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Crystal Stevens

The audio diary of cat-mom, recovering people-pleaser, writer, and podcaster Crystal Stevens. Here, she explores the nuance of her human experience; offering her most raw and unfiltered thoughts about life and society. The conversations are refreshingly transparent, often vulnerable, a touch ridiculous and always compassionate. She hopes her daringness encourages you to get curious about yourself, to dig deeper and to find your personal truth(s). This is a stream-of-consciousness style podcast for existential junkies, cat cultists and flourless chocolate cake inhalers.

  1. i like taking care of my boyfriend...so what? (gender roles & expectations in modern relationships)

    01/19/2023

    i like taking care of my boyfriend...so what? (gender roles & expectations in modern relationships)

    Women are no longer in the kitchen. In fact, we're in the streets, shaking ass and wreaking havoc... and GOOD FOR US. Women are more empowered than ever today. I mean, I could nearly do whatever I want and yet, I still choose to clean my home and make my boyfriend dinner. Bizarrely enough, engaging in acts of service for my male partner -- especially as a modern, progressive woman is considered controversial today. Is this internalized misogyny? Am I seeking male validation to determine my worth as a woman? Am I another pawn of the patriarchy? Or do I just like a clean home and to see my partner with a full belly after a long day of work?  Many of us want the Instagram lifestyle but not the sacrifices that come with it. I question, can we really have our cake and eat it too? I don't know. But what I do know is today's guest, Deidra (my best friend) and I break down the expectations associated with the different sexes in modern relationships and why we at times still fall into those traditional roles... sue us! Follow the Podcast on all platforms!! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/transparencycard/ All Links: https://linktr.ee/transparencycard Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transparencycard/id1590373560 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7M1qrL79APgyWvjq1Dxpcc Anchor: https://anchor.fm/crystal1259 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82ZGNlODQ5NC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw

    58 min
5
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6 Ratings

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The audio diary of cat-mom, recovering people-pleaser, writer, and podcaster Crystal Stevens. Here, she explores the nuance of her human experience; offering her most raw and unfiltered thoughts about life and society. The conversations are refreshingly transparent, often vulnerable, a touch ridiculous and always compassionate. She hopes her daringness encourages you to get curious about yourself, to dig deeper and to find your personal truth(s). This is a stream-of-consciousness style podcast for existential junkies, cat cultists and flourless chocolate cake inhalers.