the unreliable guide to adulthood

alyssia atienne
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welcome to my quiet corner of adulthood, where i share curiosity, growth, and the mess of figuring life out in real time. i am 23 now and no longer in college, learning my way through work, relationships, confidence, and everything in between. this space is part diary, part creative outlet, and part soft place to land. i talk beauty, love, sports, and everyday thoughts that feel bigger than they should. if you are also becoming, stay a while and grow with me.

  1. is it true that people can just change who they are?

    03/04/2023

    is it true that people can just change who they are?

    In this episode, Alyssia discusses how new beginnings don't always mean you get to become a new person. Sometimes, it just means you can be yourself around people without the fear of being judged based on how you got to this point.

    48 min
  2. what's going on in that pretty little head of yours?

    02/24/2023

    what's going on in that pretty little head of yours?

    Loving yourself is considered the first step to living a happy, healthy life, but how can you love someone you don’t even know? In this episode, Alyssia gets personal and takes you through a discussion of having low self-esteem, finding your confidence, and learning how to love yourself the right way.

    1h 11m
  3. why can't i just f*****g move on?

    02/10/2023

    why can't i just f*****g move on?

    In this episode, Alyssia is yet again an unqualified breakup drill sergeant ready to discuss all things break ups. From talking about her highs and lows in heartache to listing the best breakup foods to go to. Whether its a romantic breakup, family/friend fall out, or even breaking up with some of your self traits, we are going to talk about what, why, and how you can start your healing journey and move on.  We also have another round of speed dating.

    1h 5m

  4. 02/03/2023

    what the hell does love have to do with it?

    In this episode, Alyssia brings back a fan favorite topics, Anti-Valentines. We take a trip down memory lane and revisit all of Alyssia’s failed dating adventures. She sits down with Steve and Julian and discusses relationships, dating in Atlanta, and Julian gets out through her speed dating questions.

    1h 56m
  5. do you know your abc’s

    01/20/2023

    do you know your abc’s

    In this episode, Alyssia will be discussing the ABCs of her twenties, along with interviewing some friends about their version of the alphabet. Your twenties are weird, and we're here to discuss it. Plus this is some really funny shit. Guests: X: instagram @x.nxtdoor Dorien: instagram @conquista.dori Victor: instagram @twinextdoor

    1h 30m
  6. If you aren't scared...why don't you just jump?

    11/10/2022

    If you aren't scared...why don't you just jump?

    In this episode, Alyssia sits down with her own thoughts and feelings, to hold an important conversation on love, relationships, and heartbreak. One would say this is my extension to the original "Breakup Bootcamp". However, life is more than just a broken heart, it's our emotions all bottled up into a ball of flesh, it's the company we keep; both good and bad, but most importantly, it's our fear...the fear of being alone. As humans, that's the one thing everyone is afraid of by default, no matter what. Growing up means learning to be okay with being alone, no matter how many people are in your corner.

    2h 6m
  7. How long can you really play the long game?

    10/28/2022

    How long can you really play the long game?

    In this episode, Alyssia reintroduces “The Rebranding”. She will also be discussing her journey with self growth/reflections and the importance of slowing down. Topics also being addressed: current trends, junior year, family, workplace conversations, where my life is heading, and figuring out just who i am and where do i want to be? Feature Guest: Friend and active Ye fan: X (yes that’s his name)

    2h 52m
  8. what would u do in the hot seat?

    07/29/2022

    what would u do in the hot seat?

    In this episode, Alyssia talks all things summer. Summer school, summer job, summer love?

    46 min
  9. Uter”US” against the world

    05/04/2022

    Uter”US” against the world

    In this episode, Alyssia talks recents political issues, why she’s been mia, and what’s coming up.

    43 min
  10. Here for a good time, maybe even a long time?

    10/21/2021

    Here for a good time, maybe even a long time?

    In this episode, Alyssia reviews the past year when it comes to school, relationships, family, working and figuring out who she is.

    24 min
  11. anti valentine’s day episode

    02/14/2021

    anti valentine’s day episode

    it sucks. being alone on valentine’s day but at the end of the day, we gotta love being alone eventually...right?

    56 min
  12. Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Sound Waves

    09/09/2020

    Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Sound Waves

    In this episode, Alyssia talks about everything from boys, college, tinder experiments, friendships, and self-confidence.

    1h 9m
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welcome to my quiet corner of adulthood, where i share curiosity, growth, and the mess of figuring life out in real time. i am 23 now and no longer in college, learning my way through work, relationships, confidence, and everything in between. this space is part diary, part creative outlet, and part soft place to land. i talk beauty, love, sports, and everyday thoughts that feel bigger than they should. if you are also becoming, stay a while and grow with me.

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