ThePowerOfSelfEVOLution with KarenLoveLee Karen Love Lee

Tired of having to do things, rather than wanting to do things? If you are human then you can relate to this! It's all about the choices and decisions you make consciously and UNCONSCIOUSLY. Case & Point: Marilyn admits that she doesn't want to spend time and care for her husband, who is suffering from dementia, after decades of marriage. WTF?
It's NOT about her husband or her marriage, it's about subconscious REBELLION stemming from early childhood causing emotional blindspots. This undetectible resentment causes Marilyn to unintentionally avoid and escape the uneasiness hidden by, what I call, "almost justifiable excuses." IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT FEELING FREE FROM MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL IMPRISONMENT.
It's never obvious, and only shows up as irritability, frustration, anxienty, distraction, anger, short-temperedness, indifference, inability to commit and effectively meet obligations, lack of joy, happiness and gratitude. The list is just too long, but simply put, it hinders, blocks and stops us from faithfully being, doing and getting what we truly WANT.
"I hate it when you're right, Karen," Marilyn blurts out when I call her out on what she is unwilling to confront, only because she can't see the real saboteur, "HerSELF."
If she truly wants to be happy, healthy and harmoniously married while continuing to build her dreams in life, then she must learn how to recognize the negative symptoms and reconnect to the positive aspects of taking responsiblity for the life she wishes to create. And, most importantly, emotionally connect to the fun, freedom, benefits and fulfilling rewards of stopping the cycle of SELF-SABOTAGE.
Immediately following our podcast recording, with beaming energy, Marilyn texts, "I got a lot! And, you are brilliant as always." Her paradigm shift was exponentially obvious.
Topics:
Digging Deep to Get to the Core Root Problem Stop Avoiding & Escaping the REAL Issue Overridding Should & Have To Create What You Want & Desire Recommintting to Your Responsibilty of Marriage (Romantic Relationship) How to Turn Obligation Back Into Passion! #KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU #EmpoweringYouThroughUs #ThePowerOfSelfEvolution #ConsciousnessEvolution #SelfFreedom #MentalEmotionalFREEDOM #LoveYourDreamLife

All humans, whether consciously or UNconsciously possess an inherent need to be "Significant." However, significance is subjective and means so many different things to each and everyone of us. It's illusive, simple because it's a matter of perspective and opinion. So, it really comes down to feeling a "Sense of Significance," from within. 
This stems from early childhood. #ChildhoodMatters 
My client, Kris K and I dig deeper into this topic to help others start to understand why we FEAR being INSIGNIFICANT. And how to tackle this fear to gain an empowering perspective that creates a sensation of SIGNIFICANCE, without the material world.
Regardless of circumstances and negative thoughts and emotions, you and your life matter. You don't need to prove anything to anyone, including yourself. You just need to learn and practice how to love, trust, and accept yourself for who YOU truly are, without a shadow of doubt.
#EmpoweringYouThroughUs

*Note: So sorry, I messed up! Somehow I didn't record Kris's audio, so you can only hear me, and was just made aware of this by the brilliant Kris, himself!! #LessonLearned with my production skills, which clearly need improvement. #GameOn
When it comes to progress the human brain fears the lack thereof. The last thing we want to do is scale back in order to scale up. Who in their right mind wants to go backwards, especially when huge progress has been made.  By nature we do not want to feel like we are losing momentum and progression. We fear feeling stuck, especially feeling like we're losing traction. 
Kris opens up about having to go through this as he steps into greater endeavors as an entrepreneur. #StepByStep
A SuperHuman mindset requires being willing to go back to the fundamentals. Almost in essence, feeling like we're starting over. We must also be willing to let go of all expectations. This is so counter-intuitive simple because it feels counter-productive. 
However, it's not. Once we understand what's really going on underneath the fears. The key is to comprehend how our brain tricks us to believe we are losing, when in actuality we end up resetting in preparation to win---bigger, better, brighter!!!!! #MindOverMatter

I offer more in depth wisdom on this topic because the human mind tricks us into believing that getting more, making more, having more, more, more means we are MORE. More important, more worthy, more popular, more valuable, more respected, etc. This is an insidious lie that when taken too far becomes our greatest weakness, which feeds right back into perpetuating a volatile cycle of SELF-Sabotage. Learn how to stop it through the power of your mind & heart!

"Watch out for what you wish for!" It's one thing to want something. It's another whole thing to get it, and then have to deal with the the things you didn't EXPECT?!! With great success comes even greater responsibilities, and more obligations. The illusion is that once we actually get what we want, life will be easier and all of our problems will be solved.  So, NOT true!
"Without darkness, there is no light." There is good & bad, positive & negative to every situation.  Pick the side of more pros than cons. #MajorityRules 
Your conscious mind makes up a wish. This is the easy part. Unfortunately, the sub conscious, but mostly the UNconscious mind UNknowingly sabotages that wish from materializing because of the "BLIND Siding Effect." This is the phenomenon where UNcosncious fear stemming back from past experiences of failure unknowingly get in our way when we venture out into new and UNfamiliar territory. Like starting a new business from scratch!   
 

Warren Buffett's Best Investment Advice: YOU are Your BEST Asset ~ #BankOnYOU
Kris and I discuss how to build and maintain belief and trust in yourSELF when you don't see or have any evidence of results, money, profits, etc. #InvestInYOU 
This requires looking backwards into your past to look for the proof to prove yourself WRONG. Meaning, there is actually real evidence from past successful experiences that reminds you of those times that instilling FAITH paid off big time!
My definition of #BlindFaith is not only believing with NO evidence, but BELIEVING when the evidence stacks against you and what you're trying to achieve. Kris shares the perfect example of real estate deals falling out the day of closing..... #BelieveBeforeSeeing
The human mind can be a bit devious, simply because of the subconscious mind's ability to imagine the worst case scenario, not the best!!!! Transformative Consciousness counteracts this.