Tradition Breakers

Mary Moses

Join host, Mary Vallarta, as she shares helpful information and inspiring stories from AAPI individuals who bravely broke free of limiting expectations and traditions to follow their creative, artistic, or entrepreneurial passions. Mary comes from a Pilipino immigrant family and grew up in LA's Historic Filipinotown. She is a Fractional CMO based in Venice, CA who leads growth-stage multi-location businesses like restaurants and lifestyle concepts to enter and dominate new markets. Her expansive career includes working as a buyer for major retailers like Macy's and BCBG, launching and scaling multiple fashion and hospitality concepts in high profile markets like LA, NY, SF, and Boston, as well as leading Marketing & Creative for a national restaurant concept. But the most valuable experience Mary continues to relish is parenting her two kids with her husband, Enrico.

  1. 20H AGO

    AI for Entrepreneurs & Creatives: Practical Steps to Gain a Competitive Edge

    Most entrepreneurs focus on solving big problems—what if AI could help you streamline those solutions and genuinely grow your business? Tim Park, an AI expert passionate about empowering real estate professionals and all industries, reveals how you can harness the power of AI—even if you're not tech-savvy—to automate tasks, create personalized tools, and gain a competitive edge in your market. In this episode, Tim shares his inspiring journey from initial AI experiments to building agency tools that generate leads, automate workflows, and revolutionize how small businesses operate. Discover how AI's potential extends far beyond tech-enthusiasts, making it accessible for solo entrepreneurs and established companies alike. You'll learn practical strategies for starting with AI—asking the right prompts, creating custom agents within ChatGPT, and leveraging open-source tools like OpenClaw for autonomous operation. Tim breaks down how AI can improve marketing, streamline hiring, and even build tailored solutions that give your business a unique advantage. Plus, get his insights on navigating security risks, understanding the right models to use, and the future of AI-driven jobs and investments. This isn't just tech talk—it's a call to action for founders who want to stay ahead. If you're ready to move from fear to mastery, this episode is your blueprint for turning AI into your most powerful business partner. Whether you want to automate your processes, create new products, or simply understand what's possible, Tim's insights will inspire you to start small and scale fast. Essential listening for entrepreneurs, real estate pros, or anyone eager to see how AI can unlock new growth. Don't miss out—your AI revolution begins now. Links: Schedule a call with Fractional CMO, Mary Moses: https://marymoses.com/ Follow Tradition Breakers on Instagram: https://instagram.com/traditionbreakers Follow Mary on Instagram: https://instagram.com/maryvmoses Follow Tim Park on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/timpark.ai/ Visit Tim Park's website: https://parkailabs.com/ About the Podcast: Tradition Breakers highlights the stories of AAPI's who have stepped off traditional paths to pursue their own creative, entrepreneurial, or unconventional careers. Through candid conversations, the show explores identity, purpose, and what it takes to build a life aligned with your truth and passion.

    59 min
  2. MAR 20

    How Asian American Parents Can Keep Their Values While Raising Emotionally Confident Kids

    What does it look like to honor the values you were raised with — high standards, resilience, hard work — while also raising kids who are emotionally confident, able to express themselves, and free from shame? That's the question at the center of this conversation with Dr. Michelle Chung, clinical psychologist and co-founder of The Modern Asian Parent. Michelle works with Asian American families every day and has seen firsthand why popular frameworks like gentle parenting don't resonate — and what a culturally informed approach actually looks like in practice. Together, Mary and Dr. Chung unpack the real difference between guilt and shame (and why one is actually healthy), why fear-based parenting quietly creates a scarcity mindset, how to set high standards without breaking your child's spirit, and what it truly means to be a cycle breaker — not by abandoning your roots, but by evolving them. In this episode: Why Asian parents feel caught between tradition and modern parenting advice The Tiger Mom debate: what it gets right and what it misses Guilt vs. shame: the critical distinction every parent needs to understand Two types of perfectionism showing up in Asian kids today — and how to respond to both How phones, social media, and constant comparison are affecting your child's sense of identity Teaching kids to find their voice, set boundaries, and advocate for themselves Small daily acts that make you a cycle breaker This one is for every parent who doesn't want to choose between their culture and their child's emotional wellbeing — because you don't have to. Links:  Schedule a call with Fractional CMO, Mary Moses: https://marymoses.com/ Follow Tradition Breakers on Instagram: https://instagram.com/traditionbreakers Follow Mary on Instagram: https://instagram.com/maryvmoses  Follow the Modern Approach To Parenting: https://modernapproachtoparenting.org/  Follow Dr. Michelle Chung's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.michellechung/  About the Podcast: Tradition Breakers highlights the stories of AAPI's who have stepped off traditional paths to pursue their own creative, entrepreneurial, or unconventional careers. Through candid conversations, the show explores identity, purpose, and what it takes to build a life aligned with your truth and passion.

    58 min
  3. MAR 5

    The Creative Process for Writers: Drafts, Feedback & Perfectionism

    What does it really take to build a life as a writer? In this episode of Tradition Breakers, Mary sits down with award-winning Filipino-American writer and journalist, Ryan Riddle, to talk about the creative process, finding your authentic voice, and building a sustainable career as a storyteller. Ryan shares how he transitioned from pursuing a traditional career path to writing professionally, the lessons he learned after abandoning his first novel, and why he believes "voice is forged, not forced." The conversation explores the intersection of identity, creativity, and craft—and why living life is essential to writing meaningful stories. Ryan also dives into the genres he loves most, science fiction and noir, and how those worlds allow him to explore deeper questions about humanity, identity, and what it means to be Filipino in the diaspora. Whether you're a writer, artist, entrepreneur, or creative professional, this episode is full of insights about perseverance, storytelling, and the importance of simply doing the work. In this episode, we discuss: How Ryan knew writing was the path he wanted to pursue The moment he decided to move away from traditional career expectations Why sci-fi and noir are powerful genres for exploring humanity His creative process for writing film, TV, and comics Why perfection is the enemy of progress in creative work The importance of authenticity in storytelling How writers can improve their craft through feedback and community Why creatives need to live fully in order to create meaningful art Ryan's upcoming sci-fi project Distant Worlds and future film projects Key Takeaway: "Voice is forged. It is not forced." — Ryan Riddle Creative voices develop through experience, persistence, and the willingness to keep showing up and doing the work. Connect with Ryan: Schedule a call with Fractional CMO, Mary Moses: https://marymoses.com/ Follow Tradition Breakers on Instagram: https://instagram.com/traditionbreakers Follow Mary on Instagram: https://instagram.com/maryvmoses  Website: https://RyanThomasRiddle.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/ryanthomasriddle Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/ryanthomasriddle Ryan mentioned that his DMs are open and he welcomes hearing from writers and creatives who want to connect. About the Podcast Tradition Breakers highlights the stories of AAPI's who have stepped off traditional paths to pursue their own creative, entrepreneurial, or unconventional careers. Through candid conversations, the show explores identity, purpose, and what it takes to build a life aligned with your truth and passion.

    1h 3m
  4. JAN 28

    Designing the Invisible: How Systems, Power, and Futures Shape Our Lives with Lee-Sean Huang

    What does it mean to design the invisible systems that shape our everyday lives? In this episode of Tradition Breakers, Mary sits down with Lee-Sean Huang—artist, service designer, educator, and Co-Executive Director of AIGA—to unpack how the systems we move through every day are intentionally designed, and why centering real human needs in those systems matters more than ever. Lee-Sean's work lives at the intersection of design, social impact, and future thinking. From redesigning financial services for New York City residents, to working with genocide memorials in Rwanda, to advocating for labor justice in higher education, his career challenges the idea that design is just about aesthetics. Instead, it's about power, access, culture, and imagining better futures—plural. Together, Mary and Lee-Sean explore his winding path from political science at Harvard to service design, how growing up as a 1.5-generation Taiwanese American shaped his worldview, and what it means to navigate identity, leadership, and belonging across cultures. They also dive into futures thinking—how leaders, founders, and creatives can intentionally imagine what's coming next instead of reacting to change after it arrives. This conversation is for anyone thinking deeply about how systems are built, who they're built for, and how creativity can be a tool for collective care and social change. In this episode, we cover: What service design is—and why it shapes nearly every experience we have Designing systems around how people actually move through the world Growing up between cultures as a 1.5-generation immigrant Power dynamics, leadership, and being perceived in professional spaces Why imagination is essential for founders, creatives, and change-makers Futures thinking, AI, and navigating between utopia and dystopia Rethinking labor, community, and collective organizing in modern work About Lee-Sean Huang: Lee-Sean Huang is an artist, designer, and educator whose work focuses on service design, social innovation, and futures thinking. He is the Co-Executive Director of AIGA, the professional association for design, and has taught at Parsons School of Design, NYU, and SVA. His work spans civic systems, financial services, education, and community-centered design, with a deep commitment to equity and human-centered futures. If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who's building, leading, or imagining a better way forward—and don't forget to subscribe to Tradition Breakers for more conversations about identity, creativity, and redefining success on your own terms. Links:  Schedule a call with Fractional CMO, Mary Moses: https://marymoses.com/marketing  Follow Tradition Breakers on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers  Follow Mary on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers  Visit Lee-Sean's website: https://foossa.com/  Visit Lee-Sean's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leesean

    59 min
  5. 12/23/2025

    Trusting Your Instincts: Navigating Global Leadership as an AAPI Woman in Publishing with Tara Parsons

    In a world that often demands we follow a pre-written script, how do you find the courage to write your own? This week on Tradition Breakers, Mary Moses sits down with Tara Parsons, Vice President and Deputy Publisher at HarperCollins, and one of the few AAPI women leading a major global publishing group. Tara opens up about her journey as a "tradition breaker" born to a mixed-race couple—a Japanese immigrant mother who was a radical computer scientist in her day and a Northern European father who served in the Peace Corps . Growing up between cultures in New Jersey, Tara learned early on that identity is often projected by others, but strength comes from "shoring up" who you actually are. In this episode, we dive into: The Power of Ancestral Grit: How Tara's Japanese heritage instilled a sense of "grit and determination" that she applies to her leadership and her lifelong commitment to seeing every path through to the end. Leading in the Silence: Navigating an industry where senior leadership rarely looks like you and learning to trust your instincts in spaces where you weren't always expected to lead. The Subjectivity of Success: Why, in a world of data and AI, the human "gut instinct" remains the most powerful tool for identifying stories that are truly "unputdownable". Representation as an Essential: Tara's mission to elevate diverse voices through imprints like Amistad, HarperCollins Español, and HarperVia, and why she believes that as America becomes more multicultural, representation is no longer optional—it's essential. Whether you are navigating the corporate ladder or building your own path, this conversation is a masterclass in using your unique multicultural perspective as a competitive advantage. About Our Guest: Tara Parsons is the Vice President and Deputy Publisher at HarperCollins. A lifelong advocate for global and underrepresented voices, she oversees several publishing teams dedicated to bringing powerful, international stories into the mainstream. Links:  Schedule a call with Fractional CMO, Mary Moses: https://tastydirectives.com/contact Follow Tradition Breakers on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers  Follow Mary on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers  Learn more about Tara Parsons: https://communityofwriters.org/bio/tara-parsons/  Learn more about HarperCollins: https://www.harpercollins.com/

    1h 1m
  6. 12/16/2025

    No Role Models, No Rules: How Jonah Nigh Went From Opera to Stand-Up and Social Justice Advocate

    In this episode of Tradition Breakers, Mary Moses sits down with the brilliant and wickedly funny Jonah Nigh — a queer Korean adoptee raised by a Jewish mother and a Southern Baptist father, former opera singer, and now one of comedy's most intriguing new voices. Jonah's story is anything but typical. From growing up in Minnesota with no idea what being Asian "meant," to discovering his identity decades later, to fearlessly using his voice on stage and inside boardrooms, Jonah shows us what it really looks like to challenge expectations — not just cultural ones, but the ones society quietly places on all of us. Through humor, vulnerability, and razor-sharp insight, Jonah and Mary dive deep into: what happens when you grow up with zero mirrors for who you are, how comedy became the unexpected home he didn't know he needed, the invisible systems that shape race, power, and belonging, why DEI isn't "broken" — and where real change actually starts, and the surprising reason younger generations are craving community more than ever. This conversation is equal parts eye-opening, laugh-out-loud, and cathartic. If you've ever felt "different," struggled to use your voice, or questioned the systems you're moving through — Jonah's story will hit home. This is one of those episodes you'll think about long after it ends. Links:  Schedule a call with Fractional CMO, Mary Moses: https://tastydirectives.com/contact Follow Tradition Breakers on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers  Follow Mary on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers  Visit Jonah's website: https://www.jonahnigh.com/  Follow Jonah on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nighjonah

    1h 2m
  7. 12/09/2025

    Not Speaking Your Truth Can Cost You Your Life

    In this solo episode of Tradition Breakers, Mary tackles a pervasive issue in the AAPI community: the tendency to stifle our voices to keep the peace. Mary opens up about her own journey of learning to speak her truth and explores the high price we pay when we stay silent. We dive deep into the data, looking at why suicide is the leading cause of death for Asian American young adults (ages 15–24) and why Asian American women face a unique "double bind" of cultural and gender expectations. Mary also discusses the "Bamboo Ceiling" and why keeping your head down in corporate America is preventing you from reaching executive leadership. If you are tired of shrinking yourself for the comfort of others, this episode is your invitation to start building the muscle of using your voice. Topics discussed: Life vs. Light: Mary's framework for how silence costs us our physical survival (mental health struggles) and blocks our "light" (abundance, blessings, and authentic living). The AAPI Mental Health Crisis: Sobering statistics on why suicide is the leading cause of death for young Asian Americans and the unique "double bind" facing women. Shattering the Bamboo Ceiling: Why the "keep your head down and work hard" strategy is statistically preventing Asian Americans from reaching executive leadership roles. The Roots of Silence: How immigrant family dynamics and "survival mode" conditioned us to prioritize harmony over truth—and how to begin breaking that cycle. Links: Schedule a call with Fractional CMO, Mary Moses: https://tastydirectives.com/contact Follow Tradition Breakers on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers  Follow Mary on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers

    19 min
  8. 12/02/2025

    Stanford Decision Engineer Reveals the 3-Part Framework for Making Decisions with Clarity and Intention

    In this episode of Tradition Breakers, host Mary Moses sits down with Michelle Florendo — a Stanford-trained Decision Engineer, executive coach, and Filipino American mother of two — to unpack the exact 3-part framework she teaches leaders to make decisions with clarity, confidence, and intention. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by choices, stuck in analysis paralysis, or pressured to follow the "safe" path you were raised to pursue, this conversation will feel like a breath of fresh air. Michelle breaks down the proven decision-making model taught at Stanford — Objectives, Options, and Information — and explains how to use it to move through life with less stress and more alignment. She also shares deeply personal insights about being raised by immigrant parents, unlearning the old rulebook for success, and navigating the fear and risk aversion common in the AAPI community. You'll learn: The 3-part framework that simplifies even the most complex decisions Why smart, successful people still get stuck in overthinking — and how to stop How to integrate emotion + logic for choices that "feel right" and make sense The difference between a maximizer and a satisfier mindset How children of immigrants can redefine risk and choose paths that honor both heritage and individuality Why making intentional decisions is not only a skill — but a privilege and a gift Whether you're navigating a career pivot, entrepreneurship, parenthood, or simply trying to make better choices with less stress, this episode gives you the tools and language to move forward with confidence. If you're an AAPI creative, founder, or leader working to break tradition and build a life on your own terms — this conversation was made for you. Links:  Schedule a call with Fractional CMO, Mary Moses: https://tastydirectives.com/contact Follow Tradition Breakers on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers  Follow Mary on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traditionbreakers  Visit Michelle's website, Powered By Decisions, where her information, courses, services, and podcast link live: https://www.poweredbydecisions.com/  Connect with Michelle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelleflorendo

    1h 1m
5
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8 Ratings

About

Join host, Mary Vallarta, as she shares helpful information and inspiring stories from AAPI individuals who bravely broke free of limiting expectations and traditions to follow their creative, artistic, or entrepreneurial passions. Mary comes from a Pilipino immigrant family and grew up in LA's Historic Filipinotown. She is a Fractional CMO based in Venice, CA who leads growth-stage multi-location businesses like restaurants and lifestyle concepts to enter and dominate new markets. Her expansive career includes working as a buyer for major retailers like Macy's and BCBG, launching and scaling multiple fashion and hospitality concepts in high profile markets like LA, NY, SF, and Boston, as well as leading Marketing & Creative for a national restaurant concept. But the most valuable experience Mary continues to relish is parenting her two kids with her husband, Enrico.