The Unmasked Project

The Unmasked Project

Hosted by Layla Shay This is a solo podcast about taking the mask off and telling the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable. No small talk. No perfection. No pretending. We talk authenticity, identity, mental health, relationships, sex, creativity, and the messy in-between moments where life cracks you open and asks you to be real. Sometimes it’s just me. Sometimes friends join in. Always honest. If you’re tired of performing and ready for real conversations you’re in the right place. 🎙️ New episodes weekly 🖤 Take it off. You’re safe here.

  1. FEB 10

    Brian coaches Layla now.... "Idk if I can be your friend".

    In this episode of The Unmasked Project, Coach Brian sits down with Layla for an honest, no-filter conversation about patterns, growth, and the uncomfortable truths that come with real self-development. They catch up on life, unpack Layla’s history of questionable decisions (we’ve all been there), and dig into a recurring theme: self-sabotage. Why does Layla keep getting in her own way and what is she actually afraid of stepping into? The conversation turns toward a powerful new chapter: Layla’s upcoming participation in Atlas, a leadership program that demands radical honesty, emotional exposure, and the willingness to be deeply uncomfortable in order to grow. This isn’t surface-level mindset work, it’s the kind of inner excavation that changes how you show up in every area of life. They also talk about where Brian’s journey has taken him and what he’s building now, including his podcast Growth Snacks, where he dives deep with gurus, entrepreneurs, and thought leaders on business, growth, and personal evolution. If you’ve ever wondered: Why you repeat the same patterns How self-sabotage actually shows up in real life What true vulnerability really requires Or what it looks like to choose growth even when it’s uncomfortable This episode is for you. 🎙 Guest: Coach Brian🎧 Listen to Brian’s podcast: Growth Snacks Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07WMkOgk7YftShOwADIoab?si=b9c8b75f558f423f https://www.youtube.com/@GrowthSnacks Instagram https://www.instagram.com/growthsnacks?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@growthsnacks.pod?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc 🎭 Host: Layla Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share and let us know in the comments what part of this conversation hit home for you.

    43 min
  2. 10/21/2025

    We’ve Been Lying to Ourselves—Time for a Real Talk

    🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project! This week, Layla and Brian throw off the last of their filters for the realest episode yet. No guests. No script. Just two co-hosts at a crossroads, confronting their creative and personal tensions head-on. They break down the behind-the-scenes struggles of running a sex-positive show in a platform-hostile algorithm, the burnout from doing it all themselves, and the existential question: is The Masked Swingers still serving their lives—or stalling them? From Layla’s passion for addiction recovery to Brian’s drive for purpose over clout, they explore what it means to evolve publicly, vulnerably, and messily. They don’t have all the answers, but they’ve got the courage to ask the hard questions. Whether you've been here from the first masked mic check or just stumbled into this unfiltered spiral, you're getting the truth. 💥 In this episode: Why the podcast’s original mission no longer fits Sex content vs. searchability: fighting the algorithm Brian's pivot toward coaching & high-impact work Layla’s secret side hustle helping addicts—for free The real reason they're burned out (spoiler: it’s not each other) Why viral clips don’t convert to real listeners Can this show still evolve, or is it time to part ways? What happens when your creative partner wants out ⏰ Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro: couches, mics, and chaos 0:35 – Reflecting on 18 months of podcasting 1:20 – How the show started: masks, apps, and pivots 2:15 – What’s changed—and why they’re confused 4:00 – Podcasting as a business vs. a passion project 6:30 – Layla’s tension: wanting to expand, fearing audience backlash 9:10 – Brian’s struggle: impact vs. irrelevance 12:45 – Burnout, the algorithm, and sex content suppression 15:00 – Going viral isn’t enough: lessons from failed traction 17:15 – The dark side of self-funded media 19:50 – Layla’s addiction recovery work: the unpaid calling 23:00 – What value looks like beyond the sex 25:40 – Can you be an addict and still help addicts? 28:20 – Ethics, imposter syndrome, and monetizing purpose 32:10 – Brian on boundaries, value, and not editing sh*t 35:40 – Layla on why she won’t do this alone 37:30 – Can they still create together—without compromise? 40:00 – The end of an era… or just a new chapter? 🔗 Links & Love:💬 Join our Discord🌶️ Products we love📸 Follow us on IG🎵 TikTok chaos📧 Send your juicy stories: theunmaskedprojectpod@gmail.com

    43 min
  3. 10/07/2025

    They Think Polyamory Will Ruin You—Here’s the Truth

    🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, Layla and Brian are joined by filmmaker and Monogamish TV creator Tracy for a deep dive into how ethical non-monogamy, sex, and power are portrayed—or butchered—by the media.From Fifty Shades of Misrepresentation to secret sex cults, condom taboos, and what Eyes Wide Shut got hilariously wrong, this episode rips the mask off how Hollywood shapes our sex lives. They debate if safe sex can be sexy on screen, why ENM characters are always creeps, and what kind of show would actually represent the lifestyle right.It’s juicy, it's smart, and it’s got just enough conspiracy theory to make you check your HBO history.Whether you're poly-curious or just tired of seeing threesomes used as relationship death rattles—this one’s for you.💥 In this episode:- Why Hollywood loves to get polyamory wrong- Is ethical non-monogamy the new villain trope?- Eyes Wide Shut, Epstein, and secret society sex clubs- Why no one ever uses condoms in movies- Is the media keeping us dumb, horny, and controllable?- The surprising 1969 film that finally got it right- What a show about real lifestyle couples could look like- How Monogamish TV is making space for sexy, responsible storytellingCurious about Monogamish TV?📸 Follow them on IG: https://www.instagram.com/monogamish.tv🎵 TikTok chaos: https://www.tiktok.com/@monogamish.tv▶️ Catch Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Monogamish_tv⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Burps, intros & finally getting Tracy on the mic0:34 – Representation of ENM in media: why it’s trash1:30 – Polyamory ≠ the death rattle of a relationship3:15 – Where are the hot, healthy, non-monogamous couples in TV?5:45 – Why conflict doesn’t have to mean toxicity7:40 – BDSM, Fifty Shades & the line between fantasy and gaslighting11:35 – Safe sex in media: why condoms are never shown14:20 – Can entertainment and realism coexist in sex scenes?17:50 – Is the media keeping us in sexual cages on purpose?20:30 – How “Eyes Wide Shut” warped play party perceptions24:00 – Was your first poly representation porn? (Same.)26:30 – Is the media scaring us away from ethical sex?30:00 – “Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice”: a 1969 ENM gem34:00 – Cults, self-help, and the origins of personal development38:00 – The Monogamish TV vision: friends, fun, and f**king—ethically42:10 – Why the industry “isn’t ready”—and why that doesn’t matter44:00 – Final thoughts: community, courage, and creating the future🔗 Links & Love: 💬 Join our Discord: https://discord.com/invite/TPBUgSxzwb🌶️ Products we love: https://www.unmaskedpod.co/products-we-love📸 Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/theunmasked_project🎵 TikTok chaos: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunmaskedproject🎧 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4uOOhjA1H9K5psXdIFBqYz?si=16738043f345462f📧 Send your juicy stories: theunmaskedprojectpod@gmail.com

    50 min
  4. 09/30/2025

    Inside Bone Lake: Fear, Desire & Secrets with Mercedes Bryce Morgan

    🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, Layla sits down with visionary director Mercedes Bryce Morgan to pull back the curtain on Bone Lake — the bold erotic‑thriller that’s got audiences simultaneously horny and horrified. What starts as a romantic getaway turns into a psychological nightmare of power, secrets, and deadly desire.The question no one asked but Layla had to: “Would you have sex with your clone?”Get ready for juicy behind‑the‑scenes revelations, taboo talk, and real relationship lessons—because in Bone Lake, what you don’t say will kill you.Final thoughts: permission to explore sexpositivity, taboo, and authentic relationships🎬 In Theaters: October 3, 2025🎟️ Get your tickets here📸 Follow Mercedes Bryce Morgan on IG📸 Follow Bone Lake on IG📸 Follow Bleeker Street Films on IGAbout Bone Lake: A couple’s romantic vacation at a secluded lakeside estate is upended when they are forced to share the mansion with a mysterious and attractive couple. In this darkly hilarious and seductive horror story, a dream getaway spirals into a nightmarish maze of sex, lies, and manipulation, bringing terrifying secrets to light and triggering a bloody battle for survival.⏰ Timestamps:00:00 – Intro: Meet Mercedes Bryce Morgan & Bone Lake’s world01:15 – Film breakdown: setup, tone, what to expect03:20 – The opening scene that set Layla reeling05:10 – Bringing sex back into thriller films07:05 – Faking orgasms: why it matters more than we talk about09:10 – Jealousy, envy, and the “wibbles” framework11:15 – Vulnerability: depth, danger, or both?13:00 – Gray areas: when playful becomes uncomfortable14:45 – What happens when you ignore gut feelings16:20 – Pushing for taboo: why audiences crave it18:00 – Tension formula: sex, death, and mystery19:30 – Intimacy coordinators & consent in sex scenes21:15 – Casting choices & fresh faces vs. known talent23:00 – Equal nudity: balancing the gaze24:30 – What Mercedes wants people to take away25:45 – Pleasure politics: masturbation, toys, and space27:20 – Clone question & taboo talk29:00 – Closing reflections on desire, risk, and connection30:10 – How to find your own path in messy relationships31:30 – Outro & where to find Mercedes / Bone Lake info🔗 Links & Love: 💬 Join our Discord🌶️ Products we love📸 Follow us on IG🎵 TikTok chaos📧 Send your juicy stories: theunmaskedprojectpod@gmail.comDetails on Bone Lake: Directed by Mercedes Bryce MorganStarring Maddie Hasson, Marco Pigossi, Alex Roe, Andra Nechita, Eliane Reis, Clayton SpencerWritten by Joshua FriedlanderProduced by Jason Blumenfeld, Joshua Friedlander, Mickey Liddell, Pete Shilaimon, Jacob Yakob

    41 min
  5. 09/24/2025

    Ep. 83 - Race Questions You're Not Supposed to Ask

    - -🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, Layla and Brian sit down for their most unfiltered conversation yet—asking each other the racial questions you're not supposed to ask.From creepy location-checking habits to camo fashion debates, bathhouse stereotypes, and whether Black people really don’t f**k with Ouija boards—nothing's off limits. They get personal, cultural, and occasionally controversial (with love).We’re talking washcloth culture wars, base tans gone wrong, ghosts vs. God, and the almighty Swiftie takeover. Oh, and yes—aliens do come up.Whether you're curious, confused, or already canceling us in the comments—this episode is your permission slip to get uncomfortable, get curious, and maybe get a little educated.💥 In this episode:- Location tracking or low-key stalking?- Creepy bathhouse moments and the secret washcloth drawer- Camo, Carhartt, and white people sh*t explained- The swimming stereotype and its painful origins- The cult of Taylor Swift: Is she really all that?- Ghosts, demons & why Black folks won’t play with spirits- The unspoken pressure of representing your race in every room- Cultural myths, spiritual boundaries, and spicy conspiracy theories- Candace Owens: black excellence or black erasure?⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Intro: Who’s creeping with location sharing?2:30 – Bathhouses, vibes, and the towel guy who knew4:00 – Camo culture & why white folks love it so much6:30 – The swimming stereotype: myth or lived reality?10:15 – Why Black people don’t mess with ghosts or Ouija boards13:00 – Taylor Swift: Queen of mid or misunderstood icon?16:50 – Cultural expectations & performing for your people22:00 – Religion, roots & why Jesus beats voodoo in the U.S.27:15 – Spray tans, base burns, and color-coded insecurities32:00 – Aliens, AI & whether Earth is just a reality show37:00 – Candace Owens: Carlton with a mic?44:00 – Final thoughts on representation, race, and owning your voice🔗 Links & Love: 💬 Join our Discord🌶️ Products we love📸 Follow us on IG🎵 TikTok chaos📧 Send your juicy stories: theunmaskedprojectpod@gmail.com

    49 min

Ratings & Reviews

4.9
out of 5
15 Ratings

About

Hosted by Layla Shay This is a solo podcast about taking the mask off and telling the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable. No small talk. No perfection. No pretending. We talk authenticity, identity, mental health, relationships, sex, creativity, and the messy in-between moments where life cracks you open and asks you to be real. Sometimes it’s just me. Sometimes friends join in. Always honest. If you’re tired of performing and ready for real conversations you’re in the right place. 🎙️ New episodes weekly 🖤 Take it off. You’re safe here.

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