The Space Between

The Space Between

Exploring the space between life and work

Episodes

  1. Jun 18 ·  Video

    In (Limited) Praise of the Algorithm

    Algorithms get a bad reputation, mostly for good reason. But posting about Widow's Bay on Mastodon and Bluesky and getting almost total silence made me think more carefully about what algorithms are actually bad at versus what they're quietly good at. Those platforms are built around who you follow, not what you care about, so if you don't already have the right people in your feed, you're posting into a void. Threads worked differently. A couple of posts, a bit of engagement, and suddenly my For You feed was full of other people's theories, GIFs, and reactions to the same show. It's an echo chamber, technically, but when the echo is built around something you're enjoying, that's a different thing from the political echo chambers everyone rightly complains about. The same mechanics that surface fans of a show you love also surface conflict, though, and I got my first genuinely snarky reply on Threads after a long stretch of the platform feeling pleasant. One rude correction on a minor plot detail, and the old Twitter instincts came right back. The algorithm sees someone saying they dislike a thing, then routes in someone who likes it and makes sure their paths cross. Conflict generates engagement, engagement generates views, and the platform profits either way. Knowing which mode you're in before you start engaging is probably the only real protection: for surfacing fans of an obscure show, the algorithm is useful; for anything involving politics or tribalism, it's a trap. Published on Subwave https://subwave.app/@thespacebetween/post/in-limited-praise-of-the-algorithm-

    4 min
  2. Jun 17 ·  Video

    Podcasting Into the Void

    Podcasting gets none of the algorithmic help that TikTok or Instagram Reels give you. When you drop an episode into a feed, there's no machine surfacing it to people who don't already know you exist. I've been sitting with that reality on my morning walks lately, and the honest answer is: the freedom from algorithmic control is real, but the cost is a near-total absence of feedback. No replies flooding in ten minutes after you post, no engagement signals telling you whether something landed. The opt-in nature of podcasting also shapes the listener experience differently than social video does. Platforms like TikTok are built to detect the moment you disengage and immediately serve you something else. Podcast listening doesn't work that way. Someone can have it going while washing dishes, half-listening, and rewind 15 seconds when something catches their ear. That lower-friction relationship cuts both ways: there's no pressure to produce exactly six minutes because the feed rewards it this week, but there's also a much higher bar for a listener to actually respond to something you said. I've also been thinking about whether podcasts are really social media at all. What's being pushed on YouTube and Netflix is mostly video with audio attached. The RSS-based, app-driven, subscription model runs on different logic, closer to a newsletter or a radio show than a social feed. My last episode on self-esteem and self-worth resonated with a few people, not many, and that turned out to feel like enough. Published on Subwave https://subwave.app/@thespacebetween/post/podcasting-into-the-void

    6 min
  3. Jun 12 ·  Video

    You Are Not Forgotten or Expendable

    A friend posted to a private list feeling forgotten, expendable, not interesting or important enough. I read it and felt it immediately, because I know that feeling from the inside. The gap between what you know and what you feel is what makes it so hard. I can run through the list of people who genuinely care about me and still wake up the next morning feeling like garbage because nobody noticed whatever I thought would be noticeable. The logic doesn't hold up under inspection, but you can't inspect your way out of it when you're inside it. The standard advice (walk, water, sleep, eat) is all true and genuinely helpful, but what actually moves the needle for me is being pulled into a situation where I have to interact with the world outside my own head. A neighbor stopping me on the way to my truck, a friend needing technical help, my kids, my wife, a random interruption. The embarrassment of acting like I don't matter to the people around me overrides the brain signal saying I don't. The frustrating part is you can't always force it. When you're feeling invisible, the last thing you want to do is reach out and risk confirming that nobody cares enough to respond. If you're in that place right now, feeling forgotten or not enough in whatever direction, the opposite is true. Knowing that and feeling that are two completely different experiences, and I'm not pretending otherwise. But if it helps to have someone on the other end, reach out. And if things are darker than a rough morning, please seek proper help. You deserve more than a video for that. Published on Subwave https://subwave.app/@thespacebetween/post/you-are-not-forgotten-or-expendable

    5 min
  4. May 22 ·  Video

    Threads Feels Like Twitter Used To

    A post about the Survivor finale sparked a real back-and-forth with Eliza, a former contestant, and pulled a whole pocket of Survivor fans into the thread. That kind of spontaneous, cross-cultural collision is exactly what made early Twitter worth checking, and it's what Threads is quietly recreating. The platform has somehow managed to stay culturally mixed and largely tolerable, whether through algorithmic tuning, actual moderation, or both. Threads sits in a different category than Mastodon, Bluesky, or the other networks that filled the post-Twitter gap. Those platforms are good for finding specific communities, but they don't produce the moment where sports, entertainment, and tech all bump into each other in real time. That interaction also brought around 200,000 new followers, which is a nice side effect, but the more telling detail is that Threads is now a place where those moments happen at scale, with random people, famous or not. One thing Threads hasn't cracked yet is the logo moment. TV commentators still link to their Twitter accounts. Movie credits still promote Instagram and Facebook pages. When a platform's icon starts appearing in broadcast graphics and end-credit crawls, it signals mainstream acceptance as infrastructure. Threads isn't there yet, but the recent logo tweak, moving away from something that reads as a plain @ sign, suggests Meta knows it's close. Published on Subwave https://subwave.app/@thespacebetween/post/threads-feels-like-twitter-used-to

    4 min

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