Tiff Talks

Dr. Tiffany Paiva

I'm Dr. Tiffany Paiva, founder of DentorMatch. Tiff Talks is my show: imperfect conversations with fascinating humans, from dentistry to ADHD and beyond. Find a mentor or become one: dentormatch.com

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    Addiction Doesn't Care How Smart You Are | Brett Kessler

    Brett Kessler, past president of the American Dental Association, on addiction, recovery, and why so many dentists wait to ask for help. Find a mentor or become one: dentormatch.com If today is heavy, please tell someone. In the U.S., call or text 988 anytime to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Brett says he has been in recovery for 28 years. He and Tiff talk about hitting bottom, rehab, burnout, the fear of losing a license, and how therapy and coaching can help dentists and the people around them. Betty Ford Children's Program (kids 7 to 12): https://www.hazeldenbettyford.org/family-loved-ones/family-program Dr. Brett Kessler, DDS, leadership development coach (Dentistry, Reimagined) Email: bikodds@gmail.com Full video with chapters: https://youtu.be/m_Pg5D5sDW4 Context: This episode discusses addiction, recovery, and suicide. Suicide has many causes. No known diagnosis does not mean no warning signs. Help is available, and help works. Licensing: Board questions, reporting rules, and confidentiality vary by state and program. Brett's Colorado example does not guarantee anonymity or a licensing outcome. This is not legal advice. Colorado: https://peerhealthco.org/confidentiality. Texas: https://txprn.com. Guest views and estimates are their own. Brett cites 82% of dentists showing burnout signs. The ADA's 2024 Trend Report found 82% of surveyed member dentists reported major career stress, a stress question, not a clinical burnout measure (ADA, 2024). Brett recalls a free therapy benefit that went unused. ADA News described free Talkspace Go and discounted Talkspace therapy but gave no usage figures (ADA News, May 2025). Brett says Texas removed questions about past mental health and substance use. ADA News reported in October 2024 that Texas made that change in 2023 and asked about current impairment instead. Rules differ by state. Brett estimates about 75% success with monitoring. A study of 904 physicians in 16 state programs found 78.7% licensed and working at five years (McLellan et al., BMJ, 2008). That is not a sobriety rate, and the study made no comparison with people outside monitoring, so it does not support Brett's comparison figures. Brett says monitored professionals are sued less. One Colorado physician program study found fewer malpractice claims among its physicians (Brooks et al., Occupational Medicine, 2013). Brett estimates addiction affects 10 to 15% of people. The 2024 National Survey on Drug Use and Health found 16.8% of people 12 and older had a substance use disorder in the past year (SAMHSA, 2025). Brett recalls dentistry ranking as the top job before COVID. U.S. News ranked dentist No. 1 in 2015 and 2017. Brett served as the 161st ADA president, 2024 to 2025 (ADA News, Sept 2024). On suicide without a known diagnosis: a CDC report found 54% of people who died by suicide in 27 states in 2015 had no known mental health condition (CDC MMWR, 2018). #TiffTalks #Recovery #Dentist

  2. 3d ago

    The Embezzlement Detective Dentists Call | David Harris

    David Harris on who should NOT own a dental practice, and how to protect the one you have. Find a mentor or become one: dentormatch.com David investigates theft in dental practices for a living. We talk about why ownership gets held up as the goal for young dentists, who it may not fit, and what he tells dentists who blame themselves after someone steals from them. David Harris, founder and CEO, Prosperident (forensic investigators for dental practices) prosperident.com Call Prosperident (toll free): 888-398-2327 linkedin.com/in/dentistryscrimefighter youtube.com/@prosperident The Prosperident Exchange podcast: prosperident.com/podcasts His book, Healers versus Stealers: prosperident.com/we-wrote-the-book-on-embezzlement Free offer from the episode: David will send a spreadsheet matched to your practice software if you contact him and say which software you use (contact details at prosperident.com). Watch the full video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9ePkiuvxeqw Guest views and estimates are their own. Prosperident's figures and the Maryland case details are as David recalls them. An ADA survey (2018) found nearly 49% of responding dental practices had experienced employee theft (ADA News, Feb 2020). Criminal record estimates (NELP 2011, Brennan Center 2015) include arrests, not only convictions. Drug testing comments are David's observations. Federal DEA rules (21 CFR 1301.76) cover employees with access to controlled substances. Warning signs are not proof of theft, and matching totals cannot guarantee that every transaction is right. Tiff Talks is hosted by Dr. Tiffany Paiva, founder of DentorMatch, a mentorship site for the whole dental team. Instagram: @tiff_the_adhd_dentist

  3. Oct 29

    Life After Dentistry: What We Wish We'd Known Sooner | Laura Brenner

    Two dentists who walked away talk burnout, boundaries, and what we wish we'd known sooner. Find a mentor or become one: dentormatch.com Laura Brenner practiced dentistry for ten years, then left, and now coaches dental people who feel stuck. We talk about what stuck feels like, why leaving is not the same as failing, why we are so hard on each other, and how caring about your patients and having boundaries can go together. Laura Brenner, former dentist and career coach, Lolabees Career Coaching https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/ Instagram: @drlolabees Facebook group: Dentist Side Gigs Chapters 00:00 What Laura wishes she had known 01:35 The way out, and Tiff's story 04:18 "I'm dying inside" 07:57 Asking permission to leave 09:30 Money: the reason or the excuse? 16:42 All or nothing thinking in dentistry 18:30 Why we hide how we feel 21:13 Online attacks and why they sting 28:02 "Just because someone says it doesn't mean it's true" 34:03 The revolution dentistry needs 35:38 Leaving dentistry without hating it 38:51 Empaths, burnout and caring too much 44:24 Can you grow boundaries? 48:06 Some of us have to leave to heal 50:21 The quarter life crisis idea 53:21 Learning to dream 58:13 What surprised Laura most 1:00:46 Finding worth beyond struggle and money 1:03:30 Learning to enjoy life again 1:08:25 Where to find Laura If today is heavy, please tell someone. You can call or text 988, anytime. Guest views are their own. Tiff Talks is hosted by Dr. Tiffany Paiva, founder of DentorMatch, a mentorship site for the whole dental team.

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I'm Dr. Tiffany Paiva, founder of DentorMatch. Tiff Talks is my show: imperfect conversations with fascinating humans, from dentistry to ADHD and beyond. Find a mentor or become one: dentormatch.com