The True "U‪"‬ Meg King

Every wonder why you are afraid of success? Or embarrassed of your accomplishments! Here is my experience on how one of my limiting beliefs became a way of life!

The only limits you have are the limits you believe. Hard to swallow I know but it is true. No one else is getting in your way, but you and your beliefs about what you are capable of. So what is holding you back?

I have been following a friend of mine, Colin Mason (@cmason_20) on his 75Hard journey where he has been working on a program that builds your mental toughness. We are so used to programs that focus on physical health but never our mental health and lately, I have been struggling to get my mind right. I have been living in negative conversations more often than not. I am not staying in the conversations long, but they are frequent and I am trying to understand why. Colin's journey has given me some insight on what may be missing in my world which is being intentional around building my mental toughness. As a courage coach, I live with great courage daily but then have hiccups and have to start all over. This program would allow me to live 75 days, consecutively, where I get to build up my mental stamina. Which scares the living hell out of me but I know I need it. Is there something you are fighting internally that is zapping the joy out of your life that you need a reset? Let's talk or even better, join me on this challenge. Check out www.75hard.com

Have you ever paid attention to the dialog between you and yourself? Every wonder why you aren't feeling on top of your game. Check out the conversations you are having with yourself and see if something needs to change!

Preparing for change can be scary, but when you realize that staying the same is even more terrifying, then it’s time to ask yourself a few thought-provoking questions. Working as a coach I have noticed the hard truth that in order to reach your dreams and hit your goals, you have to be vulnerable and willing to get uncomfortable. I always say - got to get comfortable with being uncomfortable! 

Have you ever felt guilty for feeling joyful? After I lost Terese, I almost automatically told myself I could NEVER feel happy again as it would not honor her death. When I had Tegan, I started to experience that I could live with sadness and joy without feeling bad. I could love Tegan and miss Terese in the same moment. I could be smiling while crying knowing that I had to lose Terese in order to have Tegan. Instead of forcing yourself to feel one way or another - allow yourself to live in both places. Honor the sadness and Celebrate the Joy!