Tools for the Modern Man Pete Beskas, Certified Life Coach
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Welcome to the Tools for the Modern Man Podcast!This is the place where modern men learn the tools that they’ll need to overcome modern life’s unique obstacles. If you’re challenged with balancing your work, life, parenting, relationships, growth, and all sorts of issues unique to the modern man you are in the right place.
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Lessons learned from working in a restaurant
I spent my formative years working in restaurants and I believe that a lot of who I am today was formed during that time. If you are someone who has worked in the "industry" this episode will resonate with you. And if you are not, listen anyways because you could learn a few things that may clear up.
Each stage of my development from dish pig to manger taught me valuable lessons that I use every single day. This episode dives into those lessons.
These include:
Why it's important to soak your dishes.Keeping your knives sharp and working on a line.Dealing with difficult customers.The differences between being a bartender and a server.I hope you enjoy listening to this as much as I did going down memory lane.
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Book Review: Never Split the Difference
"Meeting half way results in a bad deal for both parties" - Chris Voss
I've been waiting a while to do a podcast on this book, I just love it, Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss.
Chris Voss was a celebrated FBI hostage negotiator who become a master in negotiations. So many of the lessons I've learned through coaching was solidified by reading this book.
Chris does a masterful job, teaching each of his concepts with a field example and how it worked in real life. Concepts such as:
Tactical EmpathyLabellingMirroringWhy No is a good thing in negotiationsDeadlinesThe "F" word - FairCreating the illusion of controlI highly recommend this book, you will be sucked in from page one and you will learn a new way to communicate and get what you want.
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Are you cut out to be a manager?
This week on the podcast I ask the question "Are you ready to be a manager?"
This is something that I've observed over my career where people grasp to move up through an organization only to be completely unprepared with the challenges and skills needed to lead people.
I share some of my own personal experiences and challenges when faced with leading and managing.
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Kill your EGO - Qualities of Leadership
The stoic writer Ryan Holiday wrote the book "Ego is the Enemy", which is the perfect way to sum up the role that Ego plays in leadership.
Ego does nothing to cultivate leadership qualities and in fact holds you back from achieving true success. Today I talk about things to be mindful of when addressing pride vs arrogance, and how your ego is behind it all.
It was written that "Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall."
Well that "haughty spirit" is your ego, and the sooner you face it and check it, the sooner you will accomplish that for which you are working towards.
This is another one of podcast series "The qualities of leadership", also check out "Why having standards matters", and "How to build Resilience"
If you want to learn more about leadership or how to become a better leader reach out to me to find out more.
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How to build resilience - Qualities of Leadership
Today I wrap up my series on how to find your next opportunity by sharing a personal story of resilience. What I learned from being unemployed, how I set myself up to overcome adversity and how I'm always creating new opportunities for myself.
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How to take control of an interview.
So you've finally got the interview, now what?
Well my guest today Frank and I have got you covered!
Frank Burgoyne is an interview success coach and has decades of experience helping people prepare and successful showcase their skills and value in interviews so that they can get the jobs they want.
Frank and I talk about the importance of how to show up in interviews, what questions to ask, and how to position yourself as the only one for the job.
If you are interested in following Frank, I've including the links to website and social media profiles below:
linkedin.com/in/frankburgoyne
yourinterviewsuccess.com (Company)
instagram.com/frankthecoach/ (Personal)
And if you are struggling in any of the various phases of you career reach out for you own career strategy session HERE.
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Customer Reviews
Can you be friends with my husband?
What a great podcast. I’m going to share this with my husband. I know it will help him and us. Thank you for providing this content.
Writing amazing resumes
This podcast is a must listen for yourself or to be able to guide your adult child. So helpful to hear how the focus should be on the “how” and to identify core strengths
Great for Men & Women
Timely topics that speak to tools and ideas on how relationships can be an investment on many levels.