True Identity

Nikki Houseman (Romani)
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Nikki Houseman is a relationship and dating coach, certified athletic trainer, published author, and Jesus follower who helps you thrive in your relationships, dating, and to find your true identity. But she won't be doing this alone! Along with solo shows, Nikki interviews people in these various areas to have them share their journey and expertise with you.

  1. APR 21

    Practical Ways to Prepare Yourself to be a Wife

    You have a deep desire to have a husband. You don’t know how or when you will meet him. One day you want to have a successful marriage, so why not start now on preparing yourself to be a wife!  While I was single I had a mindset shift and thought, if I wanted to meet an amazing, healthy man, I need to be that myself. I needed to prepare myself to be a wife. I will share with you what I did to do just that. I am here to tell you that I am not perfect and I am still growing and learning, but I stepped into marriage more prepared and sure of myself and the man I was marrying because of the steps I took to prepare. Get your document to start preparing to be a wife here Learn more about the Single Women Collective Follow me on instagram @nikki.houseman

    18 min

  2. MAR 31

    Importance of Sleep: How many hours do you need? Why do you need sleep?

    Have you heard the phrase, "I'll sleep when I'm dead"? Well, you may die sooner than you think with this mindset. Sleep is when your body recovers, restores, rejuvenates. All the systems in your body operate because of sleep. Don't underestimate it. In this episode, I share research and studies about sleep. I share how many hours you actually need and practical ways to help you be able to fall asleep and have quality sleep. One device I mention that will help with sleep is Red Light. Here is the link for a discount for Lumebox or use the code NIKKIH Single ladies! Join the Single Women Collective! More info here Join my newsletter here Follow me on instagram Here are the references and resources I used during my research https://health.clevelandclinic.org/are-energy-drinks-for-kids-a-good-idea https://health.clevelandclinic.org/are-energy-drinks-bad-for-you https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10535526/ https://www.fda.gov/consumers/consumer-updates/spilling-beans-how-much-caffeine-too-much#:~:text=For%20healthy%20adults%2C%20the%20FDA,it%20(break%20it%20down). https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2528821/ https://archive.cdc.gov/www_cdc_gov/healthyschools/features/students-sleep.htm https://www.thensf.org/what-to-know-about-teens-and-sleep/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G0Zj_InJ4BQ&t=2s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7mTQbtZnN68 https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/134/3/642/74175/School-Start-Times-for-Adolescents?autologincheck=redirected https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/doomscrolling-dangers

    25 min

  3. FEB 17

    How Hearing God's Voice Will Help You with Dating and Many Other Areas of Your Life

    Do you feel you are getting “too old” to meet your spouse? Do you feel “left behind” as others around you are getting married, having kids? Do you feel you will never meet your life partner? This can be a hard place to be in. It can feel like you aren’t moving forward in life as you thought you would. Maybe you are approaching your 30s or 40s and you think you should have been married by now. When will it ever happen? Will it ever happen? This thought can hold you back. It can make you believe you are less than. This comes down to self trust, self worth, self talk and (the big one) COMPARISON! This also puts limits on God. He has the ultimate plan for your life. He is always working behind the scenes. It's important to listen to God's voice during times like this. I share a chapter from my book "A God You've Never Met: Who is the Holy Spirit" about how to hear the voice of God. Join the Single Women Collective! A community for single women who want to prepare their hearts, minds, and lives for a healthy, God-honoring relationship. Follow me on instagram @nikki.houseman

    15 min

  4. FEB 3

    When Things Don't Go As Planned, What Do You Do?

    What do you do when things don't go as planned? Maybe you are in a waiting season. It can feel lonely and discouraging. I'm here to share with you what I do when things don't go as planned. I share real life experiences and how I've been able to get through them. One of these experiences was my singleness journey. I had moments of doubt, but someone offered me hope. Spoiler alert.... GOD! It's all because I've him! I would love to hear from you! What do you do when things don't go as planned? email me: nikkilhouseman@gmail.com follow me on instagram and send me a DM @nikki.houseman Join the Single Women Collective for those who want to prepare their hearts, minds, and lives for a healthy, God-honoring relationship. Be in community with women in a similar season. Red light discount code 45% off Feb 5-8

    14 min

  5. 08/26/2025

    How to Achieve Optimal Health

    We talk about the importance of sleep, hydration, nutrition, recovery, and mental health. All these need to be aligned to be able to achieve optimal health and performance. I share practical tips and things you can do today! You may want to take notes ; ) *don't feel you need to do all the things I share right away. I started with a few and once I felt ready, I added more. This is called Habit Stacking. Here are the links I mention in this episode: If you want to know all about Creatine, listen to this episode.Stretching and mobility videosRed Light Therapy Lumebox discount NIKKIHActive Skin Repair discount NIKKIHClearStem discount NIKKIHOUSEMAN FREE 20 minute consultation for 1:1 coaching with me! Follow me on instagram @nikki.houseman

    21 min

  6. 03/18/2025

    The Benefits of Creatine: Muscle Mass + Cognition= Longevity

    As we age our muscle mass and cognition declines. There is a supplement to help with this and it's called creatine. There are many benefits of creatine -helps with muscle recovery -enhances focus -energy production -protects against brain neurodegenerative diseases -and so much more! In this episode, I share what creatine is, how to use it, who it's good for, when to take it, how much. This supplement is the most studied with more than 66,000 studies. Below are the references I used to create this episode. 1. https://physicalculturestudy.com/2015/02/26/creatine-a-short-history/ 2. https://www.uclahealth.org/news/article/creatine-supplements-can-help-build-muscle-mass 3. https://www.health.harvard.edu/exercise-and-fitness/what-is-creatine-potential-benefits-and-risks-of-this-popular-supplement 4. https://www.uhhospitals.org/blog/articles/2023/07/are-creatine-and-liquid-iv-save-for-teen-athletes 5.https://open.spotify.com/episode/72celMDl8clW0W2dBYi7P5?si=84e559359b5f4fc2 When looking for creatine, look for a monohydrate. Here are some brands ThorneNaked Creatine Optimum NutritionNutricost PerformanceSmart Creatine by Dr. Amen If you have any questions, DM me on instagram @nikki.houseman You can also send me an email nikkilhouseman@gmail.com Lumebox Red light therapy 40 % off using code NIKKIH Cured Nutrition discount code NIKKIH I am offering 1:1 coaching for single women! Schedule a free consult with me here!

    19 min

  7. 12/10/2024

    5 Aspects of Marriage I Wish I Knew Beforehand

    When I was single I didn’t think about certain things that would happen while being married. I didn’t really know what to expect. Yes, I’ve had people tell me what their marriage was like, but I didn’t think about what it would be like for me.  So I want to tell those of you who are single some aspects I didn’t think about of what marriage would be like. Giving you a heads up, something to prepare for, and to look forward to. I also share what to look for in a spouse and how important this decision actually is! DO NOT SETTLE! If you are a single gal and located in or near San Diego, you are invited to a Christmas party I am hosting. DM me on instagram @nikki.houseman or send me an email nikkilhouseman@gmail.com to get the location. Join my newsletter here! Need help with sleep? Try Night Caps at Cured. Use code NIKKIH at checkout for 15% off. Red light therapy- Lumebox. Use code NIKKIH at checkout for a HUGE discount! Follow me on instagram @nikki.houseman

    19 min

  8. 11/05/2024

    On the Same Page with Your Partner Regarding Religion, Politics, and Morals

    One thing I’ve come to realize and love about my relationship with my husband (there are many) is that we are on the same page politically, morally, and religiously. These are important things to note when you are dating someone and talking about marriage. No, you don’t have to agree on everything, but in my opinion the big stuff you should.  If you are single, dating, talking about getting married, I would ask these 3 questions What are their religious beliefs? What are their morals? What are their political views? These are hard topics to discuss, I get it, but they are vitally important in a relationship. Think about it, you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. This is the person you will be making all your decisions with. This is the person you will be raising your children with. This is the person you are sharing your finances with. This is the person you will live with. This is an important decision. I cannot stress this enough!! I want to help you become confident in your own skin. I want to help you see your worth. I want to help you become content in the season you are in while also preparing for a relationship. If this sounds like you, click here to learn more! And if you sign up now, I'm offering 50% off 6 coaching sessions!!! Interested in learning more about the Holy Spirit, my book is for you! Available on Amazon and Audible. Click here!

    9 min
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Nikki Houseman is a relationship and dating coach, certified athletic trainer, published author, and Jesus follower who helps you thrive in your relationships, dating, and to find your true identity. But she won't be doing this alone! Along with solo shows, Nikki interviews people in these various areas to have them share their journey and expertise with you.

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  • Creator
    Nikki Houseman (Romani)
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    90
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Nikki Houseman (Romani)
  • Show Website
    True Identity