Transformative Living Radio

Andre Flax
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In this podcast we explore the power of intentional change for personal growth and fulfillment. We'll explore practical strategies, tools and insights to help you unlock your full potential and live your best life.  Join us each week for practical tips, actionable insights, and inspiring stores to help you transform your life. 

  1. 1D AGO

    Why Self-Forgiveness Is the First Step in Your Transformational Journey

    What if the reason you feel stuck… isn’t a lack of discipline, clarity, or ambition? What if it’s something deeper—something quieter? In this powerful episode of Transformative Living Radio, we explore a truth that most people overlook on the path of personal growth: You cannot step into your next level while holding onto guilt from your past. So many people are doing “the work”—setting goals, building habits, investing in growth—but still feel blocked, hesitant, or undeserving of the life they say they want. Why? Because beneath the surface… they haven’t forgiven themselves. And until that happens, transformation stays incomplete. In this episode, we break down:  Why self-forgiveness is not optional—it’s foundational  How unresolved guilt silently drives self-sabotage  The identity shift required to release your past and step into your future  A practical, step-by-step process to begin forgiving yourself today This is not about ignoring your past… It’s about releasing its hold on your identity so you can finally move forward with clarity, confidence, and power. If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of who you used to be… This episode is your invitation to put it down.  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    15 min

  2. APR 24

    Stop Seeking, Start Being — The Shift That Changes Everything

    You can read every personal development book, save every mindset quote, and still feel like nothing is changing. I’m Andre Flax, and I’m calling out the subtle way our minds keep us “busy” with learning while we avoid the one thing that creates real self transformation: taking the step. The longer we plan, analyze, and wait for clarity, the more normal stuckness starts to feel.  We dig into a simple but powerful distinction: thinking transformation versus being transformed. Understanding ideas is useful, but it’s not the same as identity. When you keep saying “I’m trying” or “I’m working on it,” you may be reinforcing a life of effort without embodiment. When you shift to “This is who I am,” your choices begin to line up with that new standard. If the confident, disciplined, focused version of you already exists as a state you can step into, what changes about how you show up today?  I also walk you through four practical applications for intentional living: define the identity you need, claim it in the present, act from that identity immediately, and interrupt the old pattern when doubt shows up. You’ll leave with a concrete question you can use in the moment to reset your behavior and build momentum through action, not perfection.  If you’re ready to stop preparing and start becoming, press play, share this with a friend who’s stuck in “getting ready,” and subscribe. Then leave a review and tell me: what’s the one step you’re taking today?  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    12 min

  3. APR 6

    Living From The New Self

    You can be doing everything “right” and still feel a strange hesitation when it’s time to step up. That pause is not a lack of progress, it’s often a sign you’re still seeing yourself through an old lens, even while your life is asking for the new you to lead.  I’m Andre Flax, a certified life and leadership coach, and I’m walking through what it really means to live from the new self consistently, not just when it feels comfortable. Using the story of two followers who walked beside Jesus without recognizing him, we explore how transformation can be present without being fully acknowledged. If you’ve been growing, thinking differently, and responding differently but still shrink in key moments, this conversation will help you name what’s happening and shift your awareness.  You’ll leave with five practical ways to anchor your identity: making decisions from identity instead of emotion, speaking from alignment, choosing consistency over intensity, trusting the transformational process without constant validation, and staying present so the “new self” is not a future goal but a current way of being. These are simple personal growth practices, but they’re powerful for self-mastery, confidence, emotional resilience, and lasting mindset change.  If this resonates, share it with a friend who’s in a growth season, subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next, and leave a review or comment where you listen. What’s one situation where you’re ready to stop waiting and start living from who you already are?  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    10 min

  4. MAR 30

    Renouncing the Old Self: How To Stop Returning To Your Old Identity

    A door can open and you can still stay seated. That’s the uncomfortable truth behind growth, and it shows up everywhere: the job you’re ready for, the hard conversation you keep postponing, the healthier version of you that feels “not like you” yet. We start with a story about freedom being available while identity stays trapped, then we bring it home to the ways we quietly return to old habits, old fear, and old self-talk. We talk about why identity change is emotional, not just logical. The inner voice that says “don’t risk it” often isn’t evil, it’s protective, built from rejection, failure, or playing small to stay safe. But when your opportunities expand and your mindset doesn’t, you end up feeling like an imposter in rooms you’ve outgrown. I connect this to renewing your mind and learning to “put off” the old self instead of managing it forever. Then we get practical with five simple practices you can use today: notice the pattern without judgment, stop rehearsing the old story, interrupt the inner critic without fighting it, act from the new identity before confidence shows up, and return again and again when you slip. Transformation becomes real in the small daily choices that retrain your mind and rebuild your self-concept over time. If this message hits, share it with a friend who’s standing in an open doorway, then subscribe and leave a review so more people can find Transformative Living Radio.  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    12 min

  5. MAR 9

    Your Life Follows The Place Your Attention Rests

    Two archers step to the line. One stares at wind and branches; the other sees only the center. That simple image unlocks a bigger truth we explore today: your life moves toward the place your attention rests, and learning to aim it—gently, consistently—changes everything. We break down how attention shifts can flip your entire state in seconds, often without anything changing outside you. Think of the mind like tall grass: every worry you revisit presses a path that becomes easy to follow. The good news is that the same mechanism can build new trails toward clarity, gratitude, and the future you want. We show you how to spot when attention drifts, create just enough space to choose again, and re-aim your focus without force using breath, anchors, and single-sentence goals. Along the way, we share everyday practices to train your focus: naming thoughts to reduce their grip, stacking micro-returns throughout the day, and using visual cues to keep your mind on what matters. We also address the quiet resistance from old identities and assumptions that try to pull you back to familiar patterns, and we set the stage for our next conversation on Neville Goddard’s idea of renouncing the old self. If you’re ready to stop feeding distractions and start feeding direction, this one gives you the tools and the mindset to make your aim steady. Subscribe to stay current with weekly tools for focus and growth, share this episode with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a quick review to tell us where your attention will land this week.  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    11 min

  6. MAR 3

    Feeling The Wish Fulfilled: How To Prepare Emotionally For What You Want

    A boy brings an umbrella to a village prayer for rain. The sky is clear, but he’s already ready. That image sets the tone for a powerful exploration of emotional readiness—how to practice the feeling of the wish fulfilled so your inner life stops waiting on external wins to feel whole. We dig into why the subconscious follows what feels familiar, not what you say you want, and how that single principle explains cycles of self-sabotage. If anxiety is home, you’ll return to it; if pressure is normal, you’ll recreate it. We share practical tools to retrain your nervous system through repetition, not intensity: slower breathing in uncertainty, steadier speech before results, and composed responses when panic is available. The goal is emotional familiarity—making calm, confidence, and peace feel safe enough to stay. Then we apply this readiness to real arenas: money, love, and confidence. In finances, you end fear-led decisions and scarcity narratives so choices come from values and stability. In relationships, you stop rehearsing abandonment and overanalyzing silence, allowing connection without shrinking. For confidence, you quit practicing inadequacy and let your voice hold steady even if it shakes. Across each domain, alignment replaces desperation, and small, repeatable shifts compound into pattern-level change. We close by reframing control: you can’t rush timing, but you can prepare your inner world. Awareness reveals who you’ve been, assumptions let you choose differently, and feeling makes it real. Prepare the ground. Carry the umbrella. And if this conversation moved you, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a quick review so more people can find the show. Want hands-on support? Book a free coaching session with Andre via the link in the show notes.  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    11 min

  7. FEB 21

    Assumption: The Creative Act

    What if your brain is quietly proving your fears right? We dig into the hidden power of assumptions—the invisible scripts that shape what you notice, how you act, and the results you get—by blending story, neuroscience, and practical coaching. From the reticular activating system’s role in filtering reality to the way early emotions wrote meanings you still carry, we show how identity and assumption form a loop that either limits or lifts your life. We share Carla’s story of landing a dream presentation and walking in with the certainty of failure, revealing how protection becomes limitation when the nervous system keeps running yesterday’s rules. Then we map a clear path to rewrite the script: name the old assumption, choose one aligned with who you’re becoming, and take one confirming action. Action teaches the brain faster than thought, and repetition installs identity—so small, consistent behaviors create big, compounding proof. You’ll practice out-loud declarations to signal a new standard to your body and mind, and you’ll learn to spot the first memory where your assumption formed so you can update it with care. By the end, you’ll have a grounded process to replace “I’ll mess this up” with “My voice adds value,” turn anxiety into steady presence, and reorient your RAS to highlight openings instead of obstacles. Confidence becomes a practiced assumption. Resilience becomes a reinforced belief. Authority stops being control over others and starts feeling like alignment within yourself. If this resonates, grab the ebook “Standing in Your Own Authority” from our show notes to reinforce the work, and try the one-action rule today. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to tell us which assumption you’re replacing next.  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    10 min

  8. FEB 18

    Awakening to Your I AM: Claim Your Identity Now

    If everything looks fine on the outside but still feels unsettled, this conversation meets you at the root: identity. We explore why your life doesn’t shift when circumstances finally behave—it shifts when awareness does. With a clear, direct look at the two most powerful words in your vocabulary, I am, we unpack how self-concept quietly governs choices, emotions, and opportunities long before results show up. We start by challenging the belief that life happens to us, then walk through a vivid story of a prince who can’t wear the crown until he accepts who he is. From there, we bridge the spiritual and the scientific. You’ll learn how the reticular activating system (RAS) in your brain filters reality to confirm your current identity, why neurons that fire together wire together, and how language patterns like I’m overwhelmed or I’m becoming train attention and behavior. The takeaway is practical: your mind is loyal to the state you rehearse, but you can choose a new state and build a new road—one small, repeated action at a time. We guide you through four targeted journal prompts to surface your default assumptions, pick a present-tense identity, and translate it into three behaviors you can live tomorrow. You’ll see why sabotage is often just fidelity to an old self-concept, and how new agreements—statements like "I am disciplined" or "I am learning"—shift your lens so you start noticing and acting on opportunities that were always there. The goal isn’t to fix your life overnight; it’s to reclaim authorship over who you are being right now and let results follow. If you’re ready to anchor this work more deeply, grab our free ebook, Standing in Your Own Authority, linked in the show notes. Subscribe, share this episode with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a quick review to tell us: What I am are you choosing today?  To book your free discovery coaching session today, please click here. Download my free eBook " Unlock Your Inner Authority."

    12 min
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In this podcast we explore the power of intentional change for personal growth and fulfillment. We'll explore practical strategies, tools and insights to help you unlock your full potential and live your best life.  Join us each week for practical tips, actionable insights, and inspiring stores to help you transform your life. 

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  • Creator
    Andre Flax
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    92
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    © 2026 Transformative Living Radio
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