This Starts With Me

BigHami

A show talking to everybody and nobody about everything and nothing! @TheTSWMPod IG - https://www.instagram.com/thetswmpod?igsh=dWFxMjhzeGk5eGVm&utm_source=qr Twitter - https://x.com/thetswmpod?s=21 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/52rs68K3ZaYKHNvZUwP0EM Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146 YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties

Episodes

  1. 03/08/2025

    Keep It Pushin EP 8

    Summary In this episode, Hakim reflects on personal growth, the importance of perseverance, and the impact of family connections. He shares life lessons learned from everyday experiences, discusses navigating work dynamics and leadership, and emphasizes self-improvement and financial responsibility. The conversation also touches on wisdom gained from family interactions and the significance of work-life balance in achieving future aspirations. Takeaways Keep pushing through adversity to achieve your goals.Your impact can span generations, so make it positive.Family connections can lead to personal growth and understanding.Every experience, even the small ones, can teach valuable lessons.It's important to have a supportive team around you.Financial responsibility is key to enjoying life.Aim to love and accept others, even those you don't like.Work-life balance is essential for happiness and productivity.Self-improvement should be a continuous journey.Trust the process and let things unfold naturally. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections 02:46 The Importance of Perseverance and Impact 06:06 Family Connections and Personal Growth 08:57 Life Lessons from Everyday Experiences 11:49 Financial Responsibility and Future Planning 15:08 Self-Improvement and Communication Skills 17:59 Conversations with Family and Acceptance 20:49 Work Dynamics and Leadership Challenges 24:12 Reflections on Life and Personal Goals 27:07 Conclusion and Future Aspirations 37:52 Outro Final.mp3

    39 min
  2. 02/22/2025

    The Victor or The Victim EP 7

    In this episode, Hakim reflects on his week, discussing the importance of being a victor rather than a victim in life. He shares personal experiences from work challenges, family celebrations, and his fitness journey, emphasizing the power of choice and resilience. Hakim also celebrates his recent promotion to department manager and draws lessons from reality TV about decision-making and perseverance. The episode concludes with a motivational call to action for listeners to keep pushing forward in their own lives. Takeaways Be strong and courageous in your work. You have the power to choose your response. Reflect on how you can improve in future situations. Personal growth often comes from challenging experiences. Family and relationships are vital for support. Career advancements can come unexpectedly. Decision-making is crucial in high-pressure situations. Resilience is key to overcoming obstacles. Always appreciate the love and support around you. Keep pushing forward, even when faced with challenges. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Weekly Reflection 02:53 Strength and Courage: A Personal Testimony 06:12 Victor vs. Victim: Making Choices in Life 11:52 Navigating Work Challenges and Leadership 19:55 Celebrating Personal Milestones and Growth 26:58 Embracing Gratitude and Life's Blessings 32:00 The Importance of Positive Role Models 38:44 Making Decisions and Betting on Yourself 50:05 Persistence and Finding Opportunities 53:13 Outro Final.mp3 IG - https://www.instagram.com/thetswmpod?igsh=dWFxMjhzeGk5eGVm&utm_source=qr  Twitter - https://x.com/thetswmpod?s=21 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/52rs68K3ZaYKHNvZUwP0EM Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146  YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ  Amazon Podcasts - https://q4k0kx5j.r.us-east-1.awstrack.me/L0/https:%2F%2Fmusic.amazon.com%2Fpodcasts%2F9abc1ee3-1ae9-43aa-a74c-5bd99b17e28d/1/010001947a831ee8-668e93b6-e53e-467e-9f89-4e2463c1cde9-000000/wJgPWCCgnhABGmchhr26cndf32s=409 Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties

    54 min
  3. 02/15/2025

    One Sh***y Step At A Time EP 6

    In this episode, Hakim reflects on personal experiences, including trials with his pets, the importance of perseverance, and the significance of Valentine's Day. He discusses the lessons learned from challenges, the value of humility in relationships, and the impact of career choices. The conversation emphasizes taking life one step at a time and living with intention, while also exploring the deeper meanings of love and connection. Takeaways Consider trials as opportunities for growth.Perseverance is key in facing life's challenges.Taking one step at a time can lead to clarity.Valentine's Day can be a meaningful expression of love.Humility is essential in maintaining relationships.Career choices can impact personal fulfillment.Reflecting on past experiences can guide future decisions.Living with intention can enhance daily life.Understanding the importance of love and connection.Embracing challenges can lead to personal development. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections 07:51 Trials with Pets and Life Lessons 15:11 Finding Peace in Chaos 22:00 The Importance of Focus and Taking Steps 31:04 Valentine's Day Reflections and Growth 35:59 Valentine's Day Reflections and Love Languages 44:07 Embracing Challenges and Personal Growth 50:00 The Importance of Humility in Relationships 56:01 Living with Purpose and Perspective 01:02:08 Career Choices and the Grass is Greener Dilemma 01:12:04 Outro Final.mp3 Keywords podcast, personal growth, relationships, trials, perseverance, Valentine's Day, humility, career choices IG - https://www.instagram.com/thetswmpod?igsh=dWFxMjhzeGk5eGVm&utm_source=qr  Twitter - https://x.com/thetswmpod?s=21 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/52rs68K3ZaYKHNvZUwP0EM Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146  YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ  Amazon Podcasts - https://q4k0kx5j.r.us-east-1.awstrack.me/L0/https:%2F%2Fmusic.amazon.com%2Fpodcasts%2F9abc1ee3-1ae9-43aa-a74c-5bd99b17e28d/1/010001947a831ee8-668e93b6-e53e-467e-9f89-4e2463c1cde9-000000/wJgPWCCgnhABGmchhr26cndf32s=409 Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties

    1h 13m
  4. 02/08/2025

    But Does It Love You Back? EP5

    In this episode, Hakim reflects on his recent birthday, the importance of family, and the lessons learned about love, loyalty, and positivity. He emphasizes the significance of leading with love in all aspects of life and discusses the complexities of relationships and personal growth. The conversation also touches on the unfairness of life and the importance of being mindful of what we put out into the world, as it ultimately comes back to us. Takeaways Never lose hope; God will make a way. Life is beautiful when you appreciate it. Love is more than just a feeling; it's a way of life. What you put out in the world will come back to you. Be careful about where you place your loyalty. Life is perfectly unfair; good and bad happen to everyone. Lead with love, even on hard days. Focus on what loves you back. Make a decision to be loyal to what's truly important. Life is beautiful; make it what you make it. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Reflections on Life 03:14 Turning 27: A Personal Reflection 06:01 The Complexity of Love 09:48 The Power of Positivity and Energy 13:11 Lessons from Life's Challenges 16:05 The Importance of Loyalty 20:11 Navigating Life's Uncertainties 23:04 Conclusion and Call to Action 36:28 Outro Final.mp3 Keywords faith, personal growth, love, positivity, loyalty, life lessons, self-reflection, podcast IG -https://www.instagram.com/thetswmpod?igsh=dWFxMjhzeGk5eGVm&utm_source=qr  Twitter -https://x.com/thetswmpod?s=21 Spotify -https://open.spotify.com/show/52rs68K3ZaYKHNvZUwP0EM Apple Pod -https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146  YT -https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ  Amazon Podcasts -https://q4k0kx5j.r.us-east-1.awstrack.me/L0/https:%2F%2Fmusic.amazon.com%2Fpodcasts%2F9abc1ee3-1ae9-43aa-a74c-5bd99b17e28d/1/010001947a831ee8-668e93b6-e53e-467e-9f89-4e2463c1cde9-000000/wJgPWCCgnhABGmchhr26cndf32s=409 Nate Twitch. -https://twitch.tv/unexpecties

    37 min
  5. 02/01/2025

    Winter Blues and Working Hard EP4

    In this episode, Hakim reflects on personal growth, integrity, and overcoming fears. He shares insights from a Mr. Beast game that highlights moral choices and integrity, discusses the challenges of winter, and recounts his experience of finally visiting the dentist after many years. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, facing fears, and understanding the implications of one's actions. In this episode, Hakim discusses the frustrations of adulting, particularly the costs associated with healthcare and the lessons learned through personal experiences. He reflects on the importance of emotional maturity, integrity, and intentional living, emphasizing the need to recognize one's actions and their consequences. The conversation also touches on physical health, injury recovery, and the significance of self-discovery through challenges. Hakim concludes with thoughts on faith and trust in the process of personal growth. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 02:52 Reflections on Winter and Personal Growth 06:08 Integrity and the Mr. Beast Game 11:56 Facing Fears: The Dentist Experience 21:12 Lessons on Health and Insurance 22:40 The Cost of Healthcare and Adulting Frustrations 23:39 Learning Life Lessons Early 24:33 Mental Challenges and Personal Growth 25:54 Recognizing Emotional Maturity 26:48 Integrity When No One is Watching 27:45 Intentional Living and Decision Making 29:01 Catching Yourself While Falling 30:32 Physical Health and Injury Recovery 38:07 Self-Discovery Through Challenges 43:25 Faith and Trust in the Process IG - https://www.instagram.com/thetswmpod?igsh=dWFxMjhzeGk5eGVm&utm_source=qr  Twitter - https://x.com/thetswmpod?s=21 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/52rs68K3ZaYKHNvZUwP0EM Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146  YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ  Amazon Podcasts - https://q4k0kx5j.r.us-east-1.awstrack.me/L0/https:%2F%2Fmusic.amazon.com%2Fpodcasts%2F9abc1ee3-1ae9-43aa-a74c-5bd99b17e28d/1/010001947a831ee8-668e93b6-e53e-467e-9f89-4e2463c1cde9-000000/wJgPWCCgnhABGmchhr26cndf32s=409 Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties

    45 min
  6. 01/25/2025

    Embracing Failure: Lessons from the Kitchen EP3

    Summary In this episode of the 'This Starts With Me' podcast, Hakim shares personal stories and insights on various themes including the importance of dreaming, the lessons learned from failure, and the impact of social media addiction. He emphasizes the significance of love in overcoming hate and discusses the challenges of navigating life while staying true to oneself. The episode is filled with humor, relatable anecdotes, and motivational messages aimed at encouraging listeners to embrace their journeys and pursue personal growth. Takeaways Dreaming again is essential for personal growth. Failure is a part of the journey to success. It's important to process emotions and learn from mistakes. Pets can provide grounding and stability in life. Social media can be addictive and detrimental to mental health. Self-reflection is crucial for understanding personal challenges. Love is a powerful tool against hate. Trends should not dictate personal choices or identity. Life is a series of ups and downs, embrace them. Your attitude determines your altitude in life. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Inspiration 02:50 The Mac and Cheese Story: Lessons in Failure 11:59 Grounding Through Pets and Life's Challenges 17:46 Breaking Free from Social Media Addiction 25:04 Finding Balance in Life and Work 26:47 Embracing Life's Ups and Downs 32:00 Overcoming Fear and Seeking Comfort 33:25 Navigating Political Climate and Social Issues 41:31 Coping with Hate and Spreading Love 49:03 Personal Reflections and Future Aspirations 53:01 Outro IG - https://www.instagram.com/thetswmpod?igsh=dWFxMjhzeGk5eGVm&utm_source=qr  Twitter - https://x.com/thetswmpod?s=21 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/52rs68K3ZaYKHNvZUwP0EM Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146  YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ  Amazon Podcasts - https://q4k0kx5j.r.us-east-1.awstrack.me/L0/https:%2F%2Fmusic.amazon.com%2Fpodcasts%2F9abc1ee3-1ae9-43aa-a74c-5bd99b17e28d/1/010001947a831ee8-668e93b6-e53e-467e-9f89-4e2463c1cde9-000000/wJgPWCCgnhABGmchhr26cndf32s=409 Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties  Keywords podcast, inspiration, failure, social media addiction, self-reflection, love, personal growth, life lessons, overcoming challenges, mental health

    54 min
  7. 01/11/2025

    Lead With Love - Even With Your Mom EP1

    In this episode of 'This Starts With Me,' Hakim shares his excitement for the podcast's launch and reflects on personal growth, accountability, and the importance of vulnerability. He discusses the challenges of balancing work and personal life, the significance of relationships, and the need to lead with love. Hakim also touches on current events and societal issues, emphasizing the importance of giving back and supporting one another. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to embrace vulnerability and strive for personal improvement. Takeaways: Embrace vulnerability as a path to personal growth. Accountability is essential for self-improvement. Leading with love simplifies relationships and life. Forgiveness prevents resentment and promotes peace. Delayed gratification often leads to greater rewards. Building strong relationships requires effort and love. Personal growth starts with self-reflection and change. Negativity is often celebrated in society; choose positivity. Support and uplift those around you for mutual growth. Current events reflect the need for compassion and action. IG - https://www.instagram.com/thetswmpod?igsh=dWFxMjhzeGk5eGVm&utm_source=qr  Twitter - https://x.com/thetswmpod?s=21 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/52rs68K3ZaYKHNvZUwP0EM Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146  YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ  Nate Twitch! - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties

    52 min

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A show talking to everybody and nobody about everything and nothing! @TheTSWMPod IG - https://www.instagram.com/thetswmpod?igsh=dWFxMjhzeGk5eGVm&utm_source=qr Twitter - https://x.com/thetswmpod?s=21 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/52rs68K3ZaYKHNvZUwP0EM Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146 YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties