33 episodes

Dating is weird. Let's talk about it! From sex, trauma, dating stories, marriage, divorce, to everything in between, there are no bounds.

Hosted by Social Media Director and Spin Instructor, Mariya Spektor, To Date Or Not is a safe space for all things in the shit show we call 21st century dating.

To Date Or Not Mariya Spektor

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 26 Ratings

Dating is weird. Let's talk about it! From sex, trauma, dating stories, marriage, divorce, to everything in between, there are no bounds.

Hosted by Social Media Director and Spin Instructor, Mariya Spektor, To Date Or Not is a safe space for all things in the shit show we call 21st century dating.

    33: Living Meat-Based feat. Nicole

    33: Living Meat-Based feat. Nicole

    Curious about the Carnivore Diet? Let's talk about it.

    Meet Nicole; this tech queen and podcast host has been meat-based since April 2020. Due to her previous issues with chronic knee pain and unbeatable inflammation, she was in a bind to find something that would heal her body (and mind). Enter: the carnivore diet.

    In this podcast, we chatted all things surrounding the standard American diet, inflammation, chronic pain, mental health, PMS, libido, infertility, birth control, toxins, and so much more. Buckle up because you're about to be mind blown about the revolutionary success of expanding your food knowledge and living a toxic-free life.

    Resources discussed:
    Joe Rogan Podcast: #1050 Dr. Shawn Baker
    Joe Rogan Podcast: #1164 Mikhaila Peterson
    Joe Rogan Podcast: #1784 Diana Rodgers & Robb Wolff
    Shawn Baker MD on Instagram
    Mikhaila Peterson on Instagram
    Kelly Hogan on Instagram
    Toxic-free skincare

    Connect with Nicole on Instagram, subscribe to Meat Based on YouTube, and listen to Meat Based on Spotify.

    • 1 hr 9 min
    32: Situationships feat. Tinah

    32: Situationships feat. Tinah

    In a situationship? Let's talk about it.

    Meet Tinah; a 23-year-old savvy social marketer, podcast host, and the queen of situationships; they're basically an undefined romantic relationship. In this episode, we dive into pros and cons, toxicity, the "situationship breakup," and everything in between.

    Follow the @inyourtwentys and @tinah.ogalo on Instagram!

    Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram.

    • 1 hr 4 min
    31: Chronic Pain & Egg Freezing feat. Nancy

    31: Chronic Pain & Egg Freezing feat. Nancy

    What's it like dating with chronic pain? Let's talk about it.

    Meet Nancy; she's 31 years old and a first-generation immigrant that loves to pole dance as well as train on Lyra, silks, and hammock. Plot twist? Nancy lives with suspected endometriosis and IBS, ultimately leading her to an egg-freezing journey in November. We dive into the diagnosis, pain reduction, talking to your partner about your chronic pain, stress, reproduction, and everything in between.

    Resources discussed:
    Fertility Clinic Blog: extendfertility.com/blog
    Dr. Natalie Crawford: nataliecrawfordmd.com

    Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!

    • 1 hr 27 min
    30: This is Not Goodbye feat. Me, Myself, and I

    30: This is Not Goodbye feat. Me, Myself, and I

    Life is weird. Let's talk about it!

    When it comes down to it, this has been a hell of a year. From finding love to promotions and passion projects, 2021 did not disappoint. So while this isn't a forever goodbye, this is a soft pause on this beautiful project I've built. Episode 30 gives you a little more insight as to why!

    Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!

    • 11 min
    29: Living With a Partner feat. Brad

    29: Living With a Partner feat. Brad

    Living together? Let's talk about it.

    Surprise, surprise. It is my first time living with a significant other. Brad moved in three months ago, and to be honest, it has been nothing short of delightful. And while not every couple is fortunate to have the same experience, we go through the bad, the ugly, and what's been statistically proven as couples decide to make the big step.

    Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!

    • 2 hr 18 min
    28: Dump His Toxic Ass feat. Hannah

    28: Dump His Toxic Ass feat. Hannah

    How to date after a long-term, toxic relationship? Let's talk about it.

    After a 9-year relationship that ultimately led to years of unhappiness, Hannah is determined to find life and love again. We dive into stories of toxicity, what life is like in the dating world in 2021, the impact of social media, where the hell to meet people these days, and so much more.

    Trigger warning: this episode contains discussions of depression and suicide.

    Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!

    • 1 hr 28 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
26 Ratings

26 Ratings

Danidownunder ,

My new go to Podcast

Love listening to the content on this podcast! Each episode is so relatable and informative. It’s refreshing to hear people’s stories and experiences, as it puts my own into perspective. It’s my new go to when I get ready in the morning! Looking forward to more episodes!

SamLo ,

Listen for realness!

Mariyeah’s podcast is honestly the first podcast I have ever listened to, and I still listen to! I am currently catching up on episodes. The further I go into listening into these conversations and the REALNESS of them makes me appreciate how others view dating today. Mariyeah and her guests highlight their past and current experiences, and I tend to find myself relating in so many ways! I can envision myself sitting in the room with them and participating in the convos. This podcast encourages me to learn more about myself and what I want in dating. I look forward to the next episode every single time. I thank all the guests who openly shared their lived experiences because of the safe space Mariyeah creates. Sending love to my spin instructor!<3

Noah520 ,

RAW and OPEN experiences WORTH hearing!

The podcast, in my eyes, is the best in its field when creating a raw and open space to talk about very uncomfortable material dealing with relationships for ALL people. It’s universal, and surrounds its guest with the chances to educate while being guided by the host Mariya. Through and through it’s the best part of my routine when doing mindless tasks!

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