARTER Vermont https://www.cartervermont.org/ - Rick Barnett  - Anne M. Earle - Inigo - Jon Holt - Laila Ferguson - Mary Kay Villaverde - Michelle - NANCY - Sean Holt - Regina Ferguson - Timmy Tucker - Christian - Thomas Rhoads - Kathleen Cochran - Marjorie Israel - Diane T - Trevor  - Sue Mathieu - Linda Rhoads

    1h 32m
5
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39 Ratings

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"The Social Exchange" is for you if: - - - You think deeply about social issues You long for diverse viewpoints You DARE accept the best possible version of opposing viewpoints You DARE to challenge your own - - - Subscribe to learn about human development, addiction, ethics, science, and more, from the world's LEADING INTELLECTUALS