Uncensored Sapphic

Danie Bergstrom
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The opposite of ‘abstinence only’ education. Dying to feel less weird and alone? Listen to as i share my professional sex advice mixed with my vulnerable sex, relationship, and intimacy lessons I learned the hard way so you don't have to. I'm your host Danie, a self growth junkie, Somatic Sex Coach + Sexologist. You can expect holistic sex ed-meaning this pleasure podcast goes beyond basic anatomy into communication, trauma, self discovery ,nervous system and so much more. Let's melt shame and shed light on the unexplored corners of the queer erotic mind. LGBTQ+

  1. 12/18/2025

    life after sexual assault: understanding the freeze response

    book your application call free trauma response quiz At the risk of sounding dramatic, this episode covers some of most important things I've learned that have changed my view of my body, and my relationship to my sexuality after assault. Whether you've been through it or love someone who has, you'll hear: -understand why you didn't try to fight back or run away -what comes next after the identifying as a survivor -the most important piece to sexual healing that most people accidentally skip over

    19 min

  2. 12/18/2025

    lesbian or trauma response? how to know

    intimacy block quiz⁠ ⁠work with me⁠ trauma impacts you in all kinds of ways, what about your sexuality? listen for: -why this is question is a dead end, and actually helpful questions to help you understand and accept yourself no matter what you find

    15 min

  3. 11/15/2025

    patriarchy erases femme lesbians / how to feel gay enough

    Understand how trauma is blocking your intimacy QuizWork with meIf you've ever googled "how to dress like a lesbian" this is for you.Listen for how internalized homophobia and the patriarchy are behind your quest to look gay enough and how to develop real confidence and self acceptance.

    18 min

  4. 11/02/2025

    my late bloomer lesbian story- dating, mistakes and lessons

    TAKE THE FREE QUIZ Work with me Oh, the sweet chaos of burning it all down to start over. This ultimate guide to navigating your new queer dating life covers: -The mindset shift that is crucial to finding queer love -Why your dating skills with men don't transfer to women, and how to get lesbians to know you're gay too (without wrapping yourself in the rainbow flag) -the key to great lesbian sex (it's not what you think) I earned my late bloomer scars, and I'm passing the lessons on to you, friend. Here is everything I wish someone would have told me.

    31 min

  5. 09/01/2025

    this is how i healed religious trauma and found queer acceptance

    The aftermath of leaving a high control group as a queer person is something we don't talk about enough. I shed light on: -the control tactics that infiltrated my sex and relationships -why I once said, "I would have sex with a woman but I could never be in a relationship with one" -exploring thought crime -What is self monitoring and why its a harmful habit -and how I finally found self acceptance and joy in my body and in my queer intimacy This is my favorite episode yet! Share your experiences with religious dogma below so we can normalize our experiences. Links: QUIZ: https://sapphicsexologist.myflodesk.com/pdf Work with me: https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/immersion

    18 min

  6. 07/18/2025

    can i be submissive and a good feminist?

    What does it mean when you want to submit in the bedroom, but not in your daily life? Are you enacting the patriarchy? Can you choose what turns you on? I challenge you to listen with curiosity and leave the judgement at the door. Book Your Connection Call Watch Masterclass

    12 min

  7. 06/25/2025

    i love you...but i don't want to have sex with you

    When you love your partner so much but the sex is non existent, does it mean you're with the wrong person? Why do you get along so well but when it comes to sex it feels... forced? Listen for why improving the relationship doesn't usually fix your sex life, and how to begin bridging the gap between love and desire. Book Your Connection Call Watch the free Masterclass

    10 min

  8. 06/13/2025

    lesbian performance anxiety (how to make orgasm easier)

    What happens when you're SO into her and you enjoy the way she touches you, but your orgasm feels elusive? Why can you cum on your own but not with a partner? Listen to find out: >the hidden meaning of struggling to orgasm >the wrong goal most people chase that makes orgasm more difficult and what to focus on instead >how to talk about it without your partner feeling blamed Links mentioned Masterclass: https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/freebie Book a Connection Call with Me: https://sapphicsexologistschedule.as.me/book More about my work: sapphicsexologist.com

    10 min
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The opposite of ‘abstinence only’ education. Dying to feel less weird and alone? Listen to as i share my professional sex advice mixed with my vulnerable sex, relationship, and intimacy lessons I learned the hard way so you don't have to. I'm your host Danie, a self growth junkie, Somatic Sex Coach + Sexologist. You can expect holistic sex ed-meaning this pleasure podcast goes beyond basic anatomy into communication, trauma, self discovery ,nervous system and so much more. Let's melt shame and shed light on the unexplored corners of the queer erotic mind. LGBTQ+

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  • Creator
    Danie Bergstrom
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Danie Bergstrom
  • Show Website
    Uncensored Sapphic