Tookes Takes

LaKendra Tookes

Join LaKendra Tookes (Reality Checked on Radio Andy) as she airs out ALLLLL of her takes -- from Bravo Housewives, to the bougie black women who made her who she is today -- LaKendra does not hold back!

  1. APR 29

    BRAVO: I Met the Housewives, Summer House Clowns + RHORI

    62: I finally watched The Real Housewives of Rhode Island and I have THOUGHTS… from the breakout stars to the mess already spiraling out of control. Then I get into the chaos of Summer House, the men who are absolutely not okay, and why I’m officially done lowering my standards. Plus, I ended up at a last-minute Beverly Hills event surrounded by Housewives, celeb sightings, and some wild behind-the-scenes moments I can’t unsee. Topics Discussed: → First thoughts on The Real Housewives of Rhode Island → Favorite cast members and early standouts → Sugar baby dynamics and relationship hot takes → Marriage drama + cheating on RHORI → Beverly Hills event recap + celebrity sightings → Behind-the-scenes Bravo world observations → Summer House + disappointing men → Dating in 2026, standards, and self-worth On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:00 - Real Housewives of Rhode Island  → 00:04:18 - RHORI: Break Out Stars  → 00:07:52 - Sugar Baby + Sugar Daddy?  → 00:10:33 - NO BROKIES  → 00:14:02 - That’s Not Her Mansion  → 00:19:25 - Cheating Scandal  → 00:21:42 - Real Housewives of Atlanta  → 00:25:25 - Meeting The Housewives  → 00:31:55 - Summer House  → 00:35:45 - Tookes Takeaway: coulrophobia Show links: → TLC: 90 Day Fiancé Couples Are Falling Apart Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    43 min
  2. APR 22

    TLC: 90 Day Fiancé Couples Are Falling Apart

    61: I’ve been moving at 90 miles an hour, from buying my dream car to flying to New York for a last-minute hosting gig, and I’m sharing everything.  Then we get into the 90 Day Fiancé season finale, because these couples are falling apart. Engagements ending, red flags everywhere, and a proposal that makes absolutely no sense. Plus, I talk about hitting 10K, navigating online criticism, stepping into my “yes” season, and why being open to connection might change everything. Topics Discussed: → 90 Day Fiancé Engagement Breakups Explained→ 90 Day Fiancé Tell-All Predictions And Drama→ Red Flags In 90 Day Fiancé Relationships→ Why 90 Day Fiancé Couples Split So Fast→ Most Shocking Moments 90 Day Fiancé Season On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Car Shopping Scams  → 00:08:08 - Yoga Studio + Jeff Lewis Live → 00:12:46 - Hitting 10kK → 00:16:20 - True Crime  → 00:22:14 - 90 Day Fiancé vs Bravo → 00:24:05 - 90 Day Fiancé: Broken Engagement  → 00:28:01 - 90 Day Fiancé: Feelings For His Ex?  → 00:30:59 - 90 Day Fiancé: Public Breakdown  → 00:34:29 - Tookes Takeaway: Just Be Open Further Listening: → BRAVO + TLC Unpacked: Dating Red Flags + Marriage Woes Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube 90 Day Fiancé recap, 90 Day Fiancé season finale, relationship red flags, reality TV recap podcast, car buying tips dealership negotiation, electric car Volkswagen ID4 review, trusting God testimony story, influencer growth 10k followers, entertainment industry hustle, hosting gigs New York, serial killer exhibit NYC, dating advice women, breakup engagement advice, toxic relationships signs, reality TV drama analysis, personal growth mindset, podcast storytelling lifestyle Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    42 min
  3. APR 1

    Pol' Atteu… What Really Happened

    58: This week, I sat down with the iconic Pol’ for one of the most honest and emotional conversations yet. From immigrating to the U.S. as a child to becoming a celebrated fashion designer, Pol’ shares the real story behind his success, his struggles with identity, and the deep influence of his mother. We get into everything, his friendship with Anna Nicole Smith, the truth about relationships, why he doesn’t believe in dating, and the unexpected way he met his husband. Plus, his unique gift of coffee readings and how intuition has shaped his life. Topics Discussed: → Growing up between cultures → Finding identity and confidence → Building a career in fashion → Friendship, loyalty, and loss → Why dating is a waste of time → Meeting “the one” unexpectedly → Coffee readings and intuition On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:02:14 - Immigrating To America  → 00:03:23 - Middle Child Syndrome  → 00:04:11 - Learning English + Family → 00:06:17 - Pol’s Mom   → 00:08:35 - FIDM, USC, + Cal State  → 00:10:36 - Pursuing Fashion  → 00:14:54 - Fashionable Childhood  → 00:17:46 - Homophobia + Acting  → 00:20:07 - Favorite Designs  → 00:23:27 - Anna Nicole Smith  → 00:29:20 - Coming Out  → 00:35:18 - Marriage + Love  → 00:37:37 - Dating Advice + Meeting Patrik  → 00:50:33 - Coffee Ground Readings  Further Listening:  → Patrik Simpson: Love, Custody, + Anna Nicole Smith Check Out Pol’:  → Instagram → Shop  → Podcast  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1 hr
  4. MAR 25

    What BRAVO, 90 Day Fiancé, + The Manosphere Have In Common

    57: I’m exhausted, I’m working nonstop, and I’ve got a lot to say. In this episode, I’m talking about the reality of being a single woman trying to build a life, why dating feels like a nightmare right now, and my honest thoughts after watching Inside the Manosphere. Plus, you know I had to share my takes on 90 Day Fiancé, The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, and Ladies of London. This one is real, messy, funny, and honest. If you’ve ever felt burnt out, over dating, or just done with the nonsense, this is for you. Topics Discussed: → Why is dating so hard right now → What is the manosphere → How to avoid settling in relationships → Signs of low standards in dating → How to stay confident while single On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:03:48 - Single In LA  → 00:04:45 - The Manosphere  → 00:08:43 - TLC: Unexpected  → 00:10:48 - Dating Men  → 00:14:11 - Louis Theroux → 00:16:59 - 90 Day Fiancé → 00:20:16 - 90 Day Fiancé: Turkey → 00:25:14 - 90 Day Fiancé: Missed Period → 00:28:21 - 90 Day Fiancé: Lesbian With A Wig → 00:30:01 - Ladies Of London → 00:33:12 - Jeff Lewis Live  → 00:37:55 - Tookes Takes: I WILL SUCCEED  Further Listening:  → BRAVO Is Back + My 90 Day Fiancé Hot Takes Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    43 min
  5. MAR 19

    Patrik Simpson: Love, Custody, + Anna Nicole Smith

    56: I had the absolute best time chatting with Patrik Simpson about love, life, and everything in between. From meeting Paul and navigating long-distance romance, to fighting for custody of his daughter, to modeling, reality TV, and his unforgettable moments with Anna Nicole Smith….it’s all here. We also talk coffee readings, fan socials, and a peek at Ventura Shores. This one’s full of heart, humor, and insider stories you won’t want to miss. Topics Discussed: → How did Patrik meet Pol → Long-distance love tips → Custody battles and gay parenting → Modeling and runway experiences → Anna Nicole Smith memories On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:40 - Separating Patrik + Pol → 00:03:01 - The early days of Patrik   → 00:04:36 - Middle child syndrome  → 00:08:05 - Mama’s boy  → 00:10:57 - Republican dad  → 00:12:18 - College + modeling  → 00:13:55 - Travels + catholic school  → 00:16:01 - Girlfriends + wife  → 00:21:11 - Patrik’s daughter  → 00:24:21 - Patrik’s first husband → 00:27:38 - Runway walking  → 00:28:47 - Meeting Pol + custody battle  → 00:32:59 - Gay parenting + reality TV → 00:38:48 - Anna Nicole Smith  → 00:44:06 - WHAT’S NEXT? → 00:45:20 - LaKendra’s dating life → 00:47:51 - Chumps Show links: → POL EPISODE COMING SOON!  Check Out Patrik:  → Instagram  → Podcast → Grown & Out In Beverly Hills (Book) Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    54 min
4.9
out of 5
144 Ratings

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Join LaKendra Tookes (Reality Checked on Radio Andy) as she airs out ALLLLL of her takes -- from Bravo Housewives, to the bougie black women who made her who she is today -- LaKendra does not hold back!

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