The Upside to Grief

Story Story

Is there an upside to grief? Your host Story created this podcast to explore just that. On The Upside to Grief podcast, Story and her guests will share their personal stories with grief and how it can be a transformative force. Story will have one-on-one conversations with guests about the language around grief, redefining society’s views, and breaking cultural norms around grief. Quirky segments discussing other aspects intertwined with the grieving process such as; "Grief in the Wild", "Moments of Knowing", and "Questionable Grief Decisions" aka QGD's will follow each guest’s chapter. Story doesn't tip toe around the subject and shares unapologetically about her views and opinions. In order to create a positive change and still acknowledge that grief just straight up sucks, we need to start normalizing having these uncomfortable conversations. Story invite's you to join her on this deeply personal and supportive journey as we all explore the transformative power of navigating loss. You can follow The Upside to Grief on all social media linked below: https://linktr.ee/theupsidetogrief The Upside to Grief podcast is sponsored by Azadi Healing and Mady’s Tattoos. Follow them on their social media below: Azadi Healing IG: @azadihealing Website: https://azadihealing.com/ Mady’s Tattoo’s IG: @Madys_Tattoos FB: Madylyn Leclair

  1. Episode 1

    Chapter 1: Ken

    The inaugural chapter of 'The Upside of Grief' presents an intimate exploration of Story's profound journey through the labyrinth of grief following the untimely demise of her husband, Ken. This chapter serves as a testament to the enduring nature of the unforgiving cycles of life and death. In this candid conversation with co-host Erika, Story recounts the evolution of her relationship with Ken, detailing their shared moments, challenges, and the indelible impact he had on her life. The discussion encompasses not only the immediate aftermath of Ken's passing but also the ongoing struggle to navigate life in his absence. Story delves deep into her emotional landscape, articulating the raw realities of navigating life after Kens death. The discussion touches on the nuances of grief, the societal perceptions surrounding it, and the importance of honoring one's journey through this painful yet transformative experience. As the chapter unfurls, listeners are invited to reflect on their own experiences of loss and the ways in which they can find meaning amidst the sorrow. The chapter concludes with a message of hope and resilience, emphasizing the necessity of community support in the grieving process, thereby fostering a sense of connection and understanding among listeners who may share similar experiences. Mentioned in this episode: Sponsorship for The Upside to Grief Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com

    1h 16m
  2. Episode 2

    Questionable Grief Decisions aka QGD'S: Are we talking about babies?

    We are very excited to share our first Questionable Grief Decision Segment! We like to refer to them as QGD'S. In this segment of QGD'S we discuss Story's questionable grief decision, reflecting on the lessons learned and the personal growth that emerged from that tumultuous period. Story candidly expresses gratitude for the support she received, despite the questionable nature of her choices at the time, and emphasizes the importance of maintaining connections with those who stood by her side. The conversation culminates in a broader discussion about the normalization of sharing one's QGD's, advocating for a culture where individuals feel safe to express their vulnerabilities and the complexities of their grief without the burden of shame. This narrative not only provides a space for reflection but also encourages listeners to engage in open dialogues about their own experiences with grief and the questionable decisions they may have faced, fostering a sense of community and understanding amidst the often isolating experience of mourning. Through this episode, Story and Erika illuminate the path toward healing, underscoring that while grief can lead to questionable decisions, it is also a shared human experience that warrants compassion and open conversation. Mentioned in this episode: Sponsorship for The Upside to Grief Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com

    21 min
  3. Episode 3

    Chapter 2: Erika's Dad - The Gift of Grief

    In this chapter our lovely co-host Erika shares her deeply personal and multifaceted nature of her grief journey, centering on the profound loss of her dad. She speaks candidly about her dad's influence on her life and the void left in the wake of his passing, emphasizing that he was her first real experience with loss. This chapter serves as an exploration of the emotional landscape of grief, where feelings of admiration, longing, and sorrow intermingle, forming an intricate tapestry of her relationship with her dad. As the conversation unfolds, Erika delves into the challenges posed by her dad's illness. The narrative highlights the importance of recognizing that grief can coexist with joy and gratitude, as she reflects on the lessons learned from her dad and the values he instilled within her. Through her personal anecdotes, listeners gain insight into the dual nature of grief—a journey that can encompass both heartache and moments of profound connection. Erika's resilience shines through as she navigates the complexities of her emotions, paving the way for healing in the aftermath of loss. The chapter emphasizes the significance of rituals in honoring the deceased, as Erika shares her practices of remembrance that help keep her dad's spirit alive in her daily life. Whether it be through cooking his favorite meals or creating a dedicated space of remembrance, these rituals become a source of comfort and connection. As listeners engage with Erika's story, they are invited to reflect on their own experiences with grief, recognizing that it is a shared human experience that, while deeply personal, can also foster connections and understanding among us. This chapter ultimately illuminates the intricate dance of love and loss, encouraging a compassionate and open dialogue about the realities of grief. Mentioned in this episode: Sponsorship for The Upside to Grief Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com

    1h 12m
  4. Episode 4

    Grief Deck Pulls: That sounds like waterboarding yourself!

    We are excited to Introduce one of the many segments on the podcast "Grief Deck Pulls". This segment elucidates the therapeutic utility of engaging with grief through the practice of "Grief Deck Pulls." We, as hosts, delve into the significance of utilizing specialized decks that encompass rituals, meditations, and tools aimed at navigating the tumultuous waters of loss. In our discussion, we share personal anecdotes that highlight how these practices facilitate grounding and provide actionable insights during moments of emotional disarray. The segment further explores the metaphor of water as a transformative element, emphasizing the necessity of confronting grief rather than circumventing it. Ultimately, we invite our listeners to reflect on the importance of self-compassion and nurturing during their own grief journeys. Mentioned in this episode: Sponsorship for The Upside to Grief Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com

    18 min
  5. Episode 5

    Chapter 3: Embracing Grief as a Doorway

    Chapter three delves into the intricate interplay between grief and love, positing that they are not adversaries but rather interconnected experiences. We engage in a profound dialogue about the notion that grief may serve as a doorway to deeper love and understanding, challenging the conventional belief that love is the antithesis of grief. Throughout this chapter, we also introduce the idea that grief, while often perceived as a finite emotion, can be cyclical and transformative, continually shaping our realities. Moreover, we reflect upon the impact of unhelpful platitudes surrounding grief and their implications, inviting listeners to reconsider their perceptions and language regarding loss. Join us as we explore these complex themes and share personal anecdotes that illuminate the multifaceted nature of grief and love. Mentioned in this episode: Sponsorship for The Upside to Grief Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com

    1h 2m
  6. Episode 6

    The "What Ifs": Navigating Grief's Unanswered Questions

    The exploration of the "what ifs" in our lives serves as the focal point of our discussion today. In this segment, we delve deeply into the myriad questions that arise from grief—those lingering thoughts of regrets, missed opportunities, and unexpressed sentiments. As we navigate this complex landscape, we aim not to resolve these uncertainties but rather to create a space for the intricate emotions associated with loss. This segment illuminates the dual nature of "what ifs," revealing that while they can lead us down somber paths, they also possess the potential to offer moments of introspection and even solace. Together, Story and Erika encourage listeners to engage with their own "what ifs," acknowledging the power they hold in helping us regain a sense of autonomy in our grief journey. Mentioned in this episode: Sponsorship for The Upside to Grief Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com

    31 min
  7. Episode 7

    Chapter 4: RoseAnne - When Faith Takes Over

    In chapter four of the podcast, Story talks with RoseAnne about the death of her father and her faith that carries her on the daily. Through her reflective recounting, we are offered a glimpse into the multifaceted nature of grief, characterized by moments of despair as well as unexpected revelations of love and connection. Story and RoseAnne engage in a candid dialogue about their respective journeys with grief. RoseAnne’s journey is particularly compelling, as she shares the emotional weight of her father's illness on short notice and the intimate moments shared during his final days. This exploration illuminates her personal journey but also fosters a sense of shared understanding and connection among listeners. Overall, the chapter captures the essence of grief as a complex and deeply personal experience, while also emphasizing the importance of communication and reflection in the healing process. Mentioned in this episode: Sponsorship for The Upside to Grief Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com

    53 min
  8. Episode 8

    Moments of Knowing: Hi Dad!!

    Introducing our segment "Moments of Knowing" In this segment, Story engages in a profound dialogue with our esteemed guest, RoseAnne, as we delve into the intimate and often ineffable experiences that accompany the process of grief and remembrance. Central to our discussion are the "moments of knowing," which encapsulate those extraordinary instances when one feels a visceral connection to a departed loved one, often manifesting through signs or serendipitous occurrences. RoseAnne shares poignant anecdotes, such as the striking coincidence of donning her father's shirt on the anniversary of his passing, which evokes a profound sense of connection and presence. We explore the subtle yet powerful ways in which our departed loved ones communicate with us, be it through dreams or unexpected encounters with nature, such as birds that evoke cherished memories. Through this segment, we illuminate the significance of recognizing and cherishing these moments, offering solace to those navigating the complexities of loss. Mentioned in this episode: Sponsorship for The Upside to Grief Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com

    12 min

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Is there an upside to grief? Your host Story created this podcast to explore just that. On The Upside to Grief podcast, Story and her guests will share their personal stories with grief and how it can be a transformative force. Story will have one-on-one conversations with guests about the language around grief, redefining society’s views, and breaking cultural norms around grief. Quirky segments discussing other aspects intertwined with the grieving process such as; "Grief in the Wild", "Moments of Knowing", and "Questionable Grief Decisions" aka QGD's will follow each guest’s chapter. Story doesn't tip toe around the subject and shares unapologetically about her views and opinions. In order to create a positive change and still acknowledge that grief just straight up sucks, we need to start normalizing having these uncomfortable conversations. Story invite's you to join her on this deeply personal and supportive journey as we all explore the transformative power of navigating loss. You can follow The Upside to Grief on all social media linked below: https://linktr.ee/theupsidetogrief The Upside to Grief podcast is sponsored by Azadi Healing and Mady’s Tattoos. Follow them on their social media below: Azadi Healing IG: @azadihealing Website: https://azadihealing.com/ Mady’s Tattoo’s IG: @Madys_Tattoos FB: Madylyn Leclair