Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert

Megan D Lambert
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Sensuality. Feminine Power. Earth Awakening. Wild Love. This is the place where desire roots down into the soil, where nature seduces you awake, and where soul and body braid themselves into something too alive to ignore. Where sensuality becomes a form of activism.
 Where Earth devotion becomes erotic.
 Where intimacy becomes a catalyst for culture.
 Where the way we love each other reshapes the world we inherit. Here, we explore how our bodies, our relationships, and our Earth reflect one another — one living organism pulsing between collapse and regeneration. Each episode drops you into the raw, intimate truths of being human in a time that demands both courage and tenderness, both deep introspection and powerful collaboration. This is for the ones who hear the heartbeat under the chaos — who crave depth, connection, and a path that's both fiercely sensual and wildly regenerative. Come for the spark. Stay for the sanctuary. Let's remember how to love, and let that love ripple through the world.

  1. 1D AGO

    Your Nervous System Is Running the Relationship (Not Your Logic)

    What if overthinking your relationship, scrolling endlessly, or fighting with your partner aren't personality flaws… but your nervous system desperately trying to keep you safe in a disconnected world?   In this cozy, cacao-fueled episode of Eros & Earth, I sit down with my brilliant neuroscientist friend Alex Nashton to explore what's really happening in your brain when intimacy breaks down - and how modern life quietly trains us toward isolation instead of connection.   If you've ever wondered why you analyze everything, shut down mid-conflict, crave your phone, or feel distant from the person you love most - this episode gives you language, compassion, and a way forward.   Guest: Alex Nashton — Neuroscience expert specializing in attachment, stress responses, and relational regulation (www.alexnashton.com)    If you've been searching for "why do I overthink my relationship" or "nervous system and intimacy", this episode is exactly what you need.     In this episode, you'll learn: Why rumination, overthinking, and "figuring it out" are forms of fight-or-flight How disconnection triggers your brain's threat response—even with people you love Why oxytocin (not communication skills) is the real foundation of intimacy We also cover: Fight, flight, freeze, and pursue–withdraw patterns in relationships Dopamine addiction, screens, and why real life starts to feel dull How phone detoxing, touch, eye contact, and even kittens regulate the nervous system Modern relationships aren't failing because we don't care—they're struggling because our nervous systems are overwhelmed. In this episode, Alex and I unpack the neuroscience of disconnection, explaining how fight-or-flight responses show up as overthinking, withdrawal, conflict, and phone addiction. You'll learn how dopamine hijacks attention, why oxytocin restores safety and intimacy, and how to regulate your nervous system so love can feel nourishing again. If you're craving deeper connection, less anxiety, and a more embodied relationship, this conversation offers both science and soul.   Want more juicy relationship tips, culture insights, and sensual embodiment? Follow Megan on Instagram @megandlambert Explore more resources, workshops, and programs at www.megandlambert.com Apply for 1:1 Coaching or Couple's Coaching with Megan: https://megandlambert.as.me/discovery-call   Hashtags: #NervousSystemHealing #NeuroscienceOfLove #RelationshipScience #AttachmentHealing #Oxytocin #FightOrFlight #ModernIntimacy #EmotionalRegulation #SomaticHealing #ConsciousRelationships #DopamineDetox #ScreenAddiction #EmbodiedLove #TraumaInformedRelationships #RelationalSafety #IntimacyMatters #ErosAndEarth #CouplesWork #MindBodyConnection #HealingThroughConnection #Neuroplasticity #SecureAttachment

    1h 7m

  2. FEB 13

    When Love Goes Quiet (And How to Bring It Back)

    What if relationship numbness, loss of desire, or feeling like roommates instead of lovers aren't signs your relationship is broken… but signals that Eros quietly slipped out the back door and is waiting to be invited home? After years of working with couples - and living this myself through partnership and parenthood - I've seen how amazing people slowly trade aliveness for logistics. In this episode, I answer questions from the community about relationships that still "work" but no longer feel alive.  You'll get language for what's actually happening, relief from self-blame, and simple doorways back to desire, play, and warmth - without blowing up your life. Share it with your partner as a little love letter invitation back into aliveness. If you've been searching for "lost spark in marriage" or "feeling numb in a relationship," this episode is exactly what you need.   In this episode, you'll learn: How to tell the difference between a relationship that's broken and one that's simply lost aliveness Why desire often disappears after parenthood - and why it's not your fault The first honest shift that reopens Eros without forcing intimacy   We also cover: Burnout, resentment, and emotional withdrawal in long-term relationships Why postponing play and desire quietly costs families more than we realize Simple, doable ways to invite 10% more aliveness back into daily life Many couples feel disconnected, bored, or numb in relationships that still look stable from the outside. In this episode, I explore relationship numbness, loss of desire after parenthood, and emotional disconnection through an embodied lens. I explain how modern culture, chronic stress, and unprocessed resentment suppress Eros and erotic aliveness in long-term partnerships. This conversation offers compassionate insight and practical doorways for couples who want to feel warmth, play, and desire again—without shame or dramatic upheaval.   Want more juicy relationship tips, culture insights, and sensual embodiment? Follow Megan on Instagram @megandlambert Explore more resources, workshops, and programs at www.megandlambert.com Apply for 1:1 Coaching or Couple's Coaching with Megan: https://megandlambert.as.me/discovery-call Episode Resources My first book Eros: The Journey Home offers a pathway back to your own inner aliveness and desire My second book, specifically for women on the path to becoming mothers Eros Mama: Embracing Your Sensual Feminine Power through Pregnancy, Birth, and Postpartum   Keywords: lost spark in marriage, relationship numbness, desire after parenthood, emotional disconnection in couples, long term relationship burnout, eros and aliveness, how to bring desire back, embodied relationships, resentment and withdrawal in marriage, nervous system and intimacy, couples feeling like roommates, healing relationships after kids   Hashtags: #WhenLoveGoesQuiet #RelationshipNumbness #DesireAfterParenthood #LongTermRelationships #ErosAndEarth #EmotionalIntimacy #CouplesHealing #EmbodiedRelationships #LostSpark #MarriageAfterKids #RelationalRepair #NervousSystemHealing #EroticAliveness

    18 min

  3. FEB 11

    Blood as Prayer: Menstrual Art, Body Shame Repair & the Sacred Feminine with Jasmine Alicia Carter

    What if period pain, shame about your body, and feminine grief weren't problems to fix… but messages from your body asking to be witnessed, honored, and turned into art?   This cycle, I painted with my menstrual blood for the first time - holding grief, longing, and devotion in my hands - and something softened in me at a cellular level. Menstrual art is more than expression - it's a nervous-system-regulating, somatic practice that helps repair period shame and restore trust in the body. In this episode, I interview Jasmine Alicia Carter on how working directly with menstrual blood can touch grief, release stored trauma, and reconnect women to the intelligence of their cycle. If you've felt disconnected from your womb, struggled with your period, or longed for a more embodied way to heal, this conversation offers a devotional path back home. _______ Interview with Jasmine Alicia Carter - Menstrual Art Pioneer, Womb Worker, Bodyworker, Mother, Ritualist.  __________ If you've been searching for "menstrual art" or "womb healing" or "feminine healing", this episode is exactly what you need. In this episode, you'll learn: How menstrual art can relieve period pain and emotional suffering Why shame around menstruation shapes women's confidence and power How blood becomes a listening practice for the body and nervous system   We also cover: Menarche and why your first period story matters Reclaiming rites of passage in a culture without ritual Motherhood, birth, and repairing feminine thresholds     Want more juicy relationship tips, culture insights, and sensual embodiment? Follow Megan on Instagram @megandlambert Explore more resources, workshops, and programs at www.megandlambert.com Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Megan: https://megandlambert.as.me/discovery-call     Episode Resources: Find Jasmine's work at https://sacredwoman.com/  Connect with her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/jasminealiciacarter/ #MenstrualArt #WombHealing #PeriodHealing #SacredFeminine #MenstrualCycleAwareness #RitesOfPassage #EmbodiedWoman #FeminineInitiation #BloodWisdom #Menarche #CycleSyncing #SomaticHealing #DevotionalArt #FeminineReclamation #SomaticHealing #EmbodiedWoman #FeminineEmbodiment#NervousSystemHealing #BodyBasedHealing #RitesOfPassage #Menarche #SacredFeminine #FeminineInitiation #CyclicalLiving #MotherhoodReclaimed #BloodWisdom #WomenHealingWomen #EarthAsBody #WombToWorld

    52 min

  4. FEB 9

    WTF is Modern Masculinity? – Honest Polarity for These Times

    What if confusion about masculinity, emotional distance, or "I don't know how to be a man anymore" aren't failures… but signs that the old scripts are dissolving and a more grounded, relational masculinity is trying to emerge?   I recorded this episode with my husband, James, after years of watching good men feel lost, defensive, or exhausted by impossible standards. We talk honestly about what helped us - not theories, not dominance, not perfection, but presence.    This episode is for any man who wants to know how to have hotter attraction and deeper love - without losing who he is in the process. If you share this with a man you love, he'll walk away feeling steadier in himself, clearer in relationship, and more trusted rather than criticized.    James Lambert — men's work facilitator, embodiment practitioner, relationship coach   If you've been searching for "healthy masculinity" or "how men can show up better in relationships," this episode is exactly what you need.     In this episode, you'll learn: Why masculinity isn't about dominance, but embodied regulation How presence creates attraction, safety, and trust What women are actually longing for beneath the complaints     We also cover: Why alpha-male culture leaves men disconnected and women guarded Masculinity after feminism and cultural whiplash How polarity can exist without rigid gender roles     Many women want to support the men in their lives without shaming, fixing, or over-explaining. In this episode, we explore healthy masculinity, masculine presence, and masculine–feminine polarity through an embodied and nervous-system-aware lens. We unpack why modern men feel confused about masculinity and how cultural conditioning disrupts intimacy and attraction. This conversation offers women a language - and men a felt sense - for showing up with strength, sensitivity, and relational integrity.     Want more juicy relationship tips, culture insights, and sensual embodiment? Follow Megan on Instagram @megandlambert Explore more resources, workshops, and programs at www.megandlambert.com Apply for 1:1 Coaching or Couple's Coaching with Megan & James: https://megandlambert.as.me/discovery-call   Episode Resources: James' work can be found at www.jamesmattingley.com     Keywords: healthy masculinity for relationships, how men can show up better, masculinity without dominance, masculine presence in relationships, men feeling lost today, masculine feminine polarity explained, supporting men without shaming, modern masculinity crisis, nervous system regulation for men, embodiment for men, relational masculinity   Hashtags #ForTheMenWeLove #HealthyMasculinity #ModernMasculinity #MasculinePresence #MenAndRelationships #MasculinityWithoutShame #EmbodiedMen #RelationalMasculinity #PolarityInRelationships #SupportMen #MasculinityRedefined #NervousSystemHealing #MenDoingTheWork #LoveWithoutFixing #SecureMasculinity #StrongAndSoft #RelationshipHealing #CulturalShift #EmbodiedPartnership #MasculinityAfterFeminism

    48 min

  5. FEB 5

    Permission to Evolve: Returning to Eros & Earth

    What if burnout, numbness, or quiet dissatisfaction aren't personal failures… but signs that your soul - and the Earth itself - are asking for a deeper way of living?   In this first episode of Eros & Earth, I'm sharing why this season of my life - and this cultural moment - feels like a cocoon: messy, liminal, and sacred. After motherhood, building an eco-sanctuary in Bali, and years of impact work, I stopped asking "What's my niche?" and started listening for what makes me feel alive instead. Trusting this aliveness is a game-changer; it re-orients your compass and can give you a whole new life.    If you've been searching for "how to feel alive again" or "burnout but successful," this episode is exactly what you need.     In this episode, you'll learn: Why numb productivity is a signal—not a flaw How liminal space is a necessary phase of evolution Why Eros (aliveness) is a more trustworthy compass than efficiency     We also cover: Burnout disguised as ambition Late-stage capitalism and the erosion of relationship The link between motherhood, Earth, and desire       Many people today feel exhausted, disconnected, and strangely hollow - even when their lives look "successful." In this episode, I reframe burnout and dissatisfaction through an embodied lens, revealing how nervous system overwhelm, cultural extraction, and disconnection from nature suppress aliveness. By exploring Eros as a force of vitality and Earth as our original relational field, this conversation offers a path toward regeneration - personal, relational, and collective. This episode is for anyone craving a return to desire, meaning, and embodied belonging.   Want more juicy relationship tips, culture insights, and sensual embodiment? Follow Megan on Instagram @megandlambert Explore more resources, workshops, and programs at www.megandlambert.com Apply for 1:1 Coaching or Couple's Coaching with Megan: https://megandlambert.as.me/discovery-call     Keywords: liminal space, burnout disguised as ambition, feeling numb but successful, embodied leadership, rewilding yourself, Eros as aliveness, erotic energy beyond sex, nervous system repair, late stage capitalism burnout, personal and collective transformation, ecological embodiment, motherhood and identity evolution, relational crisis not personal failure, return to Earth spirituality, somatic awareness, feminine wisdom, regenerative culture, desire as a compass, embodied living, how to feel alive again in modern life     Hashtags:  #ErosAndEarth #PermissionToEvolve #LiminalSpace #EmbodiedLeadership #BurnoutCulture #AlivenessOverProductivity #RewildYourLife #EmbodimentPractice #LateStageCapitalism #RelationalRepair #EroticAliveness #EarthAsMother #NervousSystemHealing #SoulLedLiving #EcologicalEmbodiment #FeminineWisdom #EmbodiedMotherhood #CultureShift #RegenerativeFuture #SomaticAwareness #DesireAsCompass #RewildingDesire #CollectiveHealing

    20 min

  6. SEASON 4 TRAILER

    Welcome to Eros & Earth

    Sensuality. Feminine Power. Earth Awakening. Wild Love. This is the place where desire roots down into the soil, where nature seduces you awake, and where soul and body braid themselves into something too alive to ignore. Where sensuality becomes a form of activism.
 Where Earth devotion becomes erotic.
 Where intimacy becomes a catalyst for culture.
 Where the way we love each other reshapes the world we inherit. Here, we explore how our bodies, our relationships, and our Earth reflect one another — one living organism pulsing between collapse and regeneration. Each episode drops you into the raw, intimate truths of being human in a time that demands both courage and tenderness, both deep introspection and powerful collaboration. This is for the ones who hear the heartbeat under the chaos — who crave depth, connection, and a path that's both fiercely sensual and wildly regenerative. Come for the spark.  Stay for the sanctuary. Let's remember how to love, and let that love ripple through the world.

    1 min

  7. 11/08/2024

    Mother Rage is Important Wisdom

    What is your relationship to anger like? Have you experienced more anger since becoming a mother?   If you have, you aren't alone. There is a unique flavor of anger I call "mother rage" that pops up while tending to little ones. It has important insights for us - if we are willing to listen.    Anger can be scary, but it is also a valuable teacher, pointing out our deepest values and tenderest places. We get angry about issues that matter to us, areas that need to change. For that reason, anger is one of my favorite emotions - and a potent force for transformation.    In this solo episode, I share what I'm angry about currently, as well as how I work with that anger in myself and in my clients.    I hope this episode helps you breathe a sigh of relief next time you feel angry - and get curious enough to listen to anger's wisdom.

    20 min

  8. 10/24/2024

    My Mama Lineage - What Generations Before Can Teach Us About Motherhood

    What was becoming a mother like for our mothers? For our grandmothers?    How can the wisdom from women who have come before guide us newer mamas in this journey? What can we learn from our mothers, grandmothers, wise women?   In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with my own mom to unravel and discover my female lineage, learning about my mama's motherhood journey as well as my grandmother's.    My mother — a mama to 3 children — shares her experience of becoming a mama in her 20s, divorcing in her 30s, and then becoming a mama again in her 40s. She reflects on the delicate balance of maintaining a separate sense of self, of womanhood, while being a devoted mother.    We also explored what "feminine power" means in the context of motherhood, and women's unique ability to subtly influence family dynamics - without losing ourselves in the process.    I left this chat feeling more connected to my mom and to the long line of mothers before us, as well as inspired by the foundational wisdom from generations before me. If you've ever wondered how to keep your own dreams alive and your partnership strong while raising little ones, this conversation is for you.

    46 min
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Sensuality. Feminine Power. Earth Awakening. Wild Love. This is the place where desire roots down into the soil, where nature seduces you awake, and where soul and body braid themselves into something too alive to ignore. Where sensuality becomes a form of activism.
 Where Earth devotion becomes erotic.
 Where intimacy becomes a catalyst for culture.
 Where the way we love each other reshapes the world we inherit. Here, we explore how our bodies, our relationships, and our Earth reflect one another — one living organism pulsing between collapse and regeneration. Each episode drops you into the raw, intimate truths of being human in a time that demands both courage and tenderness, both deep introspection and powerful collaboration. This is for the ones who hear the heartbeat under the chaos — who crave depth, connection, and a path that's both fiercely sensual and wildly regenerative. Come for the spark. Stay for the sanctuary. Let's remember how to love, and let that love ripple through the world.

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