Toddler Toolkit

Heather Schalk, M.Ed.
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The complete toolkit for understanding toddler behavior (e.g. hitting, throwing, biting, pushing), navigating tantrums and meltdowns, fostering healthy sibling relationships and dynamics so your kids can get along and raising skilled resilient self-regulated toddlers. If you have toddlers that are close in age or multiple kids then this podcast is made for you! Heather helps parents transform their aggressive toddlers behavior into a calm, kind and caring toddler with a more peaceful and joyful home. Heather is the Founder of Heather Schalk Parenting, a Twin Mama, Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, Teacher for 10 years (pre-k through 9th grade), specialization in behavior, with her M.Ed. Heather's passion is helping moms of toddlers who have disruptive tantrums develop proactive and 'in the moment' strategies to Transform their toddlers disruptive tantrums, aggressive ‘button-pushing’ behavior into a Calm, Kind and Caring Toddler so you have a joyful family and enjoy motherhood. Next Toddler Mom Cohort to Transform Aggressive Toddler Behavior taught by Heather is in September 2024!

  1. 1D AGO

    Why 'Doing More' Is Backfiring With Your Toddler w/ Ashley Ventrice

    Why 'Doing More' Is Backfiring With Your Toddler w/ Ashley Ventrice Follow Ashley Ventrice:Instagram: @ashleyvetnricecoAshley on FacebookAshley Ventrice Show (podcast) Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!   In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, Heather talks with Ashley Ventrice, a parent, educator, and host of The Ashley Ventrice Show, about how nervous system safety and emotional regulation start with the adults.  Ashley shares how she built a childcare center designed for both toddlers and parents, including structured play, sensory learning, predictable routines, soft separation for preschool transitions, and a space where parents could stay, connect, and even watch the classroom via live stream. They discuss simple ways to recreate a calmer play setup at home with a designated play area, toy rotation, and more open-ended play options versus closed-ended toys. Ashley also shares her health journey after years of over-functioning and people-pleasing, including being gaslit by doctors, pushing for brain and spine MRIs, learning she had a 9mm lesion on her brainstem, and how serious autoimmune illness forced her to slow down, advocate for herself, and set boundaries. The conversation covers why routine and predictability help both kids and adults, how over-scheduling can stress the whole family, how social media comparison can add pressure, and why parent community matters. Ashley emphasizes modeling emotional regulation for kids by naming feelings, noticing body signals like anxiety, taking deep breaths out loud, and teaching emotional intelligence early. She closes with a message for exhausted moms: rest is allowed, a regulated parent matters more than a perfectly structured day, and listening to your body before it has to scream helps you stay present for your children. 00:00 The Over-Functioner Wake-Up Call: Slow Down Before Your Body Screams01:00 Welcome + Meet Ashley Ventres (Nervous System, Regulation & Boundaries)02:52 Inside Ashley’s Childcare Center: Designing Nervous-System Safety for Kids & Parents06:43 Sensory Play & Space Setup: Montessori-Inspired Zones That Help Toddlers Regulate08:10 Recreate the Calm at Home: Toy Rotation + Open-Ended Play Tips11:15 Ashley’s Health Journey: Autoimmune Illness, Medical Gaslighting & Self-Advocacy15:31 Learning to Rest + Set Boundaries (and Handling the Pushback)19:14 Modeling Regulation: Teaching Toddlers Emotional Literacy, Anxiety & Coping Skills23:47 Routines for Everyone: Predictability, Over-Scheduling & Slowing Family Life Down27:32 Comparison, Community & Mom Connection: You’re Not Alone31:04 Final Message: A Regulated Mom Matters More Than a Perfect Day + Where to Find Ashley ------------------------------------------------------"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Calm Superpower Cohort.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    33 min

  2. FEB 16

    Before You Call Them a Bully: What’s Really Happening in Sibling & Friend Power Struggles

    Before You Call Them a Bully: What’s Really Happening in Sibling & Friend Power Struggles This episode is part of a 4 Part Valentine's Series! Click the link below to listen 🎧🎧 Episode 1 — Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior) 🎧 Episode 2 — Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think)🎧 Episode 3 — When Play Makes Things Worse: Protecting Your Child Without Breaking Connection 🎧 Episode 4 — Before You Call Them a Bully: What’s Really Happening in Sibling & Friend Power Struggles(this episode) 🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! In this episode, we discuss misunderstood child behaviors, focusing on 'the bully.'  Learn how kids' roles in sibling and peer dynamics are actually nervous system strategies. Explore how behaviors like screaming, grabbing, and having meltdowns are survival responses, often misinterpreted as mere bad behavior. I break down how roles like the rule keeper, attention seeker, fixer, and attuner interact and how pressure from these roles can cause a defending child to react strongly ('The Defender'). This episode is a deep dive into understanding the root causes behind what we see as problematic behavior, offering insights into improving relationships and emotional regulation. 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Dynamics00:15 Understanding the 'Bully' Label00:33 Nervous System Strategies in Children01:07 Common Behavioral Responses01:36 Series Recap and Episode Overview02:42 The Role of the Defender04:12 Attention Seekers and Defenders05:59 Fixers and Defenders06:56 Attune Children and Defenders09:27 Misinterpretations and Manipulation10:52 Emotional Reactions and Adult Responses14:47 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Events ------------------------------------------------------"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    17 min

  3. FEB 9

    When Play Makes Things Worse: Protecting Your Child Without Breaking Connection

    When Play Makes Things Worse: Protecting Your Child Without Breaking Connection | Toddler Toolkit Podcast This episode is part of a 4 Part Valentine's Series!Episodes to be linked soon!🎧 Episode 1 — Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior) 🎧 Episode 2 — Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think)🎧 Episode 3 — When Play Makes Things Worse: Protecting Your Child Without Breaking Connection (this episode)🎧 Episode 4 — Not a Bully (The moment everyone misreads)(coming soon!) 🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! In this episode, we talk about finding a balance in your child's social interactions. Learn how to protect your child's nervous system without cutting out friends or hurting sibling relationships. We discuss practical strategies like setting playtime boundaries, planning recovery time, and intervening when necessary. We also delve into understanding different social dynamics and teaching children self-advocacy. Join us for tips on maintaining healthy, supportive relationships for your child's long-term well-being. 00:00 Introduction: Balancing Time and Relationships01:08 Reframing Protection: Leadership, Not Rejection01:57 Understanding Nervous System Capacity02:56 Containment Strategies for Healthy Relationships03:22 When to Step In: The Role of Parental Leadership04:43 Avoiding Power Struggles Among Children05:49 Reframing the Problem Child Narrative07:23 The Importance of Recovery Time08:03 Respecting Boundaries: Avoiding Forced Closeness11:45 Teaching Self-Advocacy and Social Skills12:43 Conclusion: Building Safe and Healthy Relationships13:15 Upcoming Episodes and Resources ------------------------------------------------------"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    15 min

  4. FEB 2

    Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think)

    Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think) | Toddler Toolkit Podcast This episode is part of a 4 Part Valentine's Series!Episodes to be linked soon!🎧 Episode 1 — Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior) 🎧 Episode 2 — Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think)🎧 Episode 3 — Protection Without Ending Relationships (Adult leadership + boundaries) (coming soon!)🎧 Episode 4 — Not a Bully (The moment everyone misreads)(coming soon!) 🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! In this episode, we discuss why kids fall into certain roles with siblings and friends and how these roles are nervous system adaptations, not personality traits. We identify common roles like the attention seeker, rule keeper, attuner, and fixer, and explore how parents can unintentionally solidify these roles. Learn how to interpret and manage these dynamics without labeling, and how to support healthier relationships among kids. Make sure to subscribe to Toddler Toolkit Podcast for more insights in our Valentine's series. 00:00 Introduction: Understanding Roles in Children's Dynamics02:33 Why Roles Form Among Children04:14 Common Roles Kids Fall Into09:27 How Parents Reinforce Roles11:11 Interpreting Roles Without Labels13:26 Long-Term Impact of Early Dynamics13:51 Conclusion and Next Steps ------------------------------------------------------"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    16 min

  5. JAN 26

    Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior)

    Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior) 🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Ever wondered why your child acts differently with their sibling or a close friend? This episode kicks off a series that explores how children's relationships, especially with siblings and close friends, impact their behavior. It's not about bad behavior, but about their nervous systems interacting. Learn about 'sibling amplification,' why kids can spiral together, and how to support your child's emotional regulation in these relationships. Let's reframe how we view these interactions and move from focusing on behavior correction to understanding and supporting the underlying nervous system dynamics. 00:00 Introduction: Understanding Child Behavior Dynamics00:35 The Concept of Nervous System Interactions01:40 Exploring Sibling and Peer Amplification02:12 Why Kids Spiral Faster Together07:49 Managing Spirals: Separation vs. Containment09:08 Proactive Strategies for Parents13:31 Conclusion: Supporting Your Child's Nervous System This episode is part of a 4 Part Valentine's Series!Episodes to be linked soon!🎧 Episode 1 — Amplification (How nervous systems feed off each other) 🎧 Episode 2 — Roles (Who kids become inside)🎧 Episode 3 — Protection Without Ending Relationships (Adult leadership + boundaries)🎧 Episode 4 — Not a Bully (The moment everyone misreads) ------------------------------------------------------"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    16 min

  6. JAN 19

    What Your Toddler’s Tantrum Is Actually About

    What Your Toddler’s Tantrum Is Actually About "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Referenced Epsiode:-Why Your Toddler Keeps Melting Down: The Pattern You’re Missing 🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk Ever been baffled by your toddler’s sudden meltdown — even when you stayed calm, explained, and did “everything right”? In this episode, we’re unpacking what toddler tantrums are actually about — and why so many well-intentioned strategies fail. You’ll learn why tantrums aren’t random or manipulative, but signals from a nervous system that’s overwhelmed, disappointed, or stuck in transition. More importantly, you’ll see how aiming at the wrong problem can accidentally make tantrums worse — even when you’re trying to help. I walk you through two powerful, real-life examples that change how you see tantrums entirely: A sibling “sharing” struggle that isn’t about sharing at all A preschool shoe battle that looks like “not listening,” but is really about something elseThese examples show why fixing the behavior often misses the real need — and what happens when you respond to the right problem instead. We’ll also cover: The most common tantrum triggers parents overlookThe one question that instantly shifts how you respondWhy teaching during a meltdown doesn’t work (and what does)A real-life IHOP moment that shows how modeling regulation can prevent a meltdown before it startsBy the end of this episode, tantrums won’t feel so confusing — or so personal. You’ll start seeing them as communication, not misbehavior, and you’ll know how to respond in a way that actually helps your child move forward. 00:00 Introduction: Understanding Toddler Tantrums01:14 Why Tantrums Feel So Confusing03:49 Common Tantrum Patterns07:02 The Question That Changes Everything08:10 Why Teaching Doesn't Work Mid-Meltdown09:23 Real-Life Example: The Pancake Meltdown12:34 Changing the Pattern, Not the Moment15:50 Conclusion and Resources ------------------------------------------------------"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    17 min

  7. JAN 12

    Two Reasons Toddlers Don’t Listen (and Why Certain Strategies Fail)

    Two Reasons Toddlers Don’t Listen (and Why Certain Strategies Fail) Join our Free Facebook Group here. "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Welcome to the Toddler Toolkit podcast! In this episode, we tackle a common frustration among parents: 'Why doesn't my toddler listen even when I'm calm?' The answer might surprise you—it's often not a listening problem but a nervous system issue. Learn why toddlers' behavior during transitions, trips, and daily routines can spark meltdowns and power struggles. We'll discuss effective strategies for handling disappointment, loss of control, and autonomy stress. By the end, you'll have practical tips for increasing cooperation and understanding your toddler's true needs. Don't forget to check out our free guide, 'The Seven Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast.' All links are in the show notes! 00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:11 Understanding Toddler Listening Issues01:10 Why Not Listening Feels Personal01:44 Common Not Listening Patterns03:07 Dealing with Disappointment and Loss of Control06:44 Autonomy and Transition Stress08:02 Increasing Cooperation and Avoiding Power Struggles09:33 Effective Transition Strategies12:56 Conclusion and Final Tips ------------------------------------------------------"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    15 min

  8. JAN 5

    Toddlers Don’t Lie — They’re Communicating (Here’s What to Do)

    Toddlers Don’t Lie — They’re Communicating  (Here’s What to Do) "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast! In this episode, we talk about why toddlers and preschoolers say 'I don't wanna go' and how they communicate distress through behavior, stories, and resistance. We'll explore how different rules and environments can create nervous system distress in children and how parents can respond effectively. This episode is useful for co-parents, married parents or partners with different parenting styles, grandparents, daycare transitions, and more. We will also cover five common ways toddlers communicate nervous system distress and discuss how to respond without shutting them down. Join us to learn how to better understand and support your child's behavior and meltdowns. 00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:03 Understanding Toddler Communication00:16 Why Kids Say 'I Don't Wanna Go'00:22 Nervous System Distress in Toddlers00:48 Toddlers Don't Lie: A Deeper Look02:04 Behavior as Communication03:39 Five Common Ways Toddlers Communicate Distress04:23 Avoidance as a Coping Strategy05:19 Symbolic Communication: Making Up Stories10:57 Fear of Being Alone: Sleep and Separation13:05 Dysregulation at Pickup and Drop Off14:21 Clinging to One Parent15:20 How Not to Shut Down Your Child's Distress17:55 Clarifying the Truth Without Teaching Fear21:27 In Closing: Supporting Your Toddler's Communication22:50 Resources and Next Steps ------------------------------------------------------"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

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The complete toolkit for understanding toddler behavior (e.g. hitting, throwing, biting, pushing), navigating tantrums and meltdowns, fostering healthy sibling relationships and dynamics so your kids can get along and raising skilled resilient self-regulated toddlers. If you have toddlers that are close in age or multiple kids then this podcast is made for you! Heather helps parents transform their aggressive toddlers behavior into a calm, kind and caring toddler with a more peaceful and joyful home. Heather is the Founder of Heather Schalk Parenting, a Twin Mama, Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, Teacher for 10 years (pre-k through 9th grade), specialization in behavior, with her M.Ed. Heather's passion is helping moms of toddlers who have disruptive tantrums develop proactive and 'in the moment' strategies to Transform their toddlers disruptive tantrums, aggressive ‘button-pushing’ behavior into a Calm, Kind and Caring Toddler so you have a joyful family and enjoy motherhood. Next Toddler Mom Cohort to Transform Aggressive Toddler Behavior taught by Heather is in September 2024!

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  • Creator
    Heather Schalk, M.Ed.
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    114
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Heather Schalk, M.Ed.
  • Show Website
    Toddler Toolkit

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