Time For You: Nurturing Presence, Love, and Well-Being

Shailia Stephens & Lea Wernli
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Embark on a journey with Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli as they unravel the secrets of inner peace, loving connections, and lasting well-being. "Time For You" is your guide to a beautiful life.

  1. DEC 12

    60 – Strengths in Disguise: Why Your “Flaws” Might Be Your Superpower

    In this TIME FOR YOU episode, Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli wander into a tender, funny, and revealing exploration of “limitations” — the quirks, patterns, and imperfections we often try to hide or fix. From Lea’s spontaneous, hiking-in-Sweden-without-the-right-shoes to Shailia’s highly structured world, they unpack how our so-called weaknesses often shape our style, guide our creativity, and even become our strengths. A conversation about embracing who you already are, without forcing yourself into someone else’s blueprint. But also, playing the game in the other direction if you want to.   Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too! http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com   About Us Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply. Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business. Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

    21 min

  2. NOV 28

    59 – What Really Matters: Lessons From Dementia, Presence, and Beauty Everywhere

    In this TIME FOR YOU episode, Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli follow an unexpected thread—what truly remains when everything else falls away. Their conversation drifts from money worries to the quiet lessons Shailia receives while visiting her mother-in-law in a dementia ward: presence as love, small gestures as connection, and humor showing up in unlikely corners. Together, they look beyond accomplishments and self-improvement to the simple truth revealed at the end of life—and in the middle of ours.   Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too! http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com   About Us Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply. Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business. Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

    15 min

  3. NOV 14

    58 – Inner Peace AND Taking Action: How to Create a Life You Love

    Not your usual talk about “doing less.” In this TIME FOR YOU conversation, Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli explore the dance between being and doing—how peace of mind doesn’t cancel movement, and how creation can flow from stillness. From inner shifts to everyday questions like What do I really want today? they unravel the space where insight becomes action. A warm, funny, and refreshingly real exploration of spiritual understanding meeting practical life—the place where wisdom rolls up its sleeves.   These are the 3 questions they were talking about: What would you like to do today? If you could only get one thing done what would it be? How can the Gods bless you today?   Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too! http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com   About Us Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply. Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business. Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

    33 min

  4. OCT 31

    57 – The Power of Calm in a World on Fire

    In this episode of TIME FOR YOU, Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli explore the quiet power of wisdom in the midst of fear, conflict, and uncertainty. Through the parable of the hare and the lion, they reflect on how fresh ideas arise—not from panic, resistance, or outrage—but from a quieter mind. With heartfelt stories from Africa, personal experiences, and reflections on the state of the world, they speak to hope, creativity, and our shared human capacity to see beyond what looks impossible.   Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too! http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com   About Us Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply. Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business. Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

    25 min

  5. OCT 17

    56 – Confidence Without Trying: How Presence Guides the Next Step

    In this episode of TIME FOR YOU, Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli explore the nature of confidence—not as something you build, but something you return to. Through stories from refugee communities in Uganda and everyday life in Europe, they reflect on how insecurity, overthinking, and unfamiliar circumstances can make us forget our inner confidence. With humor and honesty, they share how presence, intuition, and the next simple step gently guide us forward, no matter the situation. A hopeful, human conversation for anyone feeling unsure.   Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too! http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com   About Us Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply. Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business. Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

    27 min

  6. OCT 3

    55 – Why Noticing Your Triggers Can Change Everything

    In this episode of TIME FOR YOU, Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli dive into the theme of reactivity—those fiery moments when emotions flare and the ego rushes in to defend, argue, or lash out. Through stories ranging from everyday encounters to projects in Africa, they reflect on how the Three Principles reveal a different way: noticing reactivity without being consumed by it. With humor, honesty, and real-life examples, they share how creating space between trigger and response opens the door to compassion, clarity, and deeper connection.   Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too! http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com   About Us Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply. Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business. Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

    25 min

  7. SEP 19

    54 – Self-Care in the Midst of Challenges

    In this episode of TIME FOR YOU, Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli reconnect after summer breaks to share stories of rest, challenges, and deep insights from both family life and their ongoing projects. From struggles to joyful breakthroughs, they reflect on the ups and downs of the creative process and how presence changes everything. Through laughter, honesty, and reflections on the Three Principles, they explore how to care for yourself while navigating life’s constant waves of creation.   Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too! http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com   About Us Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply. Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business. Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

    38 min

  8. SEP 5

    53 – From Activism to Evidence: Jeanne Catherine-Gray’s Journey with the 3 Principles

    In this episode, psychologist and researcher Jeanne Catherine-Gray, PhD, co-founder and CEO of Innate Health Research, shares how real-world studies bring evidence to the Three Principles. Jeanne explains how her team measures “innate health” (our built-in capacity for resilience, clarity, and connection) and tracks its impact across high-risk settings — from prisons to unemployment programs and addiction recovery. We also explore Jeanne’s activist heart: why she believes curiosity over polarization prevents harm, how small civic actions restore agency, and why lived-experience voices belong at the center of mental-health solutions. If you care about science with a soul, bridging advocacy with data, and turning insight into compassionate action, this conversation will leave you steadier, kinder, and more empowered.Innate Health Research:https://innatehealthresearch.org/   Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too! http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com   About Us Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply. Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business. Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

    48 min
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