The Vine with Joe & Katie Devine

Dery Media Podcasts

Welcome to "The Vine" with Joe and Katie Devine, where we embark on a journey through the twists and turns of life, love, and faith in our formative twenties. Join us as we candidly share our triumphs, trials, and everything in between, inviting you into our world of learning and growing together. Through heartfelt conversations, we navigate the complexities of marriage, relationships, and spirituality, reflecting on our missteps and milestones with humility and grace.As branches of the same divine Vine, we embrace the power of community and the guidance of faith, aiming to inspire and uplift our listeners as we collectively journey toward greater understanding and connection. Welcome to a space where vulnerability meets wisdom and where, together, we discover the beauty of being intertwined in the vine of life.

  1. MAR 16

    (Republish) Hoping vs. Waiting: Part 2 — When Hope Wins

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when you've spent years praying for something that seems impossible? After nearly three years of struggling with infertility, we're finally ready to share our miracle—we're expecting our first child! This journey has been filled with doctor appointments, medications, surgeries, tears, doubts, and ultimately, a deepening understanding of what hope truly means. As we celebrate our four-year wedding anniversary, we reflect on how we've grown individually and as a couple. We've learned that while time changes circumstances, those core qualities that drew us together at 16 still remain at the heart of our relationship. The path to pregnancy wasn't simple. After endometriosis surgery and working with multiple doctors, we found ourselves at a crossroads—feeling defeated and ready to move on. Then came an appointment I almost canceled, with a doctor who offered a completely different approach. Instead of more tracking and supplements, she simply said, "Let me do it for you." That permission to release control became the unexpected gift we needed. This episode explores more than just our pregnancy announcement. We dive into what it means to maintain hope when disappointment feels inevitable. By incredible coincidence, Katie was asked to lead a workshop on hope for our church before knowing she was pregnant. The framework she developed—recognizing what hope is, embarking on the journey of hope, looking for signs, and anchoring yourself in hope—became the compass that guided us through our darkest moments. For anyone walking through infertility or any season of painful waiting, this one's for you. We've been where you are, and while everyone's story unfolds differently, we want you to know that hope truly does not disappoint—even when it takes forms we never expected. Reflection: Read the Pope Francis’ Bull of Indiction (Letter addressing the Jubilee Year of Hope) HERE:  https://www.vatican.va/content/francesco/en/bulls/documents/20240509_spes-non-confundit_bolla-giubileo2025.html Have you experienced a season of waiting?  How did you maintain hope? Where do you “hide” your hope behind?  How can you cling to God in the Hopelessness?   We'd love to hear your stories and continue growing together through this new chapter. An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

    55 min
  2. MAR 16

    (Republish) Waiting vs Hoping: Our Fertility Journey

    Send us Fan Mail Have you ever found yourself caught between hope and waiting, wondering how to share your struggles without feeling vulnerable? Join us on "The Vine" as we explore this emotional landscape with honesty and courage. This week, we kick things off with our "peak and pit" segment, sharing personal tales from the candy-strewn streets of Greenville to the communal joy of youth group retreats. With laughter and a touch of tummy troubles, we invite you to reflect on the highs and lows that make up the tapestry of our lives. Our conversation takes a more poignant turn as we open up about the journey of coping with infertility, emphasizing the power of vulnerability and the need for honest dialogue. It's a topic that touches many, yet is often shrouded in silence. We navigate the fear of having our experiences minimized and highlight the transformative power of sharing our stories with those who truly understand. Inspired by spiritual guidance, we reach out with empathy, hoping to connect with listeners on similar paths and reassure them that their feelings are valid and they are not alone. In our final segment, we unpack the power of hope and trust when facing life's uncertainties. Together, we explore the delicate balance between waiting and hoping, the struggle with control, and the solace found in faith and prayer. Reflecting on the wisdom of St. Pope John Paul II, we encourage embracing every challenge with courage and hope, no matter how daunting it may seem. Join us for a heartfelt journey that promises to lift your spirit and inspire you to face your own challenges with renewed strength and faith. An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

    45 min
  3. 10/06/2025

    Count the Fruit: September Gospel Reflections

    Send us Fan Mail The first day of October finds us buckling a car seat, grabbing microphones, and laughing through nerves as “baby day” finally arrives. Two weeks ago we thought labor had started—turns out it was two kidney stones at thirty‑six weeks—an ordeal that pushed us to ask better questions, lean on each other, and relearn the difference between bracing and trusting. From nesting wins to a quiet pilgrimage to the Shrine of Our Lady of La Leche in St. Augustine, we trace how grace threads through pain, humor, and ordinary preparation. Our conversation moves through September’s Gospels with fresh eyes. Luke 14 confronts the true cost of discipleship and why “hating” sin actually makes room for deeper tenderness. John 3:16 on the Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross reframes suffering with the serpent‑to‑cross arc: what once harmed can be lifted up and turned into hope. Then Luke 16 sneaks up on us—first with the “dishonest steward” as a jolting lesson in prudence and foresight, and then with the rich man and Lazarus, a stark warning about comfort, omission, and the people we stop seeing at our own gates. We also share why we’re taking a short hiatus to welcome our daughter, how a 33‑day Marian consecration and the Litany keep our hearts steady, and why turning outrage into real conversation might be the most countercultural act of love right now. If you’re here for Catholic faith that’s lived, not performed—for practical holiness, honest marriage talk, and Scripture that reads your life back to you—you’ll feel at home with us. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs some courage, and leave a review to help others find the show. We’ll be back in the new year—pray for us, and we’ll be praying for you. Litany of The Blessed Virgin Mary:  https://www.nashvilledominican.org/prayer/litanies/litany-of-the-blessed-virgin-mary/ Joe's Resource for the Dishonest Steward:  September Gospels:  Luke 14:25-33 Great crowds were traveling with Jesus, and he turned and addressed them, “If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. Which of you wishing to construct a tower does not first sit down and calculate the cost to see if there is enough for its completion? Otherwise, after laying the foundation and finding himself unable to finish the work the onlookers should laugh at him and say, ‘This one began to build but did not have the resources to finish.’ Or what king marching into battle would not first sit down and decide whether with ten thousand troops he can successfully oppose another king advancing upon him with twenty thousand troops? But if not, while he is still far away, he will send a delegation to ask for peace terms. In the same way, anyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple.” Love the creature, forget the creator - st augustine John 3:13-17 Jesus said to Nicodemus: "No one has gone up to heaven except the one who has come down from heaven, the Son of Man. And just as Moses lifted up the serpent in the desert, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, so that everyone who believes in him may have An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

    51 min
  4. 09/15/2025

    Creating Our Family Mission Statement

    Send us Fan Mail What does it mean to build a family with intention? As we prepare for the arrival of our daughter, we're diving into the meaningful (and sometimes challenging) conversations about what we want our family to stand for and how we'll approach raising our children. Creating a family mission statement might sound like corporate jargon, but we're discovering it's a powerful way to align our values and set a course for our growing family. Joe's concise statement centers on being "a welcoming Catholic family spreading the gospel by intentionally living out God's word," while Katie's more detailed version emphasizes that family extends beyond blood relations, the importance of building each other up, and moving heavenward together as a team. As we work toward a combined statement, we realize that perhaps "Love God, love your neighbor, love your family" captures the essence of what matters most. Beyond our mission statement, we explore our current thinking on everything from education choices to dating rules, cell phone policies to picky eating struggles. We're discovering that while we have ideas now, we'll likely need what Joe calls "bespoke parenting" – tailoring our approach to fit each child's unique needs rather than applying blanket rules. The conversation reveals our hopes, fears, and the values we want to instill, all while acknowledging that our perspectives will evolve as we gain experience as parents. Whether you're just starting your family journey or well into raising children, join us for this honest, lighthearted conversation about creating a blueprint for family life. We'd love to hear what guides your parenting journey. An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

    48 min
  5. 09/01/2025

    Count the Fruit: August Gospel Reflections

    Send us Fan Mail August Sunday Gospels: August 3rd - Luke 12: 13-21 August 10th - Luke 12: 32-48 August 17th - Luke 12: 49-53 August 24th - Luke 13: 22-30 August 31st - Luke 14: 1, 7-14 What does it mean to count the fruit in our spiritual lives? In this reflective episode, Katie and Joe dive deep into the August Gospels, uncovering a consistent theme that challenges comfortable Christianity. Together, they explore Jesus's urgent calls to readiness, proper prioritization, and genuine humility. The conversation weaves through powerful parables – from the rich man building bigger barns to servants waiting for their master's return. "Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also" emerges as a guiding light through these reflections, prompting us to examine what we truly value. Katie and Joe vulnerably share their own struggles with these teachings, including their tendency to prioritize friends over strangers and their wrestling with expectations in relationships. Between scriptural insights, the hosts share personal updates that ground their spiritual discussion in everyday reality. Katie opens up about pregnancy challenges and finding unexpected acceptance in her workout community, while Joe recounts driving 2,200 miles in a week and their ongoing battle with a delayed refrigerator delivery. These honest glimpses into their lives create a relatable backdrop for profound spiritual truths. The episode culminates in a beautiful recitation of the Litany of Humility, a prayer that perfectly encapsulates the themes explored throughout their gospel reflections. By asking for deliverance from desires for esteem, love, and approval, the prayer invites listeners to join in a countercultural approach to faith – one that prioritizes heavenly treasures over earthly recognition. Whether you're looking to deepen your understanding of August's liturgical readings or seeking authentic conversation about faith amid life's complexities, this episode offers both spiritual nourishment and genuine companionship on the journey. Subscribe now and continue counting the fruit alongside Katie and Joe. An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

    48 min

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Welcome to "The Vine" with Joe and Katie Devine, where we embark on a journey through the twists and turns of life, love, and faith in our formative twenties. Join us as we candidly share our triumphs, trials, and everything in between, inviting you into our world of learning and growing together. Through heartfelt conversations, we navigate the complexities of marriage, relationships, and spirituality, reflecting on our missteps and milestones with humility and grace.As branches of the same divine Vine, we embrace the power of community and the guidance of faith, aiming to inspire and uplift our listeners as we collectively journey toward greater understanding and connection. Welcome to a space where vulnerability meets wisdom and where, together, we discover the beauty of being intertwined in the vine of life.