Martie McNabb settled into her seat, the sunlight spilling across her cozy workspace in Albuquerque where she first met today’s guest. She glanced over the Zoom screen at Jolynn Baca Jaekel, whose energy and warmth always seemed to fill any room she entered. Today’s conversation was set to be a meaningful one; as the host of “Things That Matter,” Martie loves exploring the personal stories behind the objects people chose to keep close. “Jolynn,” Martie began, smiling, “I’ve been looking forward to this. You always bring so much light to these conversations. I know you’ve had quite a year helping your parents sort through their lifetime of memories. How did you start deciding what stays and what goes?” Jolynn nodded, her eyes shining at the mention of family. “It was a big exercise in soul searching, honestly. My parents and I realized quickly some things mattered a little, some a lot—and some we just had to let go of. It pushed me to think about why we hold onto certain objects and what letting go really means.” Martie leaned in, curious. “Was there anything in particular that stood out to you in this personal process?” With a gentle laugh, Jolynn pointed to a small, shimmering golden tree positioned beside her. “Absolutely. This is my grandmother’s jewelry tree—a piece I had made with help from a friend who designs jewelry. My grandmother’s costume jewelry, most of it not worth much except to us, and my own pieces from over the years are all part of this tree. At its heart is a brooch set with the birthstones of all her grandkids.” Martie’s eyes widened in appreciation. “That’s beautiful, Jolynn. So it’s more than just an object—it’s a celebration of your grandmother, your family, and yourself. Do you think that’s what makes certain things matter? The stories attached to them?” Jolynn nodded. “Exactly. It reminds me every day of the strength of the women I come from—my grandmother, my mother, me, and now my daughter. That tree is more than just jewelry—it’s a daily reminder that I can do hard things and I’m not alone.” Martie smiled, the gears of her own memory turning. “You know, I think that’s the reason people sometimes struggle with passing things down. It’s not just about what the object is, it’s about what it means. Do you have thoughts on what should happen to the tree after you’re gone?” Jolynn considered the question thoughtfully. “I do. At first, I thought maybe my daughter wouldn’t want it because she never met my grandmother. But the tree represents our whole lineage—and I want her to have the choice. If it speaks to her, she’s welcome to keep it. And if not? At least she’ll know the story behind it, and that might be enough.” Martie’s matter-of-fact tone matched Jolynn’s. “And that’s what we’re all about here, isn’t it? Making sure the stories stay alive, even if the things themselves eventually move on.” Jolynn nodded, a smile playing on her lips. “Absolutely. And that’s something I carry into my work now—my journal, ‘It’s Your Day,’ is all about helping people celebrate the small wins and document their stories. And I’m launching a podcast soon to highlight women who do things their own way—solving problems, creating businesses, making bold moves without asking for permission.” Martie gave Jolynn a warm look. “You’ve found a way to keep those stories alive and empower others to do the same. Thanks for sharing a piece of your family’s story, and for reminding us that it’s the meaning—and the memories—that make things matter.” With that, Martie and Jolynn closed out their conversation, both filled with gratitude for the tangible connections to their past—and the stories that keep legacies alive. To connect with this beautiful human follow her at jbacaj on Instagram and Jolynn Baca Jaekel on Facebook. Keep an eye out for her upcoming podcast: Doing It Her Way. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
