The Underlying Answers

Cindy Costley

Welcome to The Underlying Answers Podcast—a deep exploration into the intelligence of the human body, the hidden patterns shaping our lives, and what it truly means to heal. I believe the next era of healing is reconnection—reconnection to our bodies, to ourselves, and to a more complete understanding of what it means to be human. One where science, energy, consciousness, lived experience, and faith inform one another instead of competing for the right answer. Each episode explores how the body, nervous system, emotions, behaviors, relationships, beliefs, and life experiences are deeply interconnected. Through the lens of the Six Frequencies of Human Regulation™—spiritual, energetic, mental, emotional, physical, and behavioral—we uncover how the body adapts for survival, stores life experiences, and continually communicates through symptoms, sensations, emotions, and behavior. Hosted by Cindy Costley, creator of EBDT™ (Electromagnetic Body Desensitization Technique), these conversations explore the deeper intelligence that connects healing, regulation, adaptation, and transformation through the hidden patterns shaping the human experience. Some conversations are deeply personal. Others are expansive, intuitive, philosophical, or unexpectedly confronting. Together with practitioners, researchers, authors, survivors, and thought leaders, we create space for deeper exploration, unplanned insight, and the kinds of conversations that emerge when people are willing to ask better questions about healing, consciousness, and what it truly means to restore human health and potential. Whether you're navigating your own healing journey, a practitioner expanding the way you understand the body, or someone who simply senses there is more to healing than we've been taught, this podcast invites you into a different kind of conversation—one rooted in curiosity, humility, and the belief that some of our greatest breakthroughs happen when we reconnect what has been separated. Let's Restore the Design together.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    Can Faith and Frequency Coexist? A Conversation That Challenges Assumptions

    Can someone be deeply rooted in their faith while also exploring the science of frequency medicine? In this episode of The Underlying Answers Podcast, Cindy sits down with Rob Rene, founder of Exodus Strong, for a thoughtful conversation about one of the most misunderstood topics in natural health: frequencies. Together, they explore why frequency-based therapies are often met with skepticism—particularly within Christian communities—and why discernment, curiosity, and truth matter more than fear. Rob shares the remarkable story of how he originally set out to prove a friend wrong about frequency healing. Instead, his own research and personal experience led him to a very different conclusion, strengthening his belief that science and faith don't have to exist in opposition. The conversation also explores Rob's four foundational pillars of health—Light, Frequencies, Fuel, and Faith—and how each contributes to supporting the body's natural design. Rather than asking listeners to simply accept a new perspective, this episode invites us to ask different questions, examine our assumptions, and consider whether science and faith may reveal complementary truths about how our bodies were designed to heal. In this episode, you'll discover: Rob's journey from skeptic to advocate of frequency-based healingWhy frequency medicine is often misunderstood within faith communitiesHow discernment differs from fear when exploring new ideasThe four pillars of health: Light, Frequencies, Fuel, and FaithWhy supporting the body involves more than addressing symptomsHow science and faith can work together to deepen our understanding of healingWhether you're curious about frequency medicine, wrestling with questions of faith and health, or simply interested in exploring healing through a broader lens, this conversation offers an invitation to think critically, remain open, and pursue truth with both wisdom and humility. Connect with Rob Rene: www.exodusstrong.com If this conversation resonated with you, we'd love to invite you to join the Restore the Design™ Community—a place to continue exploring the deeper connections between the body, mind, spirit, and the human experience. Together, we're asking better questions, discovering new perspectives, and learning what it means to reconnect with the body's innate design. You can learn more and join us at www.theunderlyinganswers.com/community

    Can Faith and Frequency Coexist? A Conversation That Challenges Assumptions
  2. Jul 31

    The Hidden Connection Between Oral Health and Whole-Body Healing

    What if your mouth is communicating far more about your health than you've ever realized? In this episode of The Underlying Answers Podcast, Cindy sits down with functional dentist Dr. Yasmin Chubbi to explore a different way of thinking about oral health—one that looks beyond teeth and gums to understand how the mouth influences the entire body. Together, they discuss what makes functional dentistry different from traditional dentistry and the benefits of viewing oral health as part of a whole-body system, rather than in isolation. From chronic inflammation and infections to breathing patterns, sleep apnea, and the body's energetic meridian system, Dr. Chubbi explains how seemingly local issues within the mouth can have far-reaching effects throughout the body. This conversation offers a fascinating introduction to the interconnected nature of human health and highlights why understanding the body as a whole often reveals answers that isolated approaches can miss. In this episode, you'll discover: What functional dentistry is and how it differs from traditional dental careWhy oral health plays a much larger role in overall wellness than most people realizeHow infections and chronic inflammation in the mouth can influence the rest of the bodyThe relationship between the mouth, meridians, and whole-body functionHow breathing patterns, jaw development, and oral health may contribute to sleep apnea and other health concernsWhy viewing the body as an interconnected system changes the questions we ask about health Whether you're interested in holistic health, chronic illness, or simply curious about how the mouth connects to the rest of the body, this episode offers a compelling look at one of the most overlooked pieces of whole-person health. Connect with Dr. Yasmin Chebbi: Instagram: @the_flossery If this conversation resonated with you, we'd love to invite you to join the Restore the Design™ Community—a place to continue exploring the deeper connections between the body, mind, spirit, and the human experience. Together, we're asking better questions, discovering new perspectives, and learning what it means to reconnect with the body's innate design. You can learn more and join us at www.theunderlyinganswers.com/community

    The Hidden Connection Between Oral Health and Whole-Body Healing
  3. Jul 22

    When Doing Becomes Too Heavy: Finding Peace Beyond Burnout

    When Being Strong Becomes Too Heavy. What if the exhaustion you're feeling isn't coming from everything you're doing—but from who you've believed you needed to be? In this episode of The Underlying Answers Podcast, Cindy sits down with life coach and HR executive Lori Pugh for an honest conversation about the hidden patterns that leave so many people overwhelmed, anxious, and emotionally exhausted. Together, they explore how the pressure to be responsible, capable, dependable, and everything to everyone can quietly become part of our identity. While these qualities are often celebrated, they can also lead us to carry burdens we were never meant to bear, leaving us disconnected from ourselves, our peace, and the life we truly want to live. Rather than offering quick fixes for burnout, Lori invites listeners to look beneath the surface—to understand where these patterns begin, why they persist, and what becomes possible when we finally release the need to hold everything together. If you've ever found yourself constantly striving, overthinking, or wondering why life still feels overwhelming despite doing everything "right," this conversation offers a compassionate invitation to reconnect with yourself and discover a different way of living. In this episode, we discuss: • What often lies beneath overwhelm, burnout, and anxiety • How responsibility can quietly become part of our identity • The hidden cost of always being the dependable one • Why so many people struggle to experience lasting peace and balance • Letting go of the pressure to fix everything and everyone • Reconnecting with authenticity, faith, and your true sense of self • What changes when you finally choose yourself To learn more about Lori Pugh and her work, visit: Lori Pugh | Life Coaching If today's conversation resonated with you, we'd love to continue exploring these ideas together. Join our free Restore the Design community, where we dive deeper into the connections between the body, mind, healing, and what it means to live in alignment with how we were designed. Community - The Underlying Answers

    When Doing  Becomes Too Heavy: Finding Peace Beyond Burnout
  4. Jul 3

    Healing Through the Eyes of a Neuroscientist: Where Science, Spirituality, and Consciousness Meet

    Healing Through the Eyes of a Neuroscientist: Where Science, Spirituality, and Consciousness Meet What if healing isn't about choosing between science and spirituality—but discovering how they were always meant to work together? In this episode of The Underlying Answers Podcast, Cindy sits down with neuroscientist Dr. Cindy Sholes for an open and thought-provoking conversation that challenges the traditional boundaries of healing. Together, they explore how neuroscience, consciousness, spirituality, and integrative healing practices each contribute valuable pieces to understanding the human experience. Rather than viewing Western medicine, Eastern practices, and consciousness as competing approaches, they discuss how fear, personal experiences, and deeply held beliefs can unknowingly create barriers that prevent us from embracing a more complete model of healing. The conversation also explores why lasting healing often requires looking beyond symptoms to identify the originating events, patterns, and beliefs that continue to shape our health. By understanding what lies beneath the surface, we can begin moving from simply managing symptoms to addressing the deeper causes that influence how we think, feel, and function. Whether you're grounded in science, drawn to spirituality, or simply curious about how these worlds can complement one another, this episode offers an invitation to rethink what's possible when we stop asking which approach is right—and begin asking how they can work together. In this episode, we discuss: • Why science and spirituality don't have to exist on opposite sides of healing • The role of consciousness in creating lasting transformation • Finding the originating event instead of chasing symptoms • How beliefs can become protective patterns that quietly keep us stuck • Fear as a barrier to receiving healing from unexpected places • Why integrating Western medicine, Eastern practices, and consciousness creates a more complete healing model • Learning to trust the wisdom and intelligence of the body To learn more about Dr. Cindy Sholes and her work, visit: Emotions Matter. Master Yours. - Dr. Cindy Sholes If today's conversation resonated with you, we'd love to continue exploring these ideas together. Join our free Restore the Design community, where we dive deeper into the connections between science, consciousness, the nervous system, healing, and what it means to live in alignment with how we were designed. Community - The Underlying Answers

    Healing Through the Eyes of a Neuroscientist: Where Science, Spirituality, and Consciousness Meet
  5. Jun 25

    When the Scream Wants to Come Out: Practical Self-Care for Real Life

    What does self-care actually look like when you're overwhelmed, exhausted, caring for others, and barely making it through the day? In this episode, Cindy sits down with Rebe Goebel, trauma-informed somatic healer, author, advocate, and mother of two neurodivergent teens, for a refreshingly honest conversation about what it means to care for yourself when life doesn't slow down. Together, they explore the human side of stress, caregiving, nervous system regulation, and the moments when emotions feel so intense that "the scream wants to come out of your mouth." Rather than focusing on self-care as something that only happens on vacation, at a spa, or during a retreat, Rebe shares practical strategies that can be integrated into everyday life—even in the middle of chaos. Throughout the conversation, Rebe offers simple yet powerful tools for staying present, habit-stacking supportive practices, and learning to prioritize your own well-being while continuing to show up for the people who depend on you. This episode is a reminder that healing doesn't always happen in grand gestures. Sometimes it begins with a single pause, a deeper breath, or a moment of choosing yourself in the middle of a difficult day. In this episode, we discuss: • Practical self-care for real life—not ideal life • Nervous system regulation during stressful moments • Why pauses are more powerful than most people realize • Habit stacking and creating sustainable, supportive practices • Caregiving without completely losing yourself • Responding instead of reacting during difficult moments • The relationship between presence, resilience, and healing Connect with Rebe Goebel: www.rebegoebel.com Rebe Goebel | Author (@rebegoebel) • Instagram profile Join our free community, Restore the Design, where we explore the deeper connections between the body, nervous system, healing, and what it means to live in alignment with how we were designed to function. Community - The Underlying Answers

    When the Scream Wants to Come Out: Practical Self-Care for Real Life
  6. Jun 17

    From Pressure to Partnership with Your Body

    So many women have been taught to approach health, healing, and body change through pressure, restriction, self-criticism, and force — believing that if they could just try harder, control themselves more, or finally “fix” themselves, lasting change would come. But what if that pressure is actually part of what keeps people stuck? In this episode of The Underlying Answers Podcast, Cindy sits down with Mindset & Embodiment Coach Jami Fassett to explore the deeper patterns behind nervous system safety, self-trust, body image, emotional healing, and sustainable transformation. After spending 27 years trapped in the all-or-nothing dieting cycle, Jami experienced a radical shift that changed everything: learning to lead with joy, self-partnership, and safety instead of pressure and punishment. Now, after maintaining a 70-pound weight loss for eight years, she helps women create supportive, sustainable change without fighting themselves in the process. Together, Cindy and Jami explore: • Why pressure-driven healing often backfires • The nervous system’s role in lasting change • What self-criticism does to the body over time • Why joy and safety matter in the healing process • Rebuilding trust with the body after years of control and criticism • The difference between forcing change and supporting transformation This conversation is a powerful reminder that healing may not come from learning how to push harder — but from finally learning how to work with yourself instead of against yourself. Join our free Restore the Design community for deeper conversations around healing, body awareness, nervous system regulation, innate intelligence of the body, and personal transformation: Community - The Underlying Answers Follow Jami: https://www.jamifassett.com/  https://www.instagram.com/jamifassett/  If this episode resonated, join Jami for From Pressure to Partnership Live, a free interactive monthly workshop series where you can explore creating sustainable health change through self-trust, partnership, and joy instead of pressure and perfectionism. Register at https://www.jamifassett.com/events.

    From Pressure to Partnership with Your Body
  7. Apr 10

    I Was "Allergic to the World"

    In this episode of The Underlying Answers Podcast, Cindy Costley shares her personal journey of developing severe, life-altering reactions at the age of 15—and how those patterns continued to expand over time. What began as visible rashes and reactions to foods, environments, medications, and materials slowly progressed into a body that felt like it was reacting to everything. After years of searching for answers, pushing through life’s challenges, and navigating additional stressors—including loss and single motherhood—Cindy reached a breaking point at age 48 when her body could no longer keep up. Following a severe anaphylactic reaction and a rapid decline in her health, she was faced with a perspective that changed everything: Her symptoms were not random—they were connected to unresolved experiences her body had been holding all along. In this episode, you’ll learn: How physical symptoms can develop and expand over time Why your body may be responding to more than just your current environment The connection between stored stress, past experiences, and physical reactions What it means to begin seeing your body as a messenger instead of the problem If you’ve ever felt like your body is unpredictable, limiting your life, or not making sense—this episode will help you begin to see your symptoms through a different lens. Because your body isn’t working against you. It’s responding. And when you begin to understand why… Everything can start to change. It’s time to restore the design.

    I Was "Allergic to the World"

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Welcome to The Underlying Answers Podcast—a deep exploration into the intelligence of the human body, the hidden patterns shaping our lives, and what it truly means to heal. I believe the next era of healing is reconnection—reconnection to our bodies, to ourselves, and to a more complete understanding of what it means to be human. One where science, energy, consciousness, lived experience, and faith inform one another instead of competing for the right answer. Each episode explores how the body, nervous system, emotions, behaviors, relationships, beliefs, and life experiences are deeply interconnected. Through the lens of the Six Frequencies of Human Regulation™—spiritual, energetic, mental, emotional, physical, and behavioral—we uncover how the body adapts for survival, stores life experiences, and continually communicates through symptoms, sensations, emotions, and behavior. Hosted by Cindy Costley, creator of EBDT™ (Electromagnetic Body Desensitization Technique), these conversations explore the deeper intelligence that connects healing, regulation, adaptation, and transformation through the hidden patterns shaping the human experience. Some conversations are deeply personal. Others are expansive, intuitive, philosophical, or unexpectedly confronting. Together with practitioners, researchers, authors, survivors, and thought leaders, we create space for deeper exploration, unplanned insight, and the kinds of conversations that emerge when people are willing to ask better questions about healing, consciousness, and what it truly means to restore human health and potential. Whether you're navigating your own healing journey, a practitioner expanding the way you understand the body, or someone who simply senses there is more to healing than we've been taught, this podcast invites you into a different kind of conversation—one rooted in curiosity, humility, and the belief that some of our greatest breakthroughs happen when we reconnect what has been separated. Let's Restore the Design together.