Thirty Flirty and Trying

NoLo and Chris

A biweekly podcast for millennial girls, gays, & theys just out here doing their best. “Thirty, Flirty, & Trying” is hosted by NoLo, a badass Multi-Passionate Generalist and mom of 3 (if you count her 2 dogs) still trying to find herself, and Chris, an awkward Creative with too many hobbies and physical ailments. Join us as we talk candidly about the struggle that is life and navigating all the transitions that come with being in your 30s as a millennial.

  1. JAN 25

    Struggling w/Mommy/Daddy Issues

    Hi, frahnd! This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives. Today we’re finishing out the season by diving head first into Mommy and/or Daddy Issues. We’ll talk a bit about our lore, those childhood experiences that shaped who we are now, how those old wounds sneak into our adult lives, and what healing looks like especially when our parents are still, um… a lot. What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We know these conversations can be tough, but they’re so necessary. What are your thoughts on today’s topic? How are you navigating your relationship with your parents? Share your stories with us on Instagram or YouTube! ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈 Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon! Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly, and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!” Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy. See y'all in our Patreon OR next season if you can bear to leave us for that long. We hope to enjoy your presence in our FREE Patreon chat for all subscribers (and yes, that includes unpaid members). 👋🏼👋🏼 📲 Let's yap Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠⁠ Substack: ⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠⁠ 😊NoLo's Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ 😘Chris' Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💖Mentioned this EpisodeMarilu: ⁠ @mariluxmedinaa

    2h 9m
  2. JAN 11

    Struggling w/Parenting like Bluey

    Hi, frahnd! This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives. Today we’re diving deep into the beautiful chaos of parenting, particularly that sweet spot where we try to gently parent our kids while also reparenting ourselves. The truth is that healing your inner child is already a crap ton of work, but it's a special flavor of fun when you have your own kids.  Joining us in the studio for this fun convo is our bestie and inner glow-up queen, Ursula Rodriguez, owner of Soleil Vida Studio! Through Soleil Vida, Ursula leads the community in conversation around healing your inner child or mija. What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear how you're honoring your inner child while raising your own! Share your thoughts and frustrations with us on Instagram or YouTube! ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈 Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon! Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly, and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!” Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy. See y'all in the last episode of Season 2: Struggling w/Daddy&Mommy Issues! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼 📲 Let's yap Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠⁠ Substack: ⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠⁠ 😊NoLo's Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ 😘Chris' Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤩Today's Guest Ursula: ⁠@soleilvidastudio; Soleil Vida Store; soleilvidastudio.com; Faire Whole Sale; "Inner Mija Circle" Server on Discord. 💖Mentioned this Episode La La Land Kind Cafe lalalandkindcafe.com/ Ruby: holarubygomez ; itsrubycreative Tlazo Home: tlazo_home; tlazohome.com/

    1h 59m
  3. 12/28/2025

    Struggling w/Dating: Partners Edition

    Hi, frahnd! This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives. 'Tis the season, and today we’re talking about dating when you’re in a committed partnership. We obvi don't mean sneaky links or affairs, but intentionally dating your spouse. AND we’re not doing it alone! Joining us today is newly married Marilú Medina, a Dallas-based makeup artist and lifestyle influencer, who’s here to share her perspective on love and intentional dating. Staying intentional, romantic, and connected with your significant other when you’ve been together for years is… not easy. If you're trying to juggle pouring into your person while life throws bills, work stress, and emotional baggage your way, this episode is for you. What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear how you're balancing work, family, and other responsibilities along with your social life! Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube! ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈 Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon! Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!” Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy. We hope you have an amazing holiday season surrounded by those you love! We'll see y'all in the n ew year for the next episode: Struggling w/Parenting! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼 📲 Let's yap Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠⁠ Substack: ⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠⁠ 😊NoLo's Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ 😘Chris' Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤩Today's Guest Marilu: ⁠ @mariluxmedinaa

    2h 4m
  4. 12/14/2025

    Struggling w/Dating: Singles Edition

    Hi, frahnd! This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives. Today we’re talking about On today’s episode we’re talking about dating in 2025, because dating out here is ROUGH. SWe brought in Dr. Jessica Sanchez, licensed sex therapist and pleasure advocate to help us understand and give us the real tea on modern dating!  What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear how you're handling dating in this modern era! Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube! ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈 Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon! Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!” Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy. See y'all in the next episode: Struggling w/Dating: Life Partner Edition! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼 📲 Let's yap Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠⁠ Substack: ⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠⁠ 😊NoLo's Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ 😘Chris' Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤩Today's Guest Dr. Sanchez: @latinasexologist⁠; www.drjsanchez.com 💖Mentioned this Episode: Les Portes de Bordeaux Sauvignon Blanc: Vivino, Reverse Wine Snob, Refinery29 Señora Sex Ed Podcast: iHeart Radio, Apple Podcast, Spotify

    1h 44m
  5. Struggling w/Corporate Backstabbing

    11/30/2025

    Struggling w/Corporate Backstabbing

    Hi, frahnd! This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives. Today’s episode is all about surviving the messy culture of corporate life and we invited our new frahnd, Ruby Gomez to help us spill some tea and clock bad behavior!! We’re talking drama, backstabbing, the toxicity that follows us even after we escape those circumstances, and we’re sharing the work we’ve had to do to leave the baggage behind. What are your thoughts on today’s convo? Have you dealt with corporate backstabbing? Share your thoughts or horror stories with us on Instagram or YouTube! ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈 Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon! Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!” Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy. See y'all in the next episode: Struggling w/Dating: Singles Edition! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼 📲 Let's yap Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠⁠ Substack: ⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠⁠ 😊NoLo's Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo 😘Chris' Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤩Today's Guest Ruby: holarubygomez ; itsrubycreative

    1h 18m
  6. 11/16/2025

    Struggling w/Ditching The Male Gaze

    Hi, frahnd! This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives. Today we’re getting real about something that so many of us are unlearning: the influence of the male gaze and how it’s shaped the way we show up in the world. From how we dress, to how we act, to what we post online. It's time to talk about the quiet pressure of being “watchable,” “pleasing,” or “desirable”… and how exhausting that can be. What are your thoughts on today’s convo? How has the male gaze influenced your life and actions? Share your thoughts with us on Instagram or YouTube! ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈 Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon! Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly, and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!” Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy. See y'all in the next episode: Struggling w/Corporate Backstabbing! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼 📲 Let's yap Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠⁠ Substack: ⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠⁠ 😊NoLo's Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ 😘Chris' Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💖Mentioned this Episode: Dark Asia with Megan | Beauty and the Beasts

    1h 11m
  7. 11/02/2025

    Struggling w/Social Lives

    Hi, frahnd! This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.Today, we’re diving into something we’ve both been feeling lately…finding energy for a social life. Why is it so hard to make plans, go out, or even want to be social these days? And when we do, what can we do that doesn’t revolve around alcohol or loud bars? If you ever cancelled plans just to recharge or wondered how to stay connected without burning out or breaking your wellness goals, this episode is for you. What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear how you're balancing work, family, and other responsibilities along with your social life! Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube! ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈 Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon! Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!” Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy. See y'all in the next episode: Struggling with Social Lives! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼 📲 Let's yap Patreon: ⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠ Substack: ⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠ 😊NoLo's Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ 😘Chris' Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💖Mentioned this Episode Ursula: @soleilvidastudio; Hola Luz Creative: @holaluzcreative Brittney Vaughn: @BrittneyVaughn

    1h 1m
  8. Struggling w/Friendships

    10/19/2025

    Struggling w/Friendships

    OMG Hello again, frahnd! Welcome back to Thirty, Flirty & Trying! This season, the struggle continues. Relationships, whether platonic, romantic, familial, or otherwise, take time and patience to cultivate and, honestly, ain’t nobody got time for that😔 Tbh, our social lives feel out of control and on the decline. Juggling time to love on our friends, partners, and family feels overwhelming and almost impossible in a culture that requires us to overwork ourselves. So in season 2, we share how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives. We’re starting with the growing pains of friendship. Whether you’re trying to make it work with your day-ones, growing closer with besties or growing apart, this episode is for you. Pull up a chair, grab your wine or cafecito, and lets talk about things we should be saving for our therapists. What are your thoughts on today’s convo? Friendships are so complex, and the world isn't black or white, so we're interested to hear how you've dealt with similar situations before and what you think about it now that you've had time to reflect. Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube! ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈 Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon! Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!” Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy. See y'all in the next episode: Struggling with Social Lives! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼 📲 Let's yap Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠⁠⁠ Substack: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ 😊NoLo's Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠ 😘Chris' Socials IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    1h 16m

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
3 Ratings

About

A biweekly podcast for millennial girls, gays, & theys just out here doing their best. “Thirty, Flirty, & Trying” is hosted by NoLo, a badass Multi-Passionate Generalist and mom of 3 (if you count her 2 dogs) still trying to find herself, and Chris, an awkward Creative with too many hobbies and physical ailments. Join us as we talk candidly about the struggle that is life and navigating all the transitions that come with being in your 30s as a millennial.