Transformative Living Radio

Andre Flax

In this podcast we explore the power of intentional change for personal growth and fulfillment. We'll explore practical strategies, tools and insights to help you unlock your full potential and live your best life.  Join us each week for practical tips, actionable insights, and inspiring stores to help you transform your life. 

  1. 2D AGO

    Assumption: The Creative Act

    What if your brain is quietly proving your fears right? We dig into the hidden power of assumptions—the invisible scripts that shape what you notice, how you act, and the results you get—by blending story, neuroscience, and practical coaching. From the reticular activating system’s role in filtering reality to the way early emotions wrote meanings you still carry, we show how identity and assumption form a loop that either limits or lifts your life. We share Carla’s story of landing a dream presentation and walking in with the certainty of failure, revealing how protection becomes limitation when the nervous system keeps running yesterday’s rules. Then we map a clear path to rewrite the script: name the old assumption, choose one aligned with who you’re becoming, and take one confirming action. Action teaches the brain faster than thought, and repetition installs identity—so small, consistent behaviors create big, compounding proof. You’ll practice out-loud declarations to signal a new standard to your body and mind, and you’ll learn to spot the first memory where your assumption formed so you can update it with care. By the end, you’ll have a grounded process to replace “I’ll mess this up” with “My voice adds value,” turn anxiety into steady presence, and reorient your RAS to highlight openings instead of obstacles. Confidence becomes a practiced assumption. Resilience becomes a reinforced belief. Authority stops being control over others and starts feeling like alignment within yourself. If this resonates, grab the ebook “Standing in Your Own Authority” from our show notes to reinforce the work, and try the one-action rule today. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to tell us which assumption you’re replacing next. To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    10 min
  2. 5D AGO

    Awakening to Your I AM: Claim Your Identity Now

    If everything looks fine on the outside but still feels unsettled, this conversation meets you at the root: identity. We explore why your life doesn’t shift when circumstances finally behave—it shifts when awareness does. With a clear, direct look at the two most powerful words in your vocabulary, I am, we unpack how self-concept quietly governs choices, emotions, and opportunities long before results show up. We start by challenging the belief that life happens to us, then walk through a vivid story of a prince who can’t wear the crown until he accepts who he is. From there, we bridge the spiritual and the scientific. You’ll learn how the reticular activating system (RAS) in your brain filters reality to confirm your current identity, why neurons that fire together wire together, and how language patterns like I’m overwhelmed or I’m becoming train attention and behavior. The takeaway is practical: your mind is loyal to the state you rehearse, but you can choose a new state and build a new road—one small, repeated action at a time. We guide you through four targeted journal prompts to surface your default assumptions, pick a present-tense identity, and translate it into three behaviors you can live tomorrow. You’ll see why sabotage is often just fidelity to an old self-concept, and how new agreements—statements like "I am disciplined" or "I am learning"—shift your lens so you start noticing and acting on opportunities that were always there. The goal isn’t to fix your life overnight; it’s to reclaim authorship over who you are being right now and let results follow. If you’re ready to anchor this work more deeply, grab our free ebook, Standing in Your Own Authority, linked in the show notes. Subscribe, share this episode with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a quick review to tell us: What I am are you choosing today? To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    12 min
  3. JAN 23

    How To Trust Yourself When The World Feels Unstable

    Feeling steady when the world keeps shifting is tough—and that’s exactly where we focus. Andre Flax, a certified life and leadership coach, explains why uncertainty affects us so deeply and how to rebuild self-trust without waiting for perfect clarity or emotional guarantees. We examine the subtle ways we rely on headlines and experts for inner authority, then provide a practical path to regain calm decisions, aligned actions, and lasting confidence. Throughout the conversation, we discuss five practical strategies for busy, noisy times: shifting from “what if” to “even if” to prioritize resilience over fear; calming your nervous system so clarity can follow; rebuilding trust with yourself through small, kept promises; taking action before feeling fully confident by using alignment as your guide; and viewing uncertainty as training that boosts discernment, resilience, and self-leadership. You’ll learn simple, accessible techniques like phone-free walks, breathwork, and small commitments that build into trust you can genuinely feel. If you’ve been carrying quiet questions—Should I wait or move? What if I’m wrong?—This is your reset. You’ll leave with language that brings steadiness, practical tools you can use today, and a mindset that keeps you grounded while circumstances shift.  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    13 min
  4. JAN 5

    Living Your Destiny Daily: Becoming the Person Your Future Requires

    Destiny doesn’t wait at the finish line. It shows up in how we greet the day, the boundaries we hold, and the quiet choices we make when no one’s watching. Kicking off the new year, we reframe growth from resolutions to embodiment, focusing on who we choose to be rather than what we hope to achieve. That simple shift turns pressure into practice and makes fulfillment a daily reality, not a distant goal. We dive into a practical daily rhythm that keeps alignment front and center. In the morning, choose identity with one grounded question: Who am I choosing to be today? At midday, pause to notice whether you’re acting from your old self or your becoming self, and course correct with one aligned choice. In the evening, reflect without judgment, integrate the lesson, and release the day so you can begin again clear and present tomorrow. This cadence reduces reactivity and strengthens direction while keeping growth human and sustainable. We also unpack five habits that support a destiny-driven life: elevated thinking that filters unhelpful thoughts, future-self decision-making that upgrades choices, environmental integrity that shapes state, intentional language that reinforces identity, and courageous microactions that compound into meaningful change. Along the way, we highlight how small, honest moments yield the biggest identity shifts and how aligning your space, words, and actions accelerates what matters most. If you’re ready to stop chasing transformation and start living it, this conversation offers a calm, clear path you can use today. To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    14 min
  5. 12/23/2025

    The Inner Guidance of Destiny: Listening to the Signals That Lead You Forward

    What if the clearest signals about your next chapter aren’t loud at all, but gentle, persistent, and already present in your life? We dive into the quiet mechanics of inner guidance and how it shapes personal destiny, especially when you’re tempted to wait for permission or perfect timing. Drawing on real coaching insights and lived experience, we unpack the difference between fear and guidance—how one contracts and rushes while the other expands and steadies—so you can make choices that feel aligned, not just safe. We explore the forms guidance takes: a desire that keeps circling back, a bodily cue before a thought forms, messages that repeat across conversations and books, and images that arrive before words. You’ll hear how to recognize the “quiet rightness” of an aligned stretch, and why nerves can be a sign of growth rather than danger. We also talk about symbolic glimpses of your future self and why those flashes aren’t fantasy—they’re instruction that bypasses doubt and invites trust. To turn listening into movement, we share five practical practices you can start today: brief daily stillness, tracking recurring desires, energy checks to sense expansion or contraction, intentional imagination before sleep, and following small nudges to build trust through action. The goal isn’t mastery; it’s a living conversation with your life where attention, not permission, opens the path. If you’re feeling restless but not anxious, curious but uncertain, this conversation offers grounded tools to navigate with clarity and courage. If this resonates, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who’s ready to trust their inner compass. Then tell us: what quiet nudge are you willing to follow this week? To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    11 min
  6. 12/13/2025

    “The Barriers to Destiny: How We Block the Life We’re Meant to Live”

    The moment you sense a larger life calling can feel both electric and paralyzing. You can see a truer version of yourself, yet an unseen grip keeps you from crossing the threshold. We unpack that tension with a clear framework for releasing inner barriers and stepping into a destiny shaped by consciousness, not circumstance. We start by reframing destiny as a lived state you cultivate daily through beliefs, assumptions, and identity. Drawing on Neville Goddard’s core teaching that consciousness is the only reality, we examine four common blocks: the old identity you’ve outgrown, assumptions rooted in past pain, fear that dresses up as wisdom, and emotional memory that convinces you to stay small. You’ll hear how these forces distort perception, shrink imagination, and lower expectations—plus relatable examples of pulling back from opportunities in career, creativity, and love. Then we move into practice. You’ll learn a four-step method to create real change without force: name the state you’ve been living in, challenge the assumptions propping it up, shift into a higher state using imagination, and support that state with aligned daily action. We share simple tools you can start today—an identity inventory, an assumption audit, a 60‑second destiny visualization, and small destiny actions that build momentum. The goal isn’t hustle; it’s coherence between who you are becoming and what you repeatedly do, so that your inner world and outer results begin to match. If you’re ready to stop negotiating with fear and start training your attention toward a future you actually want, this conversation offers the mindset reframe and the micro-practices to get moving with calm confidence. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs this, and leave a review to tell us which barrier you’re releasing first. To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    16 min
  7. 12/10/2025

    You Are Not Waiting For Destiny; Destiny Is Waiting For You

    What if destiny isn’t a fixed finish line but a series of doorways you can open on purpose? We take you into a practical, grounded exploration of how identity, assumption, and a redefined “normal” quietly write your future—and how to reclaim authorship right now. We begin by reframing destiny, building on Neville’s core insight that consciousness is the only reality. From there, we unpack the idea of successive destinies: every breakthrough, lesson, and season becomes the launch pad for the next chapter. You’ll hear why repeating patterns aren’t proof of a fixed fate but a signal of an inner state you can upgrade. We connect the dots between the stories you tell about yourself, the expectations you carry as “normal,” and the results that keep showing up in your career, relationships, and wellbeing. Then we get tactical. We share five tools to shift from wishing to shaping: listen for the whisper of desire, rewrite your self-story with aligned affirmations, practice assumption by feeling the wish fulfilled, upgrade your default normal, and move as the future you through embodied choices. These aren’t gimmicks. They’re a coherent method for aligning thought, feeling, and action so your outer world reflects your inner stance. Along the way, we highlight real-life moments—like the job you “unexpectedly” landed or the relationship that arrived right on time—to show how quiet inner agreement becomes visible outcomes. By the end, you’ll have a clear path to move from passive hope to deliberate creation. Instead of waiting for destiny to arrive, you’ll cultivate the identity that calls it forward.  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    12 min
  8. 11/18/2025

    The Power of Gratitude: How to Live A Lifestyle of Thankfulness Beyond Thanksgiving

    A peaceful morning can truly transform our perspective on the world around us! Just that simple moment—whether it’s the steam rising from your favorite mug or the gentle light streaming through the blinds—can lead us to explore gratitude as more than just a holiday habit. It can become a beautiful way of life that positively shifts our mood, mindset, and energy! By blending insightful research with timeless wisdom, we’ll uncover how practical and meaningful gratitude can be. Together, we’ll look at some fascinating science that shows how gratitude can reshape our brains, enhance our sleep quality, boost our immune system, and strengthen our relationships. Plus, we’ll connect this to a universal spiritual principle supported by teachers from various traditions: gratitude paves the way for abundance. When we express thanks in advance, we harmonize our attention, emotions, and actions with positivity, even during uncertain times. Along the way, we'll identify three common obstacles to gratitude—comparison, entitlement, and distraction—and discuss how they can cloud our perspective and sap our energy. To help make gratitude a part of your daily routine, I’m excited to share five simple practices you can start today! These include morning alignment before you even step out of bed, mood-boosting journaling, heartfelt expressions of appreciation, finding gratitude in difficult moments, and nightly reflections to rewire your brain toward positivity. We’ll conclude with a guided moment to cultivate gratitude in your body, reminding ourselves that every breath is a precious gift and every challenge presents an opportunity to grow. To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    11 min
5
out of 5
9 Ratings

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In this podcast we explore the power of intentional change for personal growth and fulfillment. We'll explore practical strategies, tools and insights to help you unlock your full potential and live your best life.  Join us each week for practical tips, actionable insights, and inspiring stores to help you transform your life.