The Newbie Gains Podcast

Podcast By Patrick Hong

The Nebie Gains Podcast is about helping you get started on your fitness journey, breakthrough plataeus and make fitness simple so you can get life changing results.

  1. #358 - How to Become the Person Others Follow

    4D AGO

    #358 - How to Become the Person Others Follow

    In this episode of Your Next Level Podcast, Coach Pat breaks down what it really means to become the person others follow. Rather than waiting for friends, family, or partners to join your journey first, this episode reframes leadership as something deeply personal: going first, staying consistent, and letting your actions speak louder than your explanations Coach Pat shares how leadership started early in his own life, how discomfort shaped his identity, and why real influence does not come from convincing people, but from living at a standard they cannot ignore. The conversation explores why so many people get stuck trying to drag others along with them, especially in fitness, health, and self-development. Coach Pat explains that personal responsibility means owning your choices without outsourcing your growth to the people around you. As he shows through stories from his career, his friendships, and even his family, people often do not respond to what you say. They respond to what you consistently do. This is a strong episode for listeners interested in leadership mindset, personal growth, fitness discipline, self-respect, and becoming a stronger example in their community, family, or workplace. It is especially relevant for anyone who feels frustrated that the people around them are not changing at the same pace they are. Key Takeaways: Leadership starts with leading yourself first. Coach Pat reflects on how being forced to navigate life independently at a young age shaped his ability to take responsibility and move forward without waiting for others.People do not follow what you say. They follow consistency. Real influence comes from showing up over and over again, especially when you do not feel like it.Stop trying to convince everyone to join your journey. Whether it is fitness, discipline, or self-development, people are more likely to change when they see your standards in action long enough.Your actions create influence. When you move differently, eat differently, train differently, and carry yourself with certainty, people begin to notice and eventually ask how to catch up.Discomfort is part of leadership. Becoming the example may make other people uncomfortable, but that discomfort often signals that you are setting a new standard.Leading yourself can eventually change the people you love. Coach Pat shares how his own consistency influenced both his mother and younger brother, showing that transformation often spreads through example, not pressure.And don't forget to follow and subscribe to my social media accounts. https://www.tiktok.com/@patrickhongfit https://www.instagram.com/patrickhongfit/ https://www.facebook.com/patrick.hong.7/ If you need 1 on 1 coaching, DM “Coaching” on IG.

    18 min
  2. #357 - The Difference Between Eating Healthy vs Eating Smart

    MAR 29

    #357 - The Difference Between Eating Healthy vs Eating Smart

    In this episode of Your Next Level Podcast, Coach Pat breaks down the difference between eating healthy and eating smart, and explains why so many people get stuck in the start-and-stop cycle of fitness. Using his Valley of Despair framework, he walks through the phases people experience when they begin a fat-loss journey, from early excitement to frustration, self-doubt, and eventually the breakthrough that comes from the right context and strategy. Rather than relying on vague ideas like “clean eating,” this episode reframes nutrition as a system built on data, consistency, and intentional choices. Coach Pat explains why foods that sound healthy can still work against your goals, why your body responds to calories, protein, carbs, and fats rather than labels, and how repeating meals, tracking intake, and fueling your workouts properly can lead to sustainable progress. The conversation also explores why most people are not lazy or broken, but simply using the wrong strategy for too long. Coach Pat emphasizes that long-term results come from informed optimism, structure, and guidance, not from jumping between trends, extreme restriction, or chasing fast fixes. This is a strong episode for listeners interested in fat loss, fitness mindset, calorie tracking, nutrition strategy, behavior change, and building a healthy lifestyle that actually lasts. Key Takeaways: Many people confuse healthy eating with effective fat loss, but foods like salads, smoothies, and clean snacks can still be high in calories and inconsistent for results.The Valley of Despair explains why people often quit: they begin with optimism, hit frustration when nothing changes, and then start doubting themselves or jumping to the next method.The real turning point comes when you stop eating by labels and start eating with data. Your body responds to calories, protein, carbs, and fats, not whether food is labeled organic, clean, or healthy.Eating smart means knowing roughly how many calories your body needs, hitting protein consistently, balancing carbs and fats, and using food to support your energy and performance.Repeating simple meals that work and staying consistent from Monday through Sunday often produces better results than constantly changing your plan.Progress becomes sustainable when you build a system, trust the process, and stay in it long enough to reach informed optimism and eventually success and fulfillment.And don't forget to follow and subscribe to my social media accounts. https://www.tiktok.com/@patrickhongfit https://www.instagram.com/patrickhongfit/ https://www.facebook.com/patrick.hong.7/ If you need 1 on 1 coaching, DM “Coaching” on IG.

    24 min
  3. #356 - The 3 Levels of Fitness: Survival, Identity Shift, and Mastery

    MAR 24

    #356 - The 3 Levels of Fitness: Survival, Identity Shift, and Mastery

    In this episode of Monday Mindset, Coach Pat introduces the new direction of Your Next Level Podcast and breaks down the three levels of fitness: Survival, Identity Shift, and Mastery. Rather than treating fitness as a short-term weight-loss goal, this episode reframes it as a long-term identity transformation. Coach Pat explains why so many people get stuck in survival mode, how an identity shift changes habits from the inside out, and what mastery looks like when health becomes a non-negotiable part of daily life. The conversation also explores why community, structure, and consistent action matter more than motivation alone. This is a strong episode for listeners interested in fitness mindset, habit change, weight-loss psychology, and building a sustainable healthy lifestyle.  Key Takeaways: Fitness is a journey from survival to mastery. Most people get stuck in Level 1 (Survival) because they focus on temporary weight loss instead of building a permanent identity.The key is an identity shift (Level 2). Stop "trying to lose weight" and become "a person who takes care of their body." This identity drives consistent habits.Mastery (Level 3) is effortless consistency. Fitness becomes an unconscious competence, a non-negotiable part of your life that you don't need to justify.Progress requires a supportive community. Surround yourself with people already at the next level to see what's possible and get the structure you need.And don't forget to follow and subscribe to my social media accounts. https://www.tiktok.com/@patrickhongfit https://www.instagram.com/patrickhongfit/ https://www.facebook.com/patrick.hong.7/ If you need 1 on 1 coaching, DM “Coaching” on IG

    28 min
  4. 06/08/2025

    #355 - The Truth About Menopause, Metabolism & Fat Loss Over 30

    Coach Pat gets real about the challenges women face with fat loss after 30. From hormonal changes like menopause to metabolism slowdown and emotional eating—this episode breaks down exactly what’s actually happening with your body and what to do instead of following outdated advice. If you’ve been “doing everything right” but still not seeing results, this episode is a must-listen. 🔑 Key Takeaways: 🧠 1. Menopause & Metabolism Are Real—But Not Dooming Estrogen drops → fat stored in belly/hipsMuscle loss + higher cortisol = slower metabolismPoor sleep = worse cravings & mood swings💪 2. What Actually Works Lift weights 3x/week – it burns calories during & afterEat 100g+ protein/day – builds muscle & keeps you fullTrain big muscles – glutes, legs, backDon’t chase trends (Pilates, detoxes, keto) if they don’t align with you📊 3. Track Patterns, Not Perfection Scale weight will fluctuate—focus on weekly/monthly trendsTrack sleep, water, food, and recovery to spot habitsUse data to guide decisions, not emotion🍽️ 4. Nutrition That Fills, Not Frustrates Combine protein + fiber to stay fullEat real meals, not emotional snacksBuild meals that satisfy, not punish🧠 5. It’s Not About Doing More—It’s About Aligning With What Works Stop winging it with random plansCreate a lifestyle that fits your hormones, stress, and preferencesEven women in their 60s are crushing it with consistency & a smart planAnd don't forget to follow and subscribe to my social media accounts. TikTok Instagram Facebook If you need 1 on 1 coaching, DM “Transform” on IG

    20 min
  5. 05/25/2025

    #353 - Why You’re Not Burning Fat (Even if You Work Out 3x a Week)

    In this episode of the Newbie Gains Podcast, Coach Pat uncovers the five most common reasons why you're not losing fat—even if you're hitting the gym 3–5 times a week. From cardio confusion to weekend overeating, he breaks down the real issues that sabotage fat loss and shares what actually moves the needle when it comes to getting leaner. 🔑 Key Takeaways: 🔹 1. You’re Not in a Calorie Deficit Workouts burn fewer calories than you think.You can't out-train a bad diet—fat loss starts with eating fewer calories than you burn.🔹 2. You're Doing the Wrong Workouts Isolation and random movements won’t cut it.Focus on compound lifts and progressive overload to build muscle and burn more calories.🔹 3. You're Not Moving Enough Outside the Gym Your steps and non-exercise movement (NEAT) matter more than you think.Aim for 8,000–10,000+ steps daily to support your deficit.🔹 4. Your Sleep and Stress Are Killing Progress High cortisol from poor sleep and chronic stress leads to fat retention, especially belly fat.Prioritize rest, naps, and manage stress for better fat loss results.🔹 5. You're Inconsistent Without Realizing It 5 good days + 2 bad days = no fat loss.Weekend overeating can erase your weekday deficit.Consistency across all 7 days matters.And don't forget to follow and subscribe to my social media accounts. TikTok Instagram Facebook If you need 1 on 1 coaching, DM “Transform” on IG

    25 min
  6. 05/18/2025

    #352 - The Real Reason You Can’t Stop Craving Sugar — And How to Finally Break Free

    Struggling with late-night sugar binges or constant cravings? Coach Pat dives deep into the real reason you can’t stop craving sugar—and it’s not because you’re weak. In this episode, you’ll learn how to identify emotional triggers, regulate your nervous system, and break the sugar cycle without extreme restriction.  Using his proven FIX Framework, Coach Pat helps you regain control of your cravings, create food freedom, and finally lose stubborn belly fat. Key Takeaways: 🧠 The Real Reason You Crave Sugar ✅ It’s not a sugar problem—it’s a nervous system regulation issue. ✅ Cravings often mask deeper emotions like stress, loneliness, or boredom. 🛠️ The FIX Framework ✅ F – Feel the Trigger: Pause and name the emotion (boredom, anxiety, stress). ✅ I – Interrupt the Pattern: Use 60 seconds of deep breathing or physical movement. ✅ X – Exchange the Behavior: Replace the craving with something positive (gratitude text, music, a short walk, pushups, etc.). 💧 Hydration & Sleep Matter More Than You Think ✅ Less than 60–88 oz of water daily? You’re dehydrated—leading to more cravings. ✅ Poor sleep = low mood + more impulsive decisions with food. ☀️ Don’t Forget Sunlight ✅ Vitamin D (from natural sunlight) is a free mood booster that helps reduce emotional eating. And don't forget to follow and subscribe to my social media accounts. TikTok Instagram Facebook If you need 1 on 1 coaching, DM “Transform” on IG

    18 min
  7. 05/04/2025

    #351 - How to Lose 25 lbs by Summer Without Starving, Quitting Carbs, or Hating Life

    Sick of starving, cutting carbs, or living in the gym to lose weight? In this episode, Coach Pat dismantles the 3 biggest lies the fitness industry has fed women for decades. He breaks down his DTA Method—Flexible Dieting, Strength Training, and Accountability—to show you exactly how to lose 25 pounds without giving up pizza, pasta, or your life. This one’s a game-changer if you’re ready to finally get results that last. Key Takeaways: 🧠 Lie #1: You Need More Willpower ✅ Willpower runs out—systems don’t. ✅ You need structure, not more motivation. 🥗 Lie #2: You Have to Eat 1200 Calories ✅ Eating too little leads to binge eating and weekend blowouts. ✅ Most women need more food to be consistent and sane. 🏋️‍♀️ Lie #3: You Have to Train Every Day ✅ 3 smart strength workouts beat 7 sloppy bootcamps. ✅ Focus on muscle-building moves like squats, hip thrusts, and rows. 💡 Coach Pat’s DTA Method: D = Diet (Flexible Dieting)Follow the 80/20 rule: 80% whole foods, 20% fun.Eat your cultural staples and still lose weight.T = Training (Strength-Focused)3-day split: 2 lower body, 1 upper body.Progressive overload—even at home.A = AccountabilityYou need someone to keep you honest.Community, coaches, even your dog—don’t go it alone.And don't forget to follow and subscribe to my social media accounts. TikTok Instagram Facebook If you need 1 on 1 coaching, DM “Transform” on IG

    17 min

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The Nebie Gains Podcast is about helping you get started on your fitness journey, breakthrough plataeus and make fitness simple so you can get life changing results.