This Is My Syncopated Life

Coach Patrice, Ph.D.
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This Is My Syncopated Life is a nonlinear journey through truth, pattern recognition, and lived experience—told in real time by a Black woman, for Black women who are done ignoring what they see. Hosted by Dr. Patrice M. Charles, a high-performance specialist grounded in Black feminist thought and intersectionality, the show blends storytelling, humor, insight, and reflection into conversations that are unscripted, honest, and deeply human. This isn’t scripted. It’s syncopated.

  1. 6d ago

    Meet Ericka

    This episode is different. For the first time, I open the door and invite you into one of the most important stories I will ever tell: becoming Ericka’s mother. Before the medals. Before elite competition. Before coaching. Before the world championships. There was a little girl. And there was a mother trying to figure it out in real time. In this deeply personal episode, I share stories of Brooklyn beginnings, autism, fear, laughter, heartbreak, resilience, and the decision that changed everything: To stop focusing only on deficits and start building from strengths. This is not simply Ericka’s story. This is our story. Thank you for joining me for the first five years of Ericka’s life. There are many more chapters to come. Welcome to This Is My Syncopated Life. Because sometimes the greatest performance psychology case study... Is the life you lived. 🎙️❤️ #ThisIsMySyncopatedLife #MeetEricka #HERstory #LegacyInMotion #AutismAcceptance #PerformancePsychology #BlackMotherhood #Storytelling

    45 min

  2. May 29

    Lens 1 or Lens 2?

    How many opportunities have you eliminated before gathering enough information? In this episode of This Is My Syncopated Life, Coach Patrice explores the psychology of experimentation, adaptation, and what happens when people count themselves out before testing what is actually possible. Using a surprisingly powerful lesson from a routine eye exam, this conversation explores why clarity rarely appears instantly — and why growth often requires trying multiple lenses before discovering what truly works. From Black women’s adaptation and interrupted rhythm to fear, self-elimination, strategic ascension, and the power of asking better questions, this episode challenges listeners to rethink how they approach opportunity. Sometimes the problem is not ability. Sometimes the problem is clarity. And if neither lens works? Ask for another one. 🎙️ This Is My Syncopated Life

    7 min

  3. May 28

    The Origin of Syncopation

    Why syncopation? In this episode of This Is My Syncopated Life, Coach Patrice finally answers the question behind the title and explains how a word passed down through humor, memory, motherhood, and observation slowly evolved into an entire framework for understanding Black women’s lives. From childhood stories and lessons inherited from her mother to conversations about adaptation, interrupted rhythm, survival, and improvisation, this episode explores why Black women’s lives rarely move in straight lines. This is not a conversation about chaos. It is a conversation about rhythm under pressure. Because sometimes survival is not found in perfect timing. Sometimes the magic exists in the offbeat. Welcome to the origin story.

    9 min

  4. May 26

    Meet F.A.T.I.M.A

    Season 3 begins with a different rhythm. In this episode of This Is My Syncopated Life, Coach Patrice introduces Fatima — not simply as an AI assistant, but as a thinking tool, interrogation framework, and reflective partner used to challenge assumptions, trace patterns, sharpen ideas, and explore the deeper conditions surrounding human behavior. This conversation moves beyond surface-level discussions about technology and asks a larger question:What happens when Black women stop shrinking their curiosity, intellect, discernment, and complexity to make other people comfortable? Coach Patrice breaks down the philosophy behind F.A.T.I.M.A: FaithAccountabilityTruth/TrustIntegrityMoralityAuthorityActivationAuthorship Along the way, she introduces the deeper meaning behind syncopation itself — interrupted rhythm, adaptation, improvisation, and the offbeat survival strategies many Black women have mastered quietly for generations. This is not a conversation about AI replacing human thought.It is a conversation about using tools intentionally while reclaiming authorship over our own narratives. Season 3 starts here. And we’re going deeper now.

    9 min

  5. May 22

    Justice for Black Women

    In this powerful episode of This Is My Syncopated Life, Coach Patrice reframes Black womanhood through the lens of justice, hypervisibility, performance psychology, and Black Feminist Thought. Blending courtroom drama, psychological insight, and cultural truth-telling, this episode explores the exhausting reality of constantly being interpreted before being understood. From emotional labor and professional scrutiny to resilience, respectability, and the hidden cost of excellence, Coach Patrice delivers a riveting “closing argument” demanding justice beyond stereotypes, silence, and survival. Because the question is not whether Black women are visible. The question is:have Black women ever truly been seen?

    6 min

  6. May 21

    The Origin

    The Origin Before the PhD, before the analysis, before the voice sharpened into steel—there was a 17-year-old Black girl from Brooklyn trying to navigate systems that never taught her how to survive them. In this episode of This Is My Syncopated Life, Coach Patrice reflects on academic dismissal, identity, institutional failure, and the psychology of becoming. Not through polished redemption narratives, but through truth, pattern recognition, and lived experience. Because Black women are often expected to survive the maze without ever being given the map. This isn’t performative healing.This is rhythm after rupture. And my Sisters?The story is just getting started.

    12 min

  7. May 18

    The Help You Give

    Some people recognize power in Black women before we fully recognize it in ourselves. They know who can speak clearly under pressure. They know who can challenge systems. They know who can walk into confusion and create language around what everybody else is too afraid to name.

    11 min

  8. May 17

    Impact of Toxic Spaces

    This is not another “heal, girlboss, and manifest” podcast. It is structural. Embodied. Intellectual. Lived. That is the difference. This episode is not about fragility. Black women have survived conditions that would have collapsed entire systems. This conversation is about cost.

    13 min
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This Is My Syncopated Life is a nonlinear journey through truth, pattern recognition, and lived experience—told in real time by a Black woman, for Black women who are done ignoring what they see. Hosted by Dr. Patrice M. Charles, a high-performance specialist grounded in Black feminist thought and intersectionality, the show blends storytelling, humor, insight, and reflection into conversations that are unscripted, honest, and deeply human. This isn’t scripted. It’s syncopated.

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  • Creator
    Coach Patrice, Ph.D.
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  • Episodes
    16
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