True Stride

Mary Tess Rooney

Realizing your True Stride means moving forward in alignment with you heart, mind, body, energy and soul. This podcast offers thoughtful conversations to help you discover your groove at work, at home, during play and with your community. Empowerment coach, author and fellow Strider, Mary Tess Rooney, inspires heart-centered views to elevate your Heart Value, relationships and joy. Tune-in every Thursday for wise walks to get your stride on!

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    EP291: What's Your Ironman-like Life Event?

    Thank you, Striders. The response to last week's episode really moved me. The shoutouts and questions that came in reminded me of why these conversations matter so much. Last week we talked about the things in life we are constantly training for, and I used the example of my dogs, because raising them into their best selves has always been an ongoing process of patience and intention. The other example I shared was my nephew Logan, who is competing in an Ironman this weekend. Watching him prepare for this has been something else entirely. An Ironman is a 2.4 mile swim, followed by a 112 mile bike ride, then a full marathon on top of that. He will likely be out there for twelve hours or more. He did not arrive at this start line overnight. He got there through small, steady, intentional steps, building his mileage, learning how to transition between each leg of the race, figuring out how to fuel his body, his mind, and his heart along the way. The training was never just physical. It was about showing up consistently, managing setbacks, honoring short and long term goals, and knowing what he needed in order to keep going when things got hard. Your excitement about last week's episode inspired me to take this idea even further. So many of us are doing something similar every single day, just without the race bib. On today's Wise Walk, we are slowing down to ask ourselves what our Ironman-like event really is, and what we are doing to prepare our body, mind, and heart to go the full distance. What is your Ironman-like event that you have your sights set on, and how are you mentally preparing to take small steps through the planning, the wins, the setbacks, and the short-, medium-, and long-term goals? How are you managing your time and stress as you prepare for this event, knowing that stress is part of taking on something meaningful? How are you fueling your body, your heart, and your mind so you can stay resilient and keep moving forward when challenges arise? As you reflect on this event, how are you rallying support, what are you asking for, who are you asking, and are you clearly expressing why this matters to you? Where can you plan and prepare with focus, discipline, and commitment so you are set up for success, and where might you need to make sacrifices? What needs to come off your plate right now, and what are you trying to juggle that may be draining your energy before, during, or after this event? How are you planning to recover so you can feel aligned and supported once the event is complete? How can you pace yourself with everything you have going on so you finish strong and set yourself up to take on what comes next? I would love to hear what you're preparing for and how you're fueling yourself through it, before, during, and after. Reach out, I'm cheering you on. Don't forget to rally your support so you can set yourself up for success. I'll see you next Thursday for another Wise Walk, and until then, please remember to prioritize fun as you read the signs, direct your path, and get your Stride on. In this episode: [04:29] One of the Ironman type events I'm taking on is moving. I found a home. I am mentally, emotionally, physically preparing myself for the big moving event.  [05:50] I also want to prepare for the heaviness of unpacking. My sister Heather is going to be there for me. One of the things we can do when training for an Ironman event is rally support.  [07:49] One of my loved ones, who will be cheering Logan on, has diabetes. She has been trying to master keeping her blood sugar in check while traveling. She's taking on her own major Ironman challenge. [09:42] We have Ironman-like events in our lives everyday, because it is overcoming hardship.  [11:27] I need to prepare for my move by keeping myself mentally and physically strong. Core strength is critical.  [12:56] I also cancelled some things that I've signed up for. I won't be settled, so I needed to cancel.  [15:09] Logan has an awesome community that he trains with. He was given the advice to take his time, and to stop and remove the discomfort when it surfaces.  [17:18] I'm going to try and slow down during this major move. [18:51] Logan also received the advice that you can go further if you go slower. [19:08] Pace yourself to avoid burnout. It requires an intentional focus and pace.  Memorable Quotes: "You don't arrive at your biggest moments overnight. You build toward them, one small, intentional step at a time." - Mary Tess "Whatever you're facing right now might not look like an Ironman to anyone else, but if it stretches you, it counts." - Mary Tess "Pacing yourself is not falling behind. It's how you make sure you actually finish strong." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess Rooney Email Heart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram

    23 min
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    EP290: Growing Into Your Vision & Future Self

    My dear friend's son, Doston, just got a German Shepherd puppy. She is small, curious, and already testing boundaries in all the ways puppies do. It is that early stage where behavior is still forming, and it would be easy to overlook the habits that are starting to take shape. I admire how Doston reached out and asked me for advice on how to train her. How to set things up so she grows into a well-behaved, confident dog. That kind of awareness matters. It is easy to get caught up in the moment and assume things will work themselves out, but they do not. Puppies grow quickly, and the behaviors that seem minor in their youth become much more significant over time. When I think about my own dogs today, calm and easy to manage in different environments, I know that outcome came from consistent effort and a clear vision of who I wanted them to become. That idea has stayed with me, because it extends far beyond dogs. The way we show up today directly influences the person we become over time. It is easy to feel stuck or feel that change is hard and it is too late to shift direction, but I do not see it that way. On today's Wise Walk, we are taking a closer look at the future version of ourselves that we want to grow into and what it means to begin training for that version now. Who do you want to become, and is there a future version of yourself you can see or feel within you that you are ready to begin training for now? What qualities and experiences define that version of you, and what small steps can you take to begin moving in that direction and embodying those shifts today? Are your current actions aligned with the version of yourself you want to become? What elements in your environment can you control to better set yourself up for success? What steps, however small, do you know you need to take to move forward and begin acting as if you are already becoming that person? Are you staying true to those actions because you know they are right for you, regardless of what others may think? Can you hold space for your growth and commit to it, even if it feels uncomfortable or unfamiliar? Is there a past version of yourself you miss or want to reconnect with, and what from that version can you bring into your present and future? What small steps are you willing to take right now to grow into that person? What distractions or barriers can you remove to better support your progress? What actions can you take each day to stay aligned with the version of yourself you are ready to step into? Each of us has the ability to create the life we are meant for. It starts with staying true to who we are today, while also honoring the version of ourselves we are growing into, and taking actions that align along the way. I would love to hear what resonated with you, so feel free to reach out and share what you are taking with you from today's episode. I look forward to being with you again next Thursday for another Wise Walk. In this episode: [03:54] I had a simple but clear vision for my life with my dogs. It took a lot of work training them to be comfortable with travel and being a car dog.  [05:08] I had to start with small steps like driving down the street. [06:01] Now the car is the happy place for both of my dogs. [07:03] I had to see the vision, set us up for success, and control distractions. Controlling the environment can set us all up for success.  [08:10] I was mindful to condition my puppies to set them up for success. I started the training at a young age, so they could grow into the version I saw for them. [10:41] All of my actions were aligned with my vision for them. [12:09] One of the visions for my future self is hiking at higher elevations. I'm going to have to work up to that. I have a training plan for my big hike in July. [15:19] I'm so proud of my nephew who has the vision to train and do an ironman competition. That's a 2.4 mile swim, 112 bike ride, and a 26.2 mile marathon.  [17:11] I'm going to show up and support my nieces and nephews when I can.  Memorable Quotes: "Growth happens when your actions start to align with the version of yourself you can already see." - Mary Tess "If you can see that future version of yourself, then you can start acting in alignment with it today." - Mary Tess "The question is not whether change is possible. The question is whether you are ready to begin." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess Rooney Email Heart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram

    20 min
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    EP289: Messages We Are Meant to Receive

    There are moments when something finds you at just the right time. A quote, a phrase, a random text from someone you love, and it lands in a way that you weren't prepared for. That happened to me this week. A loved one sent me a quote and I couldn't stop thinking about it: "Healing is when you stop telling the story that broke you, and you start telling the story that rebuilt you." Simple words, but they opened up a lot. About the stories we carry, the ones we share with others, the ones we replay in our own heads — and what those stories actually say about where we are. Because the way we tell our story? It doesn't lie. It reflects where we genuinely are in our healing, not where we wish we were or think we should be. On today's Wise Walk, we're slowing down to explore that shift from the story that broke you to the one that rebuilt you. We're getting curious about the messages we receive and what they might be pointing us toward. Because in that curiosity, there's room for real reflection, a little more compassion for ourselves, and genuine gratitude for how far we've actually come. When a message or quote stops you in your tracks and connects on a deep level, do you take time to get curious about why it resonates? Do you reflect on why a particular word, phrase, or sentiment has an impact on you at that moment? Do you consider how it has shown up in your past, how it applies right now, and how it might support you moving forward? What are the stories you are telling right now, to yourself and to others? As you tell that story, do you notice an emotional charge, a sense of still feeling hurt, disappointed, or broken? Are you handling yourself with compassion and giving yourself grace as you acknowledge where you still are in your healing? Are you on the road to healing, and how can you move toward telling your story from a rebuilt perspective? Or are you telling a story that was once heavy, but in this moment you realize just how far you have come? Can you give yourself credit for rebuilding and for allowing yourself to heal from whatever that experience was? What is a message, quote, or phrase you heard on a podcast or radio that deeply connected with you? What is it about that phrase that strikes a chord and where do you see it showing up in your own life? Can you hold compassion for who you were in the past, who you are today, and who you hope to become? Can you give yourself gratitude for prioritizing your healing and for growing into the next version of yourself? This whole community is stronger together when we can honestly acknowledge where we've been and celebrate the rebuilding that followed.  As always, I would love to hear what you took away from today's episode, so feel free to reach out. I look forward to joining you next Thursday. Until then, prioritize fun, read the signs, direct your path, and get your Stride On. In this episode: [02:32] "Healing is when you stop telling the story that broke you, and you start telling the story that rebuilt you." [03:42] When we're in the thick of going through an emotional crisis, we think about how this could be happening to me or why is this happening or what did I do wrong? We tell the story from the emotional state and place of the victim. [05:05] I love how the stories we tell are a great framework for whether we've healed from our emotional crisis.  [08:05] An emotionally charged story that always comes to mind for me is my divorce. It was a difficult, challenging, and complex experience.  [09:02] The healing process of my divorce took a long time, because there were so many different facets.  [10:06] When I received the quote, I realized that I have come a long way when it comes to my divorce experience. I am grateful for that. [11:17] When you receive a message that deeply resonates with you, take the time to reflect on why that strikes a chord within you. [13:23] Messages we receive are also an opportunity to have conversations with those that we love.  [14:11] You can also discover why these quotes resonate with those you love.  [16:40] How your loved ones reflect on the quote can tell you if they've healed. You can also see their growth through their reflections.  [17:21] When you receive messages, get curious about how they may apply in your life or of those you love.  [18:03] When healing occurs, the way we tell the story changes. Memorable Quotes: "Any time we have growth or a shift, we should give gratitude for just how far we've come." - Mary Tess "We can't get someone to rebuild themselves. We just have to be compassionate listeners." - Mary Tess "When we go through something very challenging and difficult, there could be many layers of disappointment or hurt or brokenness that need to heal. We need to give ourselves compassion in that moment to heal and rebuild." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess Rooney Email Heart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram

    19 min
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    EP288: Adaptive Resilience: Finding Strength in the Setback

    Getting knocked off your feet has a way of bringing everything into focus. Whether it's a physical setback or something deeper on an emotional level, those moments where you feel depleted can leave you wondering how long it's going to take to feel like yourself again. I was recently in that place, recovering from a stomach virus that completely drained my energy, and it got me thinking about what it really means to rebuild not just physically, but in all areas of life. As I started to feel better, I couldn't help but notice how the body naturally adapts, creating strength and protection behind the scenes. It made me realize that we have that same ability in our emotional and energetic lives, too. We've all been through hard things before, and somewhere along the way, we've built the resilience to move through them again. This episode is about recognizing that process and learning how to trust that as you rebuild, you can come back even stronger. On today's Wise Walk, we slow down and explore what resilience really looks like in our own lives and how we recognize those low moments. Also, how we support ourselves through them and draw on our own history to remind ourselves that this too shall pass. When you hit those low points, where you feel depleted or stuck, what memories can you tap into that remind you you've been resilient before and that this too will pass? As you reflect on an area of your life that needs attention right now, can you recognize what's really going on and begin to reframe it into a growth moment instead of a setback? As you move through this experience, are you allowing yourself to reach out for support or permit yourself to take things off your plate? What can you let go of right now that isn't serving you so you can feel lighter and begin to rebuild from a stronger place? Where can you acknowledge the strength and skills you're gaining through this experience and remind yourself that you're stronger than this moment? How do you remind yourself that this is temporary and that you've made it through hard things before? What does resilience look like for you right now, not in theory, but in how you're actually showing up each day? Are you giving yourself enough self-compassion as you move through this, or are you expecting too much from yourself? Where might you be holding on to something that's keeping you stuck instead of allowing yourself to move forward? Who in your life truly understands what you're going through, and are you leaning into that support? What would it look like to trust that you are already rebuilding, even if it doesn't feel like it yet? How can you ground yourself in this moment so you feel a little steadier as you move through it? What is one small step you can take today that supports your healing or your progress? As we evolve, we begin to embrace this mindset of adaptive resilience. Whatever you're going through right now, know that you have it within you. You can recognize it, reframe it, reach out for help, rid yourself of what isn't serving you, and rebuild. I'd love to hear what you're navigating right now, and how you're leaning into your natural resilience. Reach out, share your story, and know that you're not alone. I look forward to next Thursday's Wise Walk. In this episode: [03:12] Our bodies are so miraculous. They have this high-functioning ability to adapt, even though we don't always know how to support it. [04:10] As we fight an illness, our bodies adapt. They create antibodies that clear infections and store memory cells to fight future infections and attacks. [05:04] Our bodies are constantly learning, growing, and adapting to our environment. Our memory cells are on autopilot, constantly supporting us in the background. [06:55] We also rebuild on an emotional level. Our emotions and energy have a natural growth mindset. [08:12] Whatever we are managing at this moment will pass. I came up with five elements that will help us restore and overcome physically and emotionally.  [09:12] I'm looking forward to establishing a home base and creating nesting roots. [10:06] 1. We have to recognize when we are in that moment of not feeling our best. What are the threats? How can we reframe this? What am I supposed to learn?  [11:01] 3. Reach out and ask for help. You don't have to do it alone. [12:22] 4. Rid yourself of anything that is not supporting you.  [13:25] 5. Rebuild and become stronger than before.  [14:05] If I get sick again, my memory cells will be able to recognize, reframe, reach out, rid, and rebuild.  [15:13] One thing that has helped me when feeling ungrounded while searching for our home is to reach out to people who can support me.  [17:09] I also know that I need to rid myself of influences that will make me feel worse about my situation. [18:06] This experience will help me rebuild in a stronger framework. [20:22] On an emotional and energetic level, where can we apply these five elements so that we can move through periods of transition and being stuck?  [21:57] On a positive note, I'm feeling much better. [22:54] I love that we embrace the mindset of adaptive resilience as we grow and evolve.  [23:14] Know that you have adaptive resilience and memory cells in your physical, emotional, and energetic body.  Memorable Quotes: "Your body knows how to rebuild. Sometimes the hardest part is trusting that you do too." - Mary Tess "Even when you feel completely depleted, there's something within you already working to restore and strengthen." - Mary Tess "Resilience isn't something you go find. It's something you remember." - Mary Tess "Your body rebuilds automatically. Your mind and heart just need a little more intention." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess Rooney Email Heart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram

    24 min
  5. 26 MARS

    EP287: Storytelling as Medicine

    I just got back from the most beautiful weekend workshop called Celtic Medicine Storytelling, and I have to tell you, I didn't fully know what I was walking into when I signed up. What I walked away with has been sitting with me ever since. The whole purpose of the course was to honor the oral tradition of storytelling and to explore it through a Celtic lens, because the Irish, the Welsh, the English, they have always loved a good story. And honestly, who doesn't? There is something so timeless and so human about gathering together and sharing a story. What really struck me was how the instructors used folktales that we all grew up with, like the Tortoise and the Hare, or the Ugly Duckling, or Red Riding Hood as examples of how stories can actually serve as medicine for the soul. We all know these stories, maybe just vaguely, tucked somewhere in the back of our memory. But when you stop and really think about them, those morals run deep. Slow and steady wins the race. Never judge based on appearance. Stay true to yourself. These weren't just bedtime stories. They were quietly shaping the way we see the world, the way we treat others, and honestly, the way we treat ourselves. This got me thinking about the stories we carry with us, the ones that made an impression on us as kids and the ones we now have the opportunity to pass on. Whether you're a parent or a grandparent, an aunt or uncle or maybe just someone who has a young person in your life that you love and want to influence, give the gift of sharing these stories. In helping that next generation feel connected to something so much bigger than themselves. On today's Wise Walk, we're going to slow down and explore how the stories we tell can truly become medicine for our lives. When you reflect back on your childhood, what were some of the folktales or stories that really impacted you? What ones stuck with you, and what ones do you want to share with the younger generation in your life? How did those stories influence you, and how do they make an impression on you now as you reflect back? What are the ways you are continuing to honor this oral tradition of storytelling, maybe sharing stories from your own life in a folk style way so that others feel the moral is relatable and tangible? How are you using stories in your life to support you? How are you taking a folktale you heard and relating to the moral of that story, applying it in your life, or giving yourself some grace because you connect with it on some level? Where can you stop judging yourself for being different or unique, and how can you give yourself the patience and the grace and the space to become the hero in your own story? Over the next several days, can you listen to whatever stories come your way with this perspective of how you can feed the story that someone is sharing, noticing what resonates and how you relate? Can you also feed yourself with that awareness in a way that supports your own growth, your own ability to be kind to yourself, and to just be at peace with whatever surfaces? When was the last time you told a story about how you struggled, what you gained, and how you got to the other side? Whatever is going on in your life right now, how can you hone the craft of your oral storytelling and share your stories with vulnerability, carving out the essential details so your listener stays engaged? How can you speak from your heart, allow awareness to surface, and then welcome the listener to feed the story back to you? What are the stories you want to continue to share because they are so resonant that you could apply them at various phases of your life and give yourself the grace and acceptance that you deserve? Stories are medicine. That is truly the gift I took away from this experience, and I hope it feels just as resonant for you wherever you are and however your day is unfolding. I want you to know that you are medicine for me too.  When you share your feedback, when you share what surfaced for you after an episode, you are feeding this story that we are all building together. I would love to hear what you took away from today and what is coming up for you in your own life. Until next Thursday, I look forward to our next Wise Walk together. In this episode: [03:48] I've always been athletic, but I haven't always been the fastest. I really connected with the story of the tortoise and the hare. [05:15] Accepting that I'm not always the fastest one has given me peace. [07:17] At the Celtic Medicine Storytelling workshop, they would tell Celtic stories and then ask us to share how we related to the stories. Feeding the story. [08:18] I love how when we hear stories during different phases of our lives, we relate on different levels.  [09:00] We're constantly trying to engage with others. [11:19] I also had an opportunity to share a personal story in a folk style way. There was a moral and contrast or climax. [13:34] We were also to honor the tradition of oral story telling. The oral tradition is more freeing with our speech and rhythm.  [16:03] After I published my book, Heart Value, there were several who reached out to me and said they could completely relate to the stories. [18:23] I also appreciated the opportunity to be vulnerable and stretch outside of my comfort zone.  [19:30] I named my character, Brigid and incorporated the use of my drum.  [20:17] We are all looking for connection and relatability but may identify differently with the characters.  [21:04] One of the participants said my story was medicine for her. This was powerful for me and something I hold dear in my heart.  [22:41] How can we get back to the oral tradition and relating to stories? [24:21] I didn't know what I was getting into, but the idea of a story as medicine was a gift. Memorable Quotes: "Stories are medicine. And when we share them from the heart, we heal each other." - Mary Tess "Give yourself the patience, the grace, and the space to become the hero in your own story." - Mary Tess "We are all connected in more ways than we realize, and our stories are the bridge." - Mary Tess "When you share your story, you give someone else permission to feel less alone in theirs." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess Rooney Email Heart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram

    25 min
  6. 19 MARS

    EP286: Rooted in Patience

    As we approach springtime, I can already feel that anticipation and anxiety. This idea of okay, let's get ready to rush, let's get ready to move fast. This wanting, this desire to move out of the waiting place. Because winter kind of feels like a waiting place. This season of calmness, this season of slowing down. And then we hit spring and everything just moves a little bit faster. I have a dear friend who is waiting for his house to sell. He has done everything right, including pricing it well and doing his homework; now he just has to trust that the right buyer will come at the right time. On the flip side, I am actively looking for a home, and I keep finding properties that are close but not quite right. As much as I want to just pull the trigger and move on, I keep coming back to this truth: when I have rushed things in the past, when I have been more impulsive, that is when I tend to make mistakes. That is when the unintended consequences show up. On today's Wise Walk, we're going to slow down, check our reality, and explore how to truly embrace the power of waiting and what it can open up for us when we do. As you move into this new season, are you feeling rushed or are you managing your expectations with patience? Are you planting seeds in your life and then wanting them to bloom immediately? Are you appreciating the power of waiting and what it can open up for you? Where in your life are you feeling impatient right now? Is there something you are excited about but find yourself wanting to rush? When a big decision is in front of you, are you giving yourself enough time to truly sleep on it? Are you spending energy trying to control things that are simply not yours to control? What areas of your life are calling for your attention while you wait? What strategies are you using to remind yourself to trust the process? How are you shifting away from the pull of instant gratification and giving yourself space to sleep on it? Are you able to release the outcome once you have done everything you can? How are you looking to nature for inspiration to stay grounded when the impulse to rush starts to creep in?  I would love to hear what you took away from today's episode and how you are applying patience in your life. The self-awareness you bring to your own journey inspires me and helps us all move through the seasons, whatever season we are in, with a little more grace.  Drop me a note and let me know what strategies are working for you, because I am always learning too. I look forward to joining you on next Thursday's Wise Walk, so be sure to tune in. Until then, prioritize fun as you read the signs, direct your path, and get your Stride On. In this episode: [02:47] A dear friend of mine listed his house on the market. The waiting is a painful process. He knows his best plan is to wait patiently.  [04:57] I'm trying to find a home. I want at least two acres and no HOA (Home Owners Association).  [06:06] I want the flexibility and freedom to change my situation if needed.  [07:16] I found an amazing property, but there was an HOA. There's a three-day rule for big decisions. We often get impatient. [08:24] Strategies for waiting include acknowledging the feeling, sleeping on it, creating space, and seeing if the sense of urgency is still as strong.  [09:30] It's okay, the right property will come up when it's meant to be. [10:07] FOMO can create mistakes and regrets. We live in abundance and can always find another deal. [12:49] Another strategy I'm using is shifting my focus to another part of my life. [13:13] I need to put my energy in areas of my life that I can control. [14:01] Last year, my word of the year was co-create. This year, I chose the word bloom. I'm looking for inspiration from nature, and nature will bloom in its own due time.  [15:24] A cool thing about this strategy is that other areas of my life are getting the attention they need. [16:01] When we release the impatience that we're feeling, we create space to put our energy into other areas that matter. [16:32] My friend has put everything in place to attract the right buyer. Now he is releasing it and going to Paris while it sells. [17:04] I hope you're employing strategies to manage the impatience and waiting.  Memorable Quotes: "The right opportunities will unfold at the perfect time, just as springtime arrives at the perfect time." - Mary Tess "When we release the impatience we are feeling, we create space to put our energy on the things that matter." - Mary Tess "We live in abundance. That will never be the last good deal, the last great view, the last right opportunity." - Mary Tess "Waiting is not wasted time. It is a skill, and when you master it, it gives you a gift you cannot always explain." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess Rooney Email Heart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram

    18 min
  7. 12 MARS

    EP285: Courage to Embrace Change: Small Steps = Big Shifts

    As a follow-up to last week, I chose to attend my friend's 50th birthday party and go all in on that experience, and I'll tell you what, it totally paid off. We danced, we laughed, we had some sentimental moments. It was just a beautiful thing. I haven't danced in a long time and I love dancing, so it was really fun to connect with myself, and I felt even more connected to my friend and her family too. And here's the thing, I got inspiration at that party. I was talking to my dear friend's sister, Ingrid, and she was sharing how much she loved her new gig. She had been a school teacher and now she's working in corporate America, and to see her on the other side of that major shift, was powerful. She just looked vibrant and happy. Her choice to reinvent her career path and the action she put behind it, that is the essence of embracing change with courage. So on today's Wise Walk, let's slow down and consider how you are facing changes in your life. Are you able to face them with courage, with tenacity, with self-belief? Because I truly believe that when you embrace change with the courage that already exists within you, you will get to the other side. Can you tap into the brave part of yourself and trust that if you embrace change with courage you will get to the other side? How are you supporting yourself as you explore the change you are being called toward? Whatever change you are seeking, whether it is career, relationship, a move, retirement, a hobby, or something else entirely, can you hone in on your intention? What is driving you to embrace this change? Can you find a way to move forward with courage, bravery, self-belief, and tenacity? Can you look at where you are today and commit to taking just one small step? Can you acknowledge just how far you have come with each step you have already taken? Can you recognize the power of your own ability to get unstuck when you feel stuck? If you do feel stuck right now, what is one thing that will support you in seeking the freedom and true independence that comes from within? Thank you for taking this Wise Walk with me and for sharing your stories. I love how when we come together and get vulnerable, we give each other the gifts of self-belief, tenacity, and courage to move forward.  So tap into that deep inner knowing and muster up the courage to take just one small step today, whatever that looks like for you. And until next Thursday, prioritize fun, read the signs, direct your path, and get your Stride On. In this episode: [04:01] There are many times in our life where we may feel stuck. When it's time to implement change, we need to be careful with how we think about it and who we let influence our decisions.  [05:10] Embracing change can be scary. We have internal struggles and opposing external sources influencing us.  [06:08] True freedom comes from doing our own thing and following our heart. We have the freedom to choose and pivot. [07:22] Fear can show us that it's something we actually care about. Taking one small step at a time can lead to big shifts and big results. [10:16] If Ingrid is listening, please take this time to acknowledge yourself and the life you've created. Thank you for the inspiration. [11:03] I'm also facing a change and planning to look at property in Northern Georgia. I'm drawn to this area for multiple reasons.  [12:31] I'm going to immerse myself in the community, look at properties, and keep taking small steps. [13:08] I'm protecting this intention and not sharing it with just anybody. You Striders are important.  [16:17] "I never lose. I either win or learn." Nelson Mandela [17:05] When we embrace change, we don't lose. We win when we better ourselves.  [18:39] If I go through a change and make a major shift in life, I can always pivot if it doesn't play out the way I want.  Memorable Quotes: "True freedom comes from doing our own thing. When we follow our heart, set an intention, and follow through, that is very freeing." - Mary Tess "Anytime I have fear, I go, okay, this is scary, but I know that this is also important to me. When I get that fear response, it means this is something I actually care about, something I really want." - Mary Tess "We are so busy taking those small steps that we forget to acknowledge just how far we've come." - Mary Tess "You already have what you need. Go after whatever your heart is calling you to do and see what's possible for yourself." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess Rooney Email Heart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram

    22 min
  8. 5 MARS

    EP284: Commit to One Opportunity, Without FOMO

    Have you ever said yes to something that felt like a full-body, no-doubt-about-it yes and then almost immediately, another opportunity showed up that you were equally excited about? That has been my world lately. And honestly, as much as I love having options, there is something quietly exhausting about standing at a crossroads when both paths genuinely appeal to you. What I've been noticing is that the pull to do it all, to find some creative way to say yes to everything, doesn't always come from ambition. Sometimes it comes from not wanting to miss out, or from not wanting to let anyone down including yourself. But I've been learning, slowly and sometimes the hard way, that trying to be in two places at once often means you're not truly present in either one. So on today's Wise Walk, I'm inviting you to slow down with me and get honest about what it actually feels like to choose one thing and let the other go with intention, without guilt, and without the weight of regret. Because there's real power in going all in on the one thing your heart is calling you toward. How are you getting grounded in order to make the best choice for you in this moment, in the you that exists right now? How are you going through the process of dropping into your heart or checking in with yourself enough to get clarity? How are you following up with yourself to release that other opportunity and not doubt it or have regrets? What does this experience look like for you right now, and are there opportunities to refine it so you get better and better at following your heart? When you're torn between two opportunities, what are the ways you are staying true to yourself and not getting caught up in FOMO? When can you say no because you're choosing your own sanity and choosing to be fully present for the one experience you're going all in on? Can you trust that if another opportunity needs to be part of your experience, something similar if not better will present itself at a later date? Is no for now okay, and can you just let it go? How often do savvy marketing strategies create fear or anxiety of missing out, and are you able to distance yourself enough to ask if you'd still say yes next month? What is the best use of your time and energy in this moment? How do you handle it when a dear loved one is the one creating that pressure to show up? Are you staying grounded in how you show up and not spreading yourself too thin? What does it feel like when you say no for now and choose your sanity, your peace, and your harmony? Are you giving yourself credit for being intentional about directing your energy toward what matters most to you? Wherever you are and whatever's unfolding in your life right now, I hope you're showing up fully energized, present, and excited about what you're saying yes to. And for the things you're saying not right now to, I hope you're holding those with anticipation rather than regret.  It goes a long way. I'd love to hear what you took away from today's episode, so feel free to reach out, and I'll see you next Thursday for another Wise Walk. In this episode: [02:58] I'm super excited because my friend's 50th birthday party is coming up this weekend. It's important for me to show up for her. [04:02] Then I was invited to attend a workshop on the same weekend. This Workshop is something that I would be excited to learn, and it's also a rare opportunity. I had to reflect on if I could do both things. [05:07] Would I be able to enjoy the party if I had to fly at the crack of dawn to do both? I felt anxiety rising in me when I thought about this question. [06:03] The thought of doing both made me feel exhausted. I ended up saying no to the workshop.  [07:09] When I try to do too much in too short of a period, I don't show up as my best self. [11:00] It's funny because in my life, I feel like when I need to learn a lesson, this happens more often than not. [12:22] When I have opportunities competing with my time, I'm getting better at saying I can't do both and not putting pressure on myself. [13:47] I'm choosing not to get swept up in the energy of fear of missing out. [15:20] I also want to take this moment to thank you. All of the Wise Walks that we go on creates a safe place for me to reflect. You have helped me to go inward and be intentional. Memorable Quotes: "I don't have to buy into that fear of missing out. I don't have to let that influence my decision because my decisions affect me." - Mary Tess "Anytime I try to do too much in too short of a period, I am not showing up as my best self." - Mary Tess "I want to enjoy life. I really want to show up in meaningful ways for myself and for those that I love." - Mary Tess "I'm getting better at making choices that say — I can't do both, I don't want to do both, I don't want to put that pressure on myself." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess Rooney Email Heart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram

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Realizing your True Stride means moving forward in alignment with you heart, mind, body, energy and soul. This podcast offers thoughtful conversations to help you discover your groove at work, at home, during play and with your community. Empowerment coach, author and fellow Strider, Mary Tess Rooney, inspires heart-centered views to elevate your Heart Value, relationships and joy. Tune-in every Thursday for wise walks to get your stride on!