Try-Hard Valley

Yoda told us all a lie.

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Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    Packing, Unpacking, Repeating with Tania Sanchez

    This week on Try-Hard Valley, Yael prepares for her Adriatic adventures and Carrie wonders if her running career has one more chapter left. Then Carrie sits down with one of her favorite writers and longest-running intellectual crushes, author and perfume critic Tania Sanchez. Tania. Sacramento. Extended Stay America. Canned vodka mule. The glamour is subtle. Tania shares the unlikely story of how a finance writer from New York became one of the world’s best-known perfume critics, fell in love with fellow perfume writer Luca Turin, and spent the next two decades packing and unpacking. Along the way, the conversation wanders through:• The challenges of caring for aging parents• Life as an American living in England• Perimenopause and the indignities of middle age• The enduring weirdness of high school• Why the British keep asking, "Are you all right?"• The mysterious power of scent As always, the episode is ultimately about what we're all trying hard to do right now, and why that's often more interesting than what we've already accomplished.Subscribe to Tania’s Substack! And to her husband Luca Turin’s Substack as well! That’s the brilliant and hilarious perfume guide Tania wrote with her husband Luca Turin.Is it available on Amazon? You ask. Why, yes, it is. I answer.Buy it here! The Devil wears Guerlain's Samsara. Perfume legends Tania Sanchez and Luca Turin discuss the alchemy of great scent in Vogue. Two try-hards. One hotel room selfie. Several teeth. This great book, The Emperor of Scent, is about Tania’s husband Luca Turin.Tania has been married to Luca for 19 years. Ergo, she is The Empress of Scent in our book! Tania’s many fans and theRedditors of r/fragrance agree wholeheartedly! Get full access to Try-Hard Valley at carriegilbert3.substack.com/subscribe

    28 min
  2. May 13

    Mommy, Listen with the Director and Cast of TEAM Theatre's Mean Girls

    This week on Try-Hard Valley: * There’s something growing in Carrie’s uterus (NOT the Messiah) * Yael explains her two names situation (again… for your/Carrie’s edification) * Airplane turbulence coping mechanisms * Carrie invents a new “Melan-Choli-Day™” and realizes the podcast is an attempt to communicate with her dead mom * Audio that intermittently sounds like a hostage tape recorded inside an air fryer * The wildly talented cast and director of TEAM Theater’s production of Mean Girls Featuring:🎭 Amanda Boyan🎭 Abhishek Natraj🎭 Jake Perry🎭 Ollie Mironov🎭 Kaelyn Cruz If you’ve ever: * missed your mom * fought with a creative partner * overthought literally everything …welcome to the liminal space we call home. Also:Please support your local try-hard theater teens. They are out there memorizing lines, surviving algebra tests, AND learning tap dance choreo. Not too shabby! Get tickets to Mean Girls before they sell out! Starring Ollie Mironov as Damian and Kaelyn Cruz as Janice Director Extraordinaire Amanda Boyan Abhishek Natraj (Aaron) Jake Perry (also Damian, there are two casts) Producer/TEAM Theatre Founder Salim Razawi TEAM Theatre Choreographer Vivaan Rairecently won a Sara Bareilles award. That’s a big deal! Learn more here! Mommy, look! And listen! This song Intermittently gets stuck in Carrie’s head. Get full access to Try-Hard Valley at carriegilbert3.substack.com/subscribe

    19 min
  3. May 1

    Not Dying in Livermore with Sheri Ann Dante

    Aloha from Maui! This week’s episode comes to you from Wailuku, Hawaii, specifically from the home of my delightful friend Sherri Ann Dante, and even more specifically from the sweet spot just after happy hour. We also debut brand-new theme intro and outro music by my friend Beanpole, whose album All My Kin deserves your ears immediately. Then things get complicated. Our first-ever remote interview with my beloved cohost Yael Stuart was technically successful but sonically catastrophic. Rather than cut her from the episode, I made a bold artistic decision: I re-voiced her as a brand-new character. Please welcome The Artful Yael — part Yael Stuart, part Artful Dodger. Also, part pickleball, park pickpocket. Also in this episode: * Why Sheri Ann left Livermore for Maui * Outrigger canoeing at dawn in choppy water * Hawaiian paddling commands Carrie did not understand * An escape room where we were gently guided through our “escape” * Volunteering with sea turtles and whales * The downsides of paradise (bulldozers) * The upside of paradise (everything else) * A brief mention of plutonium hand warmers * A stern warning from Charles Dickens regarding improv ticket sales Come for the travel tales. Stay for the tequila-fueled chaos. Also, check out these pics, notes, and Ram Dass quotes! Sheri Ann finding a four-leaf clover at Maui’s lovely Ali’i Kula Lavender Farm.Go there! It’s beautiful. (And VERY clover-y!) We got lucky indeed. Beanpole recorded our catchy new intro and outro. Check out this Rolling Stone review of Beanpole’s fabulous All My Kin. Buy the digital album for ten measly dollars on Bandcamp.Also available on Amazon Music for $9.49.But if you’re a vinyl junkie who is made of money, you can buy it on eBay for $124.99. New mashup alert!That’s Yael Stuart, one half of The Artful Yael. That’s the other half of The Artful Yael.CONSIDER YOURSELF warned! Buy tix now, lest ye anger vengeful Dickensian ghosts! That’s my pal Sheri Ann standing next to Maui Mayor Richard T. Bissen, Junior.A Volunteer of the Year, she is! Sheri’s house is decked out with many gorgeous pics by Livermore photographer extraordinaire Kim Grandfield! Please be a guest on the podcast, Kim! Doing jazz hands of relief after we narrowly escaped Maui Mystery Escape Room. Get full access to Try-Hard Valley at carriegilbert3.substack.com/subscribe

    17 min
  4. Apr 23

    The Mary Poppins of Weirdos with Eric Heinitz

    They say “try hard” like it’s an insult. Around here, it’s a lifestyle. Welcome to Try-Hard Valley. This week’s episode has it all: 🎭 A dramatic reading from The Music Man (you’re welcome) ⚕️ A candid convo about a prolapsed uterus 🧘‍♀️ Pelvic floor mantras you didn’t know you needed ✈️ European travel plans, e-bikes, and scary cycling stories 📚 A heartfelt reunion with a beloved high school teacher ⚠️ Content note: We talk openly about women’s reproductive organs. Consider yourself warned. 💜 This episode is dedicated to Diane Heinitz. Plus: an important correction, a passionate plug for local improv, and a questionable life choice involving skipping a major baseball event. It’s messy. It’s honest. It’s a lot. But hey, at least we tried. And honestly? That counts. Care Bear and Er BearFor the record, Carrie prefers to think of Eric as ”The Mary Poppins of Lovably Quirky Students”But if the weirdo shoe fits… This is Diane Heinitz. Here is her obituary.She was funny, kind, and unforgettable. Carrie’s uterus is even more adorbz than this one. Class Clown (Foothill High School, Class of 1992) Scary Eagle’s favorite yearbook inscription that Flight of the Conchords scene Carrie references Here’s Dan Savage elaborating on this. Support this improvised soap opera featuring try-hards of the Tri-Valley!Click here to buy tickets. But if you’re in Seattle, go to this Number 51 Retirement Event on May 2nd. Then tell Carrie all about it so she can live vicariously through you.Go Mariners! We’ll get ‘em next year! Learn more about this term and its origin story here. Get full access to Try-Hard Valley at carriegilbert3.substack.com/subscribe

    30 min
5
out of 5
8 Ratings

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